₦airaland Forum

Firstnebo:
That's what I am thinking too.

Why do they attribute these incidents to supernatural powers? How do they know these people have even been to native doctors in the first place?

Can we have access to official police reports that went root deep into how drugs were the actual culprits? Or have there been police reports that conclusively been able to establish these are supernatural powers?

Do you think its normal for someone to knowingly decide to take substance he knows can make him mad? Ask yourself why alot of people do somethings and you will get your answers, there's always an influence working in them and leads them to such habits that wil damage their lives permanently. The devil doesn't operate the way alot of you imagine, all he needs is to work on your mind there are over a billion things in the physical he can use to kill you

Switchman:
Please I Need Your Candid And Long Term Advise, I Am Presently Depressed And Out

This will be a lengthy one but I promise to summarize it as much as I can.

I met a lady in her late 30s 18months ago through an online friend. I was working in Lagos while she was based and working in Abuja.

We chatted for a while before she volunteered to come to Lagos for a visit over the weekend which doesn't seem a bad idea to me cos I believed seeing in person is better than 1 million pictures.

Due to her age and desperation, we met and she liked what she saw in me and intensive talks began on how I can relocate to Abuja and get better job. I actually haven't been to Abuja so I was excited to take that move with the hope of becoming a better person and getting a better job.

I resigned from my job due to some issues as at that time which could had been managed but so I can have more time to visit and see how things are in Abuja before making my final preparation to relocate. She supports financially during those time while I use my car for ehailing business pending when I will finally relocate.

Covid 19 lock down came and all plans were halted due to restrictions on vehicular movements. Fast forward to November last year I made final plans and I agreed to finally relocate but on the conditions that we will need to get a new apartment cos I don't want to move in with her to her former apartment which was a one room self contain, we got a 1 bedroom apartment and I moved in with her. She owns 90% stake on the expenses incurred but in the spirit of hope for a better job, I will upgrade the apartment to have an equal stake in the home.

It's been 3 months now I have fully relocated and we have been cohabiting but it's been hell for me and I just need help on how to get out of this mess I put myself. No job was forth coming and due to the fact that I am home always, I have been reduced to a house help cos I am the one doing the chores, cleaning the dishes and even my laundry though she pays for her own, so many other insults and atimes it's with exchanges of words before I can take a walk just to acclimatize myself with the terrains of the area.

It's really a bad experience for a man not to have a steady source of income cos in a twinkle of an eye the love will vanish.

I love the lifestyle of Abuja cos it is less stressful than Lagos and I will really like to get a good source of income so I can get my own apartment and be free from the shackles I put myself in the name of love.

I really need help now cos I know my days are numbered and it's a matter of time before she sends me packing cos I really don't have the right to the apartment. Please house, I need your candid advise on what to do and as always constructive criticism is allowed.

Thanks
Switchman

What happened to your car you were using to hustle?

Angy55:
No

Where you dey now?

Women who still think they are equal to men are just deluded. The society is not kind to women, your fellow women will put you down first when you are found wanting, even the ones advising you to do all you did. The day you move out, another takes your place and if you think it's easy to live alone as a divorced woman try am see

Adonis86:
Ask any cute guy that's active on social media, they can relate well with the experience. It's a commonplace.
If you're very cute, both guys and girls will be on your neck.

That was how one idiot was trying this nonsense and I told him if I see him within a mile, I will kill him. That's reason why I stopped accepting friend request from guys

Angy55:
Reporting from Ozoro delta state. News reaching us from private school owners and principals calling parents to come pick their children home because of the alleged Immunization by the Nigeria army.

Parents in panic, rushing from work to go pick their children as the school authorities and teachers would not be held responsible if by any means the soldiers succeeds in injecting these children with the monkey pox virus.

My sibling who attends a popular Catholic School in the area is back from School. The authorities placed a call to my parent to come and pick her.

Could this be just a mere a rumor to tarnish the Image of the present government or something fishy is underneath the boat shaking it that we are yet to know?


In every rumor there is an element of truth.

CC: Mynd44

You still dey the Ozoro?

Angy55:
Guy how far ?

Very far o.

perestroika19:
Has it increased to 5k? It used to be 3k around 2017. Hope Eagle Square is still rocking though

dem don upgrade, that place no too dey like before. I left there last year though but as usual, female student prostitution is like never before

This one was unfortunate to be beheaded, most of the girls in that Ozoro have been used one way or the other, don't ask me how. You will see kids of 12-14 that are supposed to be in school telling you that they want to press and cannot spell their names but going around buying cars and carrying casket at Rumours and Blessed Lounge and the most annoying thing is that these girls know what these guys do but will still follow because of small 5k. I stayed there, so I know what I'm saying ,

Own your hustle o, I be living witness presently staying in one even though its not going to last long. I jejely comot my papa 3 bedroom flat when e and just my mama dey because nothing like working and paying your bills no matter how small. For those when dey their papa house this is what I have for you.........

All the ones I'm meeting are not financially stable. I'm looking for the one with money, I don't crave for control, I seek understanding and reason, I don't see any woman as a tool or animal to be controlled

Scripture is clear about things like this, "A bad tree can only produce bad fruits(Matt 7:18)". People like these are not pastors, Paul was very clear about the kind of people that are supposed to lead and their character traits but those who call themselves Christians don't even know what the Bible says or its content. Its a pity that alot of Nigerians are nothing but churchgoers and not Christians

tommie1:
It was not one week. It was a few weeks later. Over a month.

Na only you dey fvck her? How can you be sure she wasn't pregnant before coming to see you and didn't end up taking the drugs? Too many loopholes

Most of the yams we eat in the South are grown here. I want to use Delta state as an example, my dad runs a transport business for those going to food market and from experience I can confidently tell you that 80% of yam and potato we consume in Delta is from Isoko area where the abokis go to buy cheaply and sell at outrageous prices like the ones they bring from the North.

Pressure and frustration might be the cause. He's under immense pressure to provide and he's trying to do it as fast as possible that's why he's delved into gambling fully. Being a man is not easy

I see alot of persons saying its an eatery and a open place, it's obvious you guys are just being sentimental. He didn't just reach out for those stuffs, he engaged her by asking some questions which she can be seen trying to answer and my guess is she probably lied about her location before the guy met her there.

This is why I advise women to buy things for themselves, if you want to use a wig, buy it, shoe, buy it and avoid disgracing yourself and your entire community.

December 24, 2020. An accident happened in front of me around 9 pm. I damned the consequences when everyone was waiting around doing nothing, stooped keke, rushed him to the hospital where I got rejected in about 5 of them before getting to the 6th one where he got treated. Stayed with him till morning the next day, before going to look for a means to contact his people from the wreckage. Long story short, he's alive. And that was how I spent my Christmas

Ineptitude at its best. Let them keep on paying randsome, very soon what's left is to give them the keys to the central bank volt, that's if they don't have it already by proxy

People ask me how I manage to stay calm in every situation and I tell them, its all a matter of perception. The way you act and react boils down to your worldview, people are bound to act stupidly, it's a choice, to get angry is also a choice I have to make, I hate stressing myself so I just excuse your foolishness and play cool.

6k.......Around 2009, worked as a teacher in a private school after my WAEC exams. It hasn't been a roller-coaster but God has been faithful, lost about 2-3 years impatiently running around, for those coming up, trust the process don't be in a hurry, you will only set yourself back in terms of your gains.

I dey find the one when I want date. Juju no dey chop juju

Havesomesense:
how many months relationship ?

About 3 months now

I thought there's vaccination against Hepatitis?

Them go hear word. I don tell my babe day I no dey do valentines after she bring up one joint say make I go pay money for show which I can afford though, but since then she never message me. Na one eye I take dey watch her, who like make e go do pass himself

Abeg where the link to the video?

Priscaochy:
Pls I am in need of a job in Abuja,am a graduate,I have bsc in accounting but pls I need a job even if it's a house help work am tired of staying at home depression is eating deep into me,pls help,thank you.

Why not take up a teaching position first before something better comes up