₦airaland Forum

eedimo:
...and all our young girls desire as their ultimate achievement is to get married and produce babies.

I beg your pardon, it's not all.

ihemyoro:
They use different names.

Yes. It is bad. Imagine someone coming from another state just because of this. They don't have conscience at all.

Akalia:
lol, bursted.

Don't mind them.

The name is 'shut up and drive'. .

Lolz. I'm just kidding

padi94:
Okay only 5k, smart girl, she has just mad you up your giving, cos when it's her birthday or special event, guy na your conscience she go use make you give 100k, except you are broke and can't afford it. I wish when she starts billing you, you will come and tell us.

But wait oo, wetin babes do una? Them give boxers problem, them upgrade to wrist watch problem..

Wahala no fit finish for this country. Lol

It's no longer HR it's Inventory officer?

Lol. This GNLD people self.

seunak2016:
how often do you go church or mountain to pray? u think these life, nobody dey do you because you have pure heart or because you wish nobody bad? life is complex thing, have you seen someone saying they hate somebody for no reason before ? better pray

My brother I tell you, Life is spiritual.

You go just dey on your own even when person no still get money, you no offend them, but them go still throw arrow.

No wonder apostle Paul said in 1thessalonians 5:17 PRAY WITHOUT CEASING.

I laugh sit-down yakata for ground.

That was how my GM and direct boss murdered English in our first yearly meeting yesterday. I pretended I was pressed, took excuse and went to the rest room to laugh my ass off . And to even think Radio stations host him every month.
Nobody is above mistake.
I'm a new staff, I have to comport myself.

Your boss is a perfectionist I guess.

English is not easy Biko.

If I was Dangote I won't give the media attention regarding this issue.

Landlady is around to take care of him.

Take heart ehn! You will be fine with time.

theFilmtric:
lol
About 70% fail
Did you get your wife from Facebook?

theFilmtricsay

I'm a she, and not married.

Don't rush into marriage until you are financially stable some of you won't listen.

Guy you need to go and follow Reno Omokri on Facebook, maybe you will have some sense.

My mates are getting married, time is not on my side bla bla. At the end of the day you end up regretting.

I need to have kids bla bla. At the end of the day you pressurize yourself into what you can't come out from.

Realguyman1:
Deceiving which self? Oga you guys are the ones deceiving yourself and other Nigerians who think like PDP and APC supporters.

Jokes apart. Covid-19 is real. About a week ago, a friend of mine and 3 colleagues tested positive. 3 days ago he called me again that 2 of their pilots tested positive again making it 6.

My only problem is the way government is inflating figures to pave way for looting.

theFilmtric:
Well we shall see
Facebook stuff no dey last sha.
No hate

theFilmtricsay

lol
You no do video call ni?

theFilmtricsay

You lie, don't draw conclusions from the few ones that failed.

Government for the north.

helinues:
Wondering why some Christians are so concerned about Sex than Salvation.

Eish

Abi oo! They hammer so much on it as of it is the only sin that can take one to hell.

Tueh!! . There will always be this guy that is a caller. Lol

Nazgul:
Her request to stay alone isn't bad. She's 22, and if she has a good job, she'll enjoy geninue peace of mind cos living alone is very good. You won't have to endure an irritating roommate, always getting on your nerves every now and then, nagging parents who will constantly remind you about the success story of all your mates, and your younger cousins who have all gotten married. Also, you can effectively budget your finances, economize your food and provisions, and manage your bills effectively.

As a girl there are few guidelines I'll give you to stay alone effectively most especially if you're not a runs girl.

1. Limit your friends. They say the average Nigerian loves free things. That's very true. If you stay alone, you must be very careful with who you let into your home. I remember how I parked out of the first house I rented with my money after my youth service. It was a one bedroom apartment, I had this friend who was always visiting. With time he uprgaded himself to my roommate without even my consent.

I didn't have any problem with that. The problem I had with him was that he doesn't contribute a penny to the house. From recharging the prepaid meter to recharging the cable TV, to buying food and provisions...even pure water this my so called friend couldn't get. The worse of it all was that he's a womanizer. Imagine coming back home from work tired only to see meet your bedroom locked by your roomie cos he's busy with a girl. I'll end up dozing off on the couch in the palour while waiting for them cos I can't access the bathroom without entering the bedroom which is locked by him.

We quarrelled over this severally. This guy will apologize, beg me and after some days or weeks repeat the same thing again. With time when the rent remained like 2 months to be due, I parked out and left him there. I've learned to limit the kind of people I allow into my home ever since.

2. Be security conscious. Don't be careless with your security. As a girl, you can easily be overpowered, drugged, raped, robbed... etc. So avoid unnecessary closeness with your neighbours most especially if they're guys whose source of income you have no idea of. Whenever you're at home, keep your doors locked at all times. Avoid inviting people you meet on social media into your home. Avoid accepting lift from strangers to your home. All these things will put your safety at risk.

3. Don't disclose your status. As a girl, telling guys that you stay alone isn't wise. When guys start asking don't keep them in silence or else they'll start guessing and might guess right. Just tell them that you don't stay alone. Cos if you don't they won't mind trailing you secretly just to know where you stay. Believe me some guys can be that jobless. And after one visit to your house, you'll need the police to keep them out. Cos some will go as far as threatening to harm you if you refuse to let them in.

If you're in a serious relationship your guy should be the only one who should know your house along with some of your female friends who are on the same financial status with you, and your family members. Every other person can meet you at your place of work, your church or in a public place.

My advice...tell her to do whatever is in her mind, she's an adult now and must be allowed to make her own choices.

As for her parents, let her explain to them and make them reason with her that she won't remain under their roof forever, so the sooner she begins to plan a life outside their roof, the better for her

Also I hope she's working, when I say working I mean 9am -5pm jobs with a reasonable pay check. Cos if a girl is staying alone without a reasonable source of income, she might be tempted to go into prostitution in order to survive. Tell her this.

You nailed it.

Biglittlelois:
Gospel truth, the way them paint people feel pompous in their fakeness is always hilarious when I see them around

But she sounds insecure cos she doesnt make up, natural beauty is lit and should be a pride cos it isn't fake.

Insucure keh! Go to her Facebook page and check her up.

Fear women

You people should better resume. My sibling has renewed house rent and he is still in 100 level. House rent last year was a waste.

You people should better resume.

If uniben students should start, other university students would follow.

I'm in support of compulsory DNA test.

hisexcellency34:
They stay inside Omole. The hubby is just like the houseboy. Forget all these social media trash they are posting here

Na him want make himself to be houseboy to the wife. Na wetin him like he dey do so, unless the lady use jazz on am.

See how him lanky? The lady just dey collect all the nutrient dey dry the man .

Humans are becoming more dangerous by the day.

NaijaOlosho:
Who is Nicki Minaj in the first place I don't know him

Not him but her

Made4naijalove:
Nigerian girls, hope una dey learn? No be every time family problems, family problems.

Lol. No be urgent 2k again?

heniford2:
shut up, you think everyone is after sex

You are suffering from bipolar disorder.

Have a nice day.

LucyB24:
I'm a 24 year old lady living and working in Abuja. My job is very time demanding. I'm usually very busy on weekdays, and sometimes on weekends I can get called to work if something important comes up.

There is a guy I've known for months now. We met in Abuja at an event and we've been friends since. He lives in lagos but visits Abuja occasionally. He's also a very busy guy and he hardly has time on his hands. We have spent sometime together talking and getting to know each other but we haven't been on an official date. Most of our interaction has been over phone calls and WhatsApp text messages due to the distance barrier.

I fell in love with him during the course of our friendship. He is everything I want in a man. He's financially stable, very good looking and smart. The few times I've spent talking to him have been a pleasure, both for my eyes and for my mind. I never thought I could ever meet someone who checks all those boxes perfectly.

Men like him usually get a lot of female attention and I've tried to tread carefully. I didnt want him to see me as cheap but I also don't want him to think I am not interested in him. The day he told me he loved me was very memorable for me because I felt the same way. Few days later I told him I loved him too. Due to the distance barrier we could only talk on phone. I'm a very decent lady with good upbringing but because of what I felt for him, I did things I thought I'd never do. One night we had a sex chat that ended in me sending nudes to him. I've never done this before. This made me feel vulnerable and cheap because even though he said he loved me, I never believed him because he didn't really act like someone who was in love with me. He wasn't the type to call everyday and there were periods where he would dissapear for days and ignore my calls and texts and then return like nothing happened.

Last week we planned a special meeting. I was to travel to Lagos to see him at his place on Saturday morning. He had planned to refund me the money I'd use for my airline ticket and even hire a taxi that would bring me straight to his place from the airport. The way he sounded I knew he took it as a big deal. I agreed to come see him in lagos. On Friday morning he called and I assured him I was going to come. He called me again in the afternoon and I assured him I was going to come.

Towards the end of work on Friday my boss informed me that I had to be at work on Saturday to complete a very important project. Immediately I got the information I sent him a text. I was too tired when I left for home and I planned on calling him later that evening. I was so tired that I took a quick nap and woke up to missed calls from him. I called him back and asked if he got my message and he said he didn't. I informed him of the change in plans and he got very furious. He accused me of being indecisive and playing games. He said he had cancelled lots of meetings and spent money preparing for my visit and was disappointed that I didn't take him as seriously as he took me. He ended the call in annoyance and I've not heard from him since. He isn't picking my calls or replying my texts. I've sent him voice messages on WhatsApp apologizing and explaining myself but he hasn't replied..

I really love this guy and I don't want to lose him. He probably thinks I'm lying to him or that I have someone else I'm seeing but that's not the case.

My dear, please forget about him. He was only in for the sex. Who knows? He might even be married, you wouldn't know. He might have told his wife he has a business meeting somewhere just to plan for the meeting that weekend and the disappointment came in.
I know you hurt so bad but relax you're going to be fine.

My advise, get busy like never before. You will get over him.

Another advise, please don't get involved in a long distance relationship unless you are jobless or you have your own business that you are managing that would allow you travel at any time. Abuja to Lagos is too far, unless you guys were already dating before work separated the both of you.

musicproducer:
pm me make i pray for u

I no want

musicproducer:
and the bible also said come to me through christ

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Lol!!! I give up.

musicproducer:
and remove pastors from our way, we no need them to reach God

Hahahaha. It is a necessity, there must be a leader.
If it wasn't necessary the bible wouldn't have talked about how he has called some to be Apostles, evangelist, prophets and pastors in the new testament.