Akinbahm:

The moment u woo a lady she turns d table around even if she loves u initially...

You don't expect a Lady to immediately agree to dating you even if she was already madly in love with you. Mine did "Shakara" for 5 weeks and 3 days before saying yes to me. It is the nature of Women to do "shakara" before agreeing to date a man. Women want to be sure the man isn't being led by his feelings or her body or even her money. The two are already good friends and it should be easy for him to make his intentions known to her.

enesi009:
d greatest mistake u do is to ask her out.. Just start acting like d boyfriend... Neva u ask her out and make her invest in u by making luv to her dats d greatest investment ment to own her

He should just "start acting" like the "boyfriend"? Hmmm I've a problem with that. A couple of years ago, a girl " assumed" she and I were dating. This girl went about telling everyone she and I were a pair. I never knew I was in a "relationship" with her until the day she asked why I was making things difficult and making our "relationship" not to work. I never gave her any green lights nor at any point hinted her in her. We were just neighbours. She later confessed to being in love with me but felt it was awkward asking me out since it was supposed to be the other way round. My point is that the man should man up and ask the said Lady out. It is either a yes or a no.

KingErnesto:


Hmm... I feel like i would be on the hot seat that day. I'll try.

No need to fret or fidget. That day must come. If you are serious about making her your babe, then waste no time doing that. But be sure you aren't being led by your emotions and not reasoning. Be the best man she'd ever have!

Ask her out already or watch some other guy take her away from you. Every request in life has a "yes" or "no" answer. The devil wouldn't repent if she said "yes", neither would it snow in Nigeria if she said " no". My take on this? Go ahead and make your feelings for her known to her and then see how it goes.

Sunnyshinylight:
Sometimes you will never know you are the one to apologize to your lovely wife until the time is gone and you will be judged as you represented love in your family. You are the model in your home pastor Chris!


Heaven is in your home. Show the world how God Almighty has loved you. That's marriage.


If you can't. Keep quiet pastor Chris.

Why don't you shut your mouth and mind your business. If your parents are still together, do you think it is by their power or might? What business do you have judging other people? Are you married? What do you know about marriage? You must be delusional to start discussing someone's marriage online. You always right as though you're a Christian. My advice to you is be careful what you say and write about Men of God. Do not bring God's judgement upon yourself, home and generation. If you know nothing about someone, just keep your mouth shut and mind your business. How often do you pray for people who are going through challenges? You just come online and start typing rubbish just because of "likes" and "comments".

supercase1:

Yes sir........ I am madly in love with this lady even if it to help me break central bank.....I no send oo!!!infact I fit jump into river Zambezi because of this woman

And her asking you to buy her a phone you cannot afford at the moment is her own unique way of expressing love, right? I hope your relationship lasts and you don't end up regretting your naivety if/when you guys breakup. I hope you've bought same exact phone or an even more expensive one(s) for your Earthly Mother. Don't go doing stuffs you'd end up regretting just because of a relationship that you aren't even sure would lead to marriage. Can she do same for you? Do you have a car? Why not ask her to buy you a car as a proof of her love for you. Doesn't one good turn deserve another anymore?

supercase1:
Dear nairalanders,my girlfriend says that for me to prove just love for her,I should get help an iPhone 11,I don't have such huge amount to purchase this gadget for her and I really love her.pls what do you advice or how can u be of help me.your assistance would be highly valued by me and God would see u all the point of your needs
Thank you!!!.....

Assuming what you wrote up there up there is true, just assuming, do you now expect that monies be contributed in your favour so you could buy an iPhone 11 for your girlfriend? Are you using iPhone 11 yourself? What investments have you made for yourself? How much do you have in your savings? You're asking that monies be contributed so you can buy an iPhone 11 for your girlfriend. After the iPhone 11 has been bought, what next? We then contribute for a Ferrari and then a trip to Dubai and after that we then contribute so you can buy her a Yacht and then a private jet. Bro, date women you can easily afford to take care of. Don't make dating change your name to "Anayo" ( Let's continue begging).

They should swap shirts cos she should be his "ROCK" while he, her "Peace"

carlyfrank68:
[color=#000000][/color]Op, please help me bring this to the front page as I urgently need guidiance.
I've grown to love this girl so tenderly till of recent I noticed a particular comment that always pops up on all her posts on Facebook as ASAM(my beauty), at first, I took it as nothing. But as time went on, I noticed it was becoming more consistent, then I had to take a closer look at the username, though at first, I found nothing that serious, but after a deeper background check, I found out he was a priest. this got me bothered cos I've heard of so many cases of Catholic priests sleeping with young girls. I called her attention to it and she denied it, saying he was just a family friend. I trusted her and we moved on.
Travelled down to the east for an event, called my girlfriend to meet me up in owerri town so that we could go to somewhere since she was schooling in one of the university in Imo state, she agreed, and told me to wait for her by ten, which I agreed upon cos I didn't travel with my car and then, I would have enough time to dress and get to town before the agreed time. But to my greatest surprise, the same lady that told me she was in her room in school was dropped off at the junction by that same priest whom she claimed was just a family friend. I couldn't believe it. I walked up to her in the cab she boarded and was waiting for take off. She couldn't believe it. I wanted to end it there for lieing to me, but on a second thought, she was already crying on the main road. I forgave her, we checked into a hotel, she wanted to break her sim card, I stopped her, she promised never to go back to her old ways of telling me lies.
A day to the day I was supposed to go back to Lagos,she pleaded she wanted us to stay together which I didn't object to, we checked into a hotel in town, it was fun, she told me that night that she wanted to go to aba to see her aunt, little did I know she went straight down to the priests house and spent 6 good days. All the while she was with the priest, she claimed she had no data and hardly picked my calls. This made me pry into her Facebook account after she had left the priests house, lo and behold, the chats I saw between them got me shedding tears. I could not believe it. She even sent him nudes. I confronted her, and she accepted it and cried and pleaded for a second chance, she went online, blocked him on Facebook, and changed her sim card. And has since then been begging for me to forgive, I have forgiven as a human being. But the problem I'm facing now is this, I can't seem to forget it and I'm finding very hard to trust her again. Please house, advice me, what do I do?

She sent her nude pictures to the Priest. If/when God makes you a billionaire in the future, can you stand your wife's nude pictures flying around the internet without harbouring hatred for her? If you can answer that question, then you know what exactly to do. A woman who doesn't even feel bad sleeping with a Priest and who obviously has no shame and doesn't think of her future, marriage and kids if/when they see those pictures or learn of her wayward ways shouldn't be a part of you.

The love Infiniti vehicles have for gearbox and fuel pump problems, even the best courts cannot separate them. Infiniti and their unending wahala. FX35 and Murano, as beautiful as they both look almost wrecked my account.

Rajman45:

Thanks a lot.... But am still seriously hoping for a better solution to it

Only God has the solution to it.

Please my dear brother, do not go ahead and marry her. You wouldn't want to watch your child(ren) live in perpetual pain and have frequent visits to Doctors, would you? It is painful leaving someone you love but it is necessary you do so for the sake of your unborn children. No matter how strong your love for each other might be, there wouldn't be joy in your home because of the ill-health of your kids. My 2 cents.

MarjieJ98354:
I would like to commend you on not hating women after what you have been through in your life.

I too was raped as a child by a close family member. Although there are many many reasons whey I became a feminist, childhood rape is the most devastating thing a person has to go through. I'm convinced that many feminists, MGTOWs and many people claiming homosexuality have been created because of childhood rape and other abuse traumas.

At times you don't even know why you practice certain behaviors until you experience a PTSD flashback. Or you wake up 30 years later still thinking you're 16; only to realized you have NOTHING/No One in your life. At that point it's almost too late to hope for something better.

Abuse isn't something that should be taken loosely. Many People go through one abuse or the other and come out with so much pain, hate, rebellion and evil intentions. I was broken, messed up and withdrawn but I carefully chose to let go of all pains and hate I had developed over the years. I've spoken with some feminists and I've discovered that a whole lot of them had had very terrible experiences with men. We choose our paths in life. My heart goes out to you at such a time as this and pray you get your complete healing and forgive your offender cos let's be frank, it is never easy to heal when raped nor forgive one's rapist.

orble:


Read very well, that's not what the young man is saying.

There is no way you'll understand except your are a man whose ancestry was from an indigent background, there you understand female on male oppression is worse.

The worse thing I wish the worst enemies

My dear brother, I understood perfectly well what he wrote and I also understand and respect your view and his too but I'd like for you to understand and appreciate the fact that that we cannot live without women. I know some women are bad just like some of their male counterparts but their are tons of very wonderful women out there. As a young boy, I was repeatedly raped by four different girls for 7 years. The first rape experience I had was when I was 4! A lot of people who experienced what I experienced ended up hating women and turning to homosexuality and some even decided to take revenge on women but I chose still, to love, respect and honour women. I've met very terrible women just as I've met very nice women.

orble:


Lucky you... my own mother is hell on earth to say the least. She make the other young women in life to be regardless of me... But I'm fine with that.

If you don't mind, I'd like to have your phone number. I'd like to be friends with you.

bigpriik:


The fact that you couldn't even remember her name means she did nothing...

My brother, have read about Queen Amina of Zaria and how that she led men to war and conquered territories? Have you read about Mrs. Margaret Thatcher (Iron Lady)? Have you read about Mary Slessor and how that she singlehandedly stopped the killing of twins in Nigeria? Who was the first Nurse in the World? The first Nurse in the World, Florence Nightingale, a woman, nursed wounded soldiers and gave hope hope to dying soldiers. We celebrate America today. Read about the American Presidents and the roles their wives played/play in their lives and governance. My mother, (God rest her soul), singlehandedly raised five children with her stipends as a government primary school Teacher! My mom trained all her kids to Masters Degree Level without any help from my Dad or anyone for that matter. I have a wife who sacrificed all for me for five years. I was in a very bad financial state when I met my Wife and she nursed, encouraged, prayed, gave, supported and help build me to who I am today. You need to know one thing- Women aren't "additions" to men. Women are more powerful than you know. Read your Bible. Deborah was a woman and the only person in the history of the World who the sun, time, moon and stars stood still for until she won her battle while in the battlefield. I have never dated a nonentity. You should take time to choose who you date. Just because you have probably been having bad experiences with some women doesn't mean we all have. I miss my late Mother everyday and God consoled me by giving me a Wife who has same traits and character as my late mum. I will respect and always respect women. You were given birth to by a woman, doesn't she deserve accolades? My dear brother, I'd encourage you to change your view and position on the issue of women.

bigpriik:
The society has brainwashed us the men into treating women like queens and babies while they treat us men like trash even though they depend on us for survival.I usually shake my head when I hear people say respect women,respect women my foot! you respect people who do not mind embarrassing you in public,people who add to your depression by calling you broke when you refuse to give in to their financial demands,people who cannot assist you financially in general people who do not care about your emotions people who do not mind disgracing or embarrassing you in public wat the f*****

I was really ashamed of my self yesterday when my friend ask me how much my babe has contributed to my life men absolutely nothing just sex time wasting.

In summary we men deserve whatever women throw to us while they deserve to the pampered
I keep saying women should be treated like adult human beings not like babies ...Ask yourself this question and be truthful do women respect men?why are you afraid of approaching a girl down the street?its because you fear being embarrassed by her which is very likely to human I have seen a guy being slapped just because he said hello to a lady,imagine if it was vice versa will the guy slap the lady answer that ,when a woman dumps a man nobody will question her rather they will blame the man but if a man dumps a lady they will call him playboy,they say he he used her to satisfy his sexual urge..bla bla bla...,if you embarrass a lady in public for stalking you,everybody will come for your throat both male and female but if its a lady they will all laugh inside life

sometimes I just think women are more of a punishment from nature than a helper I wish the world was all male with no penizz,I wish we could just reproduce like amoeva without sex
call me a misogynist I don't give a hoot.

swallows the red pill......

My brother, if you think women don't deserve our 100% respect, then it is a shame! you talked about women not going to war, have you extensively studied and read about Florence Nightingale? Florence Nightingale was the first Nurse in the World! (male and female) Have you read about Queen Amina of Zaria and how she led men to war and conquered? Have you read about the landslide achievements of Mrs. Margaret Thatcher? Have you read about Mary Slessor and how she stopped the killing of twins in Nigeria? Name one great man you know who wasn't given birth to by a woman, I dare you! That your girlfriends haven't been contributing to your growth and development doesn't me it is the same experience we have. I have never dated a woman who never made one contribution or the other for me to get where I am today. I had a great mother who singlehandedly trained all her five children and other people's kids in the face of poverty and penury (God rest my mum's soul). If you want to have a great marriage, you must learn to love, honour, cherish, respect and adore your wife. A woman doesn't have to be decent in character or appearance before she earns your respect. For God's sake, you were given birth to by a woman. Respecting women doesn't make you weak or foolish. PS My wife is the best thing that has ever happens to me. My wife's help, advice, prayers, love, encouragement, money and sacrifices help bring us to where we are today. I lobe my wife more than anything in this world (including myself)!

osato45:
is it possible that two females grinding their pussy together during the act can transmitt std to the other lady?

YES! when two women are scissoring, there's an exchange of fluids from their Jerichos. Fluids are where bacteria and viruses thrive.

KingAzubuike:
If I was fatoyinbo, I'd sue that idiot for defamation and blackmail. These women can be very devilish. They wait for you to be successful and popular before telling the whole world of a rape case that happened in 1945. There's no single evidence yet but see how people are already against an innocent fatoyinbo. God will fight for him.

You Sir, deserve a warm hug.

How much is this baby going for? But the rear bumper, wheels, rear lights and the Formica inside are still those of 2008 Camry but I'm interested in the care. very clean car it is.

And the Government thinks that by placing a ban on Snipper that the number of suicide would drop. Depression, Poverty, Lack of Love and Guilt all happen to top the reasons for suicide in Nigeria.

This woman still stands as one of the best entertainers Nigeria has ever had. I greatly enjoyed her music back in the day.

God rest her soul. This is so touching.

Jasen1:



Thought they said Benz can't hang 4 legs up

Usually, that is the case with BMW Products. Most times, no matter how many times a BMW Product Summersaults, it lands on all four.

That's not a Toyota Product but a Mercedes ML. May the Lord help us at all times.

kennygee:
Hmmn. One man's food is another man's poison.

Me that want low budget wedding and I'm prepared to offend a lot of people in the process self.

Do it coded, go for honeymoon, buy a land and start building it small small.

If you do big wedding, there are still people that will have something negative to say so use the money for more productive things.

This is so smart. it would be nice if a lot of women thought this way.

Not being judgemental, but what drove you to have anything to do with the guy you cheated on your husband with? You cheated on your husband which is bad enough, but with a man who has no love, feelings, respect and empathy? I'm sure your regrets aren't just cos you cheated but with whom you cheated with. Cheating in a relationship or marriage should never be encouraged. You have 2 beautiful Children and a husband and yet you threw it all away, for what? Your husband doubts the paternity of the kids and wants a divorce, can you blame him? Men HARDLY forgive cheating partners.

saasala:


Well...

I know she was the one throwing herself on the said actor, and that made her a bimbo. Their type actually end up single for a very long time or forever. Babymamaism might be her last calling.

But next time, please try to make a move for sex. I know what I am saying. It will boost your ego somehow, especially when the lady is pretty. It's nature bro, dont fight it. You were with her for 5 freaking days mahn!

The celebrity guy she wanted got married 3 years ago and now has a son and another child on the way. I could care less about her anyway. I don't force myself on people neither do I force things to happen. I appreciate your advice. Thank you very much.