₦airaland Forum

Beebah2000:
Are u okay??

WoundedLamb:
Hhmm.... The title would make one believe the girls came unto you, but that's not exactly the case. You were crushing on her, you actively sought her contact, you started chatting with her, and thereby given her the room to express herself freely. All fine, but now you know her age, do you still need us to tell you what do to do? What she has said to you is not unheard-of. As teens with raging hormones, we all had people we deeply crushed on, and if any of these people had come on to us or made themselves a "safe space", we probably would have told them how we felt. But as adults who have passed this age, do we really Nairaland to tell us what to do?

I guess what I'm trying to ask is, what kind of advise are you really expecting from Nairalanders when it's obvious from your write-up you clearly know what to do? You don't know if you should follow your judgment as a mature man or act on a teen's crush? Is that it? One would say you're just here to seek moral support for what you intend to do to the kid.

Sir, you can't in good conscience woo and sleep with a minor, and come out tomorrow to tell us how Nigerian girls are spoilt. She didn't have the courage to approach you earlier until you went after her, please find a way to reverse to that phase. Walk away with your dignity. Don't keep anybody as your sister; she is not your sister and pretending as if you're keeping her as one would be self deceit. The few minutes pleasure you seek could ruin your life. Even if you're not caught, you'll lose the moral authority to speak up against such acts for life even if your own daughter becomes a victim tomorrow.

Just an opinion.

SenecaTheYonger:
4chan is boring now. Stopped going there 2018. Been lurking there since 2013

pansophist:
I always confused IFNJ with ENTJ, but yes you're right. I'm an EFNJ. Having said that, you're good. I mean, how you could decipher the personality of someone you haven't met, just only by their write up is nothing but ingenuity.

Odogwu. My hand is up sir.

SenecaTheYonger:
Redpill us on the Black race.

Pumpumking:
Mr Cork!!