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She really loves the guy

Drella:
Hello people.
I'm in my early twenties in a tertiary institution. I am this gentle guy that is mostly quiet.
I noticed that there are many financially okay guys as young as I am that are doing well unlike me. Now, I'm talking about the ones hustling legitimately.

I also want to be okay financially, but they tend to share information only with those they are close to.
There were updates about Arbitraging, Web 3 airdrop and testnet stuff that I only got to hear when it was too late.
I talk to these guys, roll with them, but they never see me as close enough to carry me along.

Even for those freelancing, they know techniques to get orders fast and constantly but will not share with me. One said I should bring 250k when I'm ready to start freelancing. I don't even have 50k in my name.
Whenever I tell them to "show me way" knowing they do legit stuffs, they tell me they too are looking for way.

Growing up, I was restricted so I suck at making friends and socializing. I have been trying to get better since I left secondary school but my social skills barely improved.

I researched online on my own to get updates but many were scam, overpriced classes/courses e.t.c. Though I have picked up a skill to learn but before I get good and start earning, I'll need sustenance.

Is it too late to improve my social skills in my early twenties? If no, how?
How can I move from just acquaintances to a friend that can be carried along in important things?

Don't give any thief your 250k. Go to YouTube and learn how to use Excel, Google forms, PowerPoint infact Google workspace. Once you have learned it to some extent, register on upwork. Remote jobs are there that pay in dollars and other currencies. You can also learn about website testing. It's usually meant for people in the US and Europe but you can still do it provided you have a good VPN. You would have to register as a US citizen on those websites. I have tried

thanks4idias:
Please what are the step to root an Android phone

Firstly what is the brand and model of the phone you want to root?

People are still rooting phones these days when you can easily get a good midranger?

DorianD:
There's this pretty lady I have been crushing on. We are both students of a Nursing college, although she's my junior (first year). Shes got the Mercedes Bends, a likeable personality, and seemed like someone I would really want something serious with for the long haul.

Just about the day I planned on getting her number to let her know my intentions, to my greatest shock she asked for mine, and questioned why I wasn't in school the previous day. This thicked all the boxes for me and felt like "the green light" was on, for a lady who wasn't in my cohort to notice my absence from school. Note that we have been acquaintances before this time, because I do engage her class in after school tutorial sessions.

To my greatest shock, she told me she's in a serious relationship, which got me confused. I have a feeling she's trying to play the "I am not unemployed card". I could press on, but dont want to be seen as a creep or stalker, so then I told her if we could just be friends as I already exposed my vulnerabilities, which she agreed.

Well it's not in my thing to be friend zoned so i discontinued my chats with her, but each time she notices my silence was becoming long, she would initiate a conversation on WhatsApp. I really can't wrap my head around this.

Do I just cut her off as fish plenty for water, or keep up with her games?

Why did you friendzone yourself? Never ever try that again. Once a girl says she has a boyfriend, just brush it off keep talking to her normally. Smile about it and don't ask to be her friend. With time as you both get closer, she would loosen up and let you mount her. You guys should be talking very well on WhatsApp especially at night. Discuss intimate stuff too. In no time, she'll be yours without asking her again. She likes you already. Don't pester her about love again pls. Just be calm.

I went to their branch. The customer care officer told me it had been credited to my account. I told him to check well and look at my account very well. He confirmed that truly nothing hit my account so he promised to do something about it today

therajah:
Why would you murder an innocent baby? Where is your conscience? You feel comfortable taking someone's life? Who is evil? Someone taking life or someone protecting life?

I have nothing much to say to you. Religion don blind your eyes. Open your eyes.

therajah:
It's called murder. Don't try it! God hates it and you will give accoun of it.

Get out! God would do what? That's how you evil beings rear kids like rats and give birth to bandits that disturb Nigeria today. Where would you give account? Dey deceive yourself

Ezechi18:
I will go straight on this!

She came to my side on 6th February, we had se'X using the pull out method without protection.
She was supposed to see her period at that month but nothing show, on the 2nd March, she carried out test and told me she pregnant.

We are in our final in school.
I want a child because am the only son of my parent but she want abortion because of shame as to when she will go back to school, She's a churchy kind of girl and people know her very well.

I promised her marriage but don't know how to do it after the abortion.
Although am broke as well.

I hope you are okay sha? You're broke and you want a child. Pls I want you to enter the nearest supermarket and check the prices of baby things. You better remove the baby. Wicked guy! I know you purposely ejaculated into her

I came to see the scrotum

FuckingNaira:
Hummm that one dosent mean anything nah


$1 to indonesian currency is equal to 15,000+ rupiah but yet its stable


Try check other asian country currency, you do be seeing 10,000 unit of their currency upwards per dollar but yet its stable


Even tho naira want to exchange at 3k|$, let it be stable there.

Thats all.

No that would be a catastrophe. It would make imported goods out of reach unless the government is ready to increase the minimum wage so there could be high purchasing power. Infact, Nigerians can be so wicked that even locally produced items would be competing with imported goods in terms of price. They'll tell you it's dollar and govt would never do anything about it. Abeg o we no want. Any leader that doesn't know what he or she is doing should get out

FuckingNaira:
Smiles. . .

Ghana currency not even stable, only this year alone from 12cedi|$ to 13.something per dollar.

It's still way better. There was a time cedis was like lots of thousands to one dollar. I remember then they used to worship naira a lot. That time you'd be hearing one million cedis to buy phones that were much cheaper here

immortalcrown:
Go back to them. If they don't respond well this time, drag them on X.

I'll drag them on X if I don't get a good response. Thanks

I'll go to a branch today and complain

Cindypresh:
He did so well as a former head of state that he was voted twice as the president??

His vice, Tunde Idiagbon was the one doing well. Buhari was silent as usual

These people should consult Ghana. Ask how they did it instead of banning here and there.

Put your phone network on 3g or 2g and retry. Let mobile data be off

Zaheertyler:
It depends on the size though
2k upwards
Owerri

Oh okay. Chai this country is gone! So dollar has affected catfish

I don't know if anyone else has experienced this. On February 27th at about 8:30pm, I went to a Wema bank ATM to withdraw 5k. The transaction was already processing and suddenly the ATM went off. There was power outage. My card came out but the cash didn't. I was debited and I told the security officers around there. They said it'll be refunded. I waited for 48hours and then sent a mail to access Bank with the transaction ID. I gave them every detail. Access Bank responded and told me they would contact the other bank and investigate it. They eventually got back to me two days ago and said the case is closed. They said the funds have been credited into my account. Till today, I haven't seen any credit alert. I sent them a mail again letting them know that I haven't seen anything but I got no response. What can I do now?

Zaheertyler:
I dey buy 1k
Yesterday I carry 1k go
She said 1500 last
The mama no even look my side
I can't buy it for more than 1k I said to my self
I added extra and got catfish

Are you in Lagos? How much is catfish at your side?

LARRYOBRAIN:
If you are the one, how would you feel? She used you, used you cash out and get fame and you oga go dey mock you.

I understand she did some nasty stuff but he can do better than posting too frequently about her cos now he's looking like the desperate one in the eyes of the public. If he wants to do that girl strong thing ehn, he doesn't need to talk too much. Less talk, more action. Something similar happened to me in the University then. The girl was trying to be clever by half. We broke up and I discovered terrible things. I was so angry and emotional but I didn't let my emotions get the best of me. I had to wait for a year to set a trap for her and she entered it in the final year. Till date, she can't still fathom what happened or where it came from.

This Israel guy sef. Wetin happen na? Always acting like a kid

See as obi dey look her b**bs. Bad guy

bluesugar18:
U dey draw map, who will give a small ijaw a nation. If Naija split get ready to be joined. U want Kanu released but u think his Biafra recognized Ijaw nation.

Leave him. He thinks the Igbos love other tribes so much. They'll be so shocked. Biafra agitators are just trying to gather support from other tribes. Once they have achieved their aim, premium shock begins. When I traveled to Anambra state for a family friend's introduction, omo na there I know say Igbos don't like South South people or even any other tribe. Come and see the body language of people there cos they heard he's from Edo state. The guy sef was embarrassed. They switched to speaking Igbo and the guy didn't understand. Thank God for his friend that schooled in Absu who secretly told us what they were saying. This thing is actually everywhere in igboland. Once they hear Edo, Delta, Bayelsa, you go dey story of how South South men are irresponsible and bad. Only the Igbos that grew up outside of igboland are actually open minded

jeromestarks:
Na me you dey talk to like that?
I go enter you ooo. You dey craze neh?

You don turn am to fight?

jeromestarks:
If she could keep herself till she met you, then she has good morals.

If a non virgin had good character, she wouldn't have opened her legs for men to fvck her. So you can see that a woman's character is evident in how she controls her body.

If you don't believe me, go and ask your mother.

Dey play. If you want a virgin girl, you sef stay as a virgin. If you can't then you don't deserve a virgin lady. It's simple. You think being a good wife is by being virgin? Dey deceive yourself. Dey find them up and down na. It's like you've never heard of men who married virgin women and started having marital issues. You never see anything. If a woman loves you, she loves you. If she dislikes you, she dislikes you whether virgin or not

jeromestarks:
I'm here till tell you.to marry a young virgin woman if you want peace and lasting happiness in you home.

If you marry a woman who has been fvvcked and mounted by many men, you will train another man's children thinking they're yours because she will definitely go back and fvvck her - Okafor's law is real bro.


Finally, fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman. Only her can guarantee you a peaceful lasting and happy home.

Avoid my advice and you will be on front page of many newspapers for badnews.

I repeat, MARRY ONLY A WOMAN WHI HAS KEPT HERSELF - a virgin!

Who told you that all virgins have good character? You don knack people's daughters and you want a virgin 🤣

lovediehatelive:
Don't know much about Redmi phones, but from what I learnt, Redmi A phones run on Android GoogleGo and this have some kind of limitations.

So it would be better to go for Redmi 13c

Thank God you gave him proper advice. That Redmi A3 is packaged crap for 100k+

omniwater:
There is a pedestrian bridge at Palm grove bus stop,which the victims failed to use.


The stupid cow of a mother tried to cross the highway with two toddlers who could barely walk.


But the blame would still go to the reckless driver who failed to drive properly.

Nigerians and this nonsense "sharp sharp" mentality. They don't want to do the right thing. They just want to apply shortcuts. I always make sure to use the pedestrian bridge no matter what. I always see people waiting to cross the expressway even when the pedestrian bridge is so close to them. I'll just be shaking my head. Nigerians love to behave like goats. When you see the behavior of people here, you'll understand why we don't have good leaders. If that woman had successfully crossed the road, her kids would learn it and keep doing the same. I learned the habit of using the pedestrian bridge from my parents and it has never left me

OLamylove:
Chelsea sat back in their last match vs city

No not like this. This is disgraceful.

It surprises me to see something every year about Man.United. right from Mourinho's time, they usually sit back against city. Even ten hag who said he would help them improve in ball possession has started playing negative football. it's really funny honestly. Man.U has become a mid table team. Out of the top six, only Manchester united plays negative football against their opponents. Even Chelsea can never sit back like this. It's disgraceful! When I saw that rashford goal, I knew it was a fluke. Ten hag also ruined the game with his bad substitutions. United need to start again next season with new players from the EPL. They should stop buying players outside England. Go for EPL players that understand the league. Man.City is beatable! United just hardly string good passes and hold on to possession. They can't finish above sixth this season.

kevwemike:
and have money again

No! Have wisdom!