₦airaland Forum

Your type would never say such nonsense if it were a white man.

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TarOrfeeek:
Black African men and their excessive libido

If you cannot handle the high risk dating culture in the West, why not invest in Vaseline and Toilet rolls.

Hopefully this suspected player won't turn out to be Yves Bisssouma because he seems to have a big money move in January lined up.

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You and your friend are not serious. What has virginity got to do with infection? You didn't even say if the infection is a sexually transmitted infection. You just concluded it had to do with virginity.

Women, virgin or non virgin can get infection from anywhere if they're not careful. In fact women are very susceptible to vaginal infections.

Toilet infection is a real possibility(since she lived in face me I face you)

Unhealthy habits like spraying perfume inside the vagina.

Wearing dirty pants.

Wearing tight that doesn't allow the circulation of air around the vagina area.

Your story might even be made up to ridicule virgin girls.

mbahdi:
Please doctors in the house what do we call this?

My friend couldn't contain his joy,I can remember the night he broke the news to me,he was so excited, he took me to a joint where we opened alot of bottles in celebration of him meeting his wife a virgin, despite he was a bad guy.

The problem now is that each time the wife is pregnant she will have miscarriage, this has happened about two times cant endure it anylonger he took the wife for a test,and it was discovered that the wife have an infection which has been in her body for a long time.

Please how possible can someone you meet a virgin have infection.although before the guy married her she lives in face me I slap you apartment with the parents, it was out of the joy the guy have marrying her a virgin that he rented a 3bed room apartment for the parents. Please what could be the cause of the infection?

Castration gang Oya. What are you people going to castrate?

Unless those documents were fake, the allegations are well documented.

Any experience you want to share?

bukatyne:
People who sabi

All the more reason why we should fight for restructuring and support governors like Wike who are demanding for fiscal federalism.
I am glad that governors from the south south are United in demanding for fiscal federalism.

Emergingnation:
Akwa Ibom have all it take to be a country...

Power station aka IBOM power station

World classed stadium


The ongoing sea port

International air port...

We are looking forward for the Emerging IBOM Republic..

Lol, that person is still on this matter? People like that can never change. It is a waste of time.

pansophist:
You are trying to equalize non-virginity as a virtue, and I do not accept that. No matter how you twist it, my point stands, which is, all things equal, I will choose a virgin to a non-virgin. Of course, it doesn't imply that I can not marry a non-virgin, or that virginity is the only thing that makes a woman worthy, but my point is, that I will hold a woman who is a virgin to a higher degree of virtue to the one who is not a virgin if she ticks every other of my criteria. And being a non-virgin who is not promiscuous still doesn't exempt the fact that I will be compared to her exes. It's automatic, men do it too, the only difference why people focus on men is because when it comes to any interaction with women and in this case sexually, men bear the burden of performance, and are judged harshly.

How many women can ride a man for ten min straight without gasping for air like someone drowning? but when it comes to judging men, you judge men so harshly with standards you won't fulfill yourself. Also, you should probably go learn the meaning of insecurity/low self-esteem, you just throw the word around thinking you are making sense, but it is counterproductive. Demanding virtue (virginity) is not low self-esteem/insecurity, the same way a woman who is prioritizing a man with a brighter future is not gold-digging. Low self-esteem would be thinking I do not deserve a virgin, or a woman thinking she does not deserve a good man. Do you see why I said you don't have sense? and if you don't want me to call you senseless, then you should not just throw insults around (calling me low self-esteem). You don't expect me to be a gentleman to you, while you are a ghetto to me. Respect is reciprocal.

Telegram

What Lagos state should be advocating for is fiscal federalism

Lol just organise your telegram. Delete channels and groups that are not important. Some channels do the same thing, like Nigerian news channels they give out news regarding Nigeria, but you might find someone having about 3 Nigerian news channels, it is too much, one is enough.

If you are an admin, telegram has various tools that help curb incessant messages from group participants.

I noticed that many people don't know the difference between group chats and channels in telegram.
If you wish to only disseminate information to some group of people channels should be your go to.
If you wish to interact with a group of people, share ideas, converse group chat is for you.

Davijunson:
Too many people in a group or channel. Numerous messages from groups and channels. I end up having thousands of messages that I can't even read sef.

Yes, that comes with being the first widely used messenger app.

SenatePresdo:
I think it's just over familiarity.

People are just used to WhatsApp.

What's ICQ?

Simpubozz:
That Telegram handler is a pro clown .., but I still prefer ICQ

Very true

KunleyY19:
And the no status update on Telegram will not allow some people port over. Especially the ladies.

How is telegram too crowded?

Davijunson:
Make Telegram sit down one corner with their boring app..... Too crowded for my sanity. Telegram is meant for Airdrops only.

What's the name of the channel for films please.

jaeyking:
Telegram wey na only film and ngo works I dey use am for.

Dom turn to my chat go.

I miss WhatsApp status sha

Overall functionality telegram is better. But WhatsApp has too many advantages like being the first messenger app to be widely used. Also, WhatsApp's integration with Facebook.

SenatePresdo:
I think Telegram is better than WhatsApp.

Let's see the one Most Nairalanders prefers..

Click like For WhatsApp, and Share for Telegram.

Wow. You sound like someone that is always on IG 24/7. You get data o! I'm sure you're using the app.

Xixtie:
Didn't know I could survive without IG for 1 minute.
Here I am doing fine after several hours without it.
I'm sincerely doing away with those apps even after they've been restored.
I'm wasting a lot and gaining almost nothing.

Lol. I have my life outside of facebook. It just feels weird not scrolling through facebook when I'm online. Not to mention whatsapp.

Angelfrost:
Mark is giving you young people an opportunity to actual start living... Really living real lives, not fake ones!!!

Lol. it is not impossible

muller101:
They sold it to Nigerian politicians.

It is has been hours now and facebook, whatsapp are still down.

What is going on?

Wow

bepositive11:
You need to dig deeper to understand what I'm saying. Men who seek virgins to avoid being compared are deeply insecure. They have very low self esteem.

How about this? A man gets married to a non-promiscuous non-virgin then learns what she likes and focuses on pleasing her while being confident in his own abilities to learn how to please her better than anyone else. That is how a man with healthy self esteem would think

I would personally advise women I care about to stay away from men who want virgins. Those are the kind of men who can't stand being compared, who think that they are not good enough, who think that they don't stand a chance against other men, who take constructive feedback as negative criticism, who can't communicate openly, honestly, and directly

In fact, you, do a quick Google search for signs of low self esteem and assess yourself

This whole concept of a promiscuous man wanting a virgin woman is a form of control. That's what men with low self esteem need to feel secure. Control. Minimizing the chances of infidelity because of insecurity

Keep denying all you want. You have to reflect deeply to get what I'm saying

I thought it was my network.

Lol. It is not the bitter truth.

How does marrying a virgin lower the chances of promiscuity? Good question.

Women who have been sleeping around have experienced a lot of different levels of sexual pleasures. Now when such women get married and the husband does not match up to her previous sexual experiences, she would naturally seek out men who can take her to those levels of sexual euphoria she experienced in her past.

Also, pair bonding. It is well known that women naturally put a lot of emotional attachment into sex unlike men.
Women who have been sleeping around have lost their ability to Pair bond, so they can easily sleep with any man without inhibitors.
Personally, I have noticed that players(men who like to hit and run) don't like virgin women simply because of this reason. Virgin girls are clingy to the men that disvirgined them. Why are virgin girls clingy to the men that disvirgined them? Simple. They bonded with those men. They are emotionally attached to those men and they keep going back to those men even when such men don't want them any more

So a virgin woman has little to no sexual experiences, so she can't judge her husband based on her past sexual experiences.
A virgin woman still has her ability to Pair bond with her husband reducing the chances of her being promiscuous.

bepositive11:
No, it's not plain silly. It's the bitter truth. Go through the thread again and see the reasons for wanting a virgin. Their reasons obviously point to low self esteem

You, please tell me. How does marrying a virgin lower the chances of promiscuity? How do you even verify whether the woman is truly a virgin?

What do you mean by lowering the odds of infidelity? If you can't trust your woman fully, why are you even marrying her? That distrust itself stems from low self esteem

And they would get a virgin. Virgins aren't scarce.

bepositive11:
Those men are the ones who are funny. They disvirgin another man's wife then demand a virgin

Restructure Nigeria, and in doing so, power would be taken away from such people. Highest their power would be concentrated in the North.

silverkings:
As a nation we are in a deep deep deep shit!!! I'm speechless

Wow this article has reached NL?
I read it today, it is really eye opening.

All the more reason why we should restructure Nigeria.
Let the North do as they please in their own side. If it's sharia, Wahhabism, salafism they want, that is their business.

Pansophist come and read about your beloved country.

Any body can be entitled to what they want.
If a man wants a virgin woman, if he would get a virgin woman, whether the man himself is a virgin or not is irrelevant.
You're funny.

bepositive11:
Don't mind them. All men with that way of thinking have very low self esteem and are very insecure. They themselves are not virgins but they feel entitled to want a virgin wife. Very pathetic

This your argument has K leg. Why are you so bothered about whether a man wants to marry a virgin woman or not?

I have said this before on NL and I'll say it again, Nothing, I repeat nothing guarantees a successful marriage.
But there are decisions that a man can take that would help increase the odds of having a successful marriage, and one of those decisions is marrying a virgin woman.

Marrying a virgin woman does not mean she wouldn't be promiscuous, no. It just means the odds of her being promiscuous is very low.
In the same way, marrying a non virgin woman does not mean she would be promiscuous, no. It just means the odds of her being promiscuous is very high.

So, your declaration that men who want virgin women have low self esteem is plain silly.
Your declaration that men who want virgin women are themselves not virgins doesn't make sense. What is stopping a from wanting a virgin man?


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bepositive11:
First of all, most men who want a virgin wife have low self esteem and are very insecure

2. Most men who want a virgin wife are not virgins themselves

3. Non virgins are not all the same - one category sleeps around and the other category only sleeps with men in committed relationships

4. The notion that virgins are pure while non virgins are unpure is a social construct. The only case where she becomes unpure is if she contracts STDs or does abortions. This is likely with women who sleep around but unlikely with women who only sleep with men in committed relationships

My conclusion.

Your way of thinking is pathetic. As much as you want a virgin wife, are you a virgin yourself? Why did you have sex with many women you have no intention of marrying yet demand that your wife be virgin? The ratio of men to women if 49% to 51%

If you have low self esteem, instead of worrying about her comparing you, why not focus on learning how to please her. That requires open and honest communication which you any way won't be able to have with your low self esteem

Stop judging a woman based on her virginity if you're not a virgin yourself. You have no right to. You're just being pathetic

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bepositive11:
You're saying this because you have low self esteem. Many men think like you because of Insecurity

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Nice tips

bukatyne:
2: Buying in bulk is only cheaper for someone who has cashflow.

If a family makes daily/weekly income, they obviously would not be able to buy in bulk.

3: in addition to substituting food, also substitute brands; a pack of ziplock is about N2,700; there are locally sold brandless ziplock for 400 per dozen which does same job.

Morning Fresh is also cheaper than Mama Lemon; what I hated in MF before is now the selling point: the tiny dispenser.

Sunlight detergent vs Ariel etc.

Also learn to be very resourceful: cooking spray is same as rubbing your pan with olive oil or ororo;

Learn where to source for things at a cheaper rate.

It's MTN. But you have to qualify for it, by buying at least ₦5k worth of data plans for some months.
You can dial *121# to see the offers available to you.
The highest they have offered me is ₦3500 for 24GB.

Bigfish121:
Please which service provider are you using?