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Lol to some of those comments up there.
Guy chil jor unless yiu did "something". It's not up to a month as you claim, so why the panic. If after a month it still didnt show up, then carry her go hospital for proper check up.

If not for the smile of the girl, i may just classify it as a mere social media fake show off.

Same question in my mind. I dont yet want to believe that it's all a scam.

GoroTango:
And now kogi has two federal universities over and above every other state. Should we read an ulterior, sinister northern motive into this?

No you shouldn't! It's merely the workings of Saraki-Dino allegiance and Dino is the benefactor here.....but we know it's not yet a done deal without the approval from the fg. So it may well be a SCAM; time will tell!

Nice one...weldone Dino but we all know it must be appended and approved by the President/FG before we can credit you for a job welldone.
Okun must be great!

What you did was indeed bad but you cant be too far from God that He wont forgive you. Talk to Him about it..no man can help you

Are you for real op. Your monika say you're male; how can we reconcile that?
As for the topic; talk to someone who she'll listen to about the issue...a tested and trusted man of God should do. Note; dont report her but rather express your concerns and get them to talk to her in a way she'll reason well and pipe down. You also need to understand where she's coming from sha as she need to stop living in the past and move on and if she wont move on, she shouldnt stop you. The pain of the past is fixed deposit, she cant change it but she can change her reaction abt it; it's her choice!

What is bad should not be justified under any giuse. All manner of domestic violence be it against wife, husband or the children is an act of wickedness and must not be tolerated or celeberated.
Bitterness is like cancer. It eats upon the host. But anger is like fire. It burns it all clean; it'll be your choice in the end....my take is there are two things you should never be angry at; what you can help, and what you cannot....yes you may say it's not easy and yes it isnt but it is wise to work on yourself until it comes easy for you...as the consequence of anger is never ever worth it.

Nice one.

Wow...see small pikin of yesterday o. Jay-Jay must be feeling proud everytime he watch Alex play.

Sound one from the exprienced and a model for that matter. I pray they listen and apply it....but more than all that, they should put all their trust in God and make Him the third partner.
The Advice is for all that is why Omosexy is putting it up on social media.

livingg:
Let Weddings Be Done With In Our Power

And yesterday I had an awesome experience at Church, a couple got married during church service. No wedding gown, no Cake, rice, wine, chicken, soft drinks or chinchin.... We drank Kunu zaki, ate doughnut and licked sweets. Yet the atmosphere was filled with joy and happiness, we praised God and danced With all excitement. The bride was even more excited than the groom and I saw her as the strongest among the two.
The lessons learnt are as follows:
1. Tell yourself the truth.
2. Cut your coat according to your shirt
3. Do not compare yourself with others; weddings are not competitions.
4. Ladies let's be like today's bride; lets be understanding; we should be contented with the love and efforts of our men and not push them into debt.
5. Most young men are not married today, not because they cannot afford to provide the woman with her day to day upkeep but because they cannot afford a wedding.
6. A simple wedding like this is far more honourable than 'zo mu zauna'.
7. Let us stop this wedding ceremony palavas and make life easy for ourselves.
P.S: I am not against glamorous weddings; all I say is let all be done within our power. #selah#

Source: I was there live

God bless this couple wherever they are. They are my type of pple that i admire. When you think too much or worry too much about what others would so, you are bound to live your life for them but since we cannot please everybody; the cycle of unhappiness/unfulfilled live never end in such cases.
For me, it's never about my pocket but me and my wife's satisfaction and happiness. Why should i ever allow the focus of that day to shift away from the two of us?..that's stupidity!

Hmmm...this used to be a "breakup line".
I used to think this Banky guy get sense wella buh it seems i'm wrong. If you dont deserve her, let her go now and go look for the one you deserve.
He may think it's humbly to sound like that but that's never true.

Seun, lalasticlala...pls dont turn nairaland to trash just for traffic sake.
There is absolutely no good reason why this should make fp over other serious topics created every now and then...it's just an envelop for crying out loud!

ehissi:
Because he is the head of the home......period.

It is his responsibility to tale care of bae after he Marries her, polish and make shine as his pride and joy.

Chikenan..

You are either not a man or too immature to understand what marriage is all about but i'll help.
Only the man or woman cannot make any marriage work...both must agree and be determine to work it out.
When a man play his part as the head, the woman should also play her own part as the "neck". No head can function well without the neck and other parts of the body and vice versa; it's even impossible in most cases.

Now that you know, i'm hoping you wont argue blindly next time...no offence pls

biacan:
Why won't he be blamed for her past predicament.......? thank GOD her eyes are now open that marriage isn't worth dying for..........infact she looks effortlessly beautiful go girl go girl

Ok..enjoy!

biacan:
Most men are doom trying to ruin the lives of women so glad she realise that life isn't all about being married........ go celebrate your freedom sis

So every divorce now is the man's fault....and what makes you think this lady's husband should be blamed?

So what?
It's so annoying when people behave stupid like this one....there is nothing good in divorce; it should only become an option when issues become critical or irreconcillable. Truth is divorce is in most cases a direct consequence of immaturity of one or both parties.

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muhamm3d:
Calling Jesus doesn't protect against anything. That's why a lot of Christians have resorted to Alfas and Babalawo because calling Jesus morning till night doesn't do jack. One small jass an average Christian will fall yakata. But if them born babalawo well let him face Muslim. Someone that calls Allah. LMAO him self go fear now. Even babalawos and evil people say this, You don't mess with a true Muslim. You will only lose your life

Says who?
One single prayer for you; you will encounter Jesus. I'll be looking forward to your testimony soon.

If he's using juju on your boss, then he's using it on you too...I recommend Jesus for you if you dont know Him personally yet; i hope you're not one of those forming atiest here sha. With Jesus, no other power can prevail over you and you'll be able to neutralize his own juju without any concious effort.

I agree as long as. You're not trying to place an ordee in your arrangement.

Nice one op..

What is the meaning of what i just read pls.? I just weak!

Menzy86:
What gives women the notion that only they are entitled to "mood swings?". To me the inability to control these swings is a sign of immaturity. We can't be laughing one minute and the next, unprovoked you start making trouble out of a trivial matter in the name of 'mood swing' and u expect me to accommodate? That's crap!

Your comment settles it all for me. Raw facts!
Ability to control our emotions(whether mood swings or not) speak volume of our maturity level ..QED

Sermwell:
I came to spend the holiday with my cousin to enable me hustle before school resumes! His fiancee lives with him but they constantly quarrel and I have often tried not to interfer! But on this ocassion, things got out of hand and he was beating her mercilessly having thrown her belongings outside. The scenerio was really bad! I felt really sorry for her and advised her to move on and forget about him! She left!
Few days later, I went to visit an uncle just for 3days, only for me to return to my cousin's house to find him and this girl drinking fruit juice, watching TV and laughing out loud together! My cousin has been giving me some attitude ever since! I'm sure she must have told him my advice to her
I'm feeling so bad right now!...why are lovers like this?? Why are women like this?
Please what should I do now? Have you experienced such before??

CC: lalasticlala
CC: seun

Who send you? Learn to mind your buisness next time.
When he was beating the babe, you didnt stop him but only wait to claim the role of special advicer on relationship affiars thereafter.

If he's right about your temper, why not just go work on yourself now when you still can and stop whinning. Accept responsibility for your failure and move on...I'm sure he must have been telling you before now but you fail to work on it.

aminulive:
Hundreds of youths in Kogi state protested against the donation of food items to Civil servants in the state by Senator Dino Melaye and some members of the Senate.

The youths chanted that Kogi state was not a home for 'Internally displaced persons'(IDPs) adding that the state governor, Yahaya Bello was paying salaries up to date.

The protesters blocked the Lokoja Abuja highway way for several minutes causing gridlock for travellers plying the road. Photos below;

https://politicsngr.com/2017/10/28/rice-donation-state-not-idp-camp-kogi-youths-protest/

Both Dino and Yaya Bello are the major current problem Kogite had to deal with. I dont need anybody to tell me that these protesters are paid to stage that neither is the appeal of Dino in the senete sincere; it's all for cheap politican, selfish gains....but time will tell; voters are wiser than before.

I'm a christian and i agree absolutely with the VP.

I just dont get this nonsense called proposal....it makes everything look fake; looking for public acceptance.
I doubt this cry has anything to do with love...buh what's my own