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Family › A Mother by Amopeekun(op): 7:02am On Jun 20, 2020

I am a mother...
I love my children,
I provide a safe haven for them,
I protect them,
I am always their comfort, come rain or sunshine.
AM I A MOTHER TO JUST MY CHILDREN?

No, I didn't birth these other children but I am a mother!
No, I can't love them all but I am a mother!

However, I CAN PROTECT THEM ALL.
I can be a GOOD ROLE MODEL,
BE THE BEST TEACHER,
THE BEST CHEF,
THE BEST PREACHER,
THE BEST DOCTOR,
THE BEST ENGINEER,
THE BEST NURSE,
THE BEST BANKER,
THE BEST ADMINISTRATOR,
THE BEST HOUSE KEEPER,
THE BEST TRADER,
THE BEST SECURITY AGENT,
THE BEST AT WHAT I DO,
THINKING ABOUT ALL THE CHILDREN OF THE WORLD.
THEN,
I would have loved them all,
Provided a safe haven for them all,
And be their comfort, come rain or sunshine,
BECAUSE I AM A MOTHER.

Amopeekun.

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Family › Re: How Do Married Men Cope With Their Pregnant Women by Amopeekun(f): 7:11am On May 30, 2020

If she is not sick and does not show symptoms of any pregnancy related illnesses, she should be fine doing stuffs at home. It will help her body and mind be ready for delivery. It will help her o. Please get her some books/materials on pregnancy and explain how exercises can help her have a healthy baby and mother post birth.
You may get a washing machine, and other things to ease her task and don't stop helping. She will be fine.

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Family › Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by Amopeekun(f): 10:03pm On May 23, 2020

In total support, my sister. E tire me

bukatyne:
I will lift what I just wrote in the other thread directed to men in response to someone:

Honestly, there is a war against marriages.

How spouses would be more tender to bosses, subordinates, friends, random people, neighbors, colleagues, classmates than themselves is worrisome.

When it comes to their spouse, 'I won't take it, I can't do it, I can't compromise a little, it is my way or no way'...

'I, I, I, I' and yet will place on their CV as 'team players; ability to negotiate; ability to work under pressure' bla bla.

Practice these skills at home.

Islam › Re: Dreaming About My Late Dad Crying. by Amopeekun(f): 11:35am On May 08, 2020

Assalamu alykum.
Firstly, Normally, weeping in a dream, as I have read, heralds goodness. But wailing, screaming, scratching and all that commotion is not good.

To see a dead person happy, cheerful or in a good mood, etc, is also good.

Meanwhile, in my reading, if the dead is not cheerful, is indifferent, or not in a good mood, please check yourselves who are his offsprings.
Are there things that you do that are not good? You might want to change for good.

Now, you say weeping profusely, put this with him being dead, I think you should mend your ways.

Importantly, I think you should pray for the dead, put up something as sadaqa for him, and look within to correct some things that would make people cry profusely.

Only Allah knows and unto Him is our final return.

Assalamu alykum

Disclaimer:
Not my personal submission but from reading o.

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Family › Re: Married But Bored And Lonely??, Meet Other Married People Here by Amopeekun(f): 2:32pm On Feb 24, 2020

Hmm...

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Literature › Re: "Ocean Of Secrets" A Story By Millieademi by Amopeekun(f): 9:24am On Feb 04, 2020

Thanks millie

Health › Re: Please Help Diagnose This Scalp Disease (Disturbing Photos) by Amopeekun(f): 8:54pm On Jan 13, 2020

In my place, it is called gbindin gbindin. It is a Yoruba name.
I don't know how serious this is but importantly, STOP MAKING/PLAITING/BRAIDING/ MANIPULATING HER SCALP HENCEFORTH!! Pls stop. Her scalp is very tender and too soft. Cut her hair low until she is old enough to sit down by herself to make her hair. Occasionally, washing her hair with a very mild shampoo will do, otherwise, the regular bathing is enough.. Separate her combs and hair brushes from yours and disinfect them regularly with dettol.
As it is, you either use amplicox Beecham for her or take her to the hospital. All the best.

xavuv:
Please help diagnose this thing on my daughter's head. That thing looks like small small boils all over her head. It pains her alot and she doesnt want anyone to touch her head especially when bathing. She 3yrs old, eats well and very active.

It started 4 days ago and progressed to this stage.

Other Sypmtoms include:

She doesnt sleep well at night becauese of pains on her head.

High temp especially around 1am-5am ( we have been using paracetamol to calm bown the temp)

Little rashes on her neck and lower back.

Her hair doesnt grow evenly (though we have noticed this for a while)

Literature › Re: "Ocean Of Secrets" A Story By Millieademi by Amopeekun(f): 9:09am On Jan 05, 2020

U do well

Literature › Re: "Ocean Of Secrets" A Story By Millieademi by Amopeekun(f): 1:46pm On Jan 03, 2020

Wow! @Millie, this is mmmmuah...
I started reading yesterday and I am glued. It is a mind-blowing story, every chapter is. U try wella and I am so in love with every character and scene, u r the bomb!!!
I will patiently wait to read from u, thank u.

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Family › Re: Should I Leave My Husband Or Not? by Amopeekun(f): 11:47am On Dec 30, 2019

My sister, we have a lot of work to do o. Some of our men today are sooo cold and inconsiderate. We need to change that narrative. God help us.
@OP, God will give u strength to further your studies and take up a good job to cater for your kids. Your parents' support is everything. Use this opportunity to get your life together. May God be with you.

chival:
You are so right. I have noticed there's an increasing number of men who are cold and mean, and it all stems from their upbringing. The onus falls on us to trim down the number of apathetic men by raising our boys to be compassionate and kind hearted.

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Health › Re: The Woman I Saved On Christmas Day (Graphic Photos And Videos) by Amopeekun(f): 9:48am On Dec 28, 2019

Thank u sir and God bless u

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Romance › Re: "I Was With Him Through Thick And Thin" by Amopeekun(f): 12:15pm On Dec 21, 2019

There is this woman who worked while the husband was in school and she had to take care of their three children and the husband's parents from her meager teacher salary. She actually suffered. The world would have termed her 'wicked' if she decided to leave her children to some charity and particularly the husband's parents to pursue her dreams, right? She would be this 'irresponsible woman ' who left her children cos she was 'selfish', right? She endured it all and now the husband has a second wife!

This other uneducated woman was solely responsible for their children's upkeep, education, feeding and so on. There was no market day she didn't go to get stuffs to buy and sell for the wellbeing of her family. She is a beauty too. She suffered it all. But you know what? The husband got a second wife after he got a carpentry job from a samaritan who wanted him to have a good life with his family.

Another woman I know suffered more. She went through a lot to push her husband up, to get a job, to refine him and so on. My sister, he didn't think twice to go marry a more succulent woman the moment money started rolling in.

...I can go on and on. Not fiction or gossips o, real life experiences I witnessed and still seeing around me. Some women may be this lazy as you described but more are hardworking and are supporting their families everyday. More are breadwinners and I know some. Kai, my own mum did a lot for us. You know what, some of our men are just forgetful and inconsiderate. They don't appreciate their women, the mothers of their children and it is all about their egos and pride.

So, this generalizing is kinda off, for me. Women are super beings, strong , supportive and kind. We should support ourselves. Good day ma'am.

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Literature › Re: Poetry Thread For 'short Witty Poetry' Lovers by Amopeekun(f): 1:09pm On Nov 25, 2019

Back in the day when I was unworried
Unworried when love cometh
Cometh to steal my heart
Heart so naive but too pure
Too pure to understand its dangers
Dangers of pain and worries
Worries that want me to go back in the day

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Business › Re: Bill Gates Tops Jeff Bezos As Richest Person In The World: See The Full List by Amopeekun(f): 11:16am On Nov 16, 2019

I will also make it fa. Kai, the thing no easy at all

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Politics › Re: Kwara Govt Holds Open Bid For Construction Of 26 Urban Roads by Amopeekun(f): 9:19am On Nov 14, 2019

My brother, that our road na total eyesore. Is there any other means we can shout this to the government? Let them help us o. We are suffering.

Kingbenn:
They should not forget Oke Odo road too linking to Aleniboro,that road is an eye sore to people living in that environment, I do pity those keke plying the road everyday

Immediate intervention is needed urgently o

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TV/Movies › Re: Bbnaija: Omashola Mimics Tacha. See Her Reaction (photos) by Amopeekun(f): 10:28am On Sep 25, 2019

Happy birthday mate,llnp

ClintonNzedimma:
Hello Nairalanders
It’s my birthday. Wish me well

Family › Re: . by Amopeekun(f): 6:06pm On Sep 11, 2019

I actually just saw this and i am extremely happy to be a part of this family. There isn't anything to add to all the wonderful 'gifts' up there but to pray to God to bless everyone for their hearts. Jennifer dear, please continue to hold on. A few more years from now, you will actually look back and smile. Love you sis. It is good here!

Politics › Re: FG To Start Deducting N614 Billion From States This Month by Amopeekun(f): 5:11pm On Sep 10, 2019

Abeg ooo, which parastatal in kwara has not been paid? Who in kwara never receive salary? Pls enlighten us o. For as far as I know, salaries of August were even paid on the 24th or thereabout. All the about 2000 workers that the former governor Abdulfattah recruited have all been paid till date. Na September salary we dey wait for now. So, pray, tell us, who has not been paid in kwara?

vastolord4:
This one that kwara hasn't paid it's workers despite the loan.. taking the money back will mean some governors selling the states oo

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Crime › Re: Wadume: Picture Of The Turbaning Of The Notorious Kidnapper by Amopeekun(f): 7:57am On Aug 29, 2019

Photoshopped or not, this is very common in our communities. A wicked few, who are obvious enemies of the people, being celebrated because they have money and power to twist everything, anything, anyone to satisfy their hunger for more, and are known by their kinsmen...! and we say we are where we are!

Governments go and come. What about the people? Nigeria is just a landscape Sha...what do I know self?

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Islam › Re: Some Common Abnormalities And Innovations In Salah (prayer) by Amopeekun(f): 10:33am On Aug 23, 2019

Alhamdulillah, may Allah bless the writer of the above, amin.

But you spoilt everything by writing ''mistakes found in Lagos, Ogun and some other States in Nigeria". These and more( eg. faster than the imam in observing steps of salat, some trying to take up the whole space during congregation, keeping space for people at the front rows, running into the masjid during congregation, etc) are common mistakes you will find anywhere you go.

I am sorry if u find my submission somehow but limiting these to some states makes it look like other people in some states are perfect in their prayers.
P.S
I have learnt and I have travelled and I have seen things. Pls correct the particular paragraph.

Assalamu alykum Wa rahmatullah Wa barakatuhu

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Family › Re: Popular Nairalander, Hungerbad Dies At Age 44 by Amopeekun(f): 5:05pm On May 24, 2019

May his soul rest in peace

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Family › Re: Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend by Amopeekun(f): 2:19pm On May 08, 2019

[Sorry sir fa but OP is not confessing anything neither is he remorseful. He said he is hurt and needs advice. Chai!!!
May God keep your wife safe and healthy wherever she is. May the good Lord comfort her and blees her. quote author=olulove post=78202525]Feel sorry for the wife though, poor woman!

OP has actually confessed his shortcomings, I feel he needs a second and last chance..

He needs to thread cautiously now, considering the fact that every one suspect there's an ongoing affair between him nd his wife's friend.

Affairs are fantasy of our imagination, he needs to clear off whatever emotion or pleasure he got from the affair i it his head/mind and channels same to his wife and family.

OP may God help and guide you.[/quote]

Travel › Re: My Two Sons Traveled To Europe By Desert - Nigerian Benin Woman by Amopeekun(f): 11:20am On May 07, 2019

rusher14:
U said it all- REORIENTATION. And that has to be complete!
You've made a lot of sense.

However, I disagree on the problems being caused by a tiny group.

Take out everybody in power or civil service today and replace them with a completely different set, you'll end up with the same problems.

The average Nigerian needs a reorientation.

Our values are warped and we lack sincerity.

Nobody can change Nigerians except Nigerians.

Until we begin to imbibe logical, scientific and truthful ethos, I'm sorry things would be the same or even worse.

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Politics › Re: NASS Leadership: PDP Leaders, Others Move To Back Lawan, Gbajabiamila by Amopeekun(f): 5:58pm On May 05, 2019

Hmm... Till then

Nairaland General › Re: This Picture Should Speak To Those Who Want To Kill Breadwinners by Amopeekun(f): 8:20pm On Apr 28, 2019

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Business › Re: Beelzee Hamdan Ventures- Agent Banking At Its Best!! by Amopeekun(op): 9:39pm On Mar 14, 2019

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Business › Re: Beelzee Hamdan Ventures- Agent Banking At Its Best!! by Amopeekun(op): 1:10pm On Mar 14, 2019

Our charges are very reasonable. Yoi can withdraw 10,000 for as low as 100!

Business › Beelzee Hamdan Ventures- Agent Banking At Its Best!! by Amopeekun(op): 12:46pm On Mar 14, 2019

Here it is guys. Man must chop o, so please help our business to move to the permanent site!
WE help with all your money transactions-withdrawal, deposits, transfers, sale of airtime, payment of bills and more.

If you live in Ilorin and particularly at Balogun , Tanke Oke-Odo area, this concerns you more. We are at the NEPA HOUSE SHOPPING COMPLEX, behind SHEPPARD HEIGHTS NURSERY SCHOOL.

We also sell Funtuna table water, Unilorin sachet water, soft drinks and more.

Visit us now and be ready to be impressed.

Mod, I am not new here but help my ministry abeg.

Family › Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by Amopeekun(f): 11:41pm On Jan 08, 2019

It is you I appreciate Love to the family

serubawon:
Amen and thank you very much.

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Family › Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by Amopeekun(f): 11:39pm On Jan 08, 2019

serubawon:
Amen to that. My kids are grown up now. My daughter is 18 and finishing her 2nd year at the university. My son is now 16. He starts university this summer. My step-daughter is 13 and doing really great. Her recovery has astounded doctors. I've been truly blessed.

We give Him all the glory

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Family › Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by Amopeekun(f): 7:50pm On Jan 07, 2019

I just had to say something, OP, you are a miracle! God be with you and your children.

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