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Ramon92:
This made me remember something back then in my uni days when I was dating a girl. Initially she was cool and was normal and things were fine. Love things you know..

All of a sudden, she started acting weird with some behaviors like she wanting to control me. I like confident girls but not one that'll use it to manipulate and turn men into lapdogs and menu. She'll read my texts and won't reply till hours later, won't return my calls and when she comes around she insist I go cook for her.
She started mentioning words like trust and confidence and all those feminist shiit. I didn't grab what's happening at first and I come de wonder what's happened, so I tried to get to her to know what's up.

That's how one day I went to her hostel and I called her when I was by her door. Got in and she was reading a book which she hid as I got inside. I shaa got the book when she went out and pretended not to know anything. The book, WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES BY SHERRY ARGOV..

Cos me I be avid reader sef, I got the pdf myself and wanted to know what the book is about. Geez, that's one of the vilest books I've ever read. It's practically a step by step guide on how to emasculate a man, turn him into a sissy all in the name of feminism and a man proving his worth to a woman.. I never got halfway with the book to realise what was going on with my then relationship..

It was crazy cos I was already falling for the shit and drama. Decided to use the book as a weapon and doing the exact opposite.. I don't need to tell you the result. I really now got to see her as one very insecure girl who hangs on to anything to validate herself. Same with her friends..

And that's how it's been with most girls I've been with later. They're confused, get bitter and aggressive when they can't manipulate a man and will do anything to validate themselves and that's what these fake feminists are all about.

See this Chimamanda now, married with a kid but still getting upset at a fellow woman for no reason, someone who understands what it is to be a real woman. By the way, I checked up on that Sherry ARGOV and discovered that she lives alone, maybe that says it about her..

Guys, please don't fall for their feminist gimmicks. guys that haven't seen what a woman truly is are those that carried away by these bullshitss. A woman will always remain a woman..

big ups man,thanks for the advice,many guys dont know the true nature of women.many women are insecure and confused,feminism feeds on that to manipulate women

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gholy292:
I'm 27yrs old I have a wife with 3kids plus a girlfriend with 1kid and also 7months pregnant I'm and earning 30k monthly only God is helping me to take care of them plus I rented a 3bedroom flat of 150k here at Ogun state and school will resume on Monday and I'm to pay their school fees of 28k

Its not easy at all only God is my helper not every man can take care of 2 women with 4kids with a monthly income of 30k and both of the women are not working they stay at home cause no enough money to open shop for them only me house rent school fees feeding and other daily needs

na una dey increase poverty for nigeria,is it compulsory to be married and have dat number of children,with just 30k,u are innecessarily increasing poverty in the land

AntiBrutus:
Oh well, when a man batters a woman, 'menist' tell women to watch their mouths. I expect them to say same when the table turns, rather they start calling on feminist.

Till people start seeing domestic violence from a non-gender based perspective...the blame game will continue.

there is nothing like menists,men have never identified as menists,women should stop putting female type labels on men,we didnt ask for it,we are not like women

ekanDamie:
So this big thing will wash bitterleaf of 100naira.

guy thats how inventions start,wat abt the computer of the 50's that were as big as a lister gen performing like a calculator,it starts from somewere

Earthbound:
In all sincerity, I really hope she wins the money. Why?
1. Tobi comes from money
2. Miracle also comes from money
3. Alex, na error
4. Nina, na error.

Judging by the BBNaija finalists, will the Igbo still say they're marginalized in Nigeria?

who told you cee-c doesnt come from money

WhoRUDeceiving:
This is what we have become, paparazzi people while Europeans and Asians continue to loot our resources and give change to the likes of our "politicians"- who's children by the way, are enjoying....


Where is the French revolution in Africa?

your making sense bro,people do not know that our politicians serve these foreign governments and aid them to loot our resources,while they get their share and give us crumbs

YelloweWest:
Nl is a heaven for jiggolo fùck boys.

thank you for letting me in on this,no wonder these nairaland males comment the way they do

BiggyB242:
Taaa, fallacy

thats wat u guys keep thinking,until ladies overrun the system living u guys behind them

BiggyB242:
Lol, please how many babes you don catch.

am nt after babes,this is the more reason why i said guys are nw weak mentally,see ur reasoning thinking am saying this because i need chicks,try to understand the message,just look at the girl that broke a 28year old record,thats whats happening now,girls are excelling intellectually and business wise,nigeria is going to be dominated by females in business,workplace and politics in the near future,cos the new breed of guys are too lacklustre they cant compete with these young females on fire

pressplay411:
Impressive. More important than distinction is its implication. The onus on her honors now rests on its application. I pray her passion for her perchant never dies but grows to apportion her inspiration for discoveries and inventions.
May providence smile on her and good fortunes follow her in Jesus Name.

Women, when they want to be, are extraordinary.
Congrats to her.

nigeria is full of beta simp males,thats why we are backward,nigerian men need to start being serious to make our country great,the women cant do it

mctowel01:
Cry me a river, wuss... What kind of cheap attention are you seeking?

i am nt seeking attention,its just d truth,guys are now beta simps,they now act like bitches,females are becoming more sensible,rational.less emotional,business oriented etc,guys are just chickening out now

Safiaa:
Yes she is doing you a favour. You chased her not the other way round, you went out of your way to patronise her and she accepted you out of many so she’s doing YOU a favour.
She’s taking herself off the dating market in her prime.
She’s giving you her body (most times)
She’s trusting you with her time and biological clock
She’s risking her emotional state being with you.

The least you can do is reciprocate the favour by being financially supportive. The problem with you guys is, you just want to take take take and not give anything in return. It’s bad.

to be honest girl,it seems am so out of touch,but the way guys on nairaland comment bothers me,are they really nigerian or what,they be looking for rich girls at the same time complaining that girls are after their money,if these are nigerian guys its so pathetic,the future is female indeed

Biglittlelois:
Who doesnt!! i tell my girlfriends that the world is changing, make the money first and be independent, sex can come later

whats with girls and independence??,i think the problem with women is that they are going against their nature,thats why they keep talking about independence to because they actually want to be dependent to current society is pushing them towards independence

YelloweWest:
U guys are so hypocrites eh.

So it's ok to tag a woman wife material because she has money but if a woman does same she is a gold digger...

i dont understand oo,these nairaland guys disgust me,God if this is how men are niw,then men are finished oo,waiting on a woman to make money

Jones4190:
China is currently the world's leading economic power, in China there is Zero Church!

Finland has the most stable economy in the world today. There are less than twenty churches in Finland!

Switzerland has the second most stable economy in the world. Switzerland has fewer than thirty churches!

Denmark is the third most stable economy in the world, there are about 23 churches in Denmark.

These countries are considered to have the highest number of atheists, but they are blessed!

Come to Nigeria, there are more than 50,000 churches.
+25 000 churches in Lagos.
+2 500 churches in Oyo

In Africa, we have more churches than schools and hospitals combined!
More pastors than doctors.
Everyone is born again!o
Everyone is covered with the blood of Jesus!
Jesus even became the husband of all single women (according to them) in revival churches!
Everyone is filled with the Holy Spirit!
However, none of these claims reflect the moral elevation that is hoped for in a society.

We are among the laziest, the most deceiving, the most corrupt, the most hypocritical, the most hateful on the planet today, with all our Jesus and the Holy Spirit!

Our people need to distinguish between religion and stupidity or between spirituality and tradition!.

Wake up!!!

true

pode:
I expected ladies to be saying all this not you guys for Christ sake

nairaland as exposed the minds of many young nigerian guys as weak bitches,the future is female indeed

donstan18:
I will use this comments against you one day, maybe when someone trolls you with your reality shii and you try to complain.

I promise

you are a weak excuse of a man

prechbills1:
when I tell Nigerian guys stop dating broke ladies, sex starved bastards won't agree..

all those stuffs you listed... do you have a house, car, a stable source of income?

nigerian men are a disgrace,i feel disgusted that i am a nigerian male,with this kinds of comments

to attend wedding is now an achievement.africans are so foolish

Holadokun:
Nigeria problem is more than english speaking... my question is what has been his contribution to Nigeria?

what was the contribution of GEJ or buhari ,who else is there to support lets try this man out

A black man in a weak position this is the image they want you to see,black men are disgracing themselves.the weakness if black men is dusgraceful

good intelligent people only need access to power,to transform the fortunes of these country is very easy,intelligent youths need to take over

Adesolomon2014:
Be der posing as a man and hustling for frontpage.
Berra choose a mentor outta the aforementioned mothers up der.
Mamasolution calling herself babasolution.
Ya mates are making moneys, u are forming slay mama.... IMPOSTER OSHI ONIRANU JATIJATI

God,i guess these nairaland males are teenagers that goes to show that the future of nigerian men is weak and bleak,with these types of young males

Adesolomon2014:
I respect dis kinda ladies i mean mothers who started out ambitious using the right, courteous ways to build an empire unlike some covetous ladies a.k.a slay queens whose main aim in life is to reap where they did not sow and believing they are doin men favours by dating/sexing em and having the guts to say gals are not broke.
To all mumu slay mamas out der, u berra choose one of dis mothers as mentor ooo

the rate at which men are pathetic is alarming,how can men be pushing women to be career focused,instead of being career focused themselves,the height of nairaland males patheticness is disturbing,if this is how men think i nigeria then it means men are finished,no wonder women are making more money than men now.men are weak lazy fools now

definitely an igbo man,weak ass

thoollz:
Guy u r not just dull, but one of d best practicing dumb numb skull in this universe. What's bravery in this? U r one filthy being, but don't let it wrap your mind. Think well, would u want to see ur daughter performing d bumbum challenge?
Nicompoop.

Stupid average youth. That's d only thing they know. Shake privates, talk about sex, watch bbn etc. Nothing upstairs, decayed mentality. Then they later come online to tell d world how miserable they are.
Tokunbo materials, used and dumped.

To b honest, unless u find d root of d problem, u can never get a solution. We're our problem. A set of degraded youth can never bring forth a good country.

Bumbum challenge? Spits.

you act control anyones actions if my daughter does it,i cant stop her,its high time we do away with this holier than thou attitude in nigeria,you dnt knw this gal and whats she capable of,this gal can even emerge as a great leader someday.besides you dnt knw what the so called okonjo iweala's did when dey were younger,many women slut up in the youth and still emerge successful leaders.this idea of thinking only a certain kind of behaviour produces success is a myth and untrue

lilmax:
all this dumb and unintelligent girls

when it's time for judgment they start forming victim

girls that cannot read for themselves

the lecturers are the problem,very wicked lot of old men,preying on young girls its so shameful