emotionalwoman:
Thank you for your responses.

I think it's best we remain apart because I'm at peace where I am.
I guess it's loneliness and the fear of taking care of two kids all by myself that was making me reconsider our arrangement.

I'm at peace with myself, I don't hate him but I can not forget how toxic it's been.
I really do hope we maintain being cordial, for the sake of our kids.

I honestly do love him but the truth is we are truly incompatible and love is just not enough.

Our marriage of seven years has scarred me emotionally and mentally.
I actually do not want to be entangled with anyone anymore, I just want to focus on me and my kids.
I guess because I don't talk much about it or I'm always jovial, he still doesn't understand.


Thank you all.

Have you told him the good and the bad sides of your relationship with him? Perhaps he doesnt realise how it has been for you. Also ask for his

Bolaji26:

Report thjs stuff offically or take it off nairaland. You put yourself at risk by discussing here and not reporting formally

Rastaramsey:
Guy if you try am enh, nah ogun go kill you....

How the hell you would betray your blood If you aren't satisfied with his job , leave him.......

He should not "betray" a thief?

You must be a thief yourself to make this comment

shortIGBOman:


Separation is necessary some times, when there are unreconcilable differences. After separation, the man and woman will think things through and come up with better ways to handle the reoccurring issue.
Which will lead to a more peaceful marriage.

She has learned lesson now. Just give her a chance.

I disagree bro. We dont have both sides though, but from what I have read so far, whatever the issue was, is something both parties coukd have worked out but only 1 was looking for a solution.

The lady used the nuclear option -abandoned the man for 2 month and took their only child. She can repeat it again tomorrow. I personally wont take her back in a hurry....may never take her back seff because clearly I cant depend on her

Babsojimjim:
Dear all, permit me to use this medium to seek for mature and experienced advise...When a wife out of her own wish without any current justifiable reason seperates from her husband for almost two months and has now decided to return back with the kid out of her own wish without any pressure, should the man accept her back? Also should there be conditions attached before the man can accept her back? Mature and experienced input is highly appreciated. Thanks all.

If it were me I will start my own shakara...men offer a lot of thankless service many familes dont appreciate.

Let her continue to stay with whoever has been hosting her. She probably believes you wont do well without her...youve survived the 2 months, let her know you can go further.

sod09:
wat I heard was bode Thomas entered d king room without knocking and met him(king) naked .....its a taboo to see a king naked,even his wives can't

Really? How do the king wives get pregnant?

mike404:
WHAT IS SHE DOING WITH CONTRACEPTIVE IF I MAY ASK

How is it your business?

SlyfoxxjReturns:
Hmmm these days na to sign consent form before initiating any physical contact with women. Especially in these Oyinbo countries.

If you’re a young professional pls keep your distance from women you work with. Unless you are both in a clearly defined relationship. It’s not worth the risk at all.

Forget that defined relationship thing....even your girlfriend or wife can accuse you of non-consensual huge or kiss....

Ebubu3:
Strange because elephants travel in herds

Male elephants (bulls) dont necessarily stay with the herd

sweetoma:
Visa Alert!!!! Visa Alert!!!!
Family of 3
Application: 6th of January
Biometrics: 7th of January Abuja TLS
No NSF
Sent paid mail 25th of January Decision made
Moved to VAC/ Collection mail for all : 31st Jan
DHL Delivery: 1st Feb 2022
Documents submitted
Main Applicant: NECO, Transcript, TB cert Degree certificate, Employment letter, NYSC, Statement of Account from 3 accounts: 2 Naira and 1 Dollar account, all statement printed from mobile app, two stamped but the Stanbic dom statement was unstamped. ....

Congrats madam....

Tantamount20:
check your mail and revert!

I no longer have access to the email linked to this address. What's the subject of the intended message?

dettolgel:


Bro please can you throw more light on the study loan stuffs. I have a younger one planning to apply for September intake.

prodigyfinance & Mpower give study loans to Nigerians for selected top schools though

Slaiojel4u:
Good morning house,
pls i booked Royal Air Maroc to Heathrow at 158k naira on wakanow which i got
3 free 23kg bags.... how true?
what are the Covid-19 Check list?
Does it need transit visa ?
Thanks

Royal air maroc used to have a very bad reputation for treating African passengers poorly and misplacing luggage. You may need to check if this has changed about them.

kennykale:


It’s a case of fraud.

angry and sad for him at the same time. He would have put in so much resources and time to allow a few hundred thousand mess him up.

Ironically stenon warned against it and he quoted her in response.

oluseyidimeji:
The agreement was to get the money deposited and pay the %.
Few days later after paying the %, was told I will get the statement and not worry about the deposit but I can be sure it’s verifiable.
I know how many readers are feeling about this but it was someone very close to me that introduced me and this was based on trust, you really need see how I was convinced about it.
I felt I need put this out there for others to learn.
Can I still find Grace @justwise

Did you mean you printed the POF before 28 days based on the advice of your agent? or the statement was falsified (in which case I will further ask how/who you got the statement from)?

I think your defense should be based on the genuineness of the error (if an error). if its is a clear case of fraud, its a hard fight

****

Just reading others comments: you messed up sha...if you could pay deposit, pay visa fees and IHS, you could have just spared a little extra to get this right.

tegrianonigltd:



What if she was lying ? Like Neymar case when he had Undeleted chats, that’s how he escapes..you have to be careful when dealing with women abroad, case of Eboue, successful career, went broke.

When you are a reference point you have to not just be above board but also appear above board. Its a high demand from mere humans....but for someone earning several tens or hundreds of thousands of pounds a week, it is a high demand

safarigirl:


No matter how successful you are, always remember to be a decent human being.

Treat people with the respect you wish to be treated with, be extra careful in how you conduct yourself, so that your actions cannot be misconstrued as negative.

As a famous person, you do not have the cloak of anonymity that ordinary people have. You will be upheld to a higher standard and you must strive to live up to that standard.

Most importantly, be a decent human being, think of all of your actions, ESPECIALLY when you live in a country where repercussions exist for your actions

If you are in a shithole country like Nigeria though, you may not have to be as careful.

True...

Olarhhh:
I updated the story under the comments since questions keep coming
I don't have any problem with my inlaw, infact staying around when my husband left is best but he left a lot of loan to be paid and he hasn't secured a job over there yet and their mother won't let me take her as my own sister but my inlaw,,, it's inconvenience..
A sister would understand the situation, some inlaws will also, but not my own inlaw, that's why I need space
Her being around is extra mouth to feed

it's your husband battle, dont fight it for him. it will be very insultng for you to walk your inlaw directly or indirectly from your house.

Samsung 32 inches hd led - sold
Gotv and antenna - sold

**items still available***

- washing machine (scanforst twin tube)
- 7ft × 5ft high density fibre wardrobe
- airfryer 4.5L
- toaster - 2pieces
- mattress (mouka 6ft × 6ft * 9inches)
- baking oven
- kitchen cabinet
- bedframe 6.25ft×7.25ft (differs from advertised mattress size)

***ps - buyer is responsible for pickup and transportation (prices are ex-delivery)

Kollins11:
Tinubu is the most qualified, versatile and intellectual presidential candidate for Nigeria. Asiwaju Tinubu is the most capable candidate to succeed Buhari.

He is an achiever, he can make Nigeria work again, look at the development in Lagos State, are we not happy??

Look at how catastrophic the economy is, insecurity everywhere, inflation and unemployment aren't we tired Suffer nor dey tire una Them use suffer swear for una Please Vote for Bola Asiwaju Tinubu to end these suffering and pain inflicted on us.

BAT 2023

whose fault is it, isnt buhari tinubu's creation? better go and find better thing to sell tinubu...he will pay for the sin of bringing the calamity called buhari

Kulex56:
Can I see the picture of the air fryer

brand - power airfryer
size - 4.5L

thank God they didn blame pdp this time. As usual though, it is everybody but buhari's fault

..

Puya:

Hello
How much for the wardrobe

60k

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6.75X5ft

Atk1nson:
**clearance sale***location - Yaba axis, Lagos


1. Samsung 32 inch led HD - 60k
2. Scanforst washing machine - twin tube 6.8kg - 60k
3. Airfryer - 35k
4. Mouka mattress 6×6 - 45

Other items like baking oven, toasters, smoothie blender , stabilizer, wardrobe also available

All items in very good condition

Whatsapp only - 07089368177

Items still available:

TV Samsung Led Tv 32 inches
Air fryer 4.5L
Bed frame 6.25ftX4.75ft
Wardrobe 6.75X5ft
Washing machine 12kg twin tube washing machine
Gotv & antenna
Stabilizer Nexus 1500VA
Mattress - 6X6
Blender
2 toast bread machine
Food coolers x 2
baking oven 2L
bedframe 4.75X6.25 black

chat for pictures - 07089368177

Items still available:

TV Samsung Led Tv 32 inches
Air fryer 4.5L
Bed frame 6.25ftX4.75ft
Wardrobe 6.75X5ft
Washing machine 12kg twin tube washing machine
Gotv & antenna
Stabilizer Nexus 1500VA
Mattress - 6X6
Blender
2 toast bread machine
Food coolers x 2
baking oven 2L
bedframe 4.75X6.25 black

chat for pictures - 07089368177

Wizdeen:
How many kva is it?

Im interested, let give you 5k

8k is the last price bro

Newton85:
Just go and sleep bro, you have no point. And please, make sure you don't end up killing your own parents or spouse because some pastor or babalawo tells you they're responsible for the "badluck" in your life.

Sir Isaac Newton...sorry if any of my comments made your very bitter

Newton85:
Writes a low IQ dimwit who believes a call from someone gave a football team "badluck." Dumb sewer rat.

how's your bp bro....even buhari for all his flaws has learnt to take life easy even if the country around him is burning. At least learn that from buhari