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phemmyfour:
Relocate to Lagos

Will you accommodate him. I want to relocate to Lagos but no way to do that.

All those when dey date older women, where Una take see them. I don tire for slay mama dem, I dey find Older ladies o, make person connect me

proxillin:
She has been mounting pressure on me to follow her to meet her parents. We have been in this relationship for a year now. Although she is not the only one I am dating. I am not sure of the other lady, but atleast this one is ready to marry me.

I am not sure if I genuinely love her or not, but a part of me love her..A part of me want to treat her bad, whenever I remember what she did to me in the past.

3 years ago, I started noticing and showing interest in her being my junior sister’s friend. I discussed with my sister who encouraged me to approach her that she had no boyfriend. We were on talking terms before which was an opportunity. So I leveraged on that to get closer to her. When she noticed I was getting closer, she started giving me attitudes, stopped talking to me. Finally she stopped coming to our house. She would give my sister thousands of excuses why she was not chanced to come to our house.

We met at a friends birthday party, to my surprized, she warmed up to me, greeted me. I though she must have repented. While the party was on, I asked her to come to my table and spend sometimes with me, she said “ok”. I waited for hours, she didn’t come. I later saw her in the room with the celibrant. I jokingly said to her “You dey whine me abi”. She just went off, started ranting, she said I should say whatever I want to say now infront of everyone..infront of her friends. “Why do you want me to come and sit with you?” say it now “let the whole world hear”. It was so embarrasing for me. I just said to myself “whats there..are they not aldult?..dem never toast all of them before”.

My sister was there, got angry and left us. She had already warned me to leave her alone. That I am interfering with their friendship. On my birthday, she replied to my whatsapp pictures with love and kiss icons. She went to facebook to like all my birthday pix. Facebook was alerting me as she was clicking. She finally sent me happy birthday..where is my cake..we started gisting again. She apologized for what she did that day, that she was not in a good mood that day (someone who met, joked and laugh with me, even agreed to come sit with me on my table).

We continued chattin for weeks, I made sure I didn’t get intimate with her. One day, my sister was playing with my phone, then saw our chats, read through our chats. She was mad at me. She confronted me and nearly slapped her for disrespect. She later calm down and explain to me that if I knew what this girl said about me on group chat, that I would shoot her if I have a gun. She said she didn’t tell me so that I wont feel bad.
She then show me their caucaus group chat discussing me. Tears was just coming out of my eyes. I felt cold. They were just laughing at me. My sister was just fighting for me shutting them off.

This lady said “how come some men behave like he goat. Why can’t he leave me alone?” “am I the only girl on the planet? Oh God I hate that idiot.” “Gosh, I can never be close to such person talkless of dating him” ANOTHER girl said “That’s how those guys are…you need to disgrace him more next time he try something stupid with you. Blahblah.

That’s when I closed her chapter. Blocked her on facebook, whatsapp, instagram. I moved on. My sister did photoshoot for her birthday and some of her friends came. I saw her and just greeted her, minding my business. Then I was dating another girl then, so it’s a win win for all. She stayed behind, when everyone left, she asked my sister to help her beg me. She knelt infront of me started telling me “she was sorry..she was being childish” This was someone that was in her 24 when I was chasing her. I said I forgave due to pressure from my sister. Since then, she will come to my apartment, do my laundary, cook soup inside my freezer. When she is coming from work, she will branch at my place prepare food on my table. At times she offered to sleep overnite, that she cooked till late in the night, which I will refuse.

But one thing led to another, one day, we had sex. And that changed everything. I couldn’t resist her again. But a part of me still hate her whenever I remember those disgraceful moments. Now she is 26, she want us get married. If I marry her, I may treat her bad.

In a dilema seriously and its giving me headache.

Marriage isn't a pity party. She might have truly changed but there's already a big question mark on her character as a PERSON. Whether you like a guy or not isn't reason to be a nasty asshole. Whether she's ready for marriage or not is inconsequential, are you ready to live with what you hate?

Tithing didn't start with Malachi 3:10, and it would be ignorant to base it on that verse. No one who's in Christ Jesus can be under a curse, the gospel is not tithe based but salvation based and the truth is prosperity comes only from having Jesus and working in the spirit. The story of Peter and John with the man at the beautiful gate should open us to that which is real, God is more interested in giving to us through those he has commissioned for the work because he has made ample provision for the workers. The great commission moreover doesn't include asking for tithe, Jesus specifically asked that they preach the word, anything outside that is secondary.

As painful as it sounds but this is what I have to say:

John 8:3-5,7,9-11
[3]As he was speaking, the teachers of religious law and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in the act of adultery. They put her in front of the crowd.
[4]“Teacher,” they said to Jesus, “this woman was caught in the act of adultery.
[5]The law of Moses says to stone her. What do you say?”
[7]They kept demanding an answer, so he stood up again and said, “All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!”
[9]When the accusers heard this, they slipped away one by one, beginning with the oldest, until only Jesus was left in the middle of the crowd with the woman.
[10]Then Jesus stood up again and said to the woman, “Where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them condemn you?”
[11]“No, Lord,” she said.And Jesus said, “Neither do I. Go and sin no more.”----------


There would be many Pharisees who would come here to condemn your wife but she deserves another chance. But carryout a DNA on all the children.

Greedy bastards. Some thieves are collecting allocation meant for an entire state with nothing to show for and they are shouting marginalisation. What did they do with amnesty money syphoned to a few cronies with a majority of the youths being sidelined? No jobs, oil companies have all packed out because of deve collection and hunger has set in, that's why these clouts are trying to raise dust. The youths don't want to work, all they are after is money, companies offer jobs to communities but instead the king's and leaders would rather take money than have anyone from the community employed or for any project to happen. Before you ignorantly quote me, I'm a full blooded Deltan, I know what I'm saying

My favourite dance, this brings back some fond memories. Who no get power or never chop well, make e no go attempt am o, it will end in the hospital

basybasy:
Despite all the money this Akpabio carried when he was a two terms Governor. He is behaving like someone that has never seen money in life. Kai, our leaders are very greedy. All what the woman said about might be true. God please, help the soul of Nigeria.

Someone who said what money cannot do, more money will do, is it that kind of human being you expect to be content

Any site for downloading anime between 40-50mb? Kissanime have removed the options for low quality download

I said Borno is a city of graves on one of my comments some days ago and it seems a majority didn't grasp what I said. I have been there, I have seen and it's heartbreaking

NO link

EngineerBode:
They should dock Gandollar too. Her smile is nice, I will not lie

I think in the first report, they said a 20 years old guy arrested with her had N9m in his account. These small boys are just making money. One in my area dating foreign women on sites like Bit Mistress recently made $20k, That's like N8m. His flatmate received $7k or so last weekend. If not that I have not done G before, I would have registered on the Bit mistress site to try my luck.

Bitcoin is untraceable, so even if the site is a scam as much as I suspect, you have no case

ModestGal:
Lol, not possible, see you. You can only win if I'm at fault for beating you first. Plus street boxing has no skills like TAEK, trust me. Na only hand you people dey use na, you no dey fly, jump. Have you seen Jackie chan or Jet li when he's fighting before? That's me, no film trick, I fly in the air, walk on water etc

Madam Jet Li, carry your taekwondo come, I go beat you wells ABI you no see wetin Mike Tyson do IP man and a them Jet Li na e students

ModestGal:
I'm a Taekwando black belter, its only if a guy is ready to die hes gonna try that shit with me. And also, I am crew NO FORGIVENESS of such kind of mental problem. Go see a psychologist and never com back to me.
Sick people

I'm a street boxer and with your taekwondo, I go beat you blue and black

Tareq1105:
Is that democracy?

Is that not against the spirit and letters of freedom of association?

Is that not another godfather in the making?

Wisdom is profitable to direct. Freedom of association is not one directional, it also implies a freedom to not want to associate and the governor has chosen not to associate with perceived saboteurs

dheilaw1:
Shut by the same Obaseki who's fighting godfatherism?

It's not a matter of godfather, you can't afford to have a mole at this point in time in your campaign trail or someone who's not on your team moving with you

Warri ground view is something else. I'm still doubting those pics are from Warri

FreelanceRebel:
Along Nnamdi Azikiwe estern bypass, from Kabala west, to kudende, nassarawa Trikania,

But as it is now, prices have changed dramatically should be up to 45k to 50k

But my I know a caretaker who still offer 36k two rooms at Kabala West. If want his contact let me know.

Thanks alot. When I'm ready, I will give you a mention, I really appreciate

Sunnyja:
How can Borno state be City of graves when the ex-governor Shemitta claimed that Borno was more peaceful than Lagos State?!

And you believe him?

Viicfuntop:
And you had to quote the whole thing for this

Na your quote

Nksleek:
EXPOSITION ON HUSHPUPPI, FLASHY LIFESTYLE OF A SOCIETY OF NOBODY HOLY PASS.

Just like all social vices, fraud is addictive and the more you get into it, the more you are captivated to get more until you are caught then you realize how messed up you have ended.
Nobody holy pass because you never can tell how your actions have pushed someone into crime.
When I broke the news of hushpuppi’s arrest to my goons that have every genuine reason in the world to continue in the lavish lifestyle of fraud, to my greatest surprise, none of these folks supported their own or felt any remorse for their nefarious activities, they rather began to cast aspersions on their senior colleague (a one time mentor) who their gist about his achievements forced me to follow him on IG since 2017 in search for contents for my blog. By the way, he was always in the news and once wrote an epic letter to the youths (some parts are referenced before this post).

“Kamani, Hushpuppi too do... I go done stop yahoo if I get even one quarter of wetin Hushpuppi don make from yahoo.” one of them replied.

When I asked how much you don chop so far from street, dude suddenly went mute. Why? Because he was unable to account for the several thousands of dollars he had received, both shared with others and personal. It’s the same scenario of unaccounted accumulation that played out with Hushpuppi because the lavish lifestyle made him to lose count of the several millions he has received and shared. I am pretty sure he’d be shocked when the charges of his exploits are read to him.

THE SYSTEM

There’s never a one man squad in fraud or if there ever is, it will be the petty one called 419 and sooner than later, there must be a recruitment to advance the scam. Often times, there’s a subtle competition among scammers on who don blow pass and puppi’s greatest rival seems to be Mompha.
Hushpuppi today happens to be the bad egg and even the hens that lay and nurture them are also clucking in condemnation but I still maintain that nobody holy pass.

No matter how you try to feign holiness, fraud has so eaten deep into our system that the many business tycoons and politicians that we look up to in town may not necessarily press computers at odd hours to bomb or hack but are the greatest beneficiaries at the forefront to receive greater proceeds in percentage by providing accounts for receiving this stolen funds mostly through money laundering and influence. A few CSOs and NGOs are not left out.

Hushpuppi is not the evil, he is a reflection of the society we live in and because Interpol/FBI understand that for every dancing bird on a footpath, there’s definitely a drummer in the bush, they are doing everything naturally possible to blacklist even the few legit ones among us because they can’t fathom how long it will take us to compromise standard and adopt fraudulent practices. The principles you preach on social media have a watering price tag that even if you wish to decline the offer, someone will pass behind your back to do it on your behalf through impersonation to soil your reputation.
Kindly channel your energy to the system and not the product.

My humble opinion.

All I can see from your write-up is someone who has chosen to take the middle seat but in this game, there's no middle seat. The system and the products are one and the same infact, the system is as a result of the decisions taken by the product. The system I believe represents our values and it's time we start pulling down the rotten fruits from the tree, so that whoever sees the tree would not judge it based on the few decayed fruits.

Those who haven't been to the north and seen the devastation of this insurgency first hand wouldn't understand the gravity of what this man did. I have been there and I have seen and can only tell you that I lost hope from that moment in this entity called Nigeria, human sympathy is non existent and everything humane is dead. Our leaders will all die miserably and their children will reap and pay for every life that's carelessly lost daily. Borno state is a city of graves

OB3344:
Guys pls I need your advice biko, my babe told me yesterday that she has started developing feelings for another guy , she added that she's still in love with me though, but she doesn't know what to do.(that I should advice her ) Imagine!
Should I break-up?
Or what should I do ?
Me like this babe die..

Take every pound o flesh you can possibly have now because na sorry be that relationship

FreelanceRebel:
These are bogus and exaggerated prices. Am living in a room and parlor and I pay 37k/yr. The amount quoted by OP is about 40 percent hiked.

Although there houses with such but few. But on average the price is about 40 percent less

I'm thinking of relocating, where can I get a house at the rate you are paying?

skimena:
The first time I heard this word I just couldn't stop laughing. do girls really have fish brains? The girls of nowadays seem to be smarter than this or is it olden days women they are referring to? May be it's a personal view and not a general view. Just thinking aloud.

Because they actually have fish brain

Obviously things are not what it seems to be, she is already giving priority to some other things other than love. If you choose to not continue, let her family know your reasons out of respect since they are already involved

Alimzy20:
i wanted to send the clown money too when i saw the acct name i com kana..maybe na gay prostitute..wetin alfa joseph nogo see for dream

Can I send you my account number, please I need just 1k to fill my gas, no work and things bad this period. 4331042301 Ecobank

spiceadole:
That's the point exactly.
So a young man should not feel entitled to having sex with girlfriend, simply because they are dating.

Same way,a young lady should not feel entitled to her boyfriend's money.

Each person should look for alternative means to solve their "problems".

Man: Patronise prostitutes ..Allow your girlfriend's pussy rest.
Lady: Work,have a business and earn your own money..Allow your boyfriend's pocket breathe.


That way...perfect relationship.

Who's talking of entitlement? Is sex now a bargain? The sex is consensual and both parties enjoy it, it shouldn't be used for comparison in terms of benefits in a relationship

Africandope:
Dont u know you can cause depression. You're very useless. Why not offer him a job if u have one. He said he has tried jobs which didn't work out and wants to try more. If he was comfortable with his situation he wouldn't be here in the first place.

My friend dont be depressed keep looking for a job even graduates today dont have jobs.
If u stay in PH I can give u a job

I need a job and can relocate to pH, please help a bro. Just sent you a pm

spiceadole:
That's good.
No spending
No sexing

Perfect relationship.

Let her go and work ..
And close her legs very tight.

Yea, ashawo na 5 hundred, very cheap. Nobody fit use sex take blackmail me

Time spent cannot be regained but consciously lying to yourself is worse, love is meant to be enjoyed, anything contrary isn't love anymore and it's obvious the signs have been there

Carchoice:
Dating an independent lady;

When you call her in the evening she tells about her day activities, you both gets to share ideas, solutions to problems, discuss productive ideas(note: there’s no morning call because she doesn’t have the time)


Dating a dependent lady;

She calls you in the morning , and starts telling you how she’s not eaten, needs money for hair, her data is not always enough, she’s always in need, endless need, when you have 20k in your account, 16k goes to her one way or the other just to prove your level responsibility
You are always worried because you can’t satisfy her enough. When her phone rings it’s no other than toasters. No one calls her for anything serious except “come and visit me”


I been there bro, it’s not a nice experience. Currently I role with women that calls me to share business ideas and needs my intellectual inputs.


If you are in love with a woman and you haven’t done anything for yourself yet, and you don’t know how far journey you still have and you are a NIGERIAN, sorry bro.

Love your neighbor as you love yourself, making stupid decisions is not love and alot of guys are just in that league. My present gf don dey complain just after one month because I told her, no spending. The truth is, you can never satisfy a woman