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RomanceMy Wife Earns More Than Me But Doesnt Spend At Home. by Amb1045(op): 11:56am On Jan 29, 2022
Good Morning Guys, this was sent in over the weekend by a middle aged man living in lagos with his wife of 7yrs and 3 chidlren. They are both career parents striving so hard to achieve excellence in their respective fields.

He is government working earning N350K monthly and his wife is a pharmacist earning N450K monthly. He complains that his wife doesn't contribute anything to the running of the home, he pays the tents, children school fees, weekly housekeeping and feeding and and any other sundries. His wife on the other hand prefer to save her money and spend on mostly herself and her family - mom and siblings. The man has complained so much that having to do this all alone makes it impossible to save anything out of this salary and have had several discussions with his wife not avail.

It's as bad as this, if his wife makes any expenditure at home if he is not around, she will expect the money by the door before she CA let him in. Says its her orientation growing up that wives don't pick bills when the husband is still around. This is totally depressing the man.

He wants to know what else to do about this.
RomanceMy Husband Tried Me With His Friend, And I Fell Flat by Amb1045(op): 7:30am On Jan 29, 2022
So Confused, Don't Know What To Do~ Wife Narrates.

There is this man who began chatting with me around April. The man is handsome and with money. He began showering me with nice messages and slowly graduated to gifts.

We hadn't met but finally we met and I liked him more. Slowly we began planning on some romantic out and finally we booked a hotel out of town. I took myself there, weekend daytime. I had lied to my husband am going to visit a cousin of mine who lives there.

We got to the hotel and went to the room. We showered and we got to bed. However just as we began having romance, the door got banged so hard. The man seemed scared but went to open the door.

My husband came inside and found me naked. He told me: now I have proven that you aren't faithful to me. He told me it was all a set up to try me since he has always suspected me that I would cheat given the chance.

The man admitted it was true he was hired to try me. He dressed up and both my husband and him left. I felt so much ashamed I didn't go home but went to my mothers place and haven't told her why am there. The children are with my husband.

How do I solve this one? Am so confused I blame myself though.

Pls everyone should contribute ��
Foreign AffairsMali's Military Leader Have This To Tell The World by Amb1045(op): 7:43pm On Jan 28, 2022
I am aware that am a mortal, I am not perfect. History will judge me one day, but until then all I ask for is your support.

I did not choose this path on my own. She imposed herself on me. God alone knows what He's doing.

I will strive to get to the end, but if I die before reaching our goal, do continue the project without me and lay the groundwork for change with my blood and my flesh.

No sacrifice is so much for this country.

I am not Thomas Sankara, nor Jerry Rawlings. I am Assimi Goïta. Remember me as a reformer not a revolutionary. Remember me as the bearer of hope to the people, the one who came when your blood was shed for your desire for change.
I will go to the end of my mission. I will never betray your trust.

Death doesn't scare me, I saw it every day on the battlefield, it's failure that scares me.

If death marries me on the way to our target, do not mourn me. Don't make my grave a sanctuary. I did what I thought was right for my country. I did it for me but I did it for you too.

I am Assimi, the man who smiles every day with death."African Update
FamilyMy Wife Hates Sex And Prefers I Masturbate by Amb1045(op): 1:19pm On Jan 28, 2022
This was sent IN earlier this week by a married man living in lagos with his wife of about 5yrs and a family of 3 kids.

He complained that his wife has extremely low libido. Infact, he practically begs for sex every night and labours even harder during the act cos the wife never gets wet at all. He has grown so frustrated with this since the wife has advised him to masturbate if that would make him feel better cos she has no interest whatsoever in sex.

He is now thinking that about their miserable sex life as a couple and now thinks that perhaps the wife has a spiritual husband or cheating and really disillusioned with the marriage and turlt needs help.

What do you advise him?
RomanceMy Husband Is Abnormal by Amb1045(op): 2:30pm On Jan 27, 2022
This was sent in from California, USA by a married lady in her early 20's. She joined her hubby who she had been dating for the past 4yrs. It was a dream come true. Living with her hubby in the USA but it wasn't as straight forward as she thought. Her husband is very handsome, an American citizen born and bred in the USA and very rich and successful in his privately owned business.
She noticed that he hardly touched her when they finalized their wedding and she came over from Nigeria. She didn't think much of it until she noticed that for months, her husband doesn't even want to make love to her but instead getting all cuddly with his trained pet Dog.
She kept complaining about sex starvation until she saw what turned her blood cold one night. She woke up to pee but didn't see her hubby in bed. She tip toed to the other room and saw him having sex with the dog. She was disgusted and appalled but he didn't care that he saw her and continued with it until he was done.

She was shocked and expected an explanation afterwards. He just told her that this is America, a free country, where you do whatever makes you happy and that he is into bestiality and has been since adolescence.

She loves him so much and doesn't know what to do at this point cos he says he still wants the marriage and chidlren while keeping his odd sexual trait.

What do you guys think about this? Any advice for her cos this one weak me
RomanceFuture Tears (ekún Òla). So True by Amb1045(op): 3:52pm On Jan 26, 2022
Our boys whom we sent to the universities to study are now living in hotels doing "Yahoo", defrauding people.

They are not studying. They are "sorting". Bribing lecturers to pass.

They only come to campus in convoys once in a while to show off. Guess what?

Some lecturers are even worshipping them.

Our teenage sons are now driving Benz Cars in the university. They are now "happening guys" on campus.

The houses our sons in universities are living in now are flats and duplexes as against the self-contained that we used to know.

Well furnished and so beautiful like the home of some state governors.

Our sons are all married in the university but single at home.

Girls swarm around them... living with them, cooking for them, doing all sorts of things with them and for them.....

These girls are our daughters whom we sent to the universities to study.

They are in every club and hotel in town....they are found in front of exotic cars, fastening seatbelts, taking selfies, recording short videos and moving their tongues and lips like DOGS.

My recent research in Nigerian universities opened my eyes to this current ugly reality. I wept for the future.

These are teenagers, not even adults.
Guess what?

We still see them as children who know nothing.

I don't want to mention names of hotels in IBADAN, LAGOS, IJEBU-ODE, ABEOKUTA, AKURE, EKITI STATE, etc where you will see your sons and daughters. They have been living there for weeks if not months.

They are not going to school. "Who school help?" Don't you get it?

These teenagers— boys and girls are abusing drugs. Not just hemp (igbo) but cocaine, tramadols and other terrible ones.

I had once boarded a vehicle with a young girl in AGO-IWOYE who had some crack (cocaine) in her purse.

For a reason l did not know, the police officer that stopped us for a search didn't search her but searched every other passenger.

On the way, she brought out a drug, gent

By: Prof. Oludare Ogunlana
RomanceMy Wife Is In Love With Bleaching by Amb1045(op): 2:16pm On Jan 26, 2022
This was sent in last week by a married man in Uyo. He is from Akwa Ibom, in his early forties married to an Igbo lady in her 30's. They have been married for 10yrs. According to him, when he saw her years ago she was looking very beautiful and lovely in chocolate complexion, he loved her so much and her complexion dazzled him. They have 3 kids.

Ever since then she has bee fascinated with getting fair and fairer, often spending more than 90% of her salary on different whitening skin care products much to his displeasure. He has kept complaining and urging her to change her lifestyle to no avail.
It became worse over the years as she gradually turned from fair to now white, even way fairer than Bob Risky and she spends way more than N350K monthly to keep up this lifestyle while on a salary of N400K monthly.
He is fed up totally as the wife he married totally neglects her homely duties to the children whilst in pursuit of vain glory of whitening. He wants to know what to do cos he can't take it anymore
RomanceRe: This Is Why YOUR MOTHER Will Most Definitely HATE YOUR WIFE!! (Photos) by Amb1045(m): 2:12pm On Jan 26, 2022
Fact grin huh cool
CultureRe: Ooni Of Ife To Indigenes: Return Home To Develop Your Town by Amb1045(m): 9:11am On Jan 24, 2022
Is Yoruba people really developing Lagos? Or is it igbos that are dominating in generating revenue for the skull miners. Lol
RomanceRe: I Hate Men Who Would Do These Things To A Fellow Man Because Of Pvvssy!! (photo) by Amb1045(m):
Sometimes you act like a simp, because you know the game chop then run away lol. Relationship game can be funny at times. I was reading one post from ubunja about how females gold dig, few minutes later my crush called asking how to sub. That's using style to ask for card with out asking me directly. Lol
RomanceRe: I Hate Men Who Would Do These Things To A Fellow Man Because Of Pvvssy!! (photo) by Amb1045(m): 11:43am On Jan 20, 2022
Stacyomolola:
Woman matter no dey tire u grin grin grin
Redpiller indeed
Somehow all ur content are always related to female gender
Rest in jesus name undecided
getat abeg. Mugu cool grin tongue
RomanceRe: Have You Had A Girlfriend With Overstretched Pvssy by Amb1045(m):
Imaging working hard and cracking brain to get a girl, it turns out her Toto get fish smell come wide join am after all effort. Men dee suffer. Lol God help us, reason why married men no dee use eyes see young ladies.
PhonesRe: Data Usage: How I'm "Managing" My Internet Cost Now by Amb1045(m): 11:14pm On Jan 19, 2022
Sphinxvally:
Well, I sub 3k on Airtel.
20 GB + another 3GB extra or so.

It serves the purpose personally.
the data dee last and which airtel platform.
RomanceRe: Have You Had A Girlfriend With Overstretched Pvssy by Amb1045(m): 6:19pm On Jan 18, 2022
LIVINGICON:
I would not call it overstretched pussy per say. But there is one experience i will not forget. I wanted to get down with a lady, she has a petite stature and very reserved. I became afraid, i had to buy ky gel just to make sure i didn't bruise her. But i was very wrong, after much pre-intimacy, i say make i slide my stuff in, naso the thing just enter, i was shocked shocked shocked. I looked at her again, penis wey be say, big sized ladies dey struggle to collect. Ever since then I don't judge pussy by body size.

CrimeRe: Na The Society Cause Make People Enter Yahoo by Amb1045(m): 3:52pm On Jan 17, 2022
Jameszinchenkov:
Apart from them allowing politicians to put us in the place we are now, these same people are still the ones that pushed the youths into yahoo. Let me use me and my childhood friend as a case study.
When we were young me and my bro where among the humblest kids in the area, we assist elders and our mates without anything attached. I remember us picking a squeezed 5k on the road but we traced for almost four hours till we found the owner looking for it and gave him. There was this event that happened my bro went to buy mtn card for his mother 200# but they mistakenly gave him 500# without checking it he went to give it to his mum. When he gave and he learnt it was 500# he asked her to give him to return it but instead she started to abuse him that he is a mumu he is not sharp he is a bastard and so on. My friend later went to the vendor and explained what happened. Sadly his mother and father later hearD about it and physically and emotionally finish him that’s he is not sharp .
Due to humbleness we were always seen as mumu by friends and not smart by parents fast forward to the yahoo rebirth in 2015 my cousin a yahoo boy renovated his family house and gave them a grand child
It was hell for me because any small thing them go compare us talk say no be your mate.
Last year I went for my Nysc thumbprinting in Abj, I was oppressed beyond measured it seems I have been left behind
Almost all the boys using iPhone 13 and car
Some rich people children that schooled abroad will come and be fluenting their trip to London and so, drivers waiting for them.
I felt hopeless there.
So the main point wey I wan talk be say I no blame all these boys wey Dey do yahoo, dem no wan repeat the cycle of poverty on their next generation. Imagine as I finish Nysc I don look for work tire I no see I have to start my poultry and teaching( 12k ) per month. How I wan Dey survive talk more of starting a family and repeating the cycle of porverty.
At 29years person never enter relationship before why my yahoo cousin(my junior) don even get two children for hin flat for River park estate Abuja.
My fellow guys abeg do wetin you fit do to get your family of the street make poverty no repeat himself abeg. Las las make we make an easy for our children .God bless una
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you're right my man. Na poverty we dee fight. Our politicians are yahoo too dee are defrauding innocent masses still yet no consequences. Guy if you get update show me. To do better person done tired me
RomanceRe: My Wife Doesn't Want To Work Or Do Business by Amb1045(op): 11:16am On Jan 15, 2022
Animegirl:
I checked most of your posted thread, you talk more on what ladies do to men.

I know, this is another thread to make poverty stricken redpillers to say shii about women again.

I tell you, no woman would want to sit down at home doing nothing unless her husband told her. Don't you know taking care of home is another job on its own? You men go to work just to bring money and still forget huge responsibilities you place on your wife. How can your wife go to work and come back to cater for the family? You want to give your wife 350k? When things are expensive, including transportation and I'm sure your friend would expect million as returns. You men don't have conscience.
don't use my past thread to conclude that I'm a redpiller. Things are really happening
RomanceRe: My Wife And Her Identical Twin Sister Are Truly Evil by Amb1045(op): 11:10am On Jan 15, 2022
[quote author=youngblaq post=109386372][/quote]to keep your body and soul together
Jobs/VacanciesMy Weirdest Job Hunting Experience by Amb1045(op): 10:47am On Jan 15, 2022
As a job seeker, I recall one weird experience I had at a pentecostal church back in 2010. I had just returned to Nigeria from my Masters course in the UK and was eager to get a job. I had a relative who knew someone in lagos state govt at the time. He was the commissioner of finance for Lagos state govt at the time. It was hard for him to book a meeting with him. So eventually after 2 months, he finally secured a meeting with him and it was gonna be a Sunday after the service.

I was Catholic and didn't attend pentecostal services so after I attended the morning Mass, I timed my arrival to coincide with the dismissal of the service. So I waited for him. It took quite sometime to get his attention cos there was a lot of people that wanted his attention after the service. When it got to my turn to see him, I was instantly thrown off by his first question '' Young man do you attend RCCG? 'I told him the truth, Sir I am Catholic and so No I don't , he then said then I either start attending the church or else there is nothing he can do for me.

I was so shocked. The man wasn' t even interested in what course I studied, what grades I finished with or my work experience. His primary focus was my place of worship. I told him '' Okay sir Thanks but I can't attend your church because I need a job''. Then he said he was done with me. And as I left I shook my head in disbelief why the country had deteriorated to the point of church politics.

I never met the man again or even bothered contacting him again. I just kept applying for jobs and weeks later, I landed a job at Ikoyi. Man nor be God las las. And that would be my first out of the few jobs I held in lagos before I became effectively self employed in 2015. But that experience never left my mind, some people dey mean sha.

Moral lesson — As you dey look for connect do that job, don't forget to keep looking, applying, believe In your self, people still get jobs in this country without knowing anyone at all. Just have a positive mind set and keep going. You shall land a job of your dreams. Best of luck!
RomanceRe: My Wife Doesn't Want To Work Or Do Business by Amb1045(op): 10:33am On Jan 15, 2022
A lot of things are happening this days
RomanceMy Wife Doesn't Want To Work Or Do Business by Amb1045(op): 10:19am On Jan 15, 2022
This was sent over the weekend by a young man living in lagos. They have been married for 3yrs with 2 children. The problem he is having with the wife is that she doesn't want to do anything with her life. She is a graduate with a 2:1,he has gotten her several interviews for job appointment but she doesn't attend, she says she doesn't want to stress herself, that she is okay with staying at home and getting the monthly stipend of N20K.

The young man is struggling to cater to the financial needs of the family and is wiling set her up in business with N350K but she rejected it and said that if she is to do business, he has to raise N5m for her to start it on a big scale and this young man doesn't have that. All his entreaties has fallen on deaf ears including pleading with her parents to prevail on her but no way. She says it's N5M or no business. Okay which business does she want to do? She said it's when she sees the N5M that she will think about it and how to go about it.

This young man is really frustrated that his wife isn't helping matters and to add salt to injury his office has started owing salaries and the family is really struggling now.

He writes with serious anger and pains that his wife is causing him as a result of this. I want you all to advice him, he will be reading the comments
CrimeHe Was Not Born Blind, His Wife Did This To Him by Amb1045(op): 7:53am On Jan 15, 2022
This is Inspector Dan Matakaya, a 31 year old police officer. Mr Dan was not born with this frightening appearance. What you see is the result of a normal argument he had with his wife.

One day, Dan and his wife had an argument about a house issue. He says it seemed a normal argument like any married couple and later left for work. He had a night shift so he came back home in the morning around 05:30 hours and went straight to the bed to have some sleep.

This is the moment his wife chose to come and pour acid solution on his face. Then she ran away. But it was not enough for her to spoil his face, she also acted horribly so that he couldn't escape the bedroom. She had poured water on the floor and connected it to electricity then locked the door.

As soon as Dan stepped on the floor, he was electrocuted and fainted. Neighbour who had heard him shouting for help forced themselves in his house and opened the door to his room, switched off electricity and rushed him to the hospital.

He had screamed so loud for help before his neighbors came and found him in his despair. They rushed him to hospital and luckily his life was saved, but unfortunately not his eyes. Inspector Dan permanently lost his sight and now completely blind.

His wife was arrested, then released later on bail. He says he forgave her but he is not going to abandon the charges against her. He only met her at the court and all she said was that she doesn't know why she did what she did.

This is how a random conversation with a simple disagreement can lead to tragedy. He adds that every single day he lives is a struggle.

All because someone could not manage her anger and emotions. Inspector Dan is just one of the many men that have suffered extreme domestic violence at the hands of evil wives. So sad.

RomanceMy Wife And Her Identical Twin Sister Are Truly Evil by Amb1045(op): 7:46am On Jan 15, 2022
This really got my attention due to the weird nature of the tale. It was sent in by middle aged man, in his 40's based in Enugu state with his wife who has an Identical sister, also living in Enugu with her husband. They have been married for 12yrs now. He is visibly shaken by the events of late that left him reeling and thinking of what next to do. He said that even Ever since their dating period he has noticed the intense rivalry and love between the two sisters. He says that the cycle of their love hate relationship is so complicated to understand so most times people don't usually interfere in their affairs. Na dem dey sort am demselves not even their parents. They love and hate each other so much. And they look so alike that you can NOT easily tell them apart.

After like 3yrs of trying for a baby, his wife approached the twin sister to help her conceive and have a baby thru her husband and since they are very very identical, they would easily pull this off without any of their spouses ever knowing. She was gonna live with her husband for 9 months after taking IN and then once she puts to bed she can return to her husband and she would be living with the sister's husband and possibly take in too and do same.

And so they put the plan to work. His wife twin sister came over to his place and started pretending to be his wife. They made love as they usually did and she got pregnant and gave birth to twin boys. But he did say he noticed some odd behaviours during the 9 months his wife's twin sister lived with him and acted like his wife but he put it down to pregnany hormones. Meanwhile his own wife was with her Twin sister's hubby also having sex with him but they were unable to conceive.

He didn't know all this till last year December cos there is serious matter on ground now, his wife's twin sister wants to take the baby twins back NOW cos she has been ill at the hospital and was told by the doctors that her womb was badly affected so she cant have a baby. Now she has thrown the lid off the plan she concocted with her twin sister years ago and the whole family is in turmoil. The parents are fuming , the brother in law is threatening fire and brimstone, He feels so devastated that he was used and betrayed like this and wants to walk out of the marriage. He is seeking for advice on what to do next? So what is your advice for this young man ?
CrimeRe: Please Beware Of This Scammer (picx Attached) by Amb1045(m): 9:13pm On Jan 14, 2022
Post him on rant facebook group thousands of people will call him to refund your money
Nairaland GeneralBig Black Snake In The Room by Amb1045(op): 10:03pm On Jan 08, 2022
Big black snake in the room

I was in my room last night when my neighbour
started screaming... "Help! Help! Snake ooo! huh

I ran to her room with a strong wood in my hand.
When I dashed into her room, I saw a very big snake facing my neighbour inside her
sitting room and other neighbours joined me with their heavy sticks.

We all started shouting, "Today is the end of your life, you evil snake!". I wanted to be a hero that night, so I first of all ran to the snake to hit it with my wood. It turned and faced us with red
eyes. Then, I said if I count 1 to 3, we should hit the snake at once which we all agreed. I started counting, 1...2....3 go! Then, Peeeeeeeem! NEPA seized the light and deep darkness covered the room. grin

Omo come and see stamped in the room,� the worst part was that non of us remembered where the door was located. My neighbors and I were just jumping haphazardly like reggae dancers on stage because we didn't know whether the snake was close by. Some people climbed chairs while some climbed the center table. Me I found myself on top of the fridge. We were just hitting one another with our sticks thinking it was the snake!� If somebody mistakenly touch another person a heavy wood will hit the person with immediate alacrity.���

As I was standing on the fridge, few seconds later something soft touched my ankle!� Omo I didn't waste time in hitting the thing with my big stick! Immediately I heard cry in the room� Somebody was shouting "Jesus! My head oo! Who hit me?" It was then I realized that I had hit a human being.� I moved blindly forward to console the person then I mistakenly fell from the fridge and my hand touched something that looked like somebody's kneel! Almost immediately a heavy wood landed on my hand� I shouted "Blood of God who hit me" Papa Emeka shouted "Jesus Alex no vex na me, I think say na the snake touch me.���

Few seconds later Nepa restored power supply and everywhere became bright again. I looked up and saw papa David hanging on the ceiling fan.���

To cut the story short,
we were able to k ill the snake, but everyone left the room quietly with swollen body parts! ��

Did I put smile on your face ?? Cause Dem don batter my own face with iron rod �..
Abeg laugh it out, stress, worries, depression etc.
Compliments of the season to you.

#copied
Happy new year �
SportsRe: ❌real Madrid Are No Longer Interested In Signing Chelsea Centre-back Rudiger by Amb1045(m): 7:30pm On Jan 06, 2022
Nice one very stupid act from him
FamilyRe: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by Amb1045(m):
Small case, lol use your phone browse how to block bank transfer of a stolen phone number blocked am, the only way he can assess the phone na to go bank. Use your phone number block am
CrimeRe: Timothy Adegoke's Autopsy Report Is Out! by Amb1045(m): 6:23am On Dec 09, 2021
Blood of an innocent soul you killed will surely hold you ramson either in this life or next.
CrimeRe: White Lady Cries After Being Scammed By A Fraudster. Photos, Videos. by Amb1045(m):
grin shocked undecided
ComputersRe: Please Help Me: My Laptop Is Zapping My Data by Amb1045(m): 11:19pm On Dec 06, 2021
MTN no dee even help matter
CelebritiesRe: “is That Hips Or Bone” – Nigerians React To James Brown’s New Sexy Photos (SEE) by Amb1045(m): 8:02pm On Dec 06, 2021
afonjas showing what they are good in. � grin grin cool tongue
BusinessRe: Facebook Account Needed by Amb1045(m): 8:17pm On Dec 04, 2021
funkmrflexx:
Hit me up
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on Watsap sheey
BusinessRe: Facebook Account Needed by Amb1045(m): 5:40pm On Dec 04, 2021
funkmrflexx:
I'm using It to run fb ads so you'll still have access to it.
How much
3k

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