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2yrs,6months and still counting,it gets better by the day and I m grateful to God. I'm happily married to my soulmate. We do everything together and it is so sweet. That's major reason I campaign for marriage. We had a lot of learning,understanding,forgiveness and sacrifices to do at the beginning. We also had God as a Third Person and His word was our strong tower during our challenging days. They say Marriage is for the brave but I think the singles are more brave because I can't imagine myself being single again.

Ex 23:26@uchesa Remind God his words everyday.

Recommendation is okay but you have to do your home work very well. Don't be in a hurry. However it's better for you to find a wife where you live to avoid stories that touch. There are great Nigerian girls over there.

God be praised. There should be a reality show for inspiration stories like this.

blakky97:
wise words. does it mean all single and searching ladies in their late 30s are responsible for their predicament? a lady may have dated 3 guys beginning from when she was 21. first guy for 5 years, he disappointed, second for 8 years. he cheated. and third for 4 years, he boasts, insults, and lacks manners generally. she does not love him. where lies her fault?

Dear,I believe that God has a plan for every one. Some will meet their partner in their twenties,thirties,forties etc. A bad relationship today means you found another way to know better person. However there are some relationships mistakes egs;dating only your age mates,dating for long without definition,dating in secret,dating only hooked people,waiting for a man thrown down from heaven . There is also ladies who are so focused,a friend of mine refused to consider marriage till she gets a good job and 8yrs after graduation,she's yet to get to good job,I can count about 10men my younger sister for flimsy reasons turned down that are now married. I remember one the was rejected for having big lips and now we fast and pray for her. Bro,my advice is out of experience. For those who are not so lucky;pray and look out for people who are serious to settle down. Where I come from family and friends still recommend potential partners so assess those options too. No everyone will have the magnetic love story.

Barywhyte:
one of who? Am serious no joke

Ok if you're for real,I will get to know you first because she's so hurt right now. You Pm me.

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FxDuke:
madam could you please shed more light on the dupe part.....i dont clearly get your story. as for your friend are you jealous that your friend is about to taste and experience marriage people often regard as a sweet thing with right partner? there is gawd ooo!.




@everyone, what qualifies one to be the

I don't understand what u mean by this paragraph,how can I be jealous of her. I was very angry on the dupe,I still feel like squeezing the neck of the guy that did that to her. She doesn't earn much and some took her one year savings including 80% salary advance for Dec.

Barywhyte:
Hey, can u introduce her to me please?

Naaaa,are u one of them too?

blakky97:
by your statement "dont wait for so long" you mean what exactly? what does a woman really do to get married? toast? or agree to her toasters whether or not they intend to settle down? 90% men out there just want to get down with you if they're not wealthy enough to head a family. and then the wealthy and successful ones have been taken. so?

There are people who focus so much on career or set unrealist targets for a man they'll like to marry,yet they know that they will not be fulfilled without getting married. If one doesn't want to marry or care less about marriage that's another issue altogether. You are not a lady and may not know that there is a time in a girl's life that she get a lot of marriage proposals and that is usually a good time to choose.

Good luck bro. For those who desire to get married,pray to God for a suitable partner and hold on to the right person when he/she comes along. The truth remains that at as age increases,it is more tough for ladies,so don't wait for so long. The pressure you will put on yourself alone is huge not to talk of the one from ur family and friends. A friend of mine just got duped in the name of love. A beautiful lady that many men were dying for some years back. She was a good preacher against desperation and I still couldn't believe it caught her.

Aufbauh:
This implies that ethnic group within the Nigerian state can only achieve secession through legislative processes and not by underhand tactics or smear campaign nor protest.
Anything otherwise legislative process is null, void, inconsistent, immoral and unconstitutional which is sinful in the eyes of the law .
The United Nation charter on the right to self determination is a secondary document which is subjective to any sovereign state. For instance the right to affordable housing is an inalienable right of any individual in a country according to the UN promulgation of 1914, but does this right enforceable in all sovereign state,? NO!
So it is advisable and instructive that the agitation be channel through the proper way of legislative processes through biafran representatives in NASS. The other deadly and monstrous way to achieve secession is WAR and that will amount to stumbling twice against the same stone.

Thank you for this lovely post. I have been called chicken heart so many times by my brothers. My ten year old son will not fight the same war my dad fought long before he met my mum. God forbid evil. Why shed ur blood twice if there is a better means. Form a political party that will champion the cause. Vote out all present govt leaders from the zone with the support of the people. Then have your ideas presented. It will take a while but the longer u are in power the better. A lot of talks on Catalonia but Biafrans never cared to know the details of what they are doing. I wonder what we did to APGA,that was a political tool by our warlord yet we are letting it die. People keep hoping on UN this and that,the UN is an organization to trust at ur own peril. They work with interest of powerful members. As for NK case,I knew the Federal govt was up to something,this has been their old tactics.

AABeauty:
And there are younger, married ladies who are still lonely and miserable.

My post is about ladies who really want to get married and have a family but out of ignorance are wasting good opportunities today and tomorrow will blame themselves or God. It is not compulsory to marry,there are single and happy ladies. Just like there are married and unhappy.

I'm Happy for this beautiful sister and her man,this is one a miracle. However to younger ladies out there just know that because this woman was blessed in her fifties does not mean that it's for you. Everybody's destiny is different. There are lonely frustrated single ladies of her age who wished that they considered marriage earlier. So if you really want to get married,consider it while you are younger,the best time to eat a fruit is when it's ripe and fresh. If you destroy /ignore God's plan for you now,you may not get a miracle like this sister.

He spent 600m of our money on this instead of putting food on the table of his workers. Then he doesn't know what Christmas is all about and shouldn't be celebrating it. Jesus is the reason for the season,so will the Lord want;decorations or happy families?

@Cramjones I need that money more than the winner ooo

I feel sad about your story. Pls make sure u see a good specialist (Gastro)for the HPV. There are some drugs that have high positive outcome on them even though they are very expensive. Good luck

God is not man that He should lie or son of man that He should repent,has He said and not do Num(23:19). I am here after a long while to give honor to whom honor is due and to return All Glory to God who never fails. With God All things are possible. Medicine and doctors has gone very far and I respect them but God has the final say over my life. I got my BFP. It can only be God.

You may ask what I did differently,so this is basically it. I just got tired of ttc and took a break. One sweet sister here was always asking after me(I can't remember her moniker now). I even stopped going to the hospital. My mom was very upset with me because of that. I just told myself that only God can solve my issue since they keep jumping from one to another. I started studying God's word more. We did family deliverance. I'm a Catholic so I met one Rev Fr who gave me meditations and prayers. Got my miracle 3weeks into the prayer. Even my doctor was amazed. I was taking vitex (thanks to mumihaja) my hus was on butcher-broom and horsechestnut after doctors said he has to do surgery to raise his count.

Well when the children are growing up most daddies have no emotional connection to them. They are only care about providing money which is very important but means little to youngsters. Most men spend less time with their family and their only discussion is about school in a scolding manner. Men who spend their spare time with their children do get remembered. I remember a late uncle that spent quality time with us while we're growing up,he know me more than my dad and I do get him gifts even as a student.

Eyah I didn't see this coming. Thought they will stick with him blc of Champions league

Well if that lady is really very smart,then she knows how,when & where to stoop to conquer.

To get a new financial breakthrough

Even with IVF, it is only God that made it possible. To his name be all the glory.

Miami11:
I think people should keep in laws at arm lenths,

Some sister in laws are worse extension of mother in laws,( not saying your sister is bad)

Your wife should hire house help to help with the baby, family especially in laws always end up with some drama

Inlaws are this and that as if we all are not in laws. You are a daughter in law in your husbands family and a sister in law in ur own family. The problem is that we women keep hating each other. Men hardly have this kind of problem. This wife is over working a little girl and your are judging the wrong person just because she is an inlaw. So when she gets a maid let her overwork her and not send her to school because she is not human?

Congrats ,God is great

She got pregnant and he's cheating,all are betrayals. I find it hard to believe that he even requested for an abortion. She failed in their agreement but his reactions are unbelievable. I pray God remember ttcers,families that really need these babies. People who got things on a platter of gold most times place no value.

God bless Anita and Paul for this. Wishing the boy full recovery

miraclebaby:
. @Amhappy pls show face. I need update ooh. Any headway?

Nne thanks for asking of me ooo. God is faithful and I'm believing Him to perfect everything and I will testify soon. I bought DH horsechestnut supplement and butcher broom after they said varicose vein dey worry their enemy.

My mum is a retired nurse and two of my sisters are also healthcare professionals so I kind of understand the Op view. However good nurses and doctors in Nigeria should continue to do their best to saves lives. However this does not rule out that their are evil ones out their who outrightly have no regard for human life. There is a case at a private hospital in Enugu right now where a trained doctor removed oxygen mask from a patient to save another patient he deemed more important instead of referring out the new patient since equipment was not adequate. And the first patient was left to die. I blamed the govt for all these. If hospitals and professional are not well regulated and necessary funding not provided things may not change. Also awareness should be created for mega rich Nigerians and companies to invest in the Heath sector. A lot of funds is thrown into entertainment and maybe sports these are good but are not as important as basic things like health.

I have a 35yr old friend who is still a virgin. It is a good thing for single ladies to wait till marriage. However that will only be possible if single guys are willing to do same. Because na the guys dey disvirgin the girls. Now every boyfriend demand intimacy and ladies who say no get jilted and are tagged unserious in the relationship. And the guy move to the next girl who is willing. This put a lot of girls under pressure. Had a counseling session with single sisters in the church and this was their number one worry.

I have a 35yr old friend who is still a virgin. It is a good thing for single ladies to wait till marriage. However that will only be possible if single guys are willing to do same. Because na the guys dey disvirgin the girls. Now every boyfriend demand intimacy and ladies who say no get jilted and are tagged unserious in the relationship. And the guy move to the next girl who is willing. This put a lot of girls under pressure. Had a counseling session with single sisters in the church and this was their number one worry.

To God be the glory. Even if it was through ivf ,only God can make it possible because there is large failure rate for ivf.

Not interested in these corruption charges. This man should be charged for the death of innocent job seekers including an unborn baby.