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To those asking what would u do if it was your brother involved? What should u do? People have lost loved ones to bokoharam, police, soldiers, cultists, drunk drivers, u name it.Yes they are angry. Yes they are also in pain BUT they don't go and blow up a police station or barracks or kill the family of the drunken guy. They have the right to demand Justice, but Justice isn't the same as vengeance. Its surprising that no one is advocating Vengeance for the Lord again. Let's suppose there are 1000 people in Aluu community and only 200 witnessed the murder. So the remaining 800 should suffer as well. May we never suffer for the sins of others.

acidtalk: So a man who is AGAISNT retaliation/Revenge is now termed wicked.

A man who insist of the Authourities to investigate before passing jusgement in now callous.

A man who is AGAISNT people taking laws into their hands in the name of Retaliation is now being condemned.

A man who is saying the issue should be decided in the court of law is now being criticized.

A man who is clamoring for all worrying parties to sieze fire on issues destroying life and order is now insulted.


Now I see why God in Heaven has turned his back on Nigeria.

A country where people preach one thing and do another.

A Country where people condemn an action and do something worse.

Nature will bear me Withness I did my best to be nonbias or sentimental on this issue.


Whatever a man sows so shall he reap.

I leave and forgive everyone who have insulted me for speaking the truth but remember what goes around comes around.

If a person or few people from your village commit similar actions. I hope none of you will cry and curse how revenge was taken on your entire villages killing and burning innocent lives and properties.


I REST MY CASE!!! Whatever anyone's judgement on this issue is he/she will account for it one day soon.

No sinner or supporter of sinner will go on purnished.

God bless u. People don't seem to get the irony. You call for the gruesome murders of all citizens of Aluu (innocent or otherwise, whether they were there or not) as punishment for the gruesome murders of the Uniport boys (we will never know if they are innocent or not). Old testament- an eye for an eye. Oh wait! The new testament says turn the other cheek. I get it that people are outraged and rightly so but I think we are seeing this narrowly. We should be advocating for the death penalty/life for anyone involved in jungle justice. No one should be allowed to take laws in their hands. Not the students, not Aluu, not the police. No one. Ever wonder that the same rage that posseSsed the Aluu people into the gruesome act is the same rage possessing those of u advocating genocide. Let the police do their job. The sentence for homicide is death, so the murderers won't go free. We should try and refrain from insulting people with contrary views.

Saw this picture 4 months ago. Stale

Dear girl, 43 kg and 5"7, you may have crossed the borderline of "slim" to "anoxeric thin" (not saying you are anoxeric but for your height, 43 doesn't cut it). Your fiance's approach is obviously not good, but you would do the same for your partner if you see his weight spiralling out of control. I can understand how his friend would be teasing him all the time, that he is dating a "school girl". However, its your body. You determine the change at your own pace and not because of someone else, but it doesn't hurt to realize that it may be a problem.

I am confused o. People saying its his late father's property, not his own? Does the system of inheritance no longer apply or does property revert back to the generAl family after thE death of a son? Ofcourse not!!! If the property was in his "custody", then it will continue in hiswife and children's custody. No one should have a right to take it from them. Even if his father didn't have a will, can the igbos in this forum confirm the sharing method?
On a side note, land(greed) is turning out to the divider of families.

To answer your question, my husband waited for me for a year and a half and we only did it after our wedding. Not because we are religious. We are not. But because I was not ready and he knew I am "unpersuad-able". Married over a year now, first baby almost here. Life is good. Doesn't mean life won't be good for those who are ready and up to it. But its not "everybody" that does it before marriage. So if u are ready, fine. If u are not, fine. But please, don't do it cos u think everyone is doing o. Abeg.

Come on na! That pic was more than 6 months ago. Are we so behind? Dude came out and said the pic was a bad shot and he looked normal and relatively healty (he can't be as cute as he was as a child na) when he said it. And d dude is still alive and is involved in new gigs. Google is your friend o.

Amazing that the people commenting see nothing wrong with the message. The same Israel that forcefully entered another man's land and declared it his own, same Israel that bombs U.N aids trucks in Palestian; same Israel that bombed a wedding party of 70 and called it a "mistake"; same Israel, who by the admission of its own ex-generals, deliberately enroach on the border, so as to get a reaction from its neighbour and then launch a full scale attack allowing them to get more land. That Israel is now being termed the "civilized man" Ok o. Need to re-check my dictionary at the meaning of the term "civilized"
The word "Jihad" means many things to muslims subject to interpretations. And it doesn't mean physical confrontation or war stricto sensu. Same as the Nigerian "war against indiscpline" doesn't mean that all d indiscplined people be killed. So the message isn't targeting extremists. Its targetting all muslims and at d same time, referring to us as "savages". But nothing wrong with that? Right? Una try.

Madawaki01: if muslims don't watch it,won't non muslims watch it,b4 d protest,there calls to remove it from d internet but it fell on deaf ears,and who told u it was bricklayers who knew nothing are d ones that protest,don't try to think that every country is Nigeria where things like that abound,every one of dem dat protest has watched d film and knew d reason why they're protesting. If i was called to protest in Nigeria,i would do it and i won't mind reducing d french embassy to ashes.LET THEM KNOW THAT OUR PROPHET IS NOT SOMEONE TO B TOYED WITH.THEY DELIBERATELY STIRRED THE HORNET NEST,THEN LET THEM HAV IT.

People like you continously give us a bad name. SMH.

Joeblis: ^^^and you still watch the movies ryt?

Well.....em.... Not really anymore. I intend to watch Resident Evil 5 though.

Many nightmares in my lifetime. But the most frequent of them all has to be the ones on Zombies. Its silly cos I watch zombies movies, Resident Evil, the hilarious "shaun of the dead". Never had the courage to play the Ps game cos I couldn't get some guns to woRk the first time (only game I ever gave up on, on the first day) and those things kept coming. So in most of my zombie nightmares, my guns don't work. Either they turn to banana or just plain refuses to shoot, despite the fact that a character in the dream was using it before . And the bloody things keep coming and popping up everywhere. I hate Zombies!!!!

I apologize for derailing.....but
On the PBS program African American Lives, Jakes had his DNA analyzed; his Y chromosome showed that he is descended from the Igbo people of Nigeria.[8][9] According to his family history, it was also suggested that he is descended from them through his grandmother.[10][11] He is a second cousin once removed of vocalist Will Wheaton and first cousin twice removed of actor James Wheaton.

http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/T._D._Jakes

I know its not connected to the topic, but it made me smile

I think they are a nuisance. Every SINGLE thread!! Come on! What's the difference between them and spams? It was banned cos it was getting ridiculous and am in support of the ban. We are not toddlers/teenagers on this site. I see no reason why we should be allowed to misbehave. Even in the constitution, right to freedom of speech isn't absolute. So it can't be absolute here.

all...am really feeling very guilty that i never treated her well all the while she was with me.the guilt is eating me up.i wish i have another opportunity to make it up to her.that gal was an angel...am still dazed.

Bros, you have answered your own questions na. Minus the "occassional" beating, you have also admitted that you didn't treat her well. Truly we never appreciate what we have until it is gone.

Saw the video. Very blah. Seen worse.

[quote author=Mr.chippychappy][size=15pt]Topic : Ex governors and Obi fight over Anambra Oil . My question is this : WHY THE HELL ARE ALL THESE Yoruba COCKROACHES ALL OVER THIS THREAD?[/size][/quote]Cos an Igbo brother started the yoruba insults. Go see the beginning of the thread. Typically, I am usually on the sides of Igbo cos I saw that the insults are sometimes started by a few yoruba bigots, but in this case, one of your own started it, considering the news had nothing to do with the west at all. Even the mods are tired of hiding posts. Let's try and all behave ourselves.

Those of you saying that all the hate is a true reflection of how Nigerians truly feels could not be more wrong. Am an edo girl married to a yoruba boy and two of my best oldest friends for whom I can take a bullet for are igbos also happily married to yorubas.I worked with over 40 people from different parts of Nigeria and not a single one cared where u are from, as long as u have a good attitude. I know all these people spewing hate in reality have friends that are either igbo or yoruba, so why come here and insult yourselves. Its sad to read.
Personally, I feel football was a great unifying factors amongst Nigerias. How many of us cheered loudly for the players irrespective of nationAlity? We need to get on the level again. North and South America fought a civil war and over 100 years later, they still dey kampe. So why can't we?

@Op, you started this forum, stating that your wife is a wonderful and loving woman. So does the fact that she doesn't attend your church, suddenly make her the devil?. Not a christain, so I don't understand the church affiliations thing. But I do know one or two things about marriage. You also said once that your wife said that she would follow you to your church if you accompany her sometimes to hers. Marriage is compromise. Marriage is tolerance. Marriage is understanding. You keep saying she deceived u. Can u honestly say that you have NEVER gone back on your word or changed your mind about something. We are human. We are flawed creatures. As a married couple, you can't both be set in your ways and compromise is not an act exclusive to the wife. You are both christains. Not Catholics or Anglican, both christains. Never forget that.
Bringing up your wife's age was unnecessary and has subjected her to ridicule from people who don't know the first thing about being married. I expected you to have reacted when people were saying degoratory things about a woman you claim to love, but I think that's what you want. Catholic fatherS are supposed to be celibate, so unless you have some real evidence that she is cheating, don't give the immature minds on the forum a chance to insult your wife.

Eko Ile: Another tribalistic loser. articlae say cults in enough and this fool is talking about whole soyinka. she na wole shoyinka kidnap and kill your people?

your people dry die like fowl, name eko ile dry bother you.

why are you clowns not talking about the article? are you people too ashamed and you don't feel sorry for your own people?


like I said, you people have no value for human life and that's why you treat each other like animals...

Child.

Eko-ile is seeking unnecessary attention but those who have in turn insulting Yorubas are no better.two wrongs don't make a right. Our tribal intolerance is one of the biggest problems we have in Nigeria. Cultism is everywhere and ought to be condemned irrespective of the tribe. Eko-ile should be ignored. No educated (education is relative) adult should spew such tribalistic nonsense. Remove the speck from your eyes, child. That being said, its unfair to say that Wole Soyinka started cultism. What He started was a fraternity. Fraternities exist all over the world. The fraternity consists of some of the brightest minds back then. Cults are said(according to Wikipedia) to have started from people who were not allowed into that fraternity and went on to make theirs.so its unfair to accuse him of starting cultism as we know it today. Pyrates fraternity has a website u can check out. We need to stand together against cultism.

I think the people that should be insulted here are people named Akpan!

Please I am at the site, but I can't seem to make any headway. All I see is further info on how to enter. Do I need to login to see the list? Wanted to check for my sister.

Well, I think its everywhere. I served in Igbeti local government in Oyo state. And although I wasn't posted to any school, I usually stopped by to take the students in English and Literature. I remember asking one SS2 boy where he hadn't done his homework. And he said it was because he had a "haaaad arch cheeeeee". I had no idea what he meant and the class repeated it with glee as if the boy had said something sensible. It took me a few minutes to figure out that the guy meant "headache". SS2! Our public school system in remote villages is messed up generally.

We really need to read a story well before commenting. First the poster said that after the father rented the apartment for the smallie, they were living HAPPILY until the mother's illness developed. So the woman's ill health was not caused by the father's actions. Have we grown so modernized that we no longer believe in the existence of Jazz again. Not saying the 2nd wife did it but then again not saying that she didn't. The baba might be right. Instead of fighting the man, they should have invited the baba to come and dig out what was purportedly buried. Their priority should be getting their mother well again

A lot of hollywood movies are also copied from obscure Spanish and french movies. its a copy copy world we have here, so no harm no foul. BUT indian movies are shameless!! ghajini-memento; hum tum- when harry met sally; sangharsh-silence of the lamb; yeh dillagi-sabrina; pyar to hona hi tha-french kiss; partner-hitch; black-the miracle worker, zinda-old boys; koi mil gaya- E.T; chachi 420- Miss Doubtfire; mann-an affair to remember; chori chori-it happened one night; yes boss-the concierge; tathastu-john q, awara paagal dewana-the whole nine yards; the killer-collateral. i could go on and on and on and on..............no originality left. Even the songs are copied. Dont think Naija has reached the state sha

brabus: Go and arrest the man now!

Lol

why would a Ghanaian come and abusing our president sef? Not supporting GEJ,but i take some degree of offense at a foreigner addressing my president with such impetus. one may insult his father or his alma-mata but let a stranger do this same and all hell breaks loose. thats how i feel about this issue. Professor sir, please address my president with some respect, 2ndly, its none of your business. face your "perfect" country and leave mine for me. Have we reached the level that a foreigner would insult our president and is celebrated??

GEJ may be working but Nigerians like visible results and the truth is with all the corruption, no one getting arrested, jan 1st subsidy issue,unilag name change and boko haram menace, its going to be difficult to find anything good in him. My major grouse is the "faceless" bokoharam. Since when did they became faceless? All those people that acts as their spokespersons nko? Or d sponsors he claims to know? What happens to our police intelligence? Not that I am advocating for negotiation "faceless or not" its not easy being in charge

omosexy1: A made up story. No bank in Nigeria has such policy else you are referring to a bank outside the country.

Babe. U obviously don't live in Nigeria. Many banks have/had that policy. My bank then definitely did. Its quite normal sef. Meanwhile, let's get the definition of a maid here clearly o. Most times, it might just be d girl that comes 3 times a week to clean since both parties keep long hours. It may be a distant relation of either the man or thE woman. The maid may not be employed full time so it may be quite reasonable to have one. Let's be fair. If she lives in Lagos, she would be gone all day. Most bankers leave at 6 but imagine the traffic. Before one gets home, its 10. Is she firewood? And she leaves at 4 to beat d morning traffic.Even the poster initially thought it was traFfic stress. Its not an easy life living and working in Lag. And I am sure she is also supporting the home. Is it a crime now? Banking men also keep the same insane schedule. Is it ok if the wife goes to sleep with the maiguard? Its a tricky situation but the man is a pig for trying to shift the blame on his wife instead of manning up and accepting that he messed up. Am sure she would sort herself out. Women are stroNg creatures. Chei! She would bE the source of office gossip for weeks to come sha.

I don't have a problem with anyone defending themselves, but pulling people out of their cars and slaughtering them can never be Justified. The bokoharam don't care if muslims are being killed, they have been killing muslims and christains without discrimination. We should join hands and hunt down the animals called Boko Haram. We need to seperate sha before it bEcomes too late.

I have been a wrestling fan since I was 9. I was converted by a match with Macho man and Ultimate Warrior, where after Macho's loss, d lady with him, (can't recall her name rite now, but she was wildly popular with her mohawk) started beating on Macho and Miss Elizabeth came down to the ring and threw her out. What followed was the MOST romantic and tear jerking reunion ever. U all need to check it on youtube. Watched it all, WWE, WCW, TNA,ROH. I am extremely displeased at d direction on female wrestling on wwe. The horrible 2 mins matches. And they are using one of the best new female fighters as one of the funkasaurous dancers. (The black lady). I misss d days of lita, mollyholly, trish, victoria. Those ladies could seriously kick butt. And for those loving Brock Lesnar, that guy spent his time away insulting wwe on twitter and on interviews. That he had the effrontery to come back is one thing, that he is being cheered cos he took out John Cena is another. I follow d kayfabe and real world of wrestling and wrestler very seriously and right now, wwe is loosing serious grounds to mma and ufc. They need to step it up. Oh! My favourite wrestler right now is YES YES YES YES YES YES YES

Frostyzone: I never said that Koffi Kingston was the only african in W.W.E.
I said that he was the only one representing us.
Those other ones you mentioned would tell you they are americans and that's it.
And don't be suprised that none grew up in their native country and thus can rightly tag themselves as been Americans.
That's why Gabriels will never come out publicly and states that he's from S.Africa because it's not good for his business reputation.

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Untrue, he says it all the time. Infact he went to S.A early in the year to promote the WWE. The early reason u know Kofi Kingston is cos he has more matches and u hear his promo announcement but when Justin Gabriel wrestles on "Superstars", they always say S.A