Albertone:


At least you would have tasted many Nigerian men and many foreigners before coming to the conclusion that Nigerian men suck.
Even those who go abroad still choose Nigerian men. Let alone someone that has only had a couple of online dates with foreigners.

Don't do this. You said yourself high quality men are rare in Nigeria. Your definition of high quality is being different, smart, etc...

Obviously the women who go for them most have really low standards.

Why are you contradicting yourself?

Tenrack:
Lol. You sent me mails and I never responded? Maybe I couldn't access that particular mail. Hmm. How do you figure me out? If I didn't know any better, I'd think you're a sorceress.

You've done the same thing on Nairaland tho. I created a thread to talk with you and you suddenly disappeared...

***Finesseki*? Something like that... That's another account.

Honestly, you share alot here. It's easy to find out.

Bradford111:


Who is your age mate? you must be dreaming I'm carrying the disease I was infected by your mother hope you know?

lame.

all I know is that you had an infection. It's disgusting and sad. You can say whatever you want but you and I and the thousands of people who saw that thread know you either had an STI or toilet infection.

Obnoxious2001:



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I regret creating this thread... I hate doing this (insulting people)... Don't know why I came back to this toxic forum.

Tenrack:
How did you know? And why did you block me though? I never got any closure.

Block you where? I sent you an email and you never responded. Not the first time you've done that.

I'll always figure you out.

Bradford111:


Hope you didn't infect the guy you gave bj with herpes 😳

are you familiar with herpes too? We're age-mates yet you're a carrier of many diseases. Not on the same level.

elated177:
Wilgrea7, it is not for you to know how the animals and plants make a case against homosexuality. What will you do such with such knowledge?

What, exactly, do you usually do when you claim science has done this and done that, when you, erroneously, I might add, juxtapose it with religion? Were you appealing to science?

Without religion or culture, were does the sense of right or wrong come from, wilgrea7?

What about intersex people?

Princessstee:
You must be delusional if you think one old man with grey beard who lives in the sky create humans.

We are just evolutionary advanced baboons, nothing more.

And concerning whites, they got their white skin because of their environment( still evolution). So whites are just newest/advanced humans in some aspect
#shalom

yeah... If only blacks would take more responsibility for their actions.

Bradford111:


Day play 🤣 see mouth like boy issues hope your pussy is intact? People like una nai day carry toilet infection give boys

That's you, you were the one with the infection.

Tenrack:
this girl and lies. Shebi you said the other time you gave a guy bj.. is that part of the abstinence? I pity folks who take you seriously sha.

Hacks4dummies? Our history is thee reason I won't be rude to you.

Tekahashi:
I'm pretty scared of girls like you, girls with high expectations, I'm pretty sure by not being boring, the guy should do all the work.. I may be wrong tho, no dating experience buh my tots, ain't gonna find a reasonable someone with such expectations, mostly dissapointment, just head into it with a free mind, everyone is looking for their perfect match innit,,,,

If I meet someone I can actually talk to, getting me to shut up would be their greatest concern. I don't expect him to do all the work

Bradford111:


Which one is in your pussy?

None. abstinence and good hygiene. Thank god I'm not you. I have boy problems, you had boils on your penis.

LikeAking:



I need guidance on this one to be honest...

I am still seeking.

oh. Well, the thread is a good idea.

Vyzz:




You haven't agreed with a, single person here, the problem is from you

Were they nice in the first place? Were you? I agree tho, I'm stubborn...

You said I was introverted and I disagreed... That makes me problematic?

Bradford111:


Lol 🤣 done that a long time ago pray I don't get hold of your details if not otilor

What was it? Gonorrhea? Syphilis? Hiv? Toilet infection?

Albertone:


I'm not saying you're desperate now. But as you age, desperation can set in and make you drop your high standards.

You can keep on searching for mister right. But does mister right want you?
How can you distinguish yourself from all those that want him?

With what I've seen so far on this thread, the I-am-always-right, the insults thrown around and all... If mister right were to be on NL viewing this thread, sorry you just lost him.

Convenient of you to ignore the fact that I was insulted first. If mister right wants me to be docile, then he is not my mister right. And I don't want anyone who would tolerate being treated badly. I like my men tough cause I am.

I don't need to prove anything. Maybe you do, but I don't. If I meet the right person, we would fit. I don't need tips on how to approach men or distinguish myself... Just needed to you say Nigerian men suck and you've done that.

siofra:


It's quite rare to find that in a Nigerian man o. Just keep looking sha, maybe you'll find them here too. But I thought you already found one, that senomi guy??

A YOUNG Nigerian man will be interested in art and history😂😂 sorry but I couldn't help but laugh. All they know is Yahoo, party, tribalism and fúck.

And he was perfect.

He just misbehaved too much. Take away his bad habits and we would be happily married with four kids.

The yahoo thing especially... And they are so alike. I'm like, can't you do fraud and still have a personality?

LikeAking:


For me it's about good dietes...

Which?

Bradford111:



To murder you day hungry me

treat yourself first.


https://www.nairaland.com/7562565/infection-wants-kill-me

Musafatiu2:
I'm also under that shoe as well. If you don't mind we can make friend which can eventually lead to marriage.

I don't want marriage tho.

Shadysen:
try me out, am weird too, give a try.

Alright... I'll send an email.

Tenrack:
Una get time dey give audience to OP wahlai. You guys should learn to sift through threads. Our excellent OP here is a know it all. Worse still is she's delusional af. No sane nigga would come close to her with her silly attitude.

She should work on her attitude.. what a Narcissistic young woman.
Make she no worry, she go learn soon enough.

Coming from an obnoxious flirt...

siofra:
I really admire your confidence.

But I think you should not worry about having a boyfriend now. Guys will come but I don't think you're ready yet. What you should focus on now is building yourself into the woman of YOUR dreams. The woman you would like to be. Pursue your interests and hobbies, trust me it is more rewarding and satisfying than trying to chat with all these time wasters called men.

Focus on your career, school, hobbies, dream big and work towards it. It's going to be hard, painful, frustrating, filled with tears and lonely. But what keeps me going are my goals and the life I have envisioned for myself. I know what I want and I'm not going to settle for less.

And I know you won't like this but Albertone is right. The kind of man you want is already wanted by majority of women. So even if you find him, you're going to be up against stiff competition. They call those kind of men level one men. Very rare and hard to find but they exist.


But in case you need an app or website where you want to meet new people (mostly foreigners though) tell me and I'll send you a PM. I just can't drop the website here.

I am focused. But it's kinda hard spending every day alone. I want someone to talk to or share ideas with... It's nice knowing someone cares for you. There's so much I'm doing this year and i worked very hard to get here.

I'm not asking for someone who's rich. Is it impossible to find someone who's cool?

I know someone who's perfect, he's everything I've wanted. But he's not Nigerian. The longer it gets, the harder it is to wait... I want someone close.

In a few years, everyone expects me to be settled... I'm not looking for commitment... aren't young relationships the best way to discover what we want/don't want in a partner?

Albertone:




If you sight a high value man, what if he doesn't approach you because he doesn't consider you worthy? He has many options you know.
But if you lower your standards, you have better chances. He now has narrower options so, you may be easily noticed.

As for me, I don't need to lower my standards to meet high value women. I simply approach her.
Example: You can want a very smart and funny man but guys in that category are not coming to you. I can want certain qualities too in a woman, all I need to do is to keep approaching women of those qualities. I have better chances that way.

We mostly do the approaching, you mostly do the acceptance. You can't accept what didn't come to you.


And yes, intelligent, funny Nigerian men are high quality and rare. Why are you finding it difficult to get one if they are scattered everywhere?



What if Dat berry is not Bored afterall? 🤔

You're being hypocritical tho.

I was born 2003, I approach men I like. There's nothing wrong. You shouldn't assume I'm timid.

Your advice is wrong. I'm not desperate to be in a relationship, if I was, I wouldn't be single despite having many options. Why do I need to settle for less? Would you?

In other words, I should give up on finding someone who's my mister right cause he doesn't exist, especially not in Nigeria.

Vyzz:



Hmmm


You are right...


You really bore people easily. How are you gonna make friends with an attitude like that?

What makes you think that? Have you spent a day with me? Have we had s conversation? You just assumed. Typical.

LikeAking:
Traditional Religion is the way.. There is no need to write long espitles to convence anyone.

NL members with traditional knowledge, please take the stage, feel free to enlighten us.

What do you believe tho? I'm interested in Yoruba deities.

budaatum:


As in, dreams are subject to the individual, as opposed to objective where a snake means the same thing always.

I tell you, it's very easy to identify those who exercise their brain and those who don't bother but think they know.

This is the point I'm trying so hard to make... My mum sometimes want me to interpret her dreams. I use her person to do so (if you understand)... If she sees snakes, she feels threatened. So I ask what's bothering her. It's not the same for me.

Vyzz:





You have lots of problems but the highest of them is that you consider yourself always right. Leggo

Precisely. I am right. You didn't ask any question, didn't try to know me... Just assumed I'm an introvert.

If I say Nigerian men are narrow-minded, I'm the bad person.

Ballzproblem2:
and how old do you think I am lol no much difference I try tell you something but since you no wan get sense leave am

F**k off. You can't even spell advising. Let's pretend I'm the one with the problem and you're not irredeemably stupid.

Techobeys:


“I’ll correct you” where’s the correction? Giving your own opinion to support what already said is not a correction. Correction is to say my information was false and you know the right one.

Also, people associating owls with certain things doesn’t make it the truth. People have taken time to study things and you expect us to throw their knowledge away over some nonsensical beliefs that people establish for themselves?

Life goes beyond beliefs and bias. Something has to be consistent and must correlate before it can be established as a general human attribute.

For us to establish anything, we have to take a careful study and not just follow what people belief.

So pardon me if I choose sigmund Freud’s point of view over yours. And do you even know what snake specify in dreams?

Maybe I misunderstood you...

My point is that people associate certain things with certain things... Doesn't mean sh**

Depending on your culture, snakes could represent good or bad... It's not constant. Just depends on the individual. A lot of people are scared of snakes, hence this belief they are bad. Dreams have meaning, not spiritual though. But you can't easy interpret a dream unless you really know the person. A snake in your dream might mean inner trouble, for me it might mean peace or something like that

Albertone:


Being your boyfriend feels like a chore. You have so much expectations about boys and the value you have to deliver is not commensurate with what you're expecting.

A guy who will meet your standards will be a high value man, a hot cake. He will have ladies chasing after him, he will have many options. You will need to prove yourself worthy of him choosing you. With all you've said, I don't think you stand a chance.

Don't worry about your high standards. As you progress in age, the standards will drop. I know of a 40-something year old Nigerian nurse in UK. She came home and was willing to marry any man, divorced, widowed, already have 5 kids, is broke, is 10 years younger.... just any man.

So? Are you trying to intimidate me? I know personally, we were kinda friends so this is shocking. I guess you've lowered your standards too cause you're SCARED of meeting high quality women and not being good enough. If you're so insecure, fine. I'm not you.

So intelligent, funny Nigerian men are high quality and rare? Like, you don't even consider yourself one?

I'm not offended, just sad for you.

Vyzz:



You think you are difficult to understand mama? Nah you are just an Introvert.

You will learn to socialize more when you are desperate

I'm not an introvert. Someone who's considered the most cheerful, happiest, friendliest person by everyone she meets? I don't make friends cause it's hard to find people who like the things I do... I cut people off easy, that's my problem.

SenecaTheYonger:


Someone that hates themselves should not be in a relationship with anybody. You will only be a source of frustration to the guy

How do i hate myself? This is really disappointing coming from you, I kinda expected more. So if you feel a disconnect from your mates, it's because you don't love yourself? I have high standards, not wanting to settle with something I don't consider good enough should tell you something.

Khd95:
what you want is unrealistic because you are yet to state what you got to offer, you want a man that is funny and can retain conversations, imagine a lonely introvert who gets bored easily setting such high stand, work in your self first else you may be lonely for long

Men too want intelligent women who are realistic and are productive or reliable, you think all a man want us just pussy and breZZ, he wants someone who is boring to be around dear😂😂?

Right now most Nigerians wouldn’t date you, they will just Bleep you and dump you because you got nothing to offer, and you are pathetically boring,imagine you saying you don’t want a guy that’s about his hustle and his money, as if you got the money to spend on him.
Be realistic with what you want maybe you will get lucky

Again, this assumption I'm an introvert. Jesus christ. People like you are the reason I get bored easily. You're so dumb, I'll rather end alone than settle with your kind.

Nothing you wrote makes any sense. How do I'm unproductive? How do you know I'm boring? How do you know I can't offer everything I asked for?

Deny the fact that you're a Yahoo boy... Please do so.

Nairaland is full of stupid men, I don't even know why I came here seeking advice.