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happney65:
Breaking

Trump to face first criminal Trial on March25th in New York

Let him face it and get over with it. Too much dribbling.

AmazonTopaz:
Whew, this thread is still functioning.

Hallelujah o.

I came to remind Trumpists and MAGAts that Biden will beat Trump again.
And hopefully, we are all alive and well because in November I will be back to drink your tears.

The calmness around is one thing I like about his presidency.

mariahAngel:
Iya mi, it'll not belleful all of us naa.

I'll kuku leave it for all of you, and eat plantain instead.

2024 - Iya mi we should eat small small under Tinubu government.

Caaz:
Akpu is not my thing....it took me hours just to finish one ball.

I think it should be avoided if one is not doing farm work.

My grandma loves it - a very good farmer.

sukkot:
hmmm ok if you say so 😄 . Two people with different temperamental levels tip toeing around each other forever hoping one don’t snap and kee everything moving 🤣🤣

You tame that temperament when you are in love and there is money

You for that matter can put on Astral covers.
With good air flotation, nobody can kee you.

Cassandraloius:
Some like it hot and some like it cold. I love it hot with a delicious afang soup/ vegetable soup or groundnut soup. What about you?🎤

MariahAngel, Cococandy, Caaz and Descarado and I will share one wrap.

Soup: Authentic uziza soup with plenty of fish.

sukkot:
hehe bro people still get married ? Like life isn’t hard enough alone 🤣🤣

Marriage is okay now as long as both are working and making real good money.

Marriage is not okay if one doesn't have a good job or poor.

9japicker:
What do you think or what is your preferred choice between a net salary of 130k for a job in Ibadan or 200k for a job in Lagos?

Note: The 130k job is for an operations manager while the 200k job is for a business manager.

How can one find such kind of job in ibadan ?
Mind sharing where to apply ?

Rokiat:
Stupid girl as the saying goes

When you marry or date a man you are marrying or dating his lifestyle too.

Why even give a chance to a broke man smh she haven’t seen nothing yet, some women are so stupid.

Are you the same Rokiatu that used to post Indians here on nairaland ?

Why is he kneeling down? I thought you propose with one feet down 🤔

Sukkot,
You see... learn from ya Brothers and make sure to kneel while proposing

radautoworks:
First of all, I'm not your son. Second, you're welcome to feed what you want to your kids

Haha 😊

WriterNig:
[color=black]The US has crashed more aircrafts in training this year than 🇷🇺 Russia that is fighting in a war has. More than 19 crashes in just the last 3 months.

🇺🇸 US military aircrafts are flying coffins. World's number 1 🤡 Army indeed.[/color]

👍🏻 Like for Russia-Putin, share for USA/Nazi/NATO 卍

It could have been the weather - per the weather news from there, their weather so far this week has been tough.

🙏

Obrigardo:
Criminal trump is going to jail!

You still dey here dey fight

sukkot:
condoms ?

Your people prefer to feel the skin

Africans and condoms ?

sukkot:
I child - very good idea. But will your people do the 1 child thing ? <<<<< when you asked this question bro it wasnt about if my parents would approve of my one child policy ?

Just a general question ....by "your people" I meant men now

I know ya as chitown warload...pickins are not in ya horizon

sukkot:
yeah bro my parents spent like over a decade living in the UK. Point being they don't care what you do with your personal life as regards the number of children you should have. They would love for you to have one but if you choose not to that's your choice. So I don't deal with those kind of issues. Yeah I rather have lots of money in the bank than a lot of kids too. Am too independent to have lots of kids. I believe many kids would give me mental illness, then again maybe I would adapt lmao . But ermm it's not hard to want sex and be broke so long as you are under 25. Once you get past 25 it's time to get serious

Parents are not even the problem - the problem is the randy nature of brothers trying to sow their wild oat with their flying tadpoles whether hungry or not

1Sharon:
We are not like our parents generation. No silly fake story moves us anymore ! People back home lie so much.

Notice how their sob stories always sound the same and it's always an incessant emergency that only your money can solve. No matter the amount you send, their problems never end.

Extended family back home don't care about you, they care about what they can get.

Focus your money and attention on those that truly care about you. People back home lie to rob you dry.

Edit:

You'll see a diasporan with 20-30yrs experience abroad with nothing to show for it.

They siphoned all their money to Africa to mind businesses that don't concern them, they end up having nothing for themselves. Those same ppl they helped will end up mocking and ask why you have nothing.

Spending their money on common Vitamin D tablets would have been truly more beneficial than sending to an ungrateful manner less relative.

So true!
You hear of people who manage and lived frugal life overseas to be able to send money home all the time as the asking for money never ends.
You hear of those who can't send their kids to private schools oversea so they can afford to send money to family whose kids are in private schools in Nigeria or responsible for family members in university.

Tomorrow, they will still tell you you didn't do anything for them. Entitlements!

1stGenAmerican:
If this guy managed to build himself a new house in Nigeria, why does he need his brother abroad to send him 300 pounds per month? His accomplishment proves he can take care of himself so why does he need his brother’s money?

I wonder....
Why would a brother send 300 pounds or dollars to another brother per month ?
Ummm he will be in trouble the day or month he didn’t send.

AreaFada2:
Let be realistic. Investing in 9ja is a major mistake unless you are on ground to do it yourself. People warned me years back, I didn't listen.

Done that, seen it. People managing it will ruin you. RUIN as in capital. Biggest regret.

My cousin got her own share if it 3 years back despite my warning to her. No house to see when she arrived home. House being built and pics sent were fake. Adjusting for recent inflation and currency devaluation, total sum should be abo nowut 65 to 70m Naira.

Simple advice to her: Forget the money and get your ass back abroad before they kpai you. Leave as soon as Covid-19 lockdown allows you.

Investment in shares? Same story. Fake land, etc.

If you saved 10m Naira in 9ia or invested in shares in 2014, how much is it worth today?

If you built a small hotel in 9ja, how much return will you get as ROI? Well I know many who have since sold up due to family eating all the proceeds. Decades of experience here.
9ja is a sink hole for your funds.

In any case, forget about returning to 9ia for retirement. To darkness, bandits, kidnappers, poor health care and bad roads?

Diaspora people should wake up. The community spirit and loving parents you grew up with are either already gone or will soon go totally. Nothing left. You are a grown ass adult now that only your nuclear family wherever you live care about. Nobody else.
Even the houses you built, some relatives are ready to drag it with your abroad based kids and wife if God forbid anything happens to you today. With juju and any other means.

Keep your money/investment for YOUR CHILDREN. Not in 9ja.

Do charity as the spirit leads you, but expect nothing.

What should someone do in this situation of dragging your property with you?

DivinegiftofGod:
This is pure jeolousy. Envying your own family members is the height of witchcraft


It's not their fault that they live in a place where the 10 dollars you send can get them a luxury it can't afford you over there. If you look at it, you still spend the bulk of your money more than them because you send them chingum money that can't take you a week but spend thousands of what you send to them there for yourself. So how are they enjoying more than you?
Person go just dey begin calculate the small 100 dollars ( wey be like 100 naira to am) wey him dey send say e too much. Small prayers wey you for receive for sending a meager 100 dollars, you now lose it because of over calculations.

It's this wicked mentality that is making many of you to be stingy. It's very bad. If they have the opportunity to be there like you, I'm sure they won't ask you for anything.

Keep your money. Those in naija go still shine and fresh pass una because we eat real natural organic food and get natural Vit D year round.
You guys wait. It's only a matter of time, we will soon have good govt and nobody will send you and your lonely lives abroad anymore.

Very stingy people.

Why now

sukkot:
my brother life is wahala 🤣 in between the wahala small pockets of enjoyment go Dey but very fleeting. SIGH 😞👀😄

Nah but seriously life can be great. It’s all about your outlook, manage your expectations, taper your aspirations and seek a higher path. It’s an easy life. People make it hard for themselves. Oh and don’t have more than 1 child. Detach from peoples expectations of you. Just do you at your own pace

I child - very good idea. But will your people do the 1 child thing ?
I don't know where hungry broke people see enough energy to have sex. Loads of money in bank to live well is better than sex!

I agree with all you said up there sukkot.

sukkot:
my brother the truth of the matter is that the average person, elite or not, feels helpless against the system and the inbred culture of corruption and selfishness. It’s a daunting task trying to change the culture. Every person is just waiting for his or her own turn to steal. Look at that beautiful girl ? Not even up to 6 months in office she has cleaned out the government akant, ok I exaggerate but you get the point ? Everyone has the mindset of stealing and looting. The ones who are angry are only angry that it’s not their turn to steal. So this thing we are dealing with is a behemoth monster mindset. A dragon. It’s daunting and overwhelming. So the posh concerned elites can see the huge size of the monster and choose to just not go against it but instead to buy a second house in a sane country in case they need to run away from the madness or at least take a break from it

But if by elites you mean the ones in charge ? Most of those guys are not Nigerians so they don’t care. Nigeria to them is a plunder. Most of them come down south into Nigeria from Niger republic.

In essence no hope of Nigeria ever getting better.
Nobody wants to do the clean up or at least initiate it - so sad

Tinubu should address the current hardships in Nigeria.

Why is he quiet ?

When something is going on, even if you don't have answers or solutions, you address the masses. That's government of the people.... Let them hear what you guys are doing to alleviate the current problems.

sukkot:
lol bro people are different. I can't eat just anywhere because people do diabolical things to the food to attract customers. It's all kind of madness going on out there bro. One time I went to this Amala joint, the girl was holding my Amala waiting for her turn to get stew on it, I saw her digging in her buttcheeks and she used same hand to handle my Amala. Yeah I can't just eat anywhere like dat. Make i no go vomit inside restaurant lmao

So person will not scratch yanshcheek again because they are holding your amala ??

cococandy:
Oh Yes I’ve had it with smoked turkey and it’s so good.
And with uziza is awesome as well

Just wasn’t cooking as much hence plenty stuff I haven’t made in a while

I tell you!

Cooking nig food is not a joke especially if one is a full-time professional worker in obodo where you do everything yourself.

cococandy:
I haven’t had Egusi in so long. This was comforting

Really ? Why na ? Have you tried making it with smoked turkey?

Egusi and Uziza

Na waffle sukkot dey give us headaches for so ?

Buy ya flight tickets go Chicago and eat belly full at IHOP na

Where syrup on your waffle ? You licked am ?

Smoked Prawn sauce in EVOO - Nnem, thanks for showing me how to make this native sauce. So great with rice!!

omooba969:
This chick made me try Tres leches (Milk Cake), quite nice actually. 😋😋

Sweet mouth.

Condensed milk cake, why won't it be nice and extremely sweet?

Four four ty

Lai lai
Before Before
Wa wa

Mu mu

Cunny cunny

All the above i have heard

Munzy14:
The earlier you leave him and focus on yourself, the better for you.

I tell you!!!
Once they assume you have money, they will be demanding u reasonable and unnecessary things.