₦airaland Forum

Linda., I pray for you that God will perfect his works in your life; he'll give you the right attitude of a wife and provide the right husband for you in Jesus name.
HBD

So you're a short lady.....lovely!

why I'm i feeling this man is the biggest hypocrite in this whole issue?

Udmaster:
Thank you buhari for bringing the military for operation python dance in south east,
lets put an end to this stupidity by ipob led by that UNN dropout called Nnamdi Kanu,
a restructured Nigeria is the best for Igbos,
this senseless agitation for Biafra will attract war and Igbos have no support to face such a thing now,
even the Niger deltans will deny us and start singing ONE NIGERIA when the war start,
they are not in support of any Biafra, stop hoping in False sense of solidarity!
ipob is sponsored by opposition party to disrupt buhari administration,
Igbos wake up! War is looming
Why will Igbos who are found in every corner of the nation choose breaking away to restructuring?
Now there are crisis here and there, if the north retaliate, do you know how many Igbos that will be killed ?
Why cant Ipob reason with their brain?
Thank you Buhari for the operation python dance,
please the court should hurry up and give an arrest order on kanu so that the evil opposition agent Kanu will be arrested?
What about our investments all over nigeria, it will be seized all over,and Igbos will start from scratch to built again,
why making things difficult for ourselves?
seccesion is war because this is Africa,
and who are you secceeding with?
Remember the ijaws,ogonis,urhobos,itsekiris,ibibios,efiks etc have warned you guys to count them out of biafra map,
go and start war and watch them dancing ONE NIGERIA
Abum nwa afo Igbo,
a restructure Nigeria, o ga akara anyi nm,ka ria ndufu kanu ne edufu nyi
ndewo nu

You've said it all.. .I wish the ignorant youths following Kanu up and down will get sense from this eye opener.
Though we all know that the cause of all these uprisings all over the country borders on unemployment and poverty which the government must respond to with all seriousness but nobody have the right to make that as an excuse to terrorise other Nigerian.

SarkinYarki:
This govt has come to the end of its days in Jesus Name ..they will be in disarray in the coming days

Are you sure Jesus can ever grant this your request?
I'll advise that it's better for you to go read and study your Bible very well before you ignorantly turn to blind follower.

Abt the topic, Charlie boy got it right on point; there is just not need harassing anybody.. Kanu had flaut his bail terms and all it take is to go back to court.

the question is, must you force/cajole/blackmail people believe in your movement? Pete my man

Mr. Prof., what's your profile plss?...it'll be stupid to vote base on age sentiment alone

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Is this one flood?....and what loss is the op talking about from that single pix

Naked truth...buh try and arrange your write-up well.

refiner:
Yea i will...there are lots of men that has d dreams and passion but hasnt got the opportunity yet...most great men today started were nobody but their passion and dreams paved d way for them.....

A real man will always stick to a woman that stood by him when he had nothing...ladies be wise!

More sense to your brain.

See this kettle calling pot black
Both are you lost it a long time ago...Kanu is merely causing the igbos more harm that's soon unfold.

I seems to "smell lies" all over this post. I just hope we're not talking about another extra-juducial killing here again.

Better rehabilitate and reintegrate them back to the society. It is not yet late for these once

This must be a joke!

You have finished his case already; what advice do you want again?
If you'll hear and really want him to change, i have these few words for you.
1. You need to be humble like seriously; your success is getting into your head & to humility, add submission as a wife and Despite his flaws, he still need to be respected.
2. You need to take his case to God with all seriousness; the heart of a man is in God's hand and God can chamge him for good if you believe.
3. Communicate with him; not nagging him down. To do this, you need no.1(humility and submission). Learn to communicate with him and reach his soul and while doing that, you can then start talking about those goals....in addition, stop "moving alone". Marriage should be a journey of two; not 1.

Anybody can condemn him especially based on what you share up there, but he isnt here to hear the truth or advice....so the ball lies only in your court!

Team nigeria...i pray this guy win though

Relationship/marriages are not rocket science but we must all know that one of the top secret of successful relationship/marriage is openness and when there is concious effort to hide something like passwords, then something is fishy...trust become questionable!
IMO, privacy is for marriages that is purely contratual without no emotional attachments.

Adding the balance together somply give you the 51

supersystemsng:
yes there's medically no known cure...but do you know it can be resolved by prayers though a biological issue?

Yes of course i know there is nothing God cannot do but she is absolutely okay now. She's only worried over nothing. All she need is to face her fears and love herself the way she is...everybody dont need to like the way God design you!
I'll rather advice she divert her prayers to a more serious issues.

tosyne2much:
Oga calm down. We no dey fight


Nobody is saying it's a disease. Let her go to pass the night in his family house and spew gibberish, then you will see how embarrassing it will be. That's all I'm trying to say

Who's fighting here? If you ever understand what she's passing through, you'll never comment like you're doing.
She'll have to face her fears either now or later but it's better she did now but it doesnt have to be known to her guy's family. As long as her guy understand and accept her like that and not myopic or insensitive, then it is settled!

joliyp:
thanks I just pm you

You're welcome....i'll check it up.

tosyne2much:
Such a thing is very embarrassing and no guy will be happy with such a thing. It's better you don't pass the night at his family house in order not to embarrass him. Family members are usually very superstitious and I guess they will read meaning to it when your start spewing gibberish

Everybody with his or her own problem in life. Na your own cross be this so continue carrying it

Speak for yourself pls. Only a shallow-minded guy will think like you up there. Make your research on it and it'll clear your doubt. She is very much normal and that is never a disease or anything to worry about.

joliyp:
what if he rejects me

Then take it in good faith...any man who is too shallow as to understand that there is absolutely nothing wrong with your sleeptalking is not good enough for you. Such guy will push and pull you till you loose your self-esteem completely. You actually need someone that'll support and make you feel okay with that cause there is no such cure for that. Forget what people are suggestting, there is no cure only that you wont talk every night; it may only happen when you're stressed up during the day.
Again i say; you're absolutely okay.

It's not a disease babe. Dont allow that to cause/lower ur self-esteem or make you feel bad. All you need to do is to be upfront and tell whoever you trust enough to share bed with; any reasonable being will understand but dont ever share bed with a supersticious fellow.

Afam4eva:
What will you say about ABU that came second?

Remember it isnt only because of unbroken academic calender that Unilorin is topping the list. It only shows that ABU is catching up in other areas.

Unilorin will always be first choice for many reasons which are genuine. When we see something good, lets learn to appreciate and celeberate it without prejudice.
Unilorin; Better by Far Far!

No bro., i think your focus and motivation shifted and because your expectation are not met by your new drive, you're left frustrated. Go back to your original motivation; the joy you derive from doing just what you're doing. Now about the money, accept your mistake by not putting in place measures by which you can always recover your money from debtors or better still, insisting on pay before service. You have to learn to protect yourself from such risk next time.
Hey., dont stop bro. Keep it up as long as you know you're doing what is right!

MasViews:
Super Eagles (and all Nigerian sports team) always makes me wonder if Northerners are participating in sports or they're just been marginalized

Ignorance is truely a disease but then., a simple research would have safe you from this embarrasement or you could have ask questions instead of this hasty conclusion.

pocohantas:
I'm concerned with the message and not the messenger. She has a point. I wouldn't know if she is a hoe, but if at all she is...she has made lots of sense on this. I'm not her fellow member either...

You wow me babe with your level of maturity. I just want to read comment but i cant help it reading the way you reply someone who insulted you. Keep it up and i must add that you make sense with your comment though i disagree with how the lady termed it "allowance"; your explanation is dope!

Very educative!