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Goodman247:
it is just Nigerian mentality and culture, women in the Western world go for what they want

It’s weird anywhere in the world for a woman to approach a man. Just like it’s weird to see a female president anywhere in the world. It happens, but scarcely. Some more scarcely than others. All scarce nonetheless

I think LinkedIn is very efficient for only a small margin of career types out of thousands - as was mentioned before.

Other than that, it’s basically a typical social media platform where people can spy on what you have and do academically/professionally. I personally don’t like that.

Here’s a fairly recent company established by a British Nigerian for young black professionals only - without the need for this blended social media experience.

https://byp-network.com/

I attended their virtual annual conference last month and was blown away. They cater to every sector and partner with distinguished global brands, names and directors.

Job wise, they do get a lot of international poachers trying to diversify their talent pool - you know, the push for anti-racism and all.

Plus, unapologetically black .

Fountainofyouth:
I lost a very close aunt, my ex was with me, I was crying deeply, more like wailing, the whole of my face was dripping wet, this dude started petting and kissing my face, he kissed abi licked everything till it was dry, I understand the obsession and the need to make me stop crying, but why the hell will you lick my face? I was disgusted, that was the beggining of a nightmare in the relationship.....

Na wa o..

Davash222:
She's not a cultist, she's just an olosho!

Just as butterfly flies from one place to another, na so she dey fly from one dicck to another.


Run as fast as your tiny legs can carry you.. don't look back.

OP don’t mind them they want to give you hypertension.

There’s been a lot of good testimonials, discussions and campaigns to prevent people from joining cultism.

What about the members that want to say bye to cultism?
The ones that are desperate don’t know a way out or how to get out?
The ones that it crosses their mind sometimes, but find the thought too expensive?

Or the ones that feel like they have nothing left to lose so the thoughts of death, pain and loss mean nothing to them?

Practical methods please, preferably from those who have done it successfully and not spectators/civilians.

What should be done and HOW?
#SayNOtocultism

#SayBYEtocultism

It’s a shame.

Nigeria (or what’s left of it) at 60 years is classified as having the world’s highest rate of extreme poverty,

yet some people still find the time to be tribalistic.

Pitiful.

I had been driving for a very long time but despite windows being wide open, music and etc, My car had switched lanes seriously as I was PROPERLY dozing off.

Thank God it was night time so practically no cars on the road, no police either to have pulled me over. I kuku just came off the motorway(!) and found one carpark to sleep jejely.

I no wan die.

It is clear you have sought various remedies pertaining the mouth area.

I’m surprised that it has not yet been mentioned in this thread apart from what you said about the American doctor and another person said about YouTube - but you need a comprehensive medical check up.

Let’s rule out issues like liver/kidney issues, blood disorders, tonsillitis, acid reflux, and any other possible medical condition that may be the cause.

The sooner the better.

I’m sure that soldier wanted to press and it made him uncomfortable. Rubbish.

Is it a crime to merely exist in Nigeria!?

Maybe bleaching is so rampant because although we hear about all the associated risks, there doesn’t seem to be much practical evidence of it - asides theory.

E.g. people we can see as examples of how bleaching was costly in the end.

Especially with these modernised chemicals/tablets that make everything rhyme.

forexguruu:
to all take cue from op. u dont see him here 24 7 because he is busy with work. mods need to start banning derailing accounts


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEv7DPbqn5U

Wow, so after all the secrecy, oaths and coding, they can still have a carnival parade on the streets. I don’t quite understand.

Or are these the ones that call themselves ‘good’ cultists.

forexguruu:
it is getting hot in malaysia. bagas and ayes.
i swear if i am these country immigration i will make visa so difficult for nigerians. these guys are just exportng cultism to other countries

Reading my mind! I watched a video today where they broke down a man’s gated door and stormed in with machetes.

He jumped off his multi-storey flat balcony to escape!!!!

Na wa o,

God please save this thread and all of us from this Macro matter.

I agree small. It’s not the masterpiece we expected at all, and we KNOW he has it

demolinka:
Exactly man! Could be everything (Diddy, A-listers, chance to work with high profile producers) just came together at the same time, plus the lure of the Grammys. Feel a lil patience coulda given the album more spirit.

okenwaa:
The only agbero track for the album

I was shocked too when he was announcing a new album barely a year later. But maybe it was in response to how he felt not winning a Grammy (he speaks about that a little bit on a track). So rather than going quiet, he now put in double the effort to make him ‘twice as tall’ and be a strong candidate. And this time, he’s linking up with people who have serious global weight. It’s probably why Diddy is saying ‘album of the year’ because that’s the main objective

Me too - what do I know, maybe I don talk pass my self

Budline1:
I've not listened to the album but I feel the album is rushed. Shouldn't he take his time to drop a masterpiece? African giant is still kinda recent, it's an album not a mixtape, but well, what do I know...

Exactly.

Your profession comes before sentiment. So if you can do a referral or escalate it to the appropriate person, do so.

Please do not carry his matter for your head and then chop disciplinary action for misconduct for speaking beyond the purpose of your appointment.

Not sure what your management or patient is like, but in my opinion, don’t be sentimental in your office.

LannisterIMP:
I think you should
Follow/Tow the line and Ethics of your profession.

If it’s not crossing boundaries and talk to your Boss or someone in a higher hierarchy in your Office so you don’t fall into A pit with this Picture you have painted!

Not sure all this judging is helpful madame.

Why not drop some advice or better yet, enquire further?

Graxie:
Why didn't you inform your parents? Why did you keep it to yourself? Are you an orphan? From what I have been reading here, the majority of you guys that we're forced already live a terrible life. You were going to celebrate proceed from fraud. You are mostly rebels.

Yeyenairaland:
That is the Koko

BURNA is pure talent devoid of unnecessary hype

He is the right musical export that is singing music with content


I am tired of hyping soco soco soco soco
Joro joro joro joro


Bend Dan low, shake bum, drink on my head
Rubbish

This album was intended to give him a broader audience which explains why a lot of us feel that the album is not better than African Giant. The sound is very varied from start to finish, with features & references from all over the world and different genres - literally.

But he is a true musical creative and the message in each song is super deep.

Remember, for all the hype beasts, he did say he ‘no be here to sing song wey dey con de make u dance azonto’.

Fav track: ‘Wetin dey sup’.

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I think you are getting it mixed up sis, from what I see, it’s not that anybody is accusing you of being wayward, but the main point is that such a man is very dangerous and should not be underestimated but avoided at all costs.

joliefille:
Psychologists indeed. You analysed someone you have never met, based on one incident shared on nairaland. What do you know about my history aside from what I wrote here? What about my social and family experience?
You simply don't know enough about me to come to that conclusion.
There are still good people who are chaste and have firm control over their body and sexuality.

Ohhh okay thank you for explaining sir.

Truvel:
Female Cults Rarely Cause Chaos Compared 2 Male Cults.

To @saynotocultism and anyone else willing to share and teach, Please, we still haven’t treated the female side of cultism - unless of course it’s completely irrelevant or minute??

It’s important for EVERYONE to learn because even I never knew SHXT. But what I have learnt from this thread has enabled me to identify secret cultist guys I knew (I stress the past tense) or even see their mannerisms afar off and run for my life.

Bollove:
big girl ... U go sha fall noni ... insyd life !!

Fall down for where? japa! WE DE SHINE EYE NOW ;

Kobojunkie:
In my case, training the brain only served to exercabate the condition. I would not recommend stressing the mind even further.

It's not training per say, more self-management.

Woman no go talk because d kin tin we de experience dey serious. No be these 50 shades of GREEN and blue movie scripts.

Him first go guilt trip and emotionally manipulate you. Before u fit comot the trance use better HQ, the rest na history.

OJLion:
Not particularly

The symptoms you described sound like ADD. It’s an attention impairment. It is often more prevalent in childhood. This is not a ‘sickness’ and it can be trained. Drugs (recreational or medicinal) will not have any lasting impact, so please don’t even go there.

RESOLUTION: Try starting with creating lists of the things you want to do in a day. Let the list be in BITESIZE steps. E.g. 1. Make bed
2. Brush teeth
3. Shower
Etc etc.
Let the list also be regimented, so not swaying too much from day to day.
You are giving yourself additional support to connect your day together, pay attention to one matter at a time and keep your brain from becoming hyper sensationalised and unable to decrease brain activity in other areas to complete a task - how we ‘focus’. (this may be causing the fog).

Each time you complete a task, strike it off that list with a satisfying physical action, e.g. scribbling it out, throwing the sticky note in the bin. at the end of the day, you can measure your productivity. your brain will begin to associate completion of tasks with satisfaction.

However, you must commit to the regime daily. Which may need additional motivation.

As for the personality changes,[i][/i] what it appears like to me is that the more aware you become of the ADD issue, the more it impacts your morale and sense of self. Begin a journal of self-discovery to rediscover what makes you YOU and what you LOVE. Just 1 question a day: e.g.

1) Where would you love to go, why?
2) What are the things you are good at?
3) What makes you smile?

As you re-discover yourself, in your daily routine create and commit to time for at least one thing that will make you feel alive.

Please remember, one step at a time

Love

OJLion:
Please someone should help me out. Almost as if i am losing my mind. I've lost friends , girlfriends , business opportunities and much more due to this fog thing. I can't think straight , can't focus , making poor decisions, getting progressively dumber. Like my head is full of cotton. I overthink , but can come to no definite conclusion. I don't even enjoy music anymore. Basically i'm losing all sense of self.I can't play like i used to , talk to people like i used to. Like i'm a different person entirely Can't even recognize my own self. Depression is not too far behind. I do things like i'm on autopilot or i'm remote controlled. I'm not usually aware of what i'm doing and i can't even live in the present. My metal faculties are seriously out of whack.

And i used to be an highly intelligent person. So i'm just scared and frustrated with myself as i'm just getting worse and worse every waking day. Here's a list of what i'm going through

memory problems
lack of mental clarity
poor concentration
inability to focus.


Please is there someone else out of there that has gone through something like this and have conquered it or is there someone that can recommend a psychologist or therapist for me. Thanks in advance.

Hi

You mentioned depression, did you experience any particular sudden / extreme trauma?

I’m on page 26 and I will read *every* single post by fire by force.

In all honesty, I have never really known about cultism til recently, but through this post my eyes have OPENED. That even woman get e own shock me. I never know say d tin deep past!