₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,330,640 members, 8,446,390 topics. Date: Thursday, 16 July 2026 at 01:35 PM

Toggle theme

Aloyemeka1's Posts

Nairaland ForumAloyemeka1's ProfileAloyemeka1's Posts

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 (of 122 pages)

CelebritiesNgozi Nwosu Loses Weight by aloyemeka1(op): 4:28pm On Nov 23, 2011
PoliticsRe: Boko Haram: Igbos Flee The North En-masse by aloyemeka1: 4:03pm On Nov 23, 2011
Wetin dey chase them?. I thought they claim to have embraced Islam and its a peaceful religion?. Why are they running then?
CelebritiesRe: Nollywood Superstar Accused Of Facebook Harassment by aloyemeka1(op): 3:24pm On Nov 23, 2011
They are dogs, he he . This one just made of fool of himself on facebook grin grin grin grin grin
CelebritiesRe: Nollywood Superstar Accused Of Facebook Harassment by aloyemeka1(op): 11:57am On Nov 23, 2011
This guy is finished. Why are Nigerian men mugus for sex?
PoliticsRe: Senator Ndume Arraigned On Terrorism Charges by aloyemeka1: 11:56am On Nov 23, 2011
Are they making this mallam face terrorism charges simply because a Boko Haram member fingered him?. How sure are they that the Boko Haram member was saying the truth?. Did they conduct further investigation to authenticate the claim before arresting the senator?
IslamRe: Taqiyya And Kitman: Are muslims permitted to lie? by aloyemeka1(op): 11:50am On Nov 23, 2011
tbaba1234:
Ofcourse, he is supposed to respect her wishes. however, if they come to an agreement on an issue. Both parties should stick to the agreement.

If you have 3 kids, you probably love one the most. Would you tell one of your kids that you love the other more than him? even if he really wants to know,  Islam is practical,  why cause possible rift between the wives. Your duty is to treat each kid/wife justly according to your means.
Of course if my child seeks for the truth, I will give it to him/her. It is always better to say the truth than to lie honestly. Even the bible said that only the truth shall set you free. If Allah requires muslims to lie, how are you sure that all He told you in the quran is true?. Could he be lying about the 72 virgins waiting for you in heaven simply to make muslim men feel better?. What other possible lies did Allah tell so as to convince followers and INCREASE the love they have for Him?.


tbaba1234:
The argument that muslim women are largely uneducated is ungrounded. The muslim women, particularly in the arab world are some of the most educated on the world,  Compare literacy rates across muslim countries

Egypt
Youth (15-24 years) literacy rate, 2004-2008*, male
88%

Youth (15-24 years) literacy rate, 2004-2008*, female
82%

Saudi Arabia

Youth (15-24 years) literacy rate, 2004-2008*, male
98%

Youth (15-24 years) literacy rate, 2004-2008*, female
96%

Malaysia

Youth (15-24 years) literacy rate, 2004-2008*, male
98%

Youth (15-24 years) literacy rate, 2004-2008*, female
99%

Indonesia
Youth (15-24 years) literacy rate, 2004-2008*, male
97%

Youth (15-24 years) literacy rate, 2004-2008*, female
96%

http://www.unicef.org/infobycountry/

Some muslim states do not have such numbers mainly because of poverty not because of islam.

Muslim men are not permitted to flirt with women that are not their wives.
Literacy rate and education rate are not the same. Because the women can read Arabic doesn't automatically make them educated. Did you say that muslim men are not permitted to do what?. Even on nairaland because there are many of them here looking to mingle.
Foreign AffairsRe: Vote Set On Controversial S. Africa secrets bill by aloyemeka1: 4:16am On Nov 23, 2011
When are we gonna vote Zuma out for a better leader who will be smart enough to know that one cannot avoid HIV by taking a shower after intercourse. Vote Buhari for South African president.
PoliticsRe: Fashola Visits Family Of Late Guardian Publisher: Consoler in chief. Pics by aloyemeka1: 4:06am On Nov 23, 2011
[quote author=Rhino.5dm link=topic=809323.msg9612852#msg9612852 date=1322016129]Aleast he didn't impreginate his in-law like Sullivan Chime of Enugu State or support Gang ban.gers like TA Orji of Abia State or Publicly slap his wife like Ikedii Ohakim of Imo.

Fashola a complete gentle man. A won oni iranu, fe ko ba'a Fashola. Oloron maje.[/quote]I know; you also forgot that Fashola didn't steal $500M like Gbenga Daniels or finish Oyo state's treasure on bleaching cream like Akala or float an airline with stolen wealth like Asiwaju.Fashola is one h3ll of a saint who can do no wrong apart from smelling perfumes on widows' gele and hugging them real hard. wink wink wink wink
IslamRe: Taqiyya And Kitman: Are muslims permitted to lie? by aloyemeka1(op): 4:00am On Nov 23, 2011
tbaba1234:
This is beyond silly:

The condition between a man and his wife is saying things that will increase their love:

1. A woman lying about her friend does nothing to increase the love between the couple; a woman complementing her husband or a man complementing his wife does. A woman is supposed to respect her husband's wishes just like he is supposed to fulfill his duty to her.

2. Remember this condition is between a man and his wife. Not some kind of prohibited relationship.

Yes, islam is phenomenal for both men and women. Fornication and adultery are frowned at by islam. Men and women are  commanded to guard their modesty.

Be careful the way you use Allah because even arab christians use Allah. So that you do not incur sins in your attempt to make fun of a perfectly logical law.

P.S. Come on man, let's engage on an intellectual level,  stop making these kinds of ignorant statements.
Is the husband not supposed to respect his wife's wishes?. What if wife no 1 asks him whether he loves her less than wife no 2 and even though its true and it will hurt her if he says the truth ,he then decides to tell her that he loves her equally  for the sake of maintaining peace and increasing their love against the wishes of the woman because she really wants to know the truth. So Allah will not count that as a lie?.Simply accept that Allah paved way for muslim men to be panshin women without guilt because flirting comes with lies upon lies and muslim women are more prone to lies because they are largely illiterate, crude and uncivilized.
PoliticsRe: Fashola Visits Family Of Late Guardian Publisher: Consoler in chief. Pics by aloyemeka1: 3:57am On Nov 23, 2011
www.nairaland.com/attachments/577540_1_jpgf3ccdd27d2000e3f9255a7e3e2c48800
RhinoCeros.5dm must be drooling and wish he was in the same position as Fashola so he can tap some current. See as the woman's son dey vex as baba Fash dey hug his mom and smelling the sweet perfume on her gele. Fashola must be a mouth man tongue tongue tongue tongue
RomanceNigerian Princes by aloyemeka1(op): 3:52am On Nov 23, 2011
Nigerian Princes were our hobby, me and Louise. Those assholes. Stealing money from old ladies and crazy people. They offended us. You had to be either profoundly naïve or mentally ill to get caught in their scam. You had to live outside the reach of human interaction, which on top of everything else would mean you’re also lonely. This is the demographic those assholes are after. The unfairness of it killed me.
Harassing the Nigerian Princes was something we could do together. Couples split up because they don’t have common interests, like surfing, or scrapbooking, or smoking weed. Until we started fucking with the Nigerian Princes, Louise and I were heading down that road. She had her bitter feminist book group and her beer-drinking rock climbers and I had my Neanderthal white guy football Sundays and my language poetry workshop. The Nigerian Princes brought us back to one another.
Louise has a wicked dark imagination and a pitch-perfect understanding of character development. Her knack for detail is astonishing. Meet me at Lufthansa luggage carousel number five in Oslo, she’d email a Nigerian Prince. I’ll be wearing a desert camouflage maxi skirt and a black pageboy wig. Africans make me anxious, so be sure to approach slowly and leave any tribal accoutrements (masks and spears and whatnot) back in your village. I’ll get my nephew to strap the cash to my upper thigh and will probably need your help retrieving it, considering my bulk prevents me from accessing certain parts of my body, lol.

http://www.munsterlit.ie/Southword/Issues/19/cain_shannon.html
PoliticsRe: Fashola Visits Family Of Late Guardian Publisher: Consoler in chief. Pics by aloyemeka1: 3:32am On Nov 23, 2011
www.nairaland.com/attachments/577540_1_jpgf3ccdd27d2000e3f9255a7e3e2c48800

And the way Fashola is holding Ibru's widow is suspicious. He is definitely tapping current because this hug is more than consolation o; He was dqueezing teh woman so hard that she had to close her eyes. .No wonder he didn't go there with his wife. As the woman no get husband again, baba Fashy is positioning himself to take over na since Tinubu is more interested in smoking weed than women. Men will always be men.
PoliticsRe: Fashola Visits Family Of Late Guardian Publisher: Consoler in chief. Pics by aloyemeka1: 3:06am On Nov 23, 2011
PoliticsRe: Fashola Visits Family Of Late Guardian Publisher: Consoler in chief. Pics by aloyemeka1: 3:05am On Nov 23, 2011
CyberG:
Fashola is 48 and his hair is already greying! Obama's is 50 and greyed out even more! JonaNONE is 54 and he obviously is NOT using any mental energy hence his hair remains almost like it has been! Maybe that is why he covers it with the hat? huh huh tongue tongue In any case, he is the lightest weight president of Nigeria and even little ants laugh off their Bottom saying he is a big ol' fat JOEdoNothing!
Graying is more of a genetic factor than age. People gray according to their genetic dispensation. Its not as if there is a cut off age for that., Some start graying in their 20's while other start graying in their 60's. Same goes for balding among men.
IslamRe: Double Mind? by aloyemeka1: 2:58am On Nov 23, 2011
uplawal:
Even Jesus cursed you people in the bible and in the[b] Quran Jesus is said to have cursed  people as well and the curse is still working well on all christians till [/b]today,there is no way a christian can prevent it from effectiveness,verily,Aloy@emeka is not excempted,truth is bitter.
Quote the place Jesus cursed us Christians in the bible apart from the lies your inconsistent and female-bashing  quran written by chauvinistic barbarians is telling you.
IslamRe: Taqiyya And Kitman: Are muslims permitted to lie? by aloyemeka1(op): 2:54am On Nov 23, 2011
tbaba1234:
Does that increase the love between them?
The condition given by Allah states that:
If action A is capable of increasing the love between couples, either couple may use that action and its no sin. So if this woman tells her husband that she is still hanging out with her gossip friend, his love for her will decrease but by lying to her husband even though she is doing the opposite, the man is in fools paradise and will continue to love her more. The same instance is given when a man is promising a woman that he will marry her, such lie will make her love him more and give the man a chance to make her shut up and continue servicing him.

Islam is very phenomenal and una Allah prepared every scenario for only the men. Muslim men can Mu'tah any women they see on the road, lie to their wives at home and still be righteous before Allah. Islam rocks for you guys o, abi ki le ni mo so? grin grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Yoruba Women (and dating) by aloyemeka1: 2:39am On Nov 23, 2011
anonymous6:
Nope this observation was beyond just one state and I already have a yoruba guy I am going out with, so get over yourself. You are not a yoruba women, so why is this issue a concern to you?
Just make sure you hold him to marry you before its too late. Just a friendly gesture.Case closed.
RomanceRe: Yoruba Women (and dating) by aloyemeka1: 2:30am On Nov 23, 2011
anonymous6:
I thought Aloy Emeka was a igbo man; any way whatever but I get your point.
Why wouldn;'t you think so since Igbo men get you excited. Since you now discover that I am no Igbo man, will that change your responses and assumptions about how I feel about your initial comments?. See how bigots are busted.
RomanceRe: Yoruba Women (and dating) by aloyemeka1: 2:28am On Nov 23, 2011
anonymous6:
No, I make my observations based on what I have observed and see regardless of what I feel that why it is easy for me to make the way the order in which yoruba women are attracted to; why you are angry about this is baffling to me

I never made the assumption that all men in the world would die if they don't end up with yoruba women, I don't know where you got that from
So whatever you observe from that cave in Oklahoma is applicable to all Yoruba women?. Just do quick and find a man first before making mouth. I wouldn't want you to end up single, childless, old and bitter like tpia. She was probably talking like you when she was in her 20's some 30 years ago. undecided undecided undecided
CelebritiesNollywood Superstar Accused Of Facebook Harassment by aloyemeka1(op): 2:24am On Nov 23, 2011
[size=14pt]Alleged intimate Harassment: US-Based Lady Accuses Yemi Solade; She’s A Fraudster, Says Solade  [/size]
A United States based lady, Bunmi Ladipo, has accused popular Nigerian actor, Yemi Solade of harassing her sexually.


https://pmnewsnigeria.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/%E2%80%A2One-of-the-controversial-pictures.jpg
•One of the controversial pictures


The lady told NollywoodReel that the incident, which is totally embarrassing started one month ago when the actor sent her a friendship request on popular social network site, Facebook.
The lady narrated: “I accepted his friendship request because I recognised him as an actor.
“After accepting his friend request, we started doing normal chatting and along the line, exchanged Blackberry pin. But unknown to me, his intention was beyond the normal relationship as he began to disturb me for something else, but I politely told him it is impossible because I’m happily married.
“At a point, I felt it was someone impersonating him. But I got the biggest shock of my life when he started sending me his Unclad pictures and sorts. He later called on phone and I recorded the conversation. In fact, that was when I was convinced that he was actually the one harassing me sexually.”
In some of the pictures sent to NollywoodReel, the actor snapped himself with a mobile phone from head to chest level, while the controversial one shows a man’s private organ.
Mrs. Ladipo added that she has informed Senator Abike Dabiri and Funmi Ikeji, a woman activist about the issue and would make further legal actions against the actor.

http://pmnewsnigeria.com/2011/11/21/alleged-intimate-harassment-us-based-lady-accuses-yemi-solade-she%E2%80%99s-a-fraudster-says-solade/
RomanceRe: Yoruba Women (and dating) by aloyemeka1: 2:19am On Nov 23, 2011
Relax101:
Just showing how yoruba guys behave when they marry an Igbo girl. It's like they won a world cup trophy!

hahahahahahahahahahaha. So the restrictions is to Igbo Men only? hahahahahahahaha
Omo, I need to see the head of your family.

bye bye

[flash=400,400]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yEPGvQ7tVWg[/flash]
Isn't Psquare supposed to be an Okoro boy?
RomanceRe: Yoruba Women (and dating) by aloyemeka1: 2:18am On Nov 23, 2011
anonymous6:
what does this have to do with yoruba women?

No there are restrictions in Yoruba households, I have seen it and observe it. Whether you like it or not some Yoruba households are restrictive, especially the Muslims.
Now it is becoming clearer. Your chances of being allowed Igbo man may be 50% from your parents but that Igbo man's chances of being allowed by his parents to marry  a muslim woman is 1% or less. So you are seriously better off not being attracted to Igbo men because I think the feeling could be mutual but that doesn't mean you should use it to make a blanket statement about Yoruba women and the order by which they are attracted to Nigerian men as if all the men in the world will die if they don't get a Yoruba woman to marry. You also forgot to add that Yoruba women will be attracted to other women before it will be Igbo men.
RomanceRe: Yoruba Women (and dating) by aloyemeka1: 2:03am On Nov 23, 2011
anonymous6:
I don't know their names, am I suppose to remember their names?

My family is not bigoted to igbo's, my family & I  has friends that are igbo
's but we beleive in marrying your own. It seems to me you don't know the difference between cultural pride and marrying your own and tribal bigotry and hate
Having friends who are Igbos does not stop them from being bigots just like there are white people who have black friends but are still racists. The problem is that you were raised by a family who instilled hatred in you and its now very difficult for you to discern between that hatred and what is normal. It is very bigoted to judge people based on their skin color or ethnic background.
Look around here and ask yourself how many igbo tribalists who are females on nairaland?. The highest number of ethnic bigots here are Igbo males and Yoruba females and why is that?. Because they were tutored by their parents to hate the other group.
RomanceRe: Yoruba Women (and dating) by aloyemeka1: 2:02am On Nov 23, 2011
anonymous6:
true I never said it was
I was wondering how fast tpia can raise tribal bigots here unless you were an old tribal soldier who got baptized and changed again. Eniyan ma kan dede pi iwa da[forgive my poor igbo]
RomanceRe: Yoruba Women (and dating) by aloyemeka1: 1:53am On Nov 23, 2011
anonymous6:
I am a bigot because I said yoruba women are not into igbo men[b] just like you guys say the same thing about yoruba women[/b]. Get over yourself

I am a yoruba women, and not only I speak for myself but with the many yoruba women I am around and they are not gravelling for igbo men. Many yoruba homes are lenient with their sons with other tribes but when it comes[b] to yoruba women their are restrictions[/b], especially igbo men. So you guys can can front all you want I won't budge with this
Who are you guys if I may ask you little brat?. So you are happily telling the world that your family is bigoted towards Igbo people and it sounds normal to you? Otiooo.

All I can say is for you to find a man who will stand by you first before checking out the color of their skin. Life is not limited to Igbo/Yoruba tribal warfare.
IslamRe: Taqiyya And Kitman: Are muslims permitted to lie? by aloyemeka1(op): 1:52am On Nov 23, 2011
tbaba1234:
comon man, in affairs that increase love between them :: Like saying my wife looks gorgeous early in the morning when she actually looks  like crap. Or complementing her hair even though i don't care about it. The little things.

That is an extreme example, because adultery is prohibited in the first place so lying doesn't make it any better.
So can a woman lie to her husband about a friend she keeps even though her husband has warned her against hanging around that woman?
RomanceRe: Yoruba Women (and dating) by aloyemeka1: 1:48am On Nov 23, 2011
This anonymous bigot wannabe hasn't considered that the low census in Yoruba women/Igbo men marriage could be because Igbo men especially the Anambra ones rarely marry outside their kindred.  How can you be the one not interested in someone who has no interest in marrying you?. Come what may, men call the shots in Nigerian marriages 90% of the time and if they choose not to marry you, no matter how you love or despise them, it wouldn't matter. If Yoruba men decides not to marry outside their clan, may be we will start hearing Igbo women claiming that they are not interested in Yoruba men. I keep it real.
IslamRe: Taqiyya And Kitman: Are muslims permitted to lie? by aloyemeka1(op): 1:34am On Nov 23, 2011
When a man speaks to his wife, or a wife to her husband, concerning matters that will increase the love between them.
So a cheating wife can always lie about her adulterous affairs to her husband because telling him the truth will reduce the love between them?.
IslamRe: Allah Is Great by aloyemeka1: 1:32am On Nov 23, 2011
LagosShia:
you're a pervert.do you know why? in Iran,one of the vice presidents is female.in the indonesia,the president is woman.in the same pakistan you're talking about.Benazir was Prime Minister.so how come she was PM?

talking about her assasination,she could have being killed for being Shia than for being a woman.

also the people who killed her,would have done likewise if she was a man because in their view she was a stumbling block to their plans and cause.

islam does not "degrade" women.it only ensures that modesty and chastity are protected.if modesty and chastity are ensured,and the woman is protected from abuse,there is nothing that can challenge any woman.try to know the difference between muslims and Islam.
How does my opinion make me perverted?. So if islam gives women equal chances like men[you wish], why did so many Northern Nigerian states issue statements on the issue of women running for governor?. Why did kwara muslims specifically ban women from running for governorship. Indonesia you mentioned is not a sharia controlled state and pop culture found its way there just like its making waves in UAE now, so expecting them to adhere to the teachings of Muhammad is like asking AloyEmeka to bow down to your Allah. They are nothing but keferis.
RomanceRe: Yoruba Women (and dating) by aloyemeka1: 1:04am On Nov 23, 2011
coogar:
excellent point!
at 38, a woman would marry just about anything that comes calling. her options are all gone - even the ugliest man in the community suddenly becomes handsome to her. all the things she swore she would never eat would be her most favourite. are we not talking about the same naija babes?
As long as any man in Nigeria is rich, educated, tall, handsome, he can get over 10000 super pretty spinsters from EVERY godamn tribe in Nigeria and some women are so pathetic that they will agree to become the 2nd,3rd, 4th, etc wife. Forget this jargon you are reading here because it is either  the people typing them are over aged immature women who have no hook up hopes or underage girls who are still experimenting life with boyfriends. When the real world sinks in, their Yorubaness or Igboness or Boko haramness will be thrown out of the window. Usually, it is either inferiority complex/low self esteem or jealousy that drives people who always claim that Yoruba women arer not attracted to xxxx people, Igbo women are not attracted to YYYY people, etc. The ones who sing it continually are usually the left overs who couldn't nab a man or the foul mouthed spoilt brats among us.[the order of importance here places riches as the highest attractive factor and handsomeness as the least]

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 (of 122 pages)