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Since she is not natural, cannot say she looks younger. Let her remove the long hair and make-up.

Climaths: I hv been datin my pastor daughter for 2 years now, nd he is nt aware d relationship. Bt jst last month wen went 2 see her in sch. Dey got 2 find out dat i hv been datin dere daughter. Nd d scandal almost tore d my family and her family apart. Becus d both family are very close. Knwing i disvirgin their daughter during d process of my visit 2 her in sch. They were so dissappionted in me. Bt they forgave me after all d scoldin. But my girl jst called me dat she is pregnant abt a month nw. I really don't knw wht 2 do. Am an nd holder. I don't hv a job nw. Bt hope 2 go 2 police tranin any monent frm nw. My family have a very humble background, tin are nt rite at finiacially. I hv siblings lookin up 2 me Finacially. Am confused wht should i do. Please ur advice.

You already messed up.Too bad. Never try abortion and just disclose the situation to your parents and seek their advise. Too bad and too late.

Listen men, you can bring out the beauty from that lady you do not see anything good from now. The good looking girl out there will later mess you up and you end up looking for your present lady and by then, she is gone.

Men, stop those shallow thinking and make that lady feel good in and out and stop bleeping. Beauty will fade away but love will last forever. Stop thinking like a baby.
Let me tell you now, after reading my crystal ball now, I have been informed that if you do away with this lady, you will REMAIN unhappy fr the rest of your life because you have destroyed a soul that you NEVER created after making use of her nudity.
Be careful, if not you die young. That is the warning

dabigwalls: all these quotes for Odyssey? if na Bentley nko? Na #aristotlesurepass

Hahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.True talk.Make him sell the car as my brother dey for business.

It is better for them to kill him.Why must he use such weapon on his follow man? In fact, Loyd must be executed.Let police waste him.

HILCROWN: Funny you, you know where to go if you want to buy #150k vehicle.....No deal

I think this should not be more than 50k.The guy tried offering you 150 and you are complaining.

dplomaticVal: Dnt blame the man much, Her indescent dressing may have causd it.

From your comment, I deduce and I believe that you also will sleep with your own child. What kind of indecent dressing could force a father to molest her own daughter? You are a complete maggot.

liloelawwal: that man deserve to be hanged.
I knw his type,senator Yerima is his role model

Yes Yerima do sleep with 6 yr old children.

[quote author=mr_king]Sharap your mouth there David!!! How could you morons allow Stupid Religious sentiment to Becloud your sense of Reasoning in a circular country like Nigeria? You all A̶̲̥̅̊я̲̣̥ε̲̣̣̣̥ fools!!! Big Fools!!! This is what we get from you stupid lawmakers as †ђξ highest paid globally?[/quote]Well said. Complete fools indeed.

She is just cheating on you.Poor boy.I think that you are not smart too. Play cool and you get her red handed. Asking her to delete the number or who the guy is messed up the whole thing and now allowed her to re-plan another way to beat you to the game. Be careful so that she doesn't come back with another man's pregnancy and say it's yours. Only a woman know who owns the child in her stomach.

adetoks2010: Hello house, please I need your candid opinion and advice. What do you think is wrong with this couple. I am the wife in question and talking or chatting with hubby usually degenerate into misunderstanding. The BBM chat below is just a sample of what I mean.

Background of this chat: It was on a Saturday and we had planned to pay a visit to a couple who just delivered a baby. Coincidentally, a church meeting was summoned for 11am and hubby was to go while I do other things. He was to go for this meeting and later pick me and our baby for the earlier scheduled visit. (Please note that a day before, our car broke down and hubby worked on it, he was also talking about taking the car for servicing later). When it was 3pm and he was not back I called him to know where he was, he didn’t pick it but he replied via a BBM chat. The chat below is the mgs exchanged:

Hubby: Do other things b4 I come. Not through
Wife: Kk, but no other tins to be done o. Where r u?,Are you not thru wit d church meeting?
Hubby: Read
Wife: Where r u?
Hubby:I told u not through and u are asking where I am. Where did I say I was going to?
Wife: (the following emoticons were sent to him)
love
kiss:
love:
rose flower:
rose flower:
love
Hugs:
Hugs
Smile
winks
Kiss:
Love:
Gift:
gift

(At 4pm, he was not back)
Wife::Where r u now, still in church or at the mechanic?
Hubby: Did I at any point in time mentioned mechanic to u?
Wife: Relax bro God is in control and don't get worked up for nothing. Life is too short. (Hugs Hugs) .
Hubby: And who is getting worked up. If not that u just wanted to be silly. I asked u back where did I say I was going to. Instead of u to get d drift u remained stubbornly adamant and asked me where I am, haba

Wife (pointing out the negative words he used): Silly, stubbornly adamant (Emoticons- love,kiss,winks)
Wife: One good turn deserves another. It’s just that I remember how dis couple stood by us in our time, making several trips to d hospital and home even b4 d naming ceremony. During d naming nko? Who made most of d purchases? Dis may be d only time I'll have to say hello to them, it's really bad. Haba, God dey.
Wife: My asking you where u are is just to know whether you are on your way or not. It’s sad that such a simple question can generate such heat from you. It is well.
Hubby: I never knew you could be this senseless

Most conversations with him end like this. Communicating with him is really difficult as he takes offense at trivial things that many people will let go of or will not notice. He seems to be always defensive when I talk to him especially if I have a contrary opinion. To me I feel we don’t communicate except for normal day to day issues. I find it easier speaking with outsiders- family and friends as he is usually not receptive. I don’t like this situation and I am tired – It can really be so lonely even while married. This is just 2 years marriage o. What do you think is wrong and how can I help this situation? Thanks for your advice

Do you suspect him cheating? Too bad his response.But from your chat, I believe you are a good woman. Just handle this with care

doubleking: Who told them she is married?

Good question. Since they did not see any of her relations, how come they say she is married? Why not show her ID if it was picked at the scene of the crime showing her name and status.

Na electricity will kill the minister and his group.

byrron: may thunder plus amadioha ft sango strike dat mouth d minister used in spreading such falsehood!

Thank you for giving out the response I had wanted to give to the useless minister. Where is the said light whereby I have been running my gen for the past 6 months without a single flash light.

[quote author=Dudu_Negro]....Pastor dey play "hide and seek".




He doesnt want to be dragged into politics but what business does a pastor have spending nine days in active investigation with NDLEA?

We wouldn't expect NDLEA to be at the pulpit preaching scripture, would we? So what's pastor doing with NDLEA and al Mustapha investigation?[/quote]Having read your post, I now deduce that someone like you criticizing the prophet of God needs help. Either that you did not read his response very well or you are mentally confused and need help to let you know the truth as you are spiritually blind.
Stay off anything that has to do with the prophet of God, Prophet T.B.Joshua, if you do not want the wrath of God upon your life as you are laying a curse upon yourself.

Elmos: Do you understand what he said? He was arrested and detained for Nine days while they were investigating petition written against him, and as usual, if one is in captive, where you go and and how you go is entirely in the hand of your captor, so his Aso Rock visit was not a willing visit but a forced one, and Joseph never commit the offense he was in prison for, he nevertheless while in prison he released prophesy that concern the king, one of his staff will be released and the other will be executed, and years after it came to pass, so if Joshua did same, is that not a prove that God id still God.

Bola Fisayo, Writes from USA

You stated the truth. Just allow people with spiritual blindness to be saying things against the prophet of God that will later hunt their lives.

PHCN are all robbers.

For 5 months now, I have been on gen. Its painful and they want me to be paying service charge on the months they never gave me light. Is that not robbery? In fact if not God, PHCN staffs should be given poison when they come seeing you.

debbleopto: souls don't rest in peace just by our prayers but through repentance of the individual from sin. UNLESS A MAN BE BORN AGAIN HE CAN NOT SEE THE KINGDOM OF GOD. JN3:3. All the wishful prayers amount to nothing unless you will say God is not serious with His word, like the serpent said in Eden's garden and deceived Eve. Balam said " oh that I might died the death of the righteous" not of the unsaved sinner.

Well spoken.Just the truth.

cjrane: Sahara reporters, you can do your political false writings,but leave the esteemed name of Man of God,Prophet TB Joshua out of it.
Let me advise you not to provoke the Prophet. He is one of the few true servants of God in Nigeria and he has truly dedicated his life to philanthropy and helping the down trodden. You may attract damnation to yourselves by lieing against this man of God.
I personally know those that tried to falsely frame him in the past and they didn't like how their own lives turned out.
A word is enuf for the wise.

Hmmmmm, I don talk my own finish o!

Well spoken my brother. Sahara reporters are people with shallow minds looking for cheap attention to their own detriment because they are destroying their lives when they attack real men or prophets of God because the things of the spirit are not the things of the flesh. They should go off of anything that has to do with Prophet T.B. Joshua because any false publication brings wrath of God unto their lives.

You will bear the brunt. whether good or bad, you must suffer the stigma as your friend or any reasonable person will see you as backbiter and a cheat. Don;t do it.Even to date him is still bad. Note, this guy will still dump you or you dump him.

why do you wanna spoil their union? Were you there when they met? Why say Iboman? You can get a bad person anywhere in the world. Never tag any ethnic group.

Allow them be as they are full grown adults. Unless you both are into lesbianism and you do not want her be.

abpatrick7: You just woke up one morning, and your fiancee whom you did be settling down with in a couple of months, tells you she wants to be an actress and she's got some industry entertainment-heavyweights ready to bankroll her rise to stardom, to be a brand and household name in Nigeria.

As a hubby to be, would you agree?

If you would agree, would you be 100% committed? and can you brace up for the challenge ahead?

If you won't agree or would rather let the marriage pass, would you just abandon something real and genuine; a feeling btw u both rarely felt in a lifetime?

She's not ready to do anything else other than to trend and to be on motion pictures.

While he, a private person, abhors publicity, or anything that would impact negatively on his marriage / family. Doesn't want anything to do with the film industry.

This is the dilema. ^^^^^^

What would you do?

Just be ready to allow her nyash well well and ignore any of her shortcomings.

Is he an armed robber? Just askingooooooooooo

Well, good spermatozoa will surely make her look/grow plump.

[quote author=baby_123]So why did he vote in support? Is he saying he was bribed to I dont understand that comment. The man is a pedophile, period. His urges and sick desires took over his common sense. At least they have all been exposed. I pity his children, people will be looking at them like kids of a pedophile. [/quote]Yerima paid him. Shame to him and his family to have sent such a useless man to represent them. How come an adult like this iddio-t could even have the audacity to say he voted in error. Shame to him and his children.

Yerima is a complete madman who should be thrown to the zoo. A man whose brain is of the specie of dog and pig. Yerima's generation with his children will be plagued with incurable decease. His female children will remain a curse and any that gets pregnant must die with the pregnancy. For seeing a female child as a tool to use and dispose, no female child and male child shall grow of age before departing this world. With his money, only sorrow will visit him. any female child that survives infant age must die with the pregnancy. Useless man.

The lady is surely from a very low class family and it is cool because this is a real love.

israel007: TBJ would never do that without expressly hearing from God. If he did it, I MUST be God's direction. And if God has said it, that settles it!

You said the truth. When a True Prophet of God speaks, it must come to past. If actually prophet T.B Joshua is involved, then God is involved. But if he was quoted out of points, then the sahara reporters must correct their post because never quote out of context.

Having gone through your past post titled "Re: My Fiance Is Verbally Abusive" and the responses people gave you in the past, I would categorically state here that you knew his abusive life and still went into the marriage, so be it. You got what you wanted despite the warnings many people gave you. Hang in there and maybe arrange your funeral ahead of time.

PortHarcourtBoy: This is the problem with Nigerians...

Passing judgments without hearing from both parties...

She never mentioned unprovoked attacks like slaps, breaking my shoulder twice as well as bruising my hand on the rough wall and most recently, breaking my tablet...If all these while she attacks me without a retaliatory attack from me, why cry wolf when I attack in self defence?...

I need clarity from her on assistance in Uni days...for crying out loud, was I a hungry student even with a ride on Campus and a comfortable off-k apartment?

I have told her if she wishes to leave, she can get the hell out...women borku left, right and centre, no time...she cannot cook, she cannot do anything, such a lazy azz, no african man wants a lazy azz, she can leave if she so wishes instead of killing me...and for the period she's still around, she should stay off my phones...why should I be asleep and she's busy searching my phones, even when she chats with guys, etc, I keep deaf ears...

My 2 cents...

Are you the man in question? I believe that you are.
Is like there is a big problem here as I think two of you needs counselling here as both of you cannot be here exposing yourselves.
There is a big problem here which requires urgent attention from close family members.

COOLDUN: I am not surprised to read this ugly news, i could remember last time when a lady boasted of how his father humiliated her senior sister's suitor by demanding for air ticket and payed trip to go and investigate his status where resides, just because his daughter is a medical doctor, by handout and body payment.

This is what you get whenever you marry from a family of gold diggers , I called the girl's entire family gold diggers and she was mad with me. Nowadays many women do not marry for love anymore but for wealth and comfort.

Yobo , you made a very big mistake by marrying a daughter of a woman who had two different kids with different men, a wise word says that before you marry a woman , you should first of all look at your mother in-law because her daughters must possess 85% of their mother's characters. It is by chance you can get a good girl from a broken home.

For example, what do you expect from a woman who left her husband because of a little quarrel and open a beer palour/resturant, hair salon, and nite club? do you think she will ever advice her daughter to be patient in her matrimonial home? big NO.

Yobo, you would have known from your mother in-law that they are after the big stars, whom they would suck dry and look for another one. I have been wondering why your game has been fast declining i never knew that you are living with two deadly monsters at home. With Jezebel to add to it.

No woman want to marry a man she can work and build a family with nowadays, they are looking for an already made man who would be their honey comb.

Joseph Yobo, it is never late to save your head, hence that girl is still living with you in that house, her wounded lioness , rampaging Jezebel mother will easily get you through her. They are working together and are on a mission. Until she repents and change for good do not ever lose guard, because you are living with another man's wife.

If she would not change i advice you to end the marriage and save your head, wicked and loveless woman can do undo. Do not say that i did not warn you.

Well spoken my brother. You are on point. Never marry from a broken home where you see divorcee running a bear palour/restaurant

Any man that gets himself involved with a a lady her parents are separated might end up facing same problem as the lady's linage if care is not taken, might end up separating as the lady may end up following the step of her mother by getting divorced.
Yobo went for her beauty not taking into consideration her family background. Too bad for him if this story is true.