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Person wey dey cry dey see road o. That your blanket statement addressed to AFRICAN MEN is unnecessary and offensive. You said you came to serve us notice that you’re leaving your husband. Well, good luck. You are angry and you want your pound of flesh. Beautiful. I advise you not to do something that will make even your own parents disown you in court. Crime is different from crime. If anger rules you, you’ll blame yourself. |
gypsey: ![]() Boko haram bullet go disgrace their juju |
Babalawo wey dey wear glasses ![]() Your juju cannot correct simple eye defect. And people will still patronise him. Chai. ![]() |
Vacora:He doesn’t know that this is a big allegation. He is actually accusing the pastor of a CRIME. Timi had better get his evidence ready. |
I hate it when people, like this woman, come online to make light of the plight of depressed people. After all that nonsense, she could have just faced her business. It’s obvious she’s desperate to remain in the spot light and for all the wrong reasons. You cannot threaten anyone with suicide. It’s a dirty move. |
BruncleZuma:Lol, maturity from Saraki? What a joke. Saraki is the king of immaturity. I love the way VP stuck it to him. Saraki is the worst person you need guarding your back. |
Legislooters are our biggest problem in this country! |
![]() Singing:These hôes ain’t loyal |
Now I’m going to be the bad guy. She’ll enjoy me. |
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Let me tell you ladies on this thread, it is not by force to accept a cheating wife back. I believe the man reacted the best way he could. He didn’t kill her. He hasn’t even told her parents yet. He wants his divorce and he is entitled to it. There is a big doubt now that he is the biological father of her children. Let her go and continue collecting preek from young virile men since that’s her mission in life. She even had the effrontery to enjoy the affair. Chai! I’m angry. Make she carry her market go abeg. |
Chubhie:It appears you lack sense. So when someone cheats on you for a reason that’s not even your own fault, you must accept their apology and take them back by force? What did the poor man do to deserve this betrayal? All he did was grow old into his 40s like a normal human being, acting mature and being financially stable. But she chose to be with someone younger and now said husband must be compassionate after such betrayal? You sure you don’t need to have your brain checked? Cos I think you do. |
sisisioge:What?! “Remember he wasn’t so appealing...”? Like that is an excuse for her to just move on? The OP certainly does NOT need friends like this. |
Kingosytex:No, I certainly don’t think so. I believe this is a good start. |
Heffe:Aren’t you the village fool this morning? You must be a fraudster that’s why you are not pleased with this news. Maybe your parents need to lose all their savings to these boys for your small brain to function properly. When you lose your money, come back here to say this nonsense. Abeg swerve enter forest. |
robinicule:Yes, you can start by cutting the branches. So petty thieves should run amok because you want to catch the big thieves? EFCC has done their job. More yahoo boys should be apprehended. Perhaps you don’t know how many of our old people in nigeria have lost their savings to these scam artists. They have started scamming Nigerians too. This is not repatriation of wealth stolen by colonisers. This is stealing money to buy things built by same colonisers, putting the money back in the hands of said colonisers, all for personal (and thus, selfish) reasons. Besides, fraud is fraud. It doesn’t become noble if Africans do it or not. It is still a crime which a whole nation is paying for. |
Kingosytex:A fraudster has been caught and you’re not pleased. Are you a fraudster too? Are you one of the criminals who have given us such a bad reputation that our passports attract unnecessary extra scrutiny at airports around the world? Are you one of the scam artists that make phone calls phishing for bank information? For once the EFCC has apprehended a celebrity who endorses crime. We should give them a round of applause. Daddy showkey is totally wrong on this. I love his music but this here is the wrong message. We should be tired of the “Nigerian prince” scam reputation we have. It’s time to sanitise our home. |
clemz85:Two reasons I can think of. 1, She’s biding her time. When she meets the real man she desires, she’ll leave. 2, She has antisocial tendencies. Hope you didn’t pressure her too much into saying yes. |
The kind of depression that leads to suicide is not what most of you are describing here. You are referring to sadness/disappointment. Clinical depression is a mental health challenge. It is not something you can advise anyone to snap out of. It requires medication and professional counselling sessions. Hope you now see why many of those who eventually commit suicide go ahead despite all the advice and tough love they’ve been receiving. It is not a simple phase that can be overcome by financial success or a beautiful new girlfriend. It is a persistent mental condition. There is a group, active on twitter called Mentally Aware. Contact them if you think your depression is not just deep sadness. And please stop saying suicidal people are mentally weak or they have poor upbringing. That cannot be any further from the truth. One example is Robbin Williams, a rich and successful Hollywood actor. He committed suicide despite having all of the things most of you are praying to get. I also read about a top executive who committed suicide shortly after a trip in his private jet. His business was on the upward trajectory and he had loving family members (as stated in his suicide letter). They still don’t know when he became depressed cos it wasn’t evident at all, at least until they read his suicide note after his demise. Medical help is the way forward for depression. Do not trivialise it by saying hurtful things to those suffering from it. If you think you overcame it on your own without help from a psychiatrist or any knowledgeable person, then what you went through was most probably NOT depression. It was just a phase of sadness. |
Signed in 2010 defaulted in 2013. Facing punitive charges in 2019 under a new administration. This is how people inherit wahala. |
Stingman:Now I’m sure your source of news is Radio Biafra. |
Stingman:You need to stop drinking the kool-aid. Nobody has time to target your people. Don’t be so full of yourself. You would be the first to cry wolf if any news agency reported the presence of portholes on the runway. “FG wants to decimate your lineage and wipe out your nation” BULLSHÏT. Drink water and go and sleep. Stop littering the internet with simplistic concocted stories to fuel your insecurities. |
Xander85:Your bigotry is special. You think people have time to be hating on you. Get off your high horse. My people have a saying. You have been placed on a horse that’s actually a cockroach in reality. Don’t deceive yourself you’re just another ethnic group, nothing more. |
Stingman:Continue looking for enemies where there are none. It’s road/tarmac maintenance. Simple as ABC. |
Long distance love is problematic at best. Sorry sis. You may have to travel to see if your could salvage the situation. Best of luck. |
Stingman:Keep your myopic conspiracy theories yourself. It is just maintenance. Nothing more. Nobody has time to be hating on you or your ethnic group. Rubbish. We can imagine your story if those repairs were not carried out. Kindly keep your fairy tales yourself neega. |
Odingo1:You didn’t read the news. You just decided to write your clannish nonsense as usual. |
Hmmmm dis one will quench the elders. |
kense88:Thanks. |
Young man, on behalf of all men who have been fleeced by ladies, I charge you to chop her money (and her ...) to your satisfaction. Apologise if you need to. But complete this mission. We are solidly behind you.
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If I had never interacted with girls from other countries I would have thought all babes were boring. But true true Naija babes get A1 for boring/dead conversations. Excellent conversation killers. You know why guys end up “interrogating” your áss? Cos you ladies don’t know a conversation is a two-way street. Do your part. Engage a man properly and enjoy his company. He is not a circus animal to perform for and amuse you. If you want humour, go to AY Live. Don’t waste the time of young men. No offence to intelligent ladies who make it worth your while when you chat with them. You are gems. |
