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That want me to be her bf online
That want me to be her client online

toxtimmy:
Na you be this abi.....https://www.nairaland.com/7405673/man-kills-cooks-girlfriend-lagos

Lol you won banter '?? ..make them kill una na
Shey una dey greedy
Una go see Yahoo boy and you know what is involved but you'll choose to risk it because of greed

toxtimmy:
Nah no need for police...him no commit any crime...but can you give him your woman's number so he can be friends with her via text and stuff?... If she say no still give him her picture so he can post the online.

Small men with small mind... Tomorrow una go they worship ritualist and armed robbers and say god don answer their call... That is if you no be one already

You're a pained lil girl
Better dont be like her or you'll become desperate like her

Qatar2022:
She is i can confirm it

Lmao

My question is Why didn't he do it in his first, second or third year ??
Lmao well wetin concern me sef

I was kinda happy when they stole my phone last Sunday lol

I was addicted tbh

toxtimmy:
Man and woman can be friends... Man and nature can be friends... A man that posted a picture of a woman online because she declined to give her number will never be a good friend to that woman unless he becomes a real man.. his only aim for posting her pic online is because he wanted more than friends...if it quacks like a duck it's most likely a duck.....what's next post a picture of her naked to prove a point that he is a small minded man?

Learn to respect women just like you want others to respect the women you care about in your life or all women in general... Same as women should learn to respect men as they want men to respect them.

Madam go and call police for him
I grow tired of this conversation
Have a nice day

toxtimmy:
Bros man
Since when asking a woman's name and number is asking it and go play lottery? Or is it the new ritualist style of collecting numbers only for rituals and not to date or do busines?

Don't forget there so many girls in Nigeria that are dead because they gave a guy a number to call and text them so they can chat towards a date or relationship etc

What is others learning by him posting her picture online and their private chat?... He might as well post everything on his phone for all to see.

What does she have to apologize for...lol...did she kill somebody by refusing to open her private part to him?... So now women will have to apologize if dem refuse to open bear bear bank for a man in southern/western Nigeria? Northern Nigeria don't accept that way and yes I'm from south Nigeria so shout as much as you like.

Yes everybody is entitled to your own opinion unless they break law...no Nigerian law was broken in this case

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Oga men and women can be friends
I have female friends sir even tho 98% are parasites...
So asking for her automatically means he wants to sleep with her ? ... this automatically explains the type of person you are .. change your mentality

He didn't force her to apologize na .. she apologized cause what she did was rude and wrong.. but she hasmd the right to say no likewise the guy
Why does she now want to offer him her number ?

She's lucky the guy is a gentleman
Others will sleep with her and waste her time
That gender no simply get sense .. take it or leave it
I have studied them for a while now

You dont have a point here

I'm beginning to think you're a lady sef lol ..
Not everybody that wants your number actually wants to sleep with you ... I have female friends and I've never slept with any of them .. I do give them gifts sef.. but they're all criminals lowkey

Go and call police for him if you're so pained

Meedon:
Kudos bro. No gain in all those things especially if you be introvert.

Yeah bro

Your signature is confirm
I tell people this and they think I'm a fool ...

toxtimmy:
Since you are open to learning just like every reasonable person including myself then here we go... a woman said no yesterday and said yes today to a man, so the man or boy in this case posted the picture of the woman and chat history bringing the woman down... albeit not illegal on his part but very childish and condescending, and i hope all the woman i know in this world don't date or marry a man that's childish and revengeful (in other words unforgiving despite someone else never committed a crime but respected who they are to say no)

then someone/people in the thread mentioned the guy should thank god that she said no in the first place... and demeaning women like a woman that is married, in a relationship or for whatever reason must say yes to a guy when they ask for their number.... question is what have god got to do with a decent and respectable woman saying no a man respectfully? in other words if god have everything with what we do why did he give us the freedom to to what ever we want to do? god is not responsible for our actions but ourselves (i.e. if this guy knows she has a boyfriend or is dating someone or married to someone which god asked him to ask her for her number? basically it's his choice and god got nada to do with it as we ultimately are responsible for what we do)

despite some posters calling god, god , god, god etc... and saying god saved this man/boy then god is on his side.. and his act of course of posting a woman (that did him no harm or disrespected him in any way shape or form) picture online and chat with him to claim a godly victory is a sign of someone that is unforgiving (and remember forgiving someone does not mean you have to give them what they want but to clear your mind and keep yourself open to all good things that may come your way, and most importantly move on without holding any grudges)...basically god and revenge does not work together.

I think he posted it for others to learn ... plus he only asked for her number not for a date .. and she said no and he behaved like a gentleman and walked away ..

She apologised... meaning she knew what she did was wrong and it's pretty obvious that she's getting desperate . the amount of badly behaved women out there is alarming...

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and perspective and you simply cant change that

Yeah I think he should have covered her name and dp too but ....lol victory over ?? He won nothing na

Omen100:
And what’s it that is obvious about what they have said?

What isn't obvious about what they said ?

Why bash them because they said the obvious truth ... even person wey nor dey see road knows Nigeria is a dangerous place to be right now...

I pray I get money to jp ..I wee vote for Tinubu before I Japa sha since una like suffer

Show us example by transferring 100k to 10 girls on this platform .. with receipts too

We will follow you after

If a guy gives a girl 3k for her bday now she'll say he's stingy ...

But its nice of you sha .. some no dey give atall

iHateFraudsters:
Phone is gone bro.

You'll just waste your money trying to track it.

Next time, buy a phone that you can afford to lose.

What you typed makes zero sense to me sir ... nobody likes losing their phone regardless of the amount

toxtimmy:
Again you are one of those who have their eyes on the sole of their feet and nose on their head.... If you have time to type then you should have time to read thread history before you type else you are exactly what I stated above.

Stop being bitter ..
Wetin bring forgiveness come this thread in the first place since you're very smart? ..

I'm open to learning sir

toxtimmy:
humility is a virtue... if you want to succeed in life you must practise humility.

una carry bible everyday but humility and forgiveness is foriegn to una... yet na una want to be the first person to go heaven.

forgiveness don't mean you must accept the person or situation... it's all about peace of mind and good mental health.

however, if you forgive to get things back on track... good luck to that person too.

if you forgive to rub things on person face, you are just plain stupid...

the only thing guaranteed in nigeria is death... nothing else is guaranteed in nigeria.

lastly let me define what unforgiveness means to you... "Unforgiveness is like taking poison and hope someone else die for you taking the poison".

Who offended who there ?
He asked her out she said no
She came back to ask for his no after e don choke he said no .. because he has the right to say no just as she had the right to say no


No sin committed.. but if it were me I'll give her my no as a friend alone sha

It all boils down to emotional maturity
Stop bringing religion into this one sir/ma

realestate99:
Seems you will be changing your line for subsequent heartbreak? If so, the Lord is with with you.

Read what I typed ... I dont do women anymore
Been single since then( tomorrow will make it 1 year sha ) ...and happy too

Boys wey no get girlfriends dey enjoy ... if you know you know

I face my God and my business these days make my life no spoil

realestate99:
If you changed your line because someone broke your heart, I am sorry you are not in charge of your emotions. They can always get your new line back anytime from friends and family.

Nowadays your phone line is almost synonymous with your life especially those one you have been using for long, those that matters in your life has it, it is very childish and counter productive to change your line for such petty stuffs like heart break, learn to be in charge of your emotions....you can only change your line in extreme scenarios, maybe you are on the run or you are being hunted ( God forbid)

I'm introverted .. I don't have much friends so it's easy
I just notify them of my contact change ..
I do it to quit contacting stupid people too
They're many these days

realestate99:
If you changed your line because someone broke your heart, I am sorry you are not in charge of your emotions. They can always get your new line back anytime from friends and family.

Nowadays your phone line is almost synonymous with your life especially those one you have been using for long, those that matters in your life has it, it is very childish and counter productive to change your line for such petty stuffs like heart break, learn to be in charge of your emotions....you can only change your line in extreme scenarios, maybe you are on the run or you are being hunted ( God forbid)

I said I felt hurt back then ... my roomie actually asked me before he gave her My new num . I gave consent because in more emotionally mature now .. plus I think I had every right to ... she lied , and played me after 2 years relationship... she even makes post about suicide after she asked me that question
I have only chat her once since she contacted me again... she has been the one starting the conversations now but I reply her casually

If na mind game ... I'm a king in it now

OloYeOfEgbE:
3 years ago...

I repeat no man likes evening newspaper. Apologies accepted from your father's house or husband house. God will not let you see us

say no to evening newspapers

Comrade fire the vawlence well well

jeromestarks:
If a girl rejects you, go down on your knees and thank God.
Na woman leave you, no be God leave you.
Na she go regret.
Never ask a girl out more than once. You're not born useless and worthless.
Keep your head high and walk away the moment she gives you negative vibes.

Person wey love you no go stress you.

I like this bro

My ex is in my dm asking me why I'm replying her casually after almost one year of no contact cause I blocked her and changed my line .. she managed to get the new num from my roomie ... me no send again na ... but I felt really hurt back then tbh .. but now

She wanted to treat me as an option so I initiated the breakup... it's hard to let go of someone you love fr but if the person gives you any negative vibe it's better you leave

That really changed my perspective of love sha .. single since then but happy
At least I get to watch my champions league with the boys without anybody calling me to ask where I am or why I didn't pick her call
I'm introverted so it's pretty easy for me
Make women dey their day abeg I really cherish my peace of mind

Lollittaa:
Last time a friend cut me out of their life, I ended up in the hospital.
I'm a loner by nature. So if I have a friend or two, they aren't just friends, but a support system.
I'm miserable. Nothing tastes right.
This is why I hate making friends.
I think I deserve to be alone.
Probably deactivate this account. There's nothing here for me.

I used to be like you... im very introverted naturally but I'm loving it these days ... find sth that makes you happy .. socialize a bit .. smile more often .. get a hobby .. set goals... go on vac and make money too

Learn to be happy alone .. no one stays forever
.I'm in my early 20's and I have only 1 real friend and he lives a bit far now..but it's ok

I was robbed on Sunday
I went to a station to report... only for the inspector to tell me to come back on Monday... say them no dey work on Sunday.. I just weak walai

tobby20:
This my whatsap no
Zere 8 0nine 4 one 55 six68

I just contacted you sir

Elxandre:
Why is btc a no no boss?

Ask BTC boys ... do it from a distance sha make them no chook you something lol

jeromestarks:
Marry a virgin or use your hard earned money to train another man's child and still hand over your inheritance to the child.
You shouldn't pay Bride price and sponsor wedding ceremony just to have a pvssy which someone fvcked when it was intact with just two eggs and indomie.

So based on your theory
Virgins lack the ability to cheat ??

tobby20:
Contact me I’ll help u track it without collecting a dime from u

Can you do this for me too
I dont mind paying ... my 12 got stolen on Sunday..

neolboy:
I am a guy of about 35yrs and a graduate of construction Management. I am currently jobless( i left the job because of the low and delayed payment), no girlfriend. The thing is that, i am planning of learning welding as from next month.

My decision was to make sure that i am skilled in a trade. The thing is that i am thinking about my age, if i am not too old to start learning a trade.

Please i need an advice about it.

Mod help push to the front page for advice.

Why welding? ... consider the effect on your eyes in the long run

Learning never stops... you're never too old bro

E don choke madam ...

efelicity:
My old time friend came to visit me. After a short while he told me that he needed to release so we went to a brothel so he can cool down himself for the night. In side the brothel i saw my girlfriend with a host of other girls. When she noticed i recognised her she rushed up to and told me she came to see a friend.

Why are you telling us ? What do you want us to do ?