₦airaland Forum

Jazmiynne:
Whatever you do, don't give out of a heart that intends to "trap him" into commitment on the basis of your "sacrifices" (you can watch Acrimony to confirm how that turns out).

I like your analysis

donstan18:
When it comes to their turn to help a man financially, they'll remember [What if, What about, Sacrifice, Risky, Should I, Shall I, Shall we, Shall should, Shall us, Shall him, Shall she, Shall shim]

He helped your business stood its ground without asking if the risk was worth doing for a girlfriend, and here you are, calculating and warring the gravity of his sacrifice and the one he's asking of you. Sacrifice is sacrifice. Do it if you want, and if you don't, then get the hell out of his life.

Sex must not be the only thing you offer a man without seeking advice.

There are several cases of Men who gave their life-savings for a girl education and eventually got disappointed at the end of the day. They become bitter and some do crazy things including murder. So this is not an issue of relationship but business. Do not give what you cannot afford to lose.

Give him 350k tops and see what he does with it. Do not part with your life savings. It wont end well if he could not pay back as you will lose both ways and become bitter. Do your best but don't kill yourself.

odinga1of:
Madam Good afternoon, plz tomorrow is Saturday where can I see quality "first class grade" market in Port Harcourt?

Note: I wan buy sell oooo. cos that the business I do in Warri.

I don't know about Saturday. Why not visit Oil mill market on Wednesday and ask the Ok sellers how you can get bulk wears at good prices. Sorry for the late response.

Thank you @ OP

GavelSlam:
The income of you and your extended family is not as much as I make monthly.

Not boasting.

Please can i send my account number Sir.

My sister i bless God for you. I tap into your blessings,just the two boys God abeg is enough for me.

On the other hand Never you leave your job without a better alternative means of income. You wronged him and i see your husband as a vengeance seeking man that may deal with you if you are fully financial dependent on him. You can get a medical personnel to talk to your husband about this issue. You can also continue with treatment if he wants more children. Peace

Its an open secret that the North are the most enlighten politically since the advent of Nigeria. The South need political education to throw away the 'it no concern me attitude'. In the North 95% of eligible voters have PVCs but in the South i put it at 55%. Lets not even talk of non eligible/underage voters sef.

kowalsky:
One thing you don't realize is that the colaspe of the health care system has nothing to do with the medical profession.

Rather it is complicit of the wanton socio economic decay obtainable in virtually every of fragment of Nigeria's quasi professional public service.

Nigeria's health care system is grossly malnourished. The best Nigerian health care staffs trained in Nigeria do not practice in Nigeria. They seek greener pastures (which they almost always find elsewhere abroad)

The 'leftover' medical professionals are probably the most poorly paid practitioners among their peers internationally, when you consider standing economic situations. But even more importantly, the health sector itself (hospitals, equipments, organization) is in a rot.

Nigerian doctors work with the most archaic of tools. Hospital supplies are short and the ratio of medical professionals to patients is mind boggingly stretched.

If you want to see health care how it's supposed to be done by contrastingly prolific doctors (who are the same unsurprisingly non-chalant and seemingly unskilled workers in public hospitals) visit a well funded private clinic.

The last time i checked Nigeria Hospitals are run by Medical Professionals. When people do not take responsibility and keep shifting blames,solutions will not come. Doctors are the head of Health institutions and should be in the front row to fight to keep them alive. CMDs of these hospitals are they left overs medical professionals

RedAlert08:
Oga, it is not about funding healthcare, it's simply about attitude towards work in govt establishments. If you like spend gazillion dollars in the health sector, with lackadaisical attitude as narrated by the OP, there won't be positive result.

True. My mum was sick and was rushed to emergency clinic of NAUTH some time last month. I never knew we still have wonderful Health professionals in Nigeria. God bless NAUTH.

Congratulations. I tap into your joy and blessing

I thank God with you

Pedophiles everywhere

From the thread majority of the culprit so far are relatives and house helps. This is a lesson for all parents

Kimcutie:
Females think is only them that's molested.

I'm female but i don't think so. This happened to one boy when we were growing up, their maid was molesting him and he spoke up. Even females molest other female children too,it happened to me but i never spoke up.

One boy from my villa was on his way to take food to his mother in the hospital when he was arrested by police raiding kidnappers. He spent 3 months in prison. God save us from evil

Sad way to go RIP Jenny and Collins

bukatyne:
God turned men to sacrificial lamb?

This is getting interesting.

It's a question because people tend to read one part and forgot the other. A directive on relationship between Christ and the Church and by extension how Christian households should be run was given. It was no plan to enslaved anyone. It's my view that what was asked of the men is even tougher than that of the women. People are not interested in the bare word of God instead to use it to promote or support their ideologies.

Please people stop picking just a part of the Bible,read it as a whole. So what did God do to men here? Turn them to sacrificial lamp?

Ephesians 5:22-33 New International Version (NIV)
22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body.

henry49:
I'm from Imo state. I don't like girls from Anambra. Majority of them are graduates who cannot spell their names!

Swerve biko. I'm sure Imo girls only speak and write queens English. Nekwa akuko.

This is what we need.Improving the health of Nigerians.

Ngige my nwadi,i'm truly disappointed for this your statement. Buhari @75 uses the fund meant for the people's health to get the best medical care in the world. Let him use the Nigerian healthcare system the 80% are using lets see how healthy he will become. Also someone sitting straight for 8 hours without break and stretches is very unhealthy.

I agree with you.

Akuko ikoja

noobody:
Better come buy xiaomi

Lol. How much? Just send me a text okay

noobody:
Time to order you a new phone

Sms in a bit

Show time!!! Still waiting for your text. Please place my order and use aliexpress standard shipping

I keep you and your mum in my prayers. I will send my widows mite when i have. It's well bro,i commend your effort.

noobody:
Time to order you a new phone

Sms in a bit

noobody:
I would send you a msg on whatsapp now boss lady,

Cheers

My phone packed up pls send me an sms