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If you have set your mind to achieve something and have worked hard to maintain it all these years, why would you jeopardise that for a girl you barely met this morning?

If you are not of the same mentality don’t waste your time and don’t compromise your values. It never pays.

I am extremely alarmed that nobody has paid significant attention to the fact that a man who disfigured and maimed the body of his wife was not only allowed to go scot free, but also serve as a senior SARS officer.

Imagine having this type of savage loose on the streets to deal with civilians? Imagine what he can do with a gun...

Where is the hope

AerialMapper:
Pickin Blenders

omg

This is not a funny matter but that was very ingenious

#9 There’s a bill or regulation for everything. Even owning a TV requires a licence (in UK).

Tenshades:
Not any social anxiety...

It's money anxiety.

Who social epp?

Ay yaa

Tenshades:
Addicted to my smartphone.

I press even while eating.

I take it along to the toilet.

Whenever I abandon my smartphone, I feel I'm missing some very important updates.

It's bad and I find it hard to break free.

Sounds like a social anxiety termed FOMO.
This may help: https://www.thehealthy.com/mental-health/fear-of-missing-out/

poshestmina:
My hair stylist. She practically damaged my edges,was almost balded and when I complained ,she said ' you sef too carry the hair na' .
So I should pay upto 15k for crochet braids and not carry it upto 2 months . That was and will be the last time.

My sister. You are not alone. I have had an experience just like that. The lack of apology was an insult.

The one I had to boycott was still another hairdresser that kept cancelling me last min upanddan. I would even manage her ever increasing prices. She had been doing my hair since I was 6 so familiarity was really doing her.

I know say she shock when I never call her phone again.

Very interesting thread

officialfestus:
yes you did.

Ey yaa. Kilonsele gan, don’t give us half baked account.

I laugh in Swahili. Nigeriaaaaaaaa

Our problem pass prayer.

officialfestus:
3cdays ago my dad which is no longer my dad slapped me and I descended on him,if not for neighbours I'd have gave him a scar to be remembering me...

Did I read this right?

Hotzone:
I tell u, all Nigerian girls are pvssie cheap lazy criminals

Nobody is stopping your shine. Be gay in peace and stop disturbing us.

Ah!

Yamiriflathead:
Double edged sword...
Beggi beggi Feminist...

Go siddown jor. Troll

Yamiriflathead:
Will you shut up? Bloody Feminist..

Nothing even feminist about me nor this topic. Carry your displaced anger to your village pipo.

Nonsense.

In a country where children die of hunger and it doesn’t make national news, lobbying for anything to be state funded (including personal hygiene necessities like this) seems like a pointless debate, in my opinion.

Odobaone:
Condoms and Pads na d same thing ni? Abi female condom no dey?

Nigerians and reasoning sha

They’re both related to sexual health...

Graxie:
Some stories self, very annoying and stupid. I also went to university, why didn't you go to Dean of student affairs, HOD or your parents?

How can some parents send some kids that are not so smart to go far from home in the name of University? What stops them from going from home.

For those reading this guy horrible experience as a fresher, please involve your parents.

It’s as though you are always passing very judgmental comments. We go soon cast you as Judgina abi Judgette ma!

Such a mentality will never allow someone facing such dire issues to reach out to you for help. It also discourages others from speaking up.

So many are coming to this thread silently for help because of mindsets like this in their relations.

Your university experience is not a factory setting, everybody has their own journey.

Don’t look down on anybody. Nobody is too small.

Anaerobi:
Aunty it's culture. stop bending this issue.

I was genuinely asking because I have mixed heritage

Anaerobi:
you have point. but in igbo culture, traditional marriage is to be done in the girls village... because that is where her parents came from... it have many reasons behind it. or else they are tactically withdrawing from their root or trying to reject their own people.... in as much as the world is civlizing, civilization shouldn't after us in everything we do.

Is it the maternal or paternal village of the bride?

Altair25:
I narrated the incident to Joe (my roommate)

Sorry, please note using the same name (Joe) for two characters is confusing.

SimplyFacts:
We are in this together

wa gbayi

abduljabbar4:
1) if you understand that, then why are you complaining? Focus on the cultists that are gradually taking over your home.

2) acting like psychedelics, being rash, stupid, and outrightly ignorant is a distinguishing factor among ipob people so if you showcase any of those traits, it is only natural that I would assume you are one of them.

3) well, from my end, I gave all the fools the response they deserved. GOATandyam is still bleeding but lereinter never mentioned my moniker. Maybe you are actually the one that is blind (both mentally and physically)

Oh just sharrap now

IGoComotYaTeeth:
if its not bad then don't mention it ode olosho

Come and stop me then. Heediot.

My swallow must be on the left and soup on the right.

Its not a bad thing, but its a necessity.

womenareapes:
you are very foolish

UK are know for there bias even towards there colonist!

is UK the only country abroad?

in UK immediately you graduated you will be taking your next plane back to this shithole, if not recently they relax it to 2yrs stay after graduation!

Canada, US and some do exempt Nigeria!

go educated yourself little girl and don't tell me what you don't know if your leg haven't leave your local area government!

You said I lied, I presented facts and now you are saying UK is one country out of many,. You’re boring me now.

Meanwhile, as you self-educate, I advise you go and learn either adequate pidgin or English because your grammar on either side is acutely abysmal

People like you are exactly why this thread was conceived.

LikeAking:
We Nigerian are just naturally negative by nature. The ratio that cant read n write is very small and irrelevant to the graduate population.

We see only the negatives.

Prospective students have to pay and take additional English exams to prove their literacy, even if they have a PhD - all because it’s obtained in Nigeria. Imagine the insult This is happening because we dont know our rights and also love exploitation. The whites have seen us a s magas. Another is reason is because Nigeria is over supplying them with graduate population.

Nigerian grads are very smart and literate, Only a very few grads are on the down side.

The Nigerian man focus too much on minor negativity and not the major positivity.

I’m with you bros.

womenareapes:
na there you lie!

Na people were never traveled out of his local government area dey talk rubbish like this!
Many universities are exempting Nigeria for taking that English exam if you are seeking to further study abroad!

The standard of that English exam in Nigeria is so higher than any other countries seeking that exam because Nigeria use to blast that exam with higher scores so they increase the point standard!

You people will be coming here and be talk rubbish

It costs nothing to educate yourself.

Please see below and stand corrected.

Nonsense.

https://www.gov.uk/student-visa/knowledge-of-english

LikeAking:
How about the majority that can read and write.
Oga stop been negative.

Funny you say that.

The situation is actually so terrible that international universities don’t even consider Nigeria an English speaking country, despite it being our national language .

Prospective students have to pay and take additional English exams to prove their literacy, even if they have a PhD - all because it’s obtained in Nigeria. Imagine the insult.

Where is the hope.

abduljabbar4:
One thing I know is that no one needs to be told whether he is happy or not. Yes, I'm a prisoner. Why are you complaining for me?

Sanity doesn't work with ipobians. The same set of people that organized rallies for Donald Trump; the same set of people that are waiting for Israel to nuke Nigeria; the same set of people that want Nigerians to bow before them and give them the presidency just because they answer "Okoro" if you think your sanity is still intact, then there is even a bigger problem.

1. Nobody is complaining for you, ‘prisoner’. It’s your business how you live your life and relate with politics. Have some self control.

2. This rant you have gone on about IPOB shows that I have entered one chance by entertaining a potential illiterate. You cannot comprehend the simple concept of an alternative argument. What have I, my comment, or this matter got to do with ethnicity / IPOB? What are you gaslighting? If you are looking for militia, NL isn’t your starting point babe .

3. Thread analysis indicated that your efforts are misplaced . When @lereinter descended on you, AS IN YOU PERSONALLY, NOT BUHARI’S REGIME, you couldn’t find his moniker to respond to and ‘send to hell’.
Well here it is incase you are suffering from partial blindness. Go and pick on the ones ready to slit your virtual NL throat.

lereinter:
Ordinary Ibadan to Lagos road that is not on any water body can not be completed morever expansive bridge

May the outcome of your life and generation be as the way buhari is running nigeria. Amen

May the blood of those killed be on you and your generation forever. Amen

TRASH.

abduljabbar4:
God bless Buhari. Go to hell

las las mad pesin fit wear shirt and tie

As for hell, isn’t that where you are now? The mental state of a prisoner violently defending and celebrating the persecutor/oppressor of their children & themselves?

Invitation declined. I’d rather stay sane.