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Viscuz:
Answer the simple question .

How is North feeding the whole nation

Those who are knowledgeable about the agricultural production in the country won't ask that question. Go back to the elites in your community for answers.

Viscuz:
Which position are you currently .?

And which north is feeding the whole nation ?

Una go just go mosque listen to gossips begin spread am

Sorry to disappoint you, I am not a Muslim and I am not from the North either, If you want to campaign against the north with any other thing you can but not agriculture.

Viscuz:
By cheering your blood thirsty Almajiri buhari to kill more ?

North go suffer wella if 9ja crack .

Una dey power since and una non know say una fit use una land mass for agriculture.

Na just to dey shout land mass land mass

No productivity

You know nothing, if 10% of agricultural activities in the north dey your region, you won't be in this your current position. In case you don't know, the north is feeding the nation when it comes to agriculture. I see that you are one of those people who take Obi's statement on Borno land to mind. That was just a campaign statement that won't go beyond that. No practical soluy, just a statement.

Okoroawusa:
Him Tu Lie

This man mouth no get chain cover

Aru!....chochochochocho at every opportunity.

Lol, we are coming for you. Peter Obi need to work more of his speech, this is one of the reasons for labour party secretary said his rhetoric statements are being mistaken by his followers as campaign. Every Nigerian know that we have enough land here and there. The question is what practical steps are you going to take to encourage youths to go into farming? How are you going to finance mechanized farming, where did you intend to get the found from, what are you going to do differently etc?

virginprincess:
Antimarriage and Qtrpst4 both of you should pls carry your mad.ness elsewhere,this is a serious thread that needs serious contributions,so you guys should stop spamming everywhere with nonsense.

I know you won't be able to go beyond this level of understanding.
Did you no read the part where he said this is a friend that acts like he doesn't relate with his wife? From that description, that his friend is not the kind of friend that he would have thought relate with his wife
Did you read the part where he said this same friend who he ordinarily assumed does not relate with his wife has the wife's second number? Second numbers are not usually numbers for the public but few selected individuals. Finally did you read the part where he said neither his wife nor his friend mentioned the financial assistance to his hearing, he found out by himself. Women who truly love their husband are always proud to disclose such gift, they believe its way of showing that they have good relationship with their husband's friends or family members.

She came to the trench no mean say na there the guy dey leave, that place looks like where home boys dey smoke

Skyfornia:
Incompetence is our major problem in this country... We will never get it right until we start putting the right people in the right position. Let's start with Peter Obi in 2023

Always complaining, they are their to teach people how to approach burning light and put it off. The fact that the light didn't go off doesn't mean it won't go off when it happens at your home. For me, I have just learnt that one has to approach the light from a specific direction.

SmartyPants:
I dont understand.

You sent the money to his account...why are you surprised that he knows his wife asked?

Clearly he and his wife discussed asking you. He overruled her and then suddenly you sent money.

Dont you think a mature man can put two together and realise it was his wife that still asked?

Thank you Jared, you get the jist. E fit be say the woman self no know say him go do the transfer quick quick like that

deavicky:
I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.

Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. She just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount I can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that I can also send the money to his account.

I was not having much at that time so I sent 20k to his account only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.

My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?

She didn't tell the husband but your friend is smart to know that his wife must have called you. You self for use guy man style, call your guy make him come buy you drink in the evening, then him go tell you say ground no level then you for tell am say make him show any how, any how say the bill go be on you. Then when una finish, you for give am 20k say make e take hold body, say e get how small money take fall in for your hand for office. With that, your guy for reach house go they dance say miracle don happen but this one wey you do be say I'm woman just dey push am make him call you, then after some minutes, guy man just received alert just like that. If him no decode I for know say na dull guy you dey move with.
Just call your guy make you tell am say make him blood

TheLordofHost:
She has been staying with me since the beginning of ASUU strike, almost 6 months now and we have been having sex without protection. I don’t even pull out.

I don’t think she is on birth control. I love this girl but I think she is infertile.

Is this normal with some women? Because I don’t want to take the relationship serious anymore .

MODIFIED: To those down there accusing me of being impotent. I AM NOT.
If you check my previous posts you’d see I have a child already. 2 other girls have gotten pregnant for me but ended up aborting .
I would not be posting this if I didn’t love this girl and plan to marry her later on.

And what makes you think you are fertile?

She just exposed herself, now everyone now knows why men don't respond to her messages, no reasonable man want to be subjected to verbal abuse in the name of friendship talk more of marriage. Continue to run your mouth.

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all, I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness, but believe me, the girl I'm dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues, disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her, she always overrides me. I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting (countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel.

Should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6 years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni, I respect her even in her absence, but she has mingled with different guys that has cost out relationship, in all these she claims she has done nothing wrong.

The main issue of all right now is that her boss, she once worked for who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around, always, hotel, even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together, knowing that he is a married man, called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back, even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her, during and after NYSC he kept calling her for him to have a bite, same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him, though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self, but I won't like to share here how I got to know.

The same man she has been avoiding for years, that she doesn't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer, then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it, was shocked and trying to reason why she did that, she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision, she began to yell at me on phone, as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now?

Please help me push it to the front page. She is a Nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does. Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision.

First of all, I want to tell you that I am married, secondly I want you to know that if all you said are true, then these are your future possibilities;
1) you may end up having bastards as children
2) From the day you say I do, forget your peace, in fact you have already lost your peace
3) you may end up killing someone or someone will kill you
4) you go suffer both financial, emotionally and physically. If devil won punish you join, try lost your job and you will know what I am saying.
You no get Bible or Quran, where in any of the books is it written that a woman will be the head and the man will be the tail, where are you guys getting this slow and weak ideas from?
You never hear that life is too short to be unhappy. As a matter of fact, you are not prepared to settle down and I plead with you not to try it with this your present girl or any other one for now. You need to be prepared, date two or three more women before you settle down, yes, you would have learned more things about the opposite sex by then.

exposition:
You don't need to take a bow!
Don't even tell her you're done, let her figure it out herself!

This person no get that morale.

You cannot commit such act when you love someone and care for them. In fact, in true love and care, the cheating partner lost much more when caught. However, before you say you love someone, first love, care and cherish yourself. Fine man that could have easily get another woman to love him.

incandescentena:
Oboi o every corner of Naija na so soooooooo uniform uniformsssss

Na so e supposed be. Na so e be for US. Every 30 Nigerian should have 1 security, currently we have about 350 Nigerian for 1 police, yet our public figures will still corner them to work in their houses

grop1040:
Hi guys,

Something happened 9 months ago, I decided to keep mute or probably just wait for the right time to commence my investigation to actually know what is going on between my step brother and my wife. So im 9 years already into my marriage, and we have 3 kids. My step brother who is the 2nd of my mum has temperamental problem.
He's bossy and very vulgar plus he's controlling, everybody knows him for that, he was married 13 years ago, however after his family relocated to the USA, he later found
out that his 3kids aren't his, the marriage ended like that, ever since then he's been traumatized, emotionally and any other way one can describe him as. Sometimes in order to at least feel that children presence around him, he would ask me to have my children come over to his place for some days, and I could witness
how that really helped him over time, but then I noticed the absence of his wife started making him familiarize with my wife in certain odd manners which I was not really down with.

For example, if he comes to our house, most times comes around with a friend, either female or male, my wife seems not to be the attache type who would sit with us in the living room, she will rather be upstairs in the room, I have witnessed cases where he will shout at her, saying how can everybody be here and ur there upstairs, there
was even a time when one of the visitors he came with sighed and made face in a way that defined, wow, "was that necessary". Or times when he will ask her to
cook stew for her, if she forgets or probably didnt want to do it because she knew it isnt her duty, she will be yelled upon, you'll here things like, where
is the egusi i told u to make, even the one you made last time, u didnt put enough this and that. Now yall might think am a dullard or a simp, or someone too relaxed
as gentle and as patient as I am, I be original demon, if I start my madness, the result will end in eternal damage,and our family background from my mums side where
this my brother was born, we tend to uphold unity over adversity, so when things like this occur, mum would rather have us calm and not fight so unity can continue.

So sometimes last year, the major issues started grooming that made me start to think if there was something going on with my step and my wife, it started with when
the kids were with him, so madam and I were suppose to go for outing, so we decided to branch at his place to check up on the kids,on getting there while in his living room,
he said to my wife " I like your hair" she responded thanks, he was like are u guys going out, I was like yea am taking her out, next thing she asked my madam, so when are we going on
our own outing? I shrugged and didnt understand where that came from, though she didnt answer him. While we were leaving, I was waiting for her to bring up the topic
and put it to me that why did ur brother say such a thing, even if its a joke, its too expensive, but she didnt, I brought up the topic, and she was like shes surprised too
that she never thought he would say such a thing. 5 days later, we had a family party in his house, my other brothers, cousins and my mum, my children were there, while the
caterer were cooking outside, and we were all in his living room drinking, he opted to get some meat to dish and give everybody to at least be chewing something, he served it round
but when it got to my wives turn, the one he already bit off from was what he gave her, funny thing is, it was only my mum and myself that saw the scene, my wife was not aware, that was when
I knew something could be going on. Afterwards, I put the ish through to my wife, she acted disgusted and said she cant blv he would do such, that although my mum already called her
to say the same thing. So I asked details of what she discussed with my mum, she said my mum advised her that whenever he calls her, she shouldnt pick,that when he knows
its obvious that shes avoiding his call, he probably would want to report to her, and then she will now break the silence of what she my wife have been experiencing
with him thus her refusal to pick his call. So i called my mum and I was like being calm,patient and cooperating with the useless policy of the family doesnt mean
that the recent things happening wont seat any longer with me, that am gonna have to confront him and put him in his place. My mum begged me and begged, cos shes
76 years old, I considered and I had no choice but to cooperate with her advise. The funny thing is, after this whole ish, I asked her that if he calls, will you pick,
she answered yes I will, but I will have to see what he has to say first to know if I will continue the conversation or not, I was like for real? You must be kidding me,it means
something that I am not suppose to know of is happening, she was like oh well its ur fault, why didnt u confront him instead of listening to ur mums advise.

Since then, I have let it slide, but what actually made me bring up this issue again, was when I went to my bros house to pick some stuffs my sister sent from the USA, madam
was off to the market, I called her to ask if she would like the only size 10 of the shoe I saw cos she wears 9, she didnt pick after calling like 4 times, immediately my brother
called her with his own phone, she picked and was like sorry when you called I try to pick but it was nt connecting, I just weak at that moment sey wetin dey sup.
Guys, ladies, from deep experiences u guys must have gone through, what do u think could be wrong and what do yall think I should do, something could be happening
that if I dont unravel early, it might be the cause of ones demise or destruction.

If your brother is sleeping with your wife as you think, you are 90% responsible for that. As a man, you should have known that one of the tools some men use to subdued women is being bully at the initial time, then they make their approach while leaving the lady to start thinking that non acceptance will make the situation worst. I don't and will never trust any male, irrespective of his relationship with me or my wife, from her father, siblings, uncle, even her sons down to my relatives from up to bottom and I also owe her the responsibility to protect her against any known antics by any of these persons. If you like call me any name but what you can't deny is the fact that at one time or the other, in this country or another, sex had happened and is still happening between the set of people I mentioned above so that is more reason why I don't underrate the possibility. That is one side of it
Secondly, your brother is having emotional issue that has to do with betrayal by a woman and you are letting him too close to your wife, especially when he is yet to let go or he is yet to make move to heal and overcome his problem. Don't you know that woman are full of pity when they see a man under such situation, don't you know that if your brother has feelings for your wife he could easily trick her into the act by playing some mind game on her? All he need to do when your wife turned him down is to put up a moody face backed up with a statement like women has never been kind to him bla bla bla and immediately your wife hears these, she is broken. Go and do DNA and thereafter, start to put your house together by restricting him. If he actually needs children, he knows wat to do, in fact sending your children there constantly is not helping him to do the needful.

Ecos:


Oga urchin , go and rest. He will appoint reasonable youths wey their brain dey hot to help him out and he will retire those old criminals

You just confirm what what op is saying, you don't understand the topic a bit.

princepeter566:
Shame to all those that condemned kizz Daniel before hearing from him.
There's always two side of a story

I told my friend the whole thing was likely about delayed flight because I don't understand how a musician will flight to a country to perform and suddenly make flimsy excuse not to perform.
They are good at telling lies

Lawlab252:
Doesn't change the fact that Kizz bleeped up.

Borrow data to watch the video if you don't have data.

lessonotes:
Is this the 2 term former Governor of Enugu State dragging with an unknown fellow on Twitter?

He should drag him like that, they are human being too. I am so happy he had the time for him till the idiot ran away. No one has monopoly of attacking others verbally. Tumb up for his Twit handler.

Thank God, I narrowly escaped this one. I saw the ad and almost fell for it.

Jarod247:
U guess you didn't read the thread well or maybe yo don't understand.

You didn't see where I stated that I sent her money every month till last month.
Like I should be Blamed for someone Decision.
It never occurred to me till yesterday that a day will come when I will have to come online to seek help for my sister decision..I am someone that have lived within his means to the aspect of putting up marriage on hold.
But I am to be blamed

Money is nothing when it comes to relating with your little sister. I am responding to your post because I share similar experience with you. I am speaking from experience

Jarod247:
I am so distraught right now. 3 years ago, my kid sister who is now 24 years went to Lagos to work.
Well, we spoke to the woman who she was supposed to work with and we all have our consent to it.
Let just say this girl has been an issue . She is the last kid . She is very stubborn but fears me Alot. I couldn't bring her over to stay with me cos I was in school trying to lift my head up. So her leaving to go fend for herself was a relief to me so my mum can rest from her wahala. That woman is suffering and it pains me so much.

While in Lagos,I keep tabs on her and she was doing well . Depsite that she works and earn money, I keep sending her monthly allowance.
As of last month, I sent her some money and we also spoke on phone .

My elder sister called me yesterday that my kid sister called and told her that she gave birth.
That sound like a joke to me cos How?

Well, from the information gathered she actually gave birth to a baby girl all alone at Home. The guy responsible has absconded.

I am battered emotionally with this news . Pregnant for nine months , didn't tell anyone till she has given Birth. What if something has happened to her .

This girl has hurt me walahi. I warned her seriously about getting pregnant. This her action is a threat to my effort to rise financially cos how are we even going to take care of that baby.
The money I earned isn't enough to take care of myself and mum. I know Alot of stuff I have given up just to make sure my mum and siblings are a bit okay including getting married . I am 34 years.
I was even planning on sending her to Uni next year.
Her next destination is going back to the village to stay with my mum, this will put more burden on that woman.
I am yet to speak with her cos I am so angry with her. My elder sister said I shouldn't talk to her angrily hence I trigger a toxic hormone that will affect the baby.

I don't know what to do. Seriously I am devastated. This girl want to kill me . Can't even think straight

I feel you pain but unfortunately you cannot exonerate yourself in this, even in your post you don't appear to have realized your mistake and no attempt to change.
You were so harsh that she couldn't open up to you on her condition for good 9month, you should ask yourself what type of relationship do you have with your sister. It is obvious that all was not too well that was why you people had to let her go out to hustle on her own at the age of 21 but rather than being a loving and caring brother, you were more of a boss brother and unfortunately the little girl go out looking for the love elsewhere and eventually fell into the wrong hands.

Op is a lier, leaving in face me I face you with iphone is another stupid thing. The description of them coming out of bathroom at the same time fits perfectly for a face me I slap you compound.

Another corruption, tomorrow we would be talking about politicians being corrupt. This is a clear but dubious effort to make money from this man.

Treadway:
Report says some of the killers have been arrested and also talked about a word of advice the Gov gave the Ebira community who intel suggests are joining the kidnapping business. Where did the report say that the now arrested killers at Owo massacre were Ebira?? Read calmly and properly folks!

The names mentioned are mostly Ebira, I have been heart broken since yesterday. Don't struggle hard trying to deny the fact, the earlier we accept the fact and talk to our people just like the governor did, the better. The government owe Nigerians a comprehensive investigation to unravel the motive behind the killing, if ISWAP want to attack, why using a set of people from almost one local government? I still believe there is more to this whole thing.

Ok

ChangetheChange:
Wike is getting pissed off and mad, the way Atiku had repeatedly ignored him and not given into Wike outrageous demands for reconciliation
Atiku no send Wike at all

If that is true, why una eyes dey red over who Wike call to commission his project?

Savageman:
Hi everyone, after wasting 5 years of my life in benin doing Yahoo yahoo, gambling and wasting all the money i made on clubing, women, drugs and police case.. I came back to my parents house in Abuja to start a new legit life.

I'm 24 years old, a phone technician. When i came back to my parents house, i use the little money with me to open a phone repair shop in my area and some making little money. After couple of months working i meet this beautiful girl, who came to my shop to repair her phone. We got talking, exchange movies and contact and we became very close. She always come to my shop almost everyday and anytime she comes she will ask me of money (sometimes 1k or 2k) for something.. We would talk and watch movies together(she loves movies)..

Story short after about a month, i invited over to my house(parents house, but my room is not joined with the house) we were together and watching movies, well we had s*x. That's how it started.

Well the thing is she always bill me 2k, 1k, 5k. And am trying to arrange my life with the little money I'm making from my phone repair business. I'm saving up to buy a laptop to learn programming. and this girl always bill me anytime she comes to my shop. and anytime she come over to my place we always have s*x.. I want to stop all this, we are not in any relationship, she told me she doesn't have a boyfriend. I'm tired and i want to save up for my future. Im just confuse, How can i tell this girl i don't want this kinda friendship/relationship?

Please help me move to fp

Tell her you spoilt someone's iphone12 and the man is insisting you pay for it and you are presently looking for money for that. Then watch her for like two weeks if she stand by you and try to help you raise the money then sit her down and talk sense into her head about your feeling concerning the urgent 2k, is she distance herself or tried to cover the kpekus, then you have a goods reason to send her parking without feeling guilty

Some people for this nairaland are very wicked, they just go about looking for someone to send to hell fire. You said she is not the kind of woman you want, yet you are looking for a nairalander who will come out to say send her out so that even if it becomes part of what God will ask you on that day, you will quickly quote the nairalander's name as the person responsible for your action. Well-done

betterman22:
Nigeria Comebacks AT Atlanta 96 Olympics remains the best and historic comeback ever

We call it Atlanta miracle, other ones dey learn.

Is normal. The guy is possibly their security person with the dog being his assistant, they most have worked together for a good time and have become used to each other. Moreso, the idea to sell the dog may not have gotten to him earlier to enable him prepare his feelings.