[quote author=TMSMedia post=122331232]Treason: Arrest Obi And Datti Next Time They "Blab Anyhow" - Reno Omokri Tells FG
Reno Omokri has urged the Federal Government of Nigeria to arrest Labour Party's Presidential candidate, Peter Obi and the party's Vice-Presidential candidate, Datti Baba-Ahmed, the way Biafra separatist, Nnamdi Kanu was arrested, IGBERETV reports.
He said they should be locked up when next they make treasonous comments.
Below are 7 reasons you should always cause misunderstanding with a woman. If you don't do it, she will do it and will end up seeing your gentle nature as weakness (a weakling).
7. LOVE
Women love troublemakers. When you offend a woman, she will be angry with you, but when the storm is over and the two of you reconcile, the love will be stronger. #LEGENDARY FACT!
6. SEX
Being a troublesome boyfriend or husband keeps women on their toes. When you have the GMC game and become a troublemaker, women will always be scared to offend you, but you won't. When the two of you fight and after some days of not talking with each other, the day you'll reconcile, the sex will be more exhilarating and filled with anticipation. #LEGENDARY FACT!
5. BOND
Offending a woman like a GMC is one of the keys to making her bond with you. When the drama is over and you talk about your life together, she will be happy. Women want commitment, but most men want sex and if the sex is amazing and she has a good-bad girl character, then he will think of commitment. Sex means a lot to men while bond and commitment mean a lot to women. #LEGENDARY FACT!
4. UNAVAILABILITY
When you offend a woman, it gives the impression of having better options. This will make you appear hard to get. Women love what is hard to get. People cherish what is about to slip away from them, unattainable, or something unavailable more than what is readily available at all time. This is why fuel has more value when it's scarce. #LEGENDARY FACT!
3. LONGEVITY
When you're a naughty bad guy and a troublemaker, a woman will be engrossed with the drama you bring to the table. This will make the relationship last longer as long as you posses some GMC-like qualities that most women love and can do anything for. #LEGENDARY FACT!
2. PRAYER
If you master the art of troublemaking towards your SO and you're a good-bad guy with a bright future, she will keep praying for you to change and become a good man, but won't know it's all a game to keep the relationship hot and vibrant. You're already a good man, but exhibiting the good-bad side of you because good-bad side is a billion times better than good-good side. #LEGENDARY FACT!
1. RESPECT
At the hit of the drama, she will disrespect you, cuss you and all. When the drama is over, bring her to your chest, pamper her, and watch her respect for you elevate. Everyone will respect each other and their boundaries as the love and respect grow stronger.
After some months, the love and respect will begin to reduce, then cause another trouble again. As you do this, years will elapse and she won't know why she's addicted to you.
Nonviolent trouble is the fuel of a relationship. Money and communication are the flames of the fuel and God is the fuel tank. It's fun if you master the art of trouble making in a relationship. #LEGENDARY FACT!
Women are addicted to relationship dramas. Any relationship without drama is boring despite how perfect it may seem. Women can't do without suspense, mystery, challenge, unpredictability, naughtiness, sex, and drama.
These things boil their energies and they help in keeping the fire of the relationship or marriage burning forever. Any man who doesn't know how to press these buttons may have a woman who will cheat on him if she accidentally meets a man who can even if the husband or boyfriend is a perfect man in every other aspects of life.
Offending a woman causes negative energy, but after some days, weeks, or months, this energy can be neutralized with humor and playfulness to positive emotions.
When this happens, you, as the man, will reap the fruit of your fearlessness in offending her. If you have a big ego and you're not humorous, this will have the opposite effect.
So, before you offend a woman (in a good way), make sure you have a sense of humor, you know how to smile, and how to laugh at yourself for fun.
Make sure you're lighthearted and open-minded, else, you may end up being enemies. Most women have huge egos and if you let your ego come in-between, then the two of you will be too arrogant to re-initiate a conversation after the drama is over. No one wants to look cheap and everyone is protecting their self-esteem.
The above are the reasons you should offend women, but don't hurt them badly. Be gentle, but fearless. Be a good-bad guy, not a nice guy and watch them become addicted to you. It's easy. It's fun. It's powerful.
This is why we always say, "Look for troubles, but make sure they're nonviolent."
Note: If you don't start looking for her trouble, she'll start it before you and you'll end up asking, "Why is my woman behaving strangely since...?" like a clueless nice guy.
It's better if she's the one asking herself, "Why is my man behaving strangely? God, please, change him?"
Slyzen: Matthew Benham graduated from the world-renowned University of Oxford in 1989 with a degree in Physics.
He spent the next 12 years working in finance, eventually being named a VP at Bank of America. But in 2001, he decided to change careers.
After leaving Bank of America in 2001, Matthew Benham joined sports gambling company Premier Bet. His job was to help develop predictive gambling models based on analytics.
The best part?
Benham learned under one of the most successful gamblers in the world — Tony Bloom.
After only a couple years, Matthew Benham and Tony Bloom had a falling out. The exact reason wasn't clear, but by the time Benham left Premier Bet in 2003, the fire was already lit.
He wasn’t going back to investment banking. He was a professional sports gambler now.
Matthew Benham went on to win millions of dollars gambling on sports, but in 2004, he set up his own betting syndicate — Smartodds.
The idea was simple: Benham consulted clients using the same algorithms, statistics & data research that made him a successful sports gambler.
Smartodds became a massive success, and Matthew Benham now also owns Matchbook, a popular sports betting exchange.
Even better?
With financial freedom, Benham was able to pursue his other passion — Brentford FC.
Attending his first game at 11 years old, Matthew Benham has been a lifelong fan of Brentford FC.
So when the club faced financial trouble in 2007, Benham stepped up. He provided a $700,000 loan so that Brentford supporters could purchase the team.
But there was a catch…
When Matthew Benham provided the $700,000 loan, he had the option to purchase the club should the fans choose not to repay the loan.
In 2012, the fans declined & Benham became the owner of his childhood team. The interesting part? He decided to play "Moneyball."
Matthew Benham spent almost $10 million on a smaller club in Denmark — FC Midtjylland — to test his analytical concepts.
The ideas that worked, he used at Brentford FC. The ideas that didn't, he threw in the trash.
Benham fired staff members, bringing in more analytically-minded people that lacked traditional experience.
The club also stopped caring about wins & losses.
Instead, they developed a set of key performance indicators that determined if they were making progress or not.
For example, Brentford FC started to look more closely at “expected goals” (xPG) rather than how many goals a player actually scored.
Their theory?
In a low-scoring sport that is skewed by randomness & luck, the quality & quantity of chances created during a match mattered more.
Brentford's most drastic move?
While the top clubs in the world were investing millions of dollars in their youth academies, Brentford decided to eliminate theirs completely.
Instead, they relied on a “B team” of 17-to-20-yr-olds that were rendered useless by other clubs.
Why?
Because Brentford believed you had to give a young player at least 35 games before determining his value.
But the richest clubs in the world didn’t have the time, patience, or appropriate infrastructure to do that.
As a small club willing to experiment, Brentford did.
This allowed them to find undervalued players, or market inefficiencies, that could come in, help the club win & be sold for record profits.
Said Benrahma • Bought: $3.8M • Sold: $40M
Ollie Watkins • Bought: $2.3M • Sold: $36M
Neal Maupay • Bought: $2.1M • Sold: $26M
The results weren’t immediate, but now a decade later, they have paid off.
After winning the Championship Play-Off Final last weekend, Brentford FC has completed its ascent from the fourth tier of English football to the Premier League.
The best part?
It's now worth $300M+.
The true financial impact of Premier League promotion depends on how long Brentford can stay in England’s top league.
If they get relegated after 1 year, they'll make ~$300M.
If they can stay up for a 2nd year, they'll make $400M+.
The longer they stay, the more they make.
In a sport that has historically refused the analytical revolution, Matthew Benham decided to shake things up.
He saved his childhood team from bankruptcy, used his experience in analytics to create a competitive advantage & turned a $700k loan into $300M+.
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Marketing becomes easy when NO COMPETITION exists. This means, no one has what you offer so you OWN that Niche because it solves major problems and no one else offers it.
I have been into importation for over 5 years and I have compiled PRODUCTS that will sell so fast here in Nigeria because it solves major problems we may not even know we have. With over 200+ direct links to buying cheap products I can MENTOR you for free on sales strategy and market SWOT analysis for your products so you can be sure of 100% sales in the Shortest time.
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For Example, I have a product that ensures students who are very very dull or poor in their bookwork can become geniuses in less than 24hours. I have sold these products to parents and even to university students in University of Abuja, UNIBEN, UniPORT.... and the testimonies are 100%. One of my clients who bought my NO-FAILURE KIT for 25k(I imported it for 7k from Aliexpress) was a 3rd class student in 200Level and he used my product for just 2years and NEVER had a carry over again- he graduated with a NEAT 2.1(2nd Class Upper). Today he is doing his NYSC in Lagos.
NEED I SAY MORE, I am selling the E-books for N7000 to those who have been trained in Importation Business either by me or some kind hearted person here on Nairaland. The 7k is to filter jokers from those who are really serious. I will not be selling it forever, I need just 70 people who have bought the Ebook that I can mentor even in other Online businesses for free.
IF YOU FEEL AM JUST A TALKER, KINDLY CHECK MY PROFILE AND MY TOPICS AND THE VIEWS TO BE SURE THAT I HAVE NOT LIED BUT ACTUALLY HELPED PEOPLE AND WILL STILL HELP MORE IN LEARNING HOW TO IMPORT AND SELL FOR FREE.
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This thread will teach you everything you need to know to start up and the tools needed to deliver the goods.
You would need
1. A PC or Laptop 2. Affordable internet connection 3. Good head phones 4 Good command of English
Everything else can be learned on this thread. For those of us who have already started transcribing, we're welcome to share our ideas here so that this can be our online community.
To avoid this thread being banned, kindly let us adhere to all the rules of Nairaland.
Should we want to share screenshots, kindly let's block the company and important call info.
Also all forms of advertising is prohibited and will be reported.
Edited 9/7/2019 posted by samsard for newbies. Once you master these, the rest go easy
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madridguy: History Clerk in government Treasury, 1921; Native Authority, Ijebu-Ode, 1921; member, Legislative Council, 1945-59; member, defunct Western House of Assembly, 1945-59; member. Federal House of Representatives, 1952-54; Senator of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, 1960-64; director of the Central Bank and the Nigerian Industrial Development Bank. president of the Manufacturers Association of Nigeria, chairman of the Nigerian Stock Exchange.
Na late Chief Odutola record be that. No be everybody be slave merchant.
Biodun556: When Queen Elizabeth came to Nigeria In 1960 before the independence, we reveal to you where she passed the night.
When we talk of Nigeria history, the Ijebu people will always be noted as one of the wealthiest Billionaire tribes and there is in another dimension as they’ve been rich right from the pre-colonial era.
One of the Notable billionaire of the old who flexed their dough hard includes Ijebu born businessman and philanthropist, Timothy Adeola Odutola. Before we go into the evergreen edifice this man built, we would love to run a short profile of him. Chief Timothy Adeola Odutola (1902- 95) Is a prominent businessman and Philanthropist from #Ijebu-Ode.
He attended St Saviours Primary School Italope and Ijebu-Ode Grammar School. He started work in the Colonial Service and later went into business selling damask and fish.
He became a Produce buyer opening large storage units and transportation lines. By 1960 he had created a conglomerate including three factories, a retail franchise, a cattle ranch, a 5,000-acre rubber and palm oil plantation, a sawmill, and export business.
Chief Odutola became so rich that he had a personal relationship with the father of Queen Elizabeth, George VI.
In 1956 during her Official visit to Nigeria, the Queen of England; Queen Elizabeth II was scheduled to visit only Ibadan, Enugu and Kaduna as the regional capitals.
Queen Elizabeth requested her visit be rerouted to include Ijebu-Ode to enable her to visit Chief Timothy Adeola Odutola, the Ogbeni Oja, her father’s friend who usually wined and dined with the royals at Buckingham Palace.
She passed a night at Ijebu-Ode and what a privileged visit indeed. Behold the Adeola Odutola Lodge, Ijebu-Ode (built, 1939).
meobizy: Front page don sure for this topic. During my stay some years back I serviced a few Nigerians and rejected others. The cold will reformat somebody's brain. The constant search for warmth drives people into other's bedrooms.
MALIGNANTGuest: ... na normal thing Abroad naaa BRO, calm down you will save more money. Abroad reduces your LIBIDO and makes you a Real Man. We have been through it. U won't die. That's the reason most abroad based men are not moved by women. They are very careful with them. They avoid women at all cost. They rarely do the bidding of ladies especially if they have Legal residency permit.
Bro, I'm Disappointed in you but here is my Free Advice for you; Avoiding Trouble Abroad starts with keeping Ladies at Arms length. Get good Cameras installed in your apartments. Get HD Camera installed in Caps and shirts. The public rushes to believe them first especially when they start weeping. No one asks if they are lying or not. Avoid them now. It pays. How many weddings have u attended since u got dia? Better ask questions before proposing!
Only the Pirate of the Carribean has won his case against a lady in 30years. He shared his secret. Make ur MONEY! EASY MONEY, in hard currency! Avoid them now. I have warned you!
Dailyhappenings: Here is a throwback photo of the president of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, Muhammadu Buhari as the petroleum minister in the year 1977.
Today, he still holds the position as the minister of petroleum.
angelfallz: Lol. the fact that you are used to something does not make it correct. I like the way you cited Chinua Achebe's books and newspaper publications, to back yourself up.
But let me counter with this.
When I was in primary school we were taught that Mungo Park discovered the river Niger. It was in our curriculum, text books I read also said, that river Niger was discovered by Mungo Park, and our teachers then, taught us with so much zeal that Mungo Park discovered the river Niger.
It was not until maybe my university or even after University that I realised that what I was taught all those years ago was wrong and the text books that I read about the river Niger was wrong.
For me Ibo, is just the spelling of the English mispronunciation of the word Igbo. Let me give you another example of the spelling of the English mispronunciation of an Igbo word. Awka, which is the capital of Anambra state. "Awka" is not an Igbo spelling, but an English spelling. The Igbo spelling should be Okaa, with a dot under the O.
Another example is Enugu. Enugu, is the English spelling of the mispronounced Igbo word, Enugwu, which means on top of a hill.
So sir, the fact that your generation and the books you read said Ibo and not Igbo, does not make Ibo right.
Thank you.
Everyone knew the Mungo Park stuff was cock-and-bull even in the Colonial era. Yes, I'm aware of those so-called anglicised words.
Sokoto is spelled Sakwato in Hausa. Owerri is spelled Owere in the local dialect, etc. Onitsha is Onicha locally. Enugu as you said is actually Enugwu.
The Esan people of Edo State [Esan-Edo] too said changed their spelling from Ishan long ago. The Esans originally migrated from Benin about 500 years ago because of social crises that existed in the Bini Kingdom then. Esans and Bini-Edos are related to one another and share Edo names, and similar cultural practices.
My main problem is that these ethnic spelling corrections should have been made in the Colonial era or right after 1960 when the "British got independence from Nigeria" [pun intended] to make it easy for everyone. Those spellings have been institutionalised now in official documentation.
The fact is that there was NO "Igbo" ethnic group that existed pre-British colonial era but different subgroups existed that identified themselves by their subgroup names and spoke their local dialects such as Mbaise, Ngwa, Owerre, etc. I read in one of the history books that even in Abia State, the different subgroups do NOT mutually understand one another unless they use "Central Igbo" to communicate. It was the British colonialist that created the concept of a "Central Ibo" or an Ibo ethnic group for administrative purposes.
Achebe's published books in the 1960s to about 2000 for instance still had Ibo in them and Achebe ought to have insisted on using "Igbo" then if he was sure the spelling "Ibo" was wrong.
Anyhow, we keep trucking. lol
Thanks for the feedback.
Cheers.
NOTE: I searched for the fuller version link of the Anioma document I indicated I was going to upload for you but couldn't find it : "Origins and Migrations of the Enuani People of South Central Nigeria Reconsidered" by E.N. Mordi & P.O. Opone Link to full article: http://www.krepublishers.com/02-Journals/T%20&%20T/T%20&%20T-07-0-000-09-Web/T%20&%20T-07-1-000-09-Abst-PDF/T&T-07-1-047-09-186-Mordi-E-N/T&T-07-1-047-09-186-Mordi-E-N-Tt.pdf
Moneyboyz: They are actually right, crypto was once a lucrative investment, now it's scam, big exchanges like binance and co are behind the pump and dump schemes, they pump a coin 10 percent and dump it 25 percent, they also have all the tools to see the figures of funds being bought and sold. They pump a coin to a level and wait for people to invest. Immediately the reaches their selloff percentage they sell scrapping all your money along with it.
Now the 50 USD you saved with these exchanges becomes 25usd. They know you will panic sell, once you sell, they have made 25usd off you just like that. Once a certain percentage of you all have sold, making the coin dip further, they buy it cheap again to pump the coin.
The cycle continues, this is how binance and co makes money, go to their platform, they are always giving out money/incentives if you trade so so amount bla bla bla and launching scam coins you won't make any money from.
Absolutely right.
Stable coins are going down gradually. Better to be on guide and withdraw all profits and leave the rest for a rebound. Tether slipped slightly below $1 recently.
I choose to use IBO because that is what my generation used back in the day. All the Chinua Achebe books I read years back had "Ibo" in them and books, newspapers, and magazine publications as far back as the 1960s, 1970s, 1980s, and way past 2000 that I have in my library have Ibo in them and NON of your kinsmen complained then.
It was after the year 2000 that we started seeing the gradual smuggling of the spelling "Igbo" in some publications.
Oxford Advanced Learners dictionary lists Ibo in it as well.
I will continue to use Ibo because it is ingrained in me and it is too late for me to drop.
Moreover NOBODY has been able to explain WHAT it means in your language and why you would refer to yourselves as IGBO. I read a PDF doc on Anioma history that the Anioma viewed the term in derogatory light and it denoted the people of the BUSH who were viewed as slaves back in the day.
I downloaded that academic PDF online while searching for info on Anioma history. It was 2 lecturers of DELSU that wrote the doc. I read it last 3 years ago. If I can find it in my archive, I'll upload it or search for it online when I have the chance.
Hamzaaaaaaaa: Ds northern elders forum are just playing a mind game using reverse psychology,[s]how will you guys survive if igbo leaves,they keep using population to control how things will be done in Nigeria and igbo elites keep betraying their people because of money[/s]
@Hamzaaaaaaaa I assume you are Ibo but using a Muslim name "Hamza" as your user name.
You are also engaging in delusion of grandeur here like the so-called Northern Elders Forum which is a supporter of PDP. What do you mean by "how will you guys survive if igbo leaves?"
Stop overplaying the self-importance of Ibos OK. Those Northerners have always survived and will survive because they have ancestral connections with Niger, Chad, Mali, Sudan and the rest of the Muslim world.
Have you NOT heard of the trans-Saharan trade that made certain Northern cities to prosper before colonial rule.
Some of you folks underestimate the Northern folks a lot. By the way I'm originally of Southern roots but have had ties with the North for decades. Make NO mistake about it, I'm in support of the peaceful dissolution of Nigeria just like Czechoslovakia and former USSR, and then it will be possible for the far North to form a new country or join Niger Republic to form a new country because Hausaland extends into Niger Republic, and even Buhari's father is originally from Niger. PMB himself is NOT originally from Daura but was born in a migratory cattle Fulah settlement in Katsina State. His mother is a Kanuri woman. The Kanuris can also join their Kanembu kith-and-kin in Chad. The Yorubas have kith-and-kin in Benin Republic and Atakpame Province in Togo. Yorubaland also extends into Benin and Togo Republics.
Everybody should go their ways peacefully. That's the only solution to the BIG lie called Nigeria. I have lost hope in Nigeria after several decades of hoping for the best. Period.
EmagNig: Ghanaian actress Rosemond Brown popularly known as Akuapem Poloo has made a shocking confession in a recent interview and according to the sultry actress she ha allegedly slept with about 24 veteran Ghanaian actors.
She made this revelation in her interview with The Delay Show.
She further revealed that she had her first sugar daddy at the age of 16.
Rosemond Brown held nothing back and spoke things as it is. Besides revealing that she has slept with 24 men besides veteran actors like Fred Amugi and Awaakye, Rosemond Brown talked about her first Sugar Daddy experience.
According to Akuapem Poloo, she dated her first Sugar Daddy at the age of 16 when she was in the first year at the Senior High School. She revealed that the man spotted her on her way home from Koforidua after she had been sent away from school because of school fees.
The man picked her up, took her home, gave her money and she went back to school. The man took her back to Accra where she completed school and rented a room for her.
She revealed the name of the man as Mr. Emmanuel Naah and she claims Mr. Emmanuel Naah never slept with her until she was 16 years.
tendingNews: Onilogbo Hakeem Effect is arguably the Best Special Effects makeup artist in Nigeria. He has won high-profile awards such as Best makeup Artist (AMVCA) 2017/2018. Africa's best makeup Artist (AMAA) 2016/2017.
Hakeem Onilogbo aka Hakeem Effect was recently featured on BBC Africa Pidgin. He was interviewed and his works shown.
Hakeem Effect has turned a lady to Buhari, turned someone to Mandela, turned someone to Oyinbo, turned someone to albino, and also turned a lady into a pregnant woman. He is extremely talented.
See those he gave tribal marks
Watch videos of his works and see more of his works in graphic pictures.
sisisioge: Well....I cant cheat sha but if I mistakenly cheat o, it will be because I love the new interest like air or the oga in my life has become a terrible himan being.
Did I answer the qwesion successfully?
@"I can't cheat sha but... if I 'mistakenly' cheat o..." LMAO
I kinda like your very cheeky answer... I'm not surprised by that "gasp" of hidden female desire though! "Pele o."
opeyemiieblog: Controversial blogger and daughter of a former governor of Oyo State, Kemi Omololu-Olunloyo is currently gushing over her handsome man on social media.
Kemi Omololu Olunloyo - a Nigerian journalist, pharmacist, gun violence activist and social media personality seems to have jokingly unveiled the face of her secret lover named Hakeem in a social media public message today, the 9th of December, 2016.
The 52 year old single mother who is based in Ibadan, Oyo State after being deported from Canada showered the handsome Hakeem with sweet and erotic praises in a post that has elicited reactions amidst questions about her love life.
In a catchy message, Madam Kemi described Hakeem - a farmer as the "grey hair in her pussy"
From all indications, it seems Hakeem recently visited her in Ibadan and has today returned to his base in Lagos.
ubunja: because no woman wants a tame dragon. They wanna tame the dragon themselves. She wants the abusive ex boyfriend to be sweet as you after she's done with him. You are boring cause you're already perfect.
And also women who deal with abusive men are addicted to the highs and lows of drama that release all sorts of neuro chemical reactions in their brain. They're as hooked to those emotions as a cocaine addict is hooked on his drugs. Check it out, the abusive man mistreats a woman 80% of the times which stresses her out and hurts her deeply,, but then once in a bluemoon, like, the other 20% of the time, the abusive guy is extra extra sweet. That sweetness, coming after such a long period of pain, hits like a drug and it's effect on the woman is unreal. It's a high like no other. It's especially sweet. A caring sweet guy who's nice 24/7 Cant create that reaction. Hence a girl once she dates an abusive man she goes from one abusive guy to another,, because she's chasing that chemical hit. She needs help just like a druggie to break free.
All fingers pointing to his friend. I don't think he should be carried away.
I had an experience one time although nothing fetish was involved.
Someone cleared my account and made away with my life savings running into 400k plus. The guy was so smart but luck later ran out of him. First, he had been watching for a very long time as he had access to everything about me. I just lost my phone and I was using a small torch light phone then. Long and short, he registered for UBA Mobile banking on his phone and he had gotten my card details the day I begged him to borrow me his phone to pay for a stuff online. I didn't know he activated the screen recording and from there he got every of my card details. Shortly after, after he had activated the mobile banking. he transferred #350k to a paga agent and as God would have it the money hung in the air due to bad network. He went ahead to credit a newly created betting account with #120k. I have never indulged in betting all my life.
The next thing I saw in my inbox was a message from an unknown number telling me I will regret ever trying to drag babe with her. Which was really shocking as I can't remember ever stooping low to fight a fellow man because of a lady. I have never done that and will never do that, no insult intended please. Turned out the message was to sway suspicion, to cause me to start imagining who could be targeting me because of a lady while the real culprit would remain unnoticed. The guy most have waited all his life expecting the paga agent to receive the money that never entered.
The money was finally reversed to my account the next day which was when I saw my balance and saw that more than 100k was missing. What happened, was that, the guy that carried out this act had access to my phone and he deleted the alerts while I didn't suspect a thing. The other thing he did was that....
He went to the agent hours before doing the transaction. Requested for his details and told him he had transferred the money already. He waited for a while knowing fully well that he didn't do any transfer. The agent asked him to drop his number that he would call him when he finally sees the money. Mind you, this particular paga agent was in a different city from ours. It was after he returned home he now did the transaction and coincidentally the money truly hung in the air as he already lied. I Sha was credited the next day (Sunday) and to my utmost dismay, he was the very first person I narrated my ordeal to out of frustration and he still went ahead to tell me what to do while sympathizing with me and as well raining curses on whoever carried out the act. Not knowing he was the very person.
How he was busted.
I went to bank the next day being Monday and UBA was really helpful. They gave me the details of the paga agent and the manager was so concerned about my case that he personally decided to message the betting site himself. The tears in my red eyes and the catarrh in my nose plus the hiccups must have really driven him to no choice or perhaps it's just God. He asked me to go to a nearby police station and make reports that they will tell me what to do. While I got there and they were asking for bribes inspite of my situation I returned to him (the manager) out of frustration and he decided to cut corners for me. I sincerely don't know how he did it. All I know is that he sent sportybet a message and he asked me to come back the next day. The next day, Tuesday, I was there and he said they haven't replied him. I even thought it was the usual gimmick to frustrate me into moving on. I went back there the next day Wednesday and to my greatest surprise, the details from the betting account into which my money was credited was staring at me on the computer screen of the manager. I didn't need anyone to tell me who the culprit was. I was even thinking someone probably created a parody account of this culprit so as to further sway suspicion. But it was real.
It was John, my roommate of 3 years, my supposed best friend of 13 years. We've shared everything together in between these years. A feel for friendship wanted to let me overlook the whole thing but then when I thought about what I would have lost if not for mercy of God and when I thought about how he would have feigned innocence if he wasn't caught and would have wasted my life savings feeding his betting addiction,I trashed the feels.
He was handed over to the police which was where he narrated his tactics. It took like forever before Sporty bet could refund my money tho, I have even almost lost interest. I just kept bombarding their email with a reminder.