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After seeking the acceptance of friends, family, and even my enemies, it finally dawned on me. There was only one person whose acceptance I needed. I finally realized that if only I connected with Him consistently, honestly He was really the only relationship I needed.

Please understand, in this life it is important to have successful relationships with others, but as my pastor states, until we get it right vertically (with God), we will never get it right horizontally (with others). Therefore, true success over relationships only come with first seeking the kingdom of God and all of His righteousness will be added unto us according to.

Stay connected to the vine
If we abide in Him then He promises to abide in us. This means if we stay connected to Him, we will have something the world doesn’t have – that is peace, salvation, joy and the ability to express His love to others. The Word also tells us that as we stay connected we will be able to bring forth much fruit, however without Him we can do nothing.

Surrender to His Will
As we continue to walk through this journey, we will start to understand there is no better place to be but in His will. That is to say that we should ask God what is His will for our lives and accept it no matter what. Therefore, if God tells us that the business opportunity with someone is not for us, we should walk away. If He tells us a group of friends are pulling us away from Him instead of drawing us near to Him – we should turn around. And if He is telling us that our potential mate is not whom He desires for our lives, we simply must let go and let God.

No matter what, we have to commit to trust in Him not only for relationships, but in all areas of our lives.
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Was she sold by her parents to another woman, is a wickedness to sell the innocent child.
Yes is better than using the baby for rituals but if the problem is financial why not stop getting pregnant if they can't take care of the baby.
Let her go to jail, this is a serious crime.

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True love can be shown in different ways, it depends on individuals difference or understanding.
For couples, here is how to know if he truly love you.
He will cherish you and always want to be with you.
Makes out time to be with you.
He will care about your feeling, physically, mentally and emotionally.
He will care about your relationship with God.
He will value your opinion just as he values you, not because without you he can't take decision but because he believes that you can say something meaningful too.
He will appreciate every little efforts you make, no matter how small it may be.
He will hardly complain against you, he knows you are not perfect but will not use it as advantage to make you look irrelevant in his life.
Always proud of you both when with friends and even with family members.
He will care about your sex life, your intimacy with him is important to him, he will always try to make it up to you.
For him, you are the best gift he has received from God so he placed you above every other lady around.
He will find it difficult to give attention to any lady because you have his attention 100% not because there are no other beautiful ladies around but because he believes that you are enough for him, for everything he wants in a woman.
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I wonder what is inside

Mathew1999:
Are u a virgin

Yes of course

1) LACK OF THE FEAR OF GOD: Those who have made up their minds to abstain from premarital sex do so not because of the lack of opportunity or absence of temptation.They abstain not because of the fear of sexually transmitted diseases or the fear of unwanted pregnancies but because of the fear of God.
When faced with sexual temptations they ask like Joseph,"how can I do this great wickedness and sin against God?"
Those who yield to sexual immorality have lost the fear of God

2) LACK OF THE POWER TO SAY NO:
Whether you like it or not, you will be faced with sexual temptations.You don't even have to look for it,it will come looking for you.The Question is when it comes do you have the power to resist?This is where the grace of God comes into play.
As a young fine promising bobo.. You will one day be seduced by one of the daughters of Jezebel.She will be like,"I don't need your money,all I need is ALL of you...Prove to me that you are are man.."
Beautiful sisi,the young man will be like I'm about to marry you,i need to confirm that you are fertile enough to carry my babies... let's have sex on credit,very soon I'll pay your bride price"
Too bad,those who lack the power to say NO will succumb when the temptations and pressures arise

3) CARELESSNESS AND LACK OF SEXUAL BOUNDARIES
Unfortunately,this is where most people who have the fear of God miss it.
See,your hormones are not born again, I repeat your hormones are not born again.Never put your self in compromising situations to avoid stories that touch.Many mighty men have fallen as a result of a little moment of carelessness!

4) PREMATURE INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX
Most teenagers enter into intimate relationships which they are emotionally immature to handle.What is a student that is still studying Homeconomics and basic science doing with dating? The boy cannot even feed himself and he is thinking of relationship.And when the hormones begin to rage like wide fire,they will find themselves on the bed of immorality.
No wonder there is an alarming rate of teenage pregnancies today.

5) SELFISHNESS: People give in to premarital sex because of what they stand to gain.Some students sell their bodies for grades.Some give their body in exchange for money and some do it for the pleasure it brings.
But we should never forget that we must give account for what we do to our bodies.
Don't flagrantly disobey God's command for selfish reasons.
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nobisgod:
For posting this, Op come to Germany for new yarm festival. We have a suprice 4 u.

Send me the surprise to Nigeria

You have a woman whom you so much love and cherish but whenever you see another lady with big boobs and curves your attention will automatically shift there.
You take her number, call her on video call, make her feel loved, you ask her for sex chat she accepted, you later visited her and you had a romantic moment with her on her bed.
Your main lady found out and ask you who is she, that you are flirting with, you said she's just a friend.
You are a kind of guy that 95% of your friends are ladies and you always try to be good to each of them, none of them visit you, you alone do the visiting.

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Just because a gentle believing brother asked you out at church doesn't make him any less spiritual, and neither does it reduce his anointing. Do not loose your respect for him because he ministers in the morning and woos you at night, do not look down on his level of grace because he leads Bible study on Sunday and sends you love poems on Friday, say no in a polite manner if you do not feel any personal conviction to return interest. Do not judge him, for above everything else love is a basic necessity of life, after all if we don't toast you in the presence of God where else again? Is it in the club we will now go and do it?

And you too Spiritual Brother,
Its like I will have to do a special series on how to woo a believing sister, because you people are equally not encouraging at all. The way you approach a sister in faith matters a lot, some of you are born again but your toasting skills still needs some serious repentance, you'll just carry your street credibility and enter the house of God. See guys, there is nothing spiritual about toasting, open up and say it as it is doing you, don't approach a sister and start talking about how Nebuchadnezzar prayed for a wife and God heard him, go straight to the matters arising and forget about how Jonah swallowed the big fish, abi it was the fish that even swallowed Jonah.

That was how I was doing my 5minutes mediation after service one sunday when one choir master approached a sister beside me like;

" hi, i was watching you all through service, I love the way you worship"

Arrh arrhh watchman! You love the way she worship how? Are you assistant Holy Spirit? all in a bid to maintain his spiritual status in her eyes, haba uncle, this is one of the few battles where we are allowed to use small carnal weapons, hehehehe.

Start by complimenting her first, shower her with a little honest Jesus praise. Let me show you, start like this;

"Hi, wow! you look so nice in that blue dress (pause and wait for her to smile and say thank you, then pounce) been kinda observing you around lately, and I just thought I could come over and introduce myself in a bit, my name is Allison, (pause and wait for her to tell you hers, if you like go and be rushing, then pounce again) nice to meet you Chocolate. Hope you enjoyed the service today? (Wait again for her reply, then end the spiritual move there, don't go and be asking her what she learnt from pastor's preaching, go straight to the point) will I be asking for too much if i ask you out to a movie next weekend? Or, got any plans for weekend? Cos I have two karaoke tickets and I was wondering if you would like to go with me.

(If she says she's not free)
nicely say 'oh , alright, maybe another time then, I will see you at the midweek service on Tuesday, enjoy a good week Chocolate." That's it, don't go and be asking for phone number, relax, knowing her name is a first victory, there's always a next Sunday)

(If she says she's free, great)
Nicely sound a little bit surprise, like 'oh wow, really, so mind if I give you a call sometime during the week to remind you? (Sure she'll say okay) then ask for her number. When you get it, stand there and call her first to make sure it rings, because some of these our sisters too can weak somebody, before She'll go and give you Angel Gabriel's phone number because you have mouth odour, hehehehe. So when you confirm it, just end with "thanks Chocolate, I will give you a call, enjoy a beautiful week, bye.

If you like don't carry small carnal weapon and enter toasting warfare, be there doing smeh smeh
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MannieA:
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I'm a lesbian.
Any problem?

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MannieA:
Yes, is there a problem with that??

Are you a lesbian or they are just friends?

MannieA:
I have 15 babes
lolll

You are a lady and you have 15 babes?

Hey guys,
Are you finding it difficult to with your relationship or Marriage?
You think you have to quit the Relationship.
You no longer have the feeling of intimacy with him or her?
Your significant other is not putting efforts to making the Relationship work for the good of both of you?
This is the untold rules of love no one has ever told you which you have omitted in your Relationship.
Rekindle your love
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She got pregnant for another guy, she still lied to me that her parents forced her to marry him but that was after the guy started treating her like a rag so I told her to face what she brought to herself.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Hi all, why do people wrongly assume I’m a prostitute upon seeing me?

Is there something I’m doing wrong?[/color]

An adage said "tell me your friend and I will tell you who you are"
Who are your friends?
The company you keep, the kind of people you associate with has a lot to do with you.
It says a lot about your personality.

Pap is far more better than custard simply because there is no added sugar or any chemicals in pap but custard is made up of different mixtures of chemicals including the colour.
Most pap contains ginger and that makes it awesome and richer in nutrition than custard.

This useless
Having sex during menstruation is as bad as anything you can take it to be.

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Most downfalls of men are caused by MULTIPLE girlfriends,
Sex is a spiritual encounter I stand to be corrected not every
girl has a good spirit, some are demon, some has poison in
between their legs, some are killers and destiny destroyers, be
careful A man who
can control his sexual urge is a man who can live many years
on earth.
1 Having many girlfriends does not make you a man. It only
makes you a womanizer a cheat and a boy.
2 A real man has only one woman in his life.
3 For the fact that you are good in bed does not make you a
man. A real man is the man who does not run away from his
responsibility but faces it squarely.
4 You don't need to sag your trousers and walk round the
street before girls will love you. Infact it is only small boys that sag trousers and it is premature little girls that fall in love with men who sag trousers.
5 Don't use and dump ladies Remember the law of karma Whatever you do you will receive the reward.
6 If you cannot make her your wife, don't make her a mother. If she can't be your wife don't sleep with her.
7 Do not obey your erection at all times. Most times our erections mislead us to the wrong direction. Control your erection. Don't let
your erection control you.
If you don't you will have few days on earth with much poverty on you You may insult me but it
doesn't matter to me now, because am done telling you this.
8 It is not everything you see under skirt that you should hustle to eat some skirts contain snakes that will bite you and leave you uncomfortable. Control your sex urge Self control and
abstinence in most cases pays a lot.
9 Do not date a lady because she has sexy curves boobs and shapes. Those things are just packaging and packaging can be very deceptive to avoid such.
10 Respect any lady that loves you. Yes, its not easy for a lady to throw her love on you and support your future.
11 Do not beat any woman, whether she is your wife or not.
12 Real man learn how to keep secret, keep the secret she shared with you.
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Zombiekiller010:
you're a novice that guy in the video is not normal , but we have see cases where mad guys raping ladies, do you prefer him to be raping than masturbating? Allow him to self service in peace, the person that record that video deserve to be beaten to coma , nothing stop him from minding his business

Alright if am a novice.
I hate masturbation like hell so I don't have any business with it that's why am a novice

He needs a girlfriend.
Having sex with your girlfriend is far more better than masturbating which destroys life and can even cause lost of memory.
He also needs deliverance because masturbation is not ordinary

If you want to fix a broken Marriage or Relationship, wether it's a recent romance or a long distance relationship, you need some emotional kindling.

Taking the following steps can bring a tremendous changes and can also help you learn how to achieve rekindled love.

1) Use your Relationship polarity to your advantage.
Having things in common with your partner is wonderful, but it's also true that opposite attract. This principle is called the law of polarity. Thinking back to when you guys first met, things were easy and were also going smooth between the both of you and the physical chemistry proved your instant attraction.
As you work towards how to rekindle your Relationship, remember to nurture your own natural energy and confidence, your partner was attracted to you in your natural state. Your natural energy and that of your partner works together to create the Relationship chemistry you are experiencing or wished to experience in your Relationship with him or her. When working together in a natural balanced way, none of you suppress your true self and you can be happy together as you are.

2) Be physical so the intimacy can grow.
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You guys should understand that she's looking for husband.

For those chosing no 1 and no 6 do you have an idea of what it has caused ?
Nagging has made some people to commit murderer.
It has made some Marriage to crash beyond fixing.
It has made some people to commit suicide because pressure.
No 5 is better because it can be managed and will not have bad effect on the Marriage but that's if carefully managed.

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Number 5 is manageable and I will put her through.