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Alexanderrrr:
Prostatitis is a male disease caused by several variables, of which abnormal sexual intercourse is a key one particular. You could be suggested to prevent having sex whenever you are troubled by prostatitis. However you should also notice that intimate abstinence is unfit for men with prostatitis. Why is that?

Medical professionals suggests that the prolonged blockage in the prostate gland may produce prostatitis ultimately, and also the identical is accurate of sexual abstinence. It is showed that many men with sex abstinence usually have sexual anxiety, very low power and low immune system, and they can get more stressed out and impatient than normal. In this example, they are prone to get prostatitis.

Furthermore, when these men are encountering poor feelings, some undesirable habits may meet their interior demands. Hence they have been a lot more hooked on liquor, smoking cigarettes and revitalizing food items. All of these point can upset the prostate gland, which makes it very likely to get overloaded and leading to prostatitis.

Consequently, having sex abstinence isn't a good decision. And often, it can result in reduce sexual interest and a few sexual dysfunction, and also sterility in men. Actually, each indulging yourself in gender and abstaining from sex are poor for body system and can cause prostatitis. Your sexual life has to be reasonable and healthy. Correct masturbation is also allowed for those that haven't experienced intercourse.

In accessory for some specifics of erotic behaviours, numerous poor practices in everyday life should also be seen, which can easily lead to prostatitis. For instance, sitting for a long time, positioning back urine many times, spending less focus to individual hygiene, and so forth.

When a man is told you have prostatitis, he will have some distressing signs or symptoms, such as frequent peeing, emergency peeing, painful urination, problems and burning up when peeing, fever, low energy, sickness and others. His erotic expertise will also be deeply affected. These symptoms may placed big psychological press on him. So if struggling with prostatitis, receiving treatment in time is an essential selection.

With a perspective to make the prostate gland back to a proper state, many sufferers are likely to choose traditional Chinese medicine to get handled. Commonly, a holistic solution Diuretic and Anti-inflammatory Pill can be considered a nice option of treating prostatitis, which is effective and safe, and can boost man's reproductive program.

Healing prostatitis needs males to get patient and assured, and you should pay out very much focus to your nurses operate as soon as you get cured, since the prostatitis is easy to relapse as a result of some bad habits. Also, you should also have a clinical and nourishing diet plan. Carrying out more exercise and going to breathe in fresh air are conductive in your overall health. Nothing will fail you if you continue at it. You will get better anyhow.

elantraceey:
I would rather not divulge that information here. Well, Monday just added to the weekend, more time to rest.

Yes, out of Anambra.

elantraceey:
Well I can't even say for major areas in Anambra because I'm in a remote area but there's currently no scarcity here.

Yeah, I'm currently working here. Relocating very soon though.

elantraceey:
It seems east is no longer part of Nigeria or it's just the place I'm staying because no iota of scarcity here at all

References1:
https://guardian.ng/news/complete-sports-founder-sunny-ojeagbase-passes-away-at-71/?utm_medium=Social&echobox=twitter_post&utm_source=Twitter#Echobox=1646071024-1

Mynd44:
https://twitter.com/akinalabi/status/1498373165088710656?t=QjINiiX2OqG6C1Tkf0L_5w&s=19[/quote]Ugh! *sigh* So Dr. Sunny Obazu-Ojeagbase has passed on at 71.
He was born in Osogbo in today's
Osun State but his parents migrated originally from Edo
hence his fluency in Yoruba just
like other children of Edo migrant worker... Dele Momodu comes to mind here as well.

It's stunning that I won't be seeing the former Nigerian Army soldier and Nigerian Civil War veteran speak live in his soft-spoken voice again.

The SD mags from the 1990s to
the 2000s were a big hit and introduced savvy entrepreneurs
to the first wave of internet business, sales copy, internet and
forum marketing, etc, long before
Web 2.0 and social media came
on stream.

My condolences go to his entire family and staff.

CountVersailles:
The kind of money we lose sha in crypto. Currently losing $24k on one of my portfolios.
$24k wey I fit use do better thing if I had cashed out. But, we move!

CountVersailles:
An article made front page recently claiming to offer reasons why you should quit porn and masturbation. Naturally, I would have read this and just moved on because the arguments are typically stale, offer no new ideas, and always come from a religious viewpoint. But this was a little different, claiming to offer some scientific theories on why porn and masturbation is not good. The problem is that the opinions, for that’s what I should call them, appear grossly retarded and totally unfounded.

1. Boost in your energy level?
According to the author, you should stop masturbation because stopping boosts your energy level. That is just total balderdash. There is no scientific evidence that shows that masturbation causes you to lose energy, nor does staying away from masturbation boost your energy level. Of course, releasing semen may cause partial loss of energy just like any sexual activity does. However, you quickly regain lost energy and can sooner focus on more important tasks. Scientific studies have shown repeatedly that masturbation has zero effect on your energy level.

2. Boost in your confidence and self-esteem?
Again, the typical narrative is that masturbation leads to loss of self-esteem. Totally wrong. If you suffer loss of self-esteem after masturbation, you should probably consider your own views about masturbation rather than the act itself. Because of the conservative background of many Nigerians, it is not untypical for them to immediately feel guilty after masturbation or after any sexual activity for that matter. Sex is still a taboo subject in Nigeria, as is masturbation. But tying your post-nut clarity to extreme guilt is really your own fault. It’s not the fault of the act itself. There are millions of people who are incredibly confident and with huge self-esteem who masturbate daily. You think celebrities and major sportstars don’t masturbate? Think again!

3. You become more attractive and sexy?
Now, this just gets weird. Brighter eyes, deeper masculine voice? Are you nuts? It would help if you cite scientific studies that have shown that brighter eyes and deeper masculine voice results from not masturbating. I just find it extremely hilarious that many Nigerians can just pull conclusions out of their rear because it sounds good to the ears. Masturbating does not make anyone less attractive. Again, a lot of attractive celebrities with deeper voice and brighter eyes masturbate. Didn’t Banky-W confess lately about masturbating? Did he have duller eyes while he was at it? Last I checked, he probably had a lot of women tripping for him even while he was masturbating…

4. You will become more productive and focused?
If you are less productive because you masturbate, then you should probably focus more on your self-motivation as a person instead of on your masturbating act. Lacking self-resolve has nothing to do with masturbation. Many people live lethargically through life and have to be prodded each time to do things beneficial to themselves. Tying their lack of drive to masturbation is just total hogwash. Again, there are countless people who are productive and who masturbate, perhaps even daily. Bill O’Reilly was one of the most productive Fox News host, yet reports came out some years ago that he often talked to women about "sexual fantasies, masturbation and vibrators while sometimes seeming to pleasure himself." Now, that's wrong because he was being a jerk. Nevertheless, his "masturbation" did not stop him from being so productive. Gabriella Union, one of the most productive black American actress, talked about masturbating a lot while growing up. That didn't stop her from achieving her dreams. Many who think like the OP may not never achieve 1/10th what these people have acheived. Yet they think masturbation is their problem. Don’t let anyone deceive you. Work on your motivation, not on your ejaculation.

5. Your sexual social life improves?
If you are lacking quality social life because of masturbation, then ask yourself questions about whether you know how to socialize, not about whether you should be masturbating. No, there is no way stopping masturbating suddenly improves your ability to walk up to women or to want to mingle with strangers. This author just pulled this again out of their rear. Where are your scientific evidences which prove this? There is nothing to suppose that your suddenly become more confident. If you are lacking in confidence, stopping masturbation is not suddenly going to improve that. What will improve that is working on yourself as a person.

Finally, I will add that if you are struggling with guilt after masturbating, then you should stop doing it. Your guilt will probably keep eating at your soul and you will conclude that every thing negative coming to you is because you are a chronic masturbator. But that’s a wrong way to think and no one can help you with that, except maybe a psychologist. If you masturbate healthily, you are even helping your body improve. Science has shown repeatedly that there is nothing wrong with masturbation and that is, in fact, a very healthy activity. But of course, our Nigerian people, being as religious as they are, will always find everything wrong with sexual expression. Strangely though, they find nothing wrong with extreme womanizing.

But seriously, in freer countries, millions of people masturbate and it takes nothing away from their lives or achievements.

NwaAmaikpe:


I've never been a fan of Orubebe, but I will not take this list.

Onyeka Onwenu is conspicuously missing.

Ekwe, Iyogogo, One Love, You and I, Dancing In the Sun, Odenigbo, Ochie Dike and a few of her other works were global world-class masterpieces.

She gave Hugh Masekela, Miriam Makeba, Thione Ballago Seck, Youssou N'Dour and Salif Keita a run for their money and made them look like learners.

So good she was that Almighty Fela wanted to marry her just as exploitation to boost his global music ratings but she turned him down.

Without sentiments, ask yourself this question.
Was Sunny Ade globally reckoned before his duet with Onyeka Onwenu in "Wait for Me"?

If you are unbiased and a true global music critic, you'd understand why I feel that this award is meaningless if Onyeka Onwenu is not on it.

An Afrobeats Hall of Fame without an Onyeka Onwenu and a Sir Shina Peters is worse than an expensive wedding hall without guests.

Till you see my point, argue with my semen.

A001:
Source: https://thenationonlineng.net/fela-king-sunny-ade-others-inducted-into-afrobeats-hall-of-fame/amp/

TheFinance101:
It’s the first week of the month and your salary has finished. Why? If you can’t comprehensively answer that question then this post is for you.

Your salary or income is what most determines your lifestyle. Being able to manage your money effectively can be the difference in how and when you achieve financial freedom. If you are struggling with managing money, here’s how you can build a money routine that will ensure you meet your financial goals.

1. Track your spending
The first step to managing your salary wisely is to know where every cent is going. Keep an eye on how much you’re spending and for what, especially when it comes to personal expenses.

Make use of tracking apps, spreadsheets or even a book and pen if that’s what works for you, but you should be able to account for every penny of your paycheck.

2. Stick to your budget
Budgeting is the baseline of all financial planning. It helps you stay in control of your money and allows you to keep a track of your expenses.

Plan for every expense carefully; whether it’s the 50-30-20 or 70-20-10 budgeting rule you intend to use, make a budget and stick to it.

3. Pay Off Debts
Another step to managing your salary wisely is to include a provision to pay off existing debt on time. It should be a priority when planning your salary.

Debt can be a heavy burden on your personal finances. You should consider paying them off as soon as possible once you start to generate a steady revenue stream.

4. Invest in what works for you
Besides an emergency fund, you should set aside some of your income towards investing for the future. You can start small while you figure out what option works best for you.

Depending on your age and your financial goals, create an investment plan and build a diversified portfolio to secure your future.

5. Treat yourself wisely
It's important to leave room for some of your wants to stay on track. If you don’t, you’ll be discouraged and eventually give into the pressure to splurge unnecessarily.

Just remember to keep it simple. If you want to buy yourself a gift, it should be budgeted for. Planning for your future doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice your happiness in the present.

6. Automate your finances
Putting your money on autopilot is a really great way to successfully stick to your budget and financial goals. You can sign up for automatic debits or set up bill pay with your bank.

Do this for your savings, investments and bill payments to ensure they are paid on time. Make necessary adjustments occasionally to ensure everything is going as planned.

Final Thoughts
The biggest favour you can do yourself is to smartly manage your money once your salary is paid. To live a comfortable life, implement these habits to make it easy for you to manage money.

TheFinance101:
Have you seen The Tinder Swindler on Netflix?

Scammers target people of all backgrounds, ages and income levels across the world. There's no one group of people who are more likely to become a victim of a scam, all of us may be vulnerable to a scam at some time. Here are some money lessons we’ve learned from the documentary: The Tinder Swindler

1. If it looks too good to be true, it probably is
Don’t be fooled by free money offers. Free is good, but always be sceptical. Think it through and do your research thoroughly before you respond in any way. “Give me “N50,000 and I’ll give you N500,000.” Don’t fall for it. They are your enemies!

2. Loans come at a high price
If you use a loan wisely, it can fill a void in your finances but seven-figure loans aren't always the best idea. The interest can be unreasonable and your assets or home could be at risk especially if you cannot make the repayments.

3. Set money boundaries with friends and family
If it's a friend or relative you’re lending money to, there's no guarantee that they'll pay you back. It’s hard to say no to loved ones in need but don’t let someone else's emergency cause you to completely ruin your finances and go into debt.

4. Beware of counterfeit checks
Con artists know how to make their scams look and sound legitimate. Be wary of accepting a check that’s made out for more than was agreed. Question everything especially if you've only ever met the person online or are unsure of their legitimacy.

5. Take your time
Don’t let anyone rush you into making any financial decision you’re not ready for. The high pressure "do it now-or-else" approach is designed to keep you from thinking through the ramifications of your decision. Don’t fall for it.

6. Be alert to the fact that scams exist
When dealing with people you think you know or uninvited contacts from people or businesses, whether it's over the phone, by mail, in person or on a social networking site, always consider the possibility that the approach may be a scam.

Final thoughts
Scammers are getting smarter at taking advantage of your emotions to create believable stories that will convince you to give them your money. When it comes to matters of the heart, there's nothing you can do to guarantee you won't get taken for a ride, but these are some very simple things that can reduce the risk of you ending up in financial ruin.

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Maxymilliano:
You can't really fault the volunteers, all way na way and any avenue to japa from this country is allowed ...

Lanrelagboi:
Says Construction Of Badagry Deep Seaport Will Be Activated In June

•We Are Ready For Development, Traditional Rulers, Host Communities Tell Governor



https://lagosstate.gov.ng/blog/2022/03/01/sanwo-olu-well-deliberately-push-more-development-to-badagry/

Northurmate:
https://dailypost.ng/2022/03/02/dangote-dantata-others-get-new-appointments-in-kano/

Kwanza:
https://twitter.com/ru_rbc/status/1499062791856140302?t=TYe_QVl0Lar6UMSWggwTMw&s=19


https://twitter.com/ru_rbc/status/1499064038713659404?t=0xHEbhE8l3eoRG6IXtgMhQ&s=19[/quote]This B.S. war is all about ego
on both sides TBH!

purples25:
If you have a problem with being listened to whenever you're having a conversation with others, this article is for you. Listed below are reasons why people might just tune out or not take you seriously whenever you talk.

1. YOU ALWAYS INTERRUPT : If you are talking to others and you do not give room for them to succesfully air their views, you butt in while some one is yet to finish a sentence - chances are that the person/people you are always interrupting will feel angry and less inclined to listen to you. Everyone will just keep quiet and ignore you while you say whatever you like, since you are so rude.

2. YOU REPEAT YOURSELF REDUNDANTLY : When expressing yourself, try to monitor what you are saying, so that you can notice quickly if you keep repeating those stories/ideas again and again. Chances are that people will quickly get bored if you continue to say the same thing.

3. NO POSITIVE INPUT: Once others notice you ALWAYS have a negative vibe, they'll move away from you. Try a little positivity.

YourNemesis:
All the tribes that share a long border with Yorubaland.
Edo, Nupe, Fon, Ebira.

elantraceey:
Lol .... I surely get you. But still it's best to pray not to fall into this kind of situation. It really makes life more complicated than it already is.

Bounceboune7:
cos when things go wrong it's easy to manipulate the partner from d other side.

Let me share an experience with u

The lady (yoruba) married a guy from another tribe,they both got married during d guys hustling days so it wasn't as if she married him for money,after they made it the guys family started introducing some bullshit all in d name of "our culture"...they turn the house to their own family house where nephew,cousin,niece n everyone can come n stay without even giving this people privacy.

The man died n they said in their culture the house must b empty to 3 months just to do burial rites,the man's family left d house only for them to come back after 3 months n realise that the house Is filled up even some village people that weren't staying there now have a room, them drag everything n at d end of the day the elders will end it with "our culture"...the woman n her children had to relocate abroad.

Since then i frown at d idea of marrying from another tribe,I prefer to marry from my tribe so if anything happens nobody can play smart on me,we both know d culture n d way

elantraceey:
It's not about being a weakling but this things are more complicated than we see it. Some mothers plays vital roles in the life of their sons and some of them could be very adamant with the type of wife they want for their son and there'll be nothing the man will be able to do to change their minds. The problem here should be the parents and their mindset and a lot of awakening to do because I personally won't happily get married to someone my mum is not happy with, her happiness is too important to me. I'm just glad I'm graced to have understanding parents that won't even question my choice of a partner because they trust my sense of judgement but not everyone has that.

Except the mother miraculously changes her mind and I'm quite certain she's not pretending, I'm not going to marry anyone against their mother's wish no matter the love or anything. I don't have any energy in me for unnecessary drama. Life is already as dramatic as it could be.

obembet:
Dear Mature Nairalander

How will you handle this if gym instructor train your wife this way?

To me, I don't think anything is wrong with it
It's just to make the lady fit and looks more sexy to the husband,

I think Only over jealous husband or boyfriend will see anything wrong here

Haywhysat:
The newly completed Olaiya Flyover @ 1.30am this morning. Oshogbo has one of the best road network in South West. Most part of the city still enjoys atleast 17 hours of light everyday.

#Ilerioluwaleekansi

2Ways:
I'm a gym instructor myself, I don't think I would even let my wife go to a public gym( when I get married). What I have seen is not what I should type here.

donttouchme:
US intelligence agencies make understanding Vladimir Putin's state of mind a top priority


https://edition.cnn.com/2022/03/01/politics/us-intelligence-putin-state-of-mind/index.html

Bumarang:
Am a 29 year old guy living somewhere in lagos state, the issue with me now is that I just noticed that I can't go more than 2days without being intimate(sex), I have literally Bleep£d every girl on my street, all the women in my compound inclusive. At first it was fun, like in 2019 I did not miss a single day without sex, yes! (365 days of 4ucking) with over 100 different girls- but now, it is beginning to register its mark on me physically and mentally. Am bald-headed at 29, barely have any physical strength or muscle mass, my mental capacity is greatly diminished, I feel like a sucked and squeezed orange fruit. Am doing fine financially, given that all my investments and business interests are managed by third-party persons and companies.

It all started when I happened on an app called inmessa**, the capital of hookup(IMO) i was blown away by the sheer number of young girls in my locality that were willing to 4uck for a few bucks! Being a loner and a part-time ideal man, the devil decided to make me a full time workshop. I soon graduated to other more engaging and destructive apps.
Right now as a person I feel empty, and the worst part is that I can't stop. No matter what I achieve or accomplish in respect to finances,I still don't find joy and fulfilment in life.

Every where I go this girls seem to smell the mutherfucker perfume collections on me, I no longer pay for sex, am not handsome, am not friendly, am not loud, showy or social, infact I no more do hookups, but before you say jack Robinson; I have a new girl on my bed. Am tired and exhausted, I feel am wasting away with no hope in the horizon.

This is December 2021, and it just struck me this morning that throughout this year, I haven't gone 48hrs without having sex, I feel enslaved, addicted and hooked. Has anyone experienced a thing like this? I feel the proliferation of social media platforms and their subtle conversation into 'digital brothels' is the driving force of this menace that is swallowing up the young adults like myself.
Please can anyone proffer a solution to my predicament?

Mods please help move this to the front page, I deserve all the insults, condemnations and sarcasm that the general house can offer.

AfricanColumbus:
So in conclusion, you are saying the Igbo language and other Igbo elements in Bonny/Opobo were due to the slave presence there?

stacyadams:
them don ravage this one Toto for 25k per room hotel cos the guy get two cars and sell trucks and his a land lord...mo^s.di.i come and tell her

ngoziwrites:
So, I met this great guy online. After 2 weeks, we met in person and everything was perfect.

It's almost 2 months since we have been together.

He asked me out while we were together and I gladly said yes. (I have met a lot of players�). So while we were together, a discussion popped up and he said he can't discuss anything related to marriage until after 6 months. I pretended not to hear.


I don't know his financial capacity but I know he is doing okay. He controls the family business. They sell trucks, trailers and all. He is also a landlord in one of his father's houses at Festac. We stayed at a hotel. 25k per night. He paid for 2 night and I paid for one night. But during these times, we went to his house.

He said he didn't want me to come to see his place because it's the first time. And he said the house is very hot too.


Our communication is great but he doesn't look like he wants marriage soon. He has said things like marriage is hard work. He has also said in 10 years time, people will hardly be getting married.

Then one night, we were talking and he said I "see my wife as my responsibility"
I will take care of her and of cos, I am okay but I will still be very very rich, so I can't bring in any woman to suffer now" .. That's what I am sure I heard but I was scared to ask him to explain further or repeat himself.

He is actually okay, he has two cars but importantly, he has sense and he is very hard-working. But he is very principled and we have actually had several instances where he doesn't pick my calls at night. It happens often but I am starting to trust him, because sometimes I call by 5am and he picks and says he slept off. Sometimes we would be chatting on WhatsApp and after I call him 20 minutes later, he won't respond. He is not married!

So, I currently earn 450k monthly and I have been able to save something meaningful, so I can start a good business before getting married or after. I haven't stated because I don't know which one yet. I started a restaurant business when I was 23 but it failed.

If I ask him and he says 1 year, of course, I can wait. I will be 26 years next year April.

We will seeing for the 2nd time next week. I plan to ask him when he sees himself getting married but I am scared and the way he carries himself makes me reluctant to ask such.

About two weeks ago, I wanted to even surprise him with gifts. I asked for his account number and office/home address. (He picked me up the last time I traveled to see him, so I don't know the address". Well, he didn't give me these details. He said when it's time I will have them.


Two days ago, he said a friend's younger brother is getting married. He laughed and said people just dey marry. He has once asked me "You dey find husband?" jokingly-

I would like to settle before 27. Is it bad that I am thinking this way? If he says he is looking to get married in 2-3 years, i think it's a bit far. 2023 is still fine. But the problem is he doesn't really sound like marriage is on his mind. He will be 32 next year April too.

We vibe a lot. But he says I love you sparingly. Sometimes I say it and he doesn't respond, he will say tomorrow I will tell u or no, I told u yesterday.

But we are really really cool. I like him a lot and he likes me but I think I like him more. He gives me attention, I don't have to ask.

If I was 23, I won't have a problem waiting 3-4 years. But since I am ready mentally, financially, I am looking for someone who wants it within 6 months to 1 year. I can still try to do 2 years if I get someone great.

HandsomeBlack:
Hmmm.
A rich guy can come from abroad and head straight to marry a semi-educated girl in the village. Same is not true for the ladies. An educated and/or financially independent lady will seldom marry a man who has not attained her level of academic/financial status.
Naturally, she desires to marry a man that is higher than her in status or at least in same status with her. Unfortunately, most African husbands can't stand the guts of a wife that is better than them academically or financially because the later will revolt the traditional headship and control exercised by the former, thereby bruising his ego often.