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RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 12:38pm On Mar 06, 2023
Tenrack:
That's not me. You mistook me for someone else. I tried to make you see that wasn't me. You no gree cause you get strong head.

I'm not Fintin
Lol. The semblance is there.

I'm surprised though. I can't believe we fought. You remember why?
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 12:25pm On Mar 06, 2023
Tenrack:
Lol. Wanna know what's funny? You're the one who ghosted me. grin and even blocked me on WhatsApp. I swear I think we had a fight or something. Try to remember Berry.
If you tell me your other moniker begins with 'F' and ends with 'Tin'... I'll hang myself.
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 12:23pm On Mar 06, 2023
Albertone:
Intelligence isn't high value? Not everyone has it so it's of high value; remember scarcity creates value.
I need to know your definition of high value.

If you don't lower your standards, do you have what it takes to attract a high value man? I already know what you want in a man but no one here knows the value you have to offer.

The emboldened is very narcissistic. It should be "I am everything a high value man wants"(if that's true). You are not going to date yourself, you're going to date a valuable man.
I don't know what makes you think you're good enough for a valuable man.
Lmao. A high value man is intelligent, so am I. That's not something to argue. Meeting one good enough is the problem cause they are so rare. You might spend a lot of time thinking whether or not you're good enough for someone who's high value but I don't. Some of us are really confident. undecided

The weird thing is the other women use class to define high value but Nigerian women use intelligence, something that should be common. That tells a lot. Soon, we'll call Nigerian men with common sense high value... undecided

I suppose you're right... I gotta stop searching for someone with a little exposure, accept the only thing the average Nigerian man things about is yahoo and sex. Oh well.
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 12:06pm On Mar 06, 2023
Tenrack:
What have you been up to though? I miss seeing your gorgeous dark skin. smiley
I won't risk starting a discussion, you'll ghost me. grin

You never once mentioned me. But I'm fine now smiley
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 12:03pm On Mar 06, 2023
Albertone:
I'm not getting the point here. But a little clarification:

- It's the high value men that go for women they deem worthy.

- You don't always get what you want in life so you might not get the high value man you desire. You either have to upgrade yourself and have optimum value to offer to get a high value man, or you lower your standards to get a man not as high value as you want.


Like you always do, I don't expect you to agree.
That's the thing.

Intelligence shouldn't be considered high value. I'm surprised you think it is. You're making a point that intelligent men are rare in Nigeria. I should lower my standards and go for someone who's not smart. Or who lacks a sense of humour. Would you?

I am everything I want... So it's not a matter of being good enough.

Mind you, we aren't talking about wealth or success. undecided
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 11:59am On Mar 06, 2023
Tenrack:
Oh shit. I guess I neeed to work on my inconspicuousness. Lol. You might have find it easy to locate and eliminate me if you were an assassin. cheesy
Why do you have so many accounts. I'm not judging, I had more. Bans?
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 11:55am On Mar 06, 2023
Bradford111:
Lol 🤣 even your parents must have had an infection at some point. Do you want to tell me your pussy is not smelling? put a finger in and smell it if it doesn't smell like fish shocked
Other people entered the new year in church or with friends, you were seeking help for your infection on Nairaland.

Here's your post.

Recently an having itching down there and I was scratching it now I discover more than 100 boils have grown in my balls and some are coming up in my cap

Please is there anything I can do about this??
Were you exaggerating? Did you really have so many boils on your penis? Disgusting. 🤢
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 11:52am On Mar 06, 2023
Obnoxious2001:
They made you de-rail from your original intent smiley.

Now you see why I told you, you where calling for shots.


Besides I feel majority (few people opinion on this thread says otherwise) cant really differentiate between having a friend and been in a relationship.

Concerning the insult I go need hire you when they wan banter me for G.C grin
I could ignore them but I've been in the mood for a fight. grin

Lol. I'm flattered grin
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 11:49am On Mar 06, 2023
Tenrack:
maybe you missed us. cheesy just kidding.. it's good to have you back though. I wondered what happened to you.
after this, I'll go the religion section and remain there. grin
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 11:48am On Mar 06, 2023
Albertone:
At least you would have tasted many Nigerian men and many foreigners before coming to the conclusion that Nigerian men suck.
Even those who go abroad still choose Nigerian men. Let alone someone that has only had a couple of online dates with foreigners.
Don't do this. You said yourself high quality men are rare in Nigeria. Your definition of high quality is being different, smart, etc...

Obviously the women who go for them most have really low standards.

Why are you contradicting yourself? undecided
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 11:45am On Mar 06, 2023
Tenrack:
Lol. You sent me mails and I never responded? Maybe I couldn't access that particular mail. Hmm. How do you figure me out? If I didn't know any better, I'd think you're a sorceress. embarassed
You've done the same thing on Nairaland tho. I created a thread to talk with you and you suddenly disappeared... grin

***Finesseki*? Something like that... That's another account.

Honestly, you share alot here. It's easy to find out.
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 11:40am On Mar 06, 2023
Bradford111:
Who is your age mate? you must be dreaming I'm carrying the disease I was infected by your mother hope you know?
lame. undecided

all I know is that you had an infection. It's disgusting and sad. You can say whatever you want but you and I and the thousands of people who saw that thread know you either had an STI or toilet infection.
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 11:37am On Mar 06, 2023
Obnoxious2001:
grin grin
Photo shocked
I regret creating this thread... I hate doing this (insulting people)... Don't know why I came back to this toxic forum. cry
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 11:35am On Mar 06, 2023
Tenrack:
How did you know? And why did you block me though? I never got any closure.
Block you where? I sent you an email and you never responded. Not the first time you've done that. grin

I'll always figure you out.
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 11:19am On Mar 06, 2023
Bradford111:
Hope you didn't infect the guy you gave bj with herpes 😳
are you familiar with herpes too? We're age-mates yet you're a carrier of many diseases. Not on the same level. undecided
Christianity EtcRe: Homosexuality: They May Not Be Hurting Anyone, But They Are Hurting The Environ. by Banilla: 11:16am On Mar 06, 2023
elated177:
Wilgrea7, it is not for you to know how the animals and plants make a case against homosexuality. What will you do such with such knowledge?

What, exactly, do you usually do when you claim science has done this and done that, when you, erroneously, I might add, juxtapose it with religion? Were you appealing to science?

Without religion or culture, were does the sense of right or wrong come from, wilgrea7?
What about intersex people?
Christianity EtcRe: Are White And Blacks Created By The Same God? I Doubt. by Banilla: 11:15am On Mar 06, 2023
Princessstee:
You must be delusional if you think one old man with grey beard who lives in the sky create humans.

We are just evolutionary advanced baboons, nothing more.

And concerning whites, they got their white skin because of their environment( still evolution). So whites are just newest/advanced humans in some aspect
#shalom
yeah... If only blacks would take more responsibility for their actions.
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 11:12am On Mar 06, 2023
Bradford111:
Day play 🤣 see mouth like boy issues hope your pussy is intact? People like una nai day carry toilet infection give boys
That's you, you were the one with the infection. undecided
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 11:09am On Mar 06, 2023
Tenrack:
this girl and lies. Shebi you said the other time you gave a guy bj.. is that part of the abstinence? I pity folks who take you seriously sha.
Hacks4dummies? Our history is thee reason I won't be rude to you.
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 11:02am On Mar 06, 2023
Tekahashi:
I'm pretty scared of girls like you, girls with high expectations, I'm pretty sure by not being boring, the guy should do all the work.. I may be wrong tho, no dating experience buh my tots, ain't gonna find a reasonable someone with such expectations, mostly dissapointment, just head into it with a free mind, everyone is looking for their perfect match innit,,,,
If I meet someone I can actually talk to, getting me to shut up would be their greatest concern. I don't expect him to do all the work
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 11:01am On Mar 06, 2023
Bradford111:
Which one is in your pussy?
None. abstinence and good hygiene. Thank god I'm not you. I have boy problems, you had boils on your penis. grin
Christianity EtcRe: NL Traditional Religion Thread by Banilla: 10:59am On Mar 06, 2023
LikeAking:
I need guidance on this one to be honest...

I am still seeking.
oh. Well, the thread is a good idea.
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op):
Vyzz:
You haven't agreed with a, single person here, the problem is from you
Were they nice in the first place? Were you? I agree tho, I'm stubborn...

You said I was introverted and I disagreed... That makes me problematic? grin
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 10:55am On Mar 06, 2023
Bradford111:
Lol 🤣 done that a long time ago pray I don't get hold of your details if not otilor
What was it? Gonorrhea? Syphilis? Hiv? Toilet infection?
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 10:53am On Mar 06, 2023
Albertone:
I'm not saying you're desperate now. But as you age, desperation can set in and make you drop your high standards.

You can keep on searching for mister right. But does mister right want you?
How can you distinguish yourself from all those that want him?

With what I've seen so far on this thread, the I-am-always-right, the insults thrown around and all... If mister right were to be on NL viewing this thread, sorry you just lost him.
Convenient of you to ignore the fact that I was insulted first. If mister right wants me to be docile, then he is not my mister right. And I don't want anyone who would tolerate being treated badly. I like my men tough cause I am. grin

I don't need to prove anything. Maybe you do, but I don't. If I meet the right person, we would fit. I don't need tips on how to approach men or distinguish myself... Just needed to you say Nigerian men suck and you've done that.
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op):
siofra:
It's quite rare to find that in a Nigerian man o. Just keep looking sha, maybe you'll find them here too. But I thought you already found one, that senomi guy??

A YOUNG Nigerian man will be interested in art and history😂😂 sorry but I couldn't help but laugh. All they know is Yahoo, party, tribalism and fúck.
And he was perfect. grin

He just misbehaved too much. Take away his bad habits and we would be happily married with four kids.

The yahoo thing especially... And they are so alike. I'm like, can't you do fraud and still have a personality?
Christianity EtcRe: NL Traditional Religion Thread by Banilla: 10:45am On Mar 06, 2023
LikeAking:
For me it's about good dietes...
Which? undecided
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 10:43am On Mar 06, 2023
Bradford111:
To murder you day hungry me
treat yourself first.


https://www.nairaland.com/7562565/infection-wants-kill-me
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 10:37am On Mar 06, 2023
Musafatiu2:
I'm also under that shoe as well. If you don't mind we can make friend which can eventually lead to marriage.
I don't want marriage tho. smiley
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 10:36am On Mar 06, 2023
Shadysen:
try me out, am weird too, give a try.
grin

Alright... I'll send an email.
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 10:30am On Mar 06, 2023
Tenrack:
Una get time dey give audience to OP wahlai. You guys should learn to sift through threads. Our excellent OP here is a know it all. Worse still is she's delusional af. No sane nigga would come close to her with her silly attitude.

She should work on her attitude.. what a Narcissistic young woman.
Make she no worry, she go learn soon enough.
Coming from an obnoxious flirt... undecided
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Me? Can Anyone Relate? by Banilla(op): 10:27am On Mar 06, 2023
siofra:
I really admire your confidence.

But I think you should not worry about having a boyfriend now. Guys will come but I don't think you're ready yet. What you should focus on now is building yourself into the woman of YOUR dreams. The woman you would like to be. Pursue your interests and hobbies, trust me it is more rewarding and satisfying than trying to chat with all these time wasters called men.

Focus on your career, school, hobbies, dream big and work towards it. It's going to be hard, painful, frustrating, filled with tears and lonely. But what keeps me going are my goals and the life I have envisioned for myself. I know what I want and I'm not going to settle for less.

And I know you won't like this but Albertone is right. The kind of man you want is already wanted by majority of women. So even if you find him, you're going to be up against stiff competition. They call those kind of men level one men. Very rare and hard to find but they exist.


But in case you need an app or website where you want to meet new people (mostly foreigners though) tell me and I'll send you a PM. I just can't drop the website here.
I am focused. But it's kinda hard spending every day alone. I want someone to talk to or share ideas with... It's nice knowing someone cares for you. There's so much I'm doing this year and i worked very hard to get here.

I'm not asking for someone who's rich. Is it impossible to find someone who's cool?

I know someone who's perfect, he's everything I've wanted. But he's not Nigerian. The longer it gets, the harder it is to wait... I want someone close.

In a few years, everyone expects me to be settled... I'm not looking for commitment... aren't young relationships the best way to discover what we want/don't want in a partner?

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