₦airaland Forum

softwerk:
‎My moral compass has been swinging on the extreme since I learnt that recently CR7 had twin babies from a surrogate mother.

For those who do not know, a surrogate mother is a woman that volunteers to be experimentally used in the conception of a baby by accepting the sperm of a man (in this case CR7) and the ovum or egg of a woman (in this case CR7's girlfriend).

The big question now on my mind now remains: Is giving birth to a baby through a surrogate mother an abomination, an certified act of adultery of a sinful act of fornication?!

Nairalanders please react!‎

It is. If you are a Nigerian and a religious nut job that is. In the eyes of the normal right thinking countries, it is business as usual.

Probz:
I think you're spending a little more time on that troll than you need to. He's obviously taking the piss.

Lol....

Jaqenhghar:
LMFAO

No be lie na...

ewa26:
hehehe! your plan to remove me from this thread will never work for you Lai lai! well I was busy in my catering restaurant cooking, I'm not jobless like you to be sitting on Nairaland all day

No one is driving you away from the thread. In contrast, we are trying to drive some sense into you. Your online countenance is shameful and appalling to say the least. And just say you are in your BUKA because their is no phucking way you have a restaurant talk less of churning out palatable delicacies for consumption.

ottersberger:
I think most commentators seem not to understand what is at stake here.

I read about this incident in the newspapers last night. The Germany urban transportation system is honor based. That means that you are required to buy the applicable ticket for your travel, but there are no barriers or checks prior to boarding the transportation vehicle. However random and spontaneous checks can occur in the course of travel. Obviously, the individual was found not to be in possession of a valid ticket for his travel, and our defiant and recalcitrant nature in Nigeria undeservedly went on display in a situation that could have been managed with civility.

Our brother is wrong in his behavior which may have been necessitated by a number of factors.

However, the Deutsche Bahn security men erred in their mandate by electing to administer force in this case. Let us understand that only a state or federal police officer can legally and in a binding manner demand an identification document from an individual or entity in Germany. Also, only these constituted authorities can detain or authorize a citizen arrest.

The function of identification in these circumstance serves the purpose of facilitating the service of fine notification. The offending passenger is authorized to continue travel upon successful identification and this procedure usually take place without other passengers really noticing what was happening.

Germany is a civilized and peaceful society, and there are rules and guidelines that governs almost all spheres of societal existence.

In the instant situation, the security men ought to have invited the police to help in the identification of the non compliant passenger (Schwarz Fahrer). Upon informing any of these constituted authority to whom they have direct access, they will be in their right to hold and detain the individual until such a time the police arrives or the train arrives at a station that has a Federal police (bundespolizei) presence. In this case, the train service was inbound from the Airport (S8), that station will be München Ostbahnhof which is only 2 minutes away from Leuchtenbergring.

The men are not authorized to receive part payment in the event of a fine. That was in total violation of their terms of employment and constituted fraud.

This is a clear case of emotional induced violence against a customer triggered by racial bias, torture (His refusal to evacuate the train on demand did not legitimize the behavior administered to him), fraud and impoverishment (You cant take the only money he had with him).

I agree with everything you said until that last part. German officials can forcefully eject you from public transportation. The only reason you don't see it is because most people they deal with are normal human beings and there is no need for it. I have physically seen it done to U.S Soldiers stationed in Germany who were unruly on a train. And they were white too. If he had paid his ticket or obeyed the instructions of the officials would it have happened? I really hate it when blacks pull out the race card. I have lived in Germany and America for decades and i have yet to experience any form of racism. In fact, my best friends are white. Obey the law and contribute positively to the society and you will never have a problem. Isn't it strange that it is always people caught in the middle of something they shouldn't be doing that scream racism the loudest?

Tahrah:
And he was dragged like an animal?

Yes. What you don't understand about Germany is that they are very law abiding and frown heavily on anyone irrespective of race who thinks they can do whatever they like. They are very respectful as well but when you cross the line, the authorities will go full re.tard on your asss. Play loud music anyhow, or drop trash on the ground and you'd think you killed someone with the way they would react. Lesson here is; don't phuck around in a law abiding country.

Seun:
He didn't refuse to pay the fare. He didn't have the money.

Then why board the train?

mzjaney:
I really dont understand that guy. He is just an attention seeker... i wish everyone could just ignore him. The more they quote his comments the more he talks rubbish.

One thing my job's taught me over time is that people like that need push back. When you back away they push forward. You see how quickly he's reduced his footprint on the thread.

adajiboyy:
lol Bros this your oyinbo nearly tear my head. anyway I agree with you chief what i was saying in essence was that I believe the flogging could make her think twice before she decides to steal next time. anyway thanks for your good words without abuse like must naira landers would do if they don't agree with your own opinion. cheers mate and a have a lovely day

You too bro.

mrtegation99:
OP can lie. If it's not our Mumu local Nigerian dog it's not it at all. All other dogs are fake

There is nothing like local dog. It all depends on how you treat them. Treat them like crap and they'll look like crap. The concept in Nigeria is if you have a pot belly and big, you are the shiit. Lol. A dog does not not have to be furry and fat to be well bred.

adajiboyy:
hey our mothers did more than this to us and that has turn us into better person's today. she stole and she was beaten she won't do such next time. I remember when I was young and stole mum's 20 naira I think she did more than this and till tomorrow am grateful for that day.... let's not allow all this oyinbo kind of life get to us or else she could be the next Evans. today it was 200 it could be 2 million dollars tomorrow.

Lol. I don't think you understand what you wrote there. If what you say is true, how come Nigeria is one of the most corrupt societies in the world? Have you looked around your society lately? People who have been groomed properly do not grow up to build a society like Nigeria. Nigeria is the way it is today precisely because it's people were poorly brought up. Every problem is solved by violence. Or better yet, "the short cut method". The mental exercise of identifying the "why" of any conundrum is seen as too much work. It is easier to just solve it with the fist in Nigeria. Meanwhile, in societies where you don't just start flogging are growing in leaps and bounds. How sir, do you explain this?

sarrki:
Marriage is an institution ordained by God

It is not good for man to live alone

That's why he created Eve to be with Adam

So every man needs a man

Also every woman needs a man

But you don't have to be married to achieve that.

ewa26:
anuofia mulanu

It's because of people like you i love my job. I get to vent my frustrations on archaic neanderthals and bury idi.ots like you occasionally. Why are there so many mo.rons roaming around nowadays? A well intentioned thread and your only purpose for existence is to derail it with your mindless rantings. How about you just roll over and die for everyone's sake? I promise; you will not be missed.

ewa26:
hian!! You no fit small animal even pomo Well I would vomit

Which cave did you migrate from? Dem swear for you?

Caustics:
what have i written?

Rubbish.

StephDamielola:


OGA WE KNOW YOUR WIFE IS A QUEEN, A MERMAID, AN ANGEL ETC. BUT PLEASE TAKE YOUR MARRIAGE OFF THE SOCIAL MEDIA.

YOU MIGHT BE THE ONE LOVING AND MAKING NOISE WHILE SHE MIGHT JUST BE HATCHING AN ESCAPE PLAN (JUST SAYING).

REMEMBER (CHILD SUPPORT MONEY) IS THE LATEST NOW.

IN A NUTSHELL, TAKE YOUR MARRIAGE OUT OF THE SOCIAL MEDIA BECAUSE ONCE THEY GIVE YOU THE ATTENTION YOU ARE CRAVING FOR, JUST KNOW THAT MARRIAGE IS RUINED.

Dem no go hear.

Modsenemy:
Oil is a curse to Nigeria , hence , the downfall of every other sector.

I hope you have watched the footage of the heavily leaking roof at newly renovated Abuja airport .

These days we don't have business planes , we have private jets owned by the pas...rs

How can you say that oil is a curse to Nigeria? Oil is not the problem. Unless you are saying Natural resource is not good for a country. The curse of Nigeria is the mentality of the citizenry. It is phucked up from the floor up. Nigerians don't think like normal human beings hence the reason it seems they take one step forward and a billion ones back.

saydfact:
@ banmee -

Abi, sm pple just make u wonder

Smh. You have to wonder how some Nigerians think. Take this post below for instance. This animal wants to solve a crime by committing another crime. What a people.

Homeboiy:
Go and rape Jude sister back

kelvinrhs:
Trust me when I say this
I REALLY WANNA KNOW

Have you ever ran backwards at night, through a corn field n.aked, in the middle of winter? I did that for love.

Trust me; you don't wanna know.

Lexusgs430:
You put your points across more eloquently than I can ever imagine. If only I had a better education, you might have had a competition on your hands .......

Lol. You are funny. You are not bad na. . . . . . .

Lexusgs430:
Its very scary how members of both sects have simply lost the use of their brains.......

It's all about laziness, ignorance and fear. They are too lazy to roll up their sleeves and do what needs to be done in order to achieve their dreams. They expect some imaginary God to come help them do it. They are also fearful of the unknown. The question they don't ask themselves is, before they were born, did they have any consciousness of where they were going? So how the phuck do they know where they are going when they die? And lastly ignorance. They just don't understand that life is all about stages. There are good times, and there are bad times. What makes us successful is what we do during the good times. They don't realize that you have to plan your life in such a way that if something bad happens tomorrow, you already have a plan to mitigate the effect. In normal countries, they call it insurance. In Nigeria it's called God. When something goes bad it is always the devil's fault and God is the solution. They never consider that their past actions and decisions has a direct impact on the present as well as the future. What a people.

Lexusgs430:
Religion- The biggest scam on earth ......

You can say that again.

solasoulmusic:
As long as I'm not being a tyrant on an online platform my Nigg I'm good money well spent your parents deserve a refund.

If everyone stays back who will help build this nation life is how you go from D to an A student regardless of struggles and how you go from homeless to house owner in this case it's never personal unless your envious. The way you post your half educated and it was rushed it's nobodies fault take heart

Take your faithless hope and shove it all the way up till you hit your brain matter the only thing real about you is your stupidity and the way you seek attention what's wrong are you pained? I made the best choice and thank you no dey here reality will soon reach your ignorant side

Lol. You don't have to be a tyrant to destroy Nigeria. Just by possessing your kind of mentality is enough. You are just ranting and raving stupidly with zero coherence whatsoever. Yeah, you first thought when you graduated was, "you know what? I'm going to go back to Nigeria and help build it" . People are laughing at your lies. And someone will marry this thing one day. Smh.

valnelly:
As I write this.... I'm filled with so much hurt and regret.
My girlfriend whom I thought would be patient enough for me so I could get married to her has broken up with me.
I met her while I was writing my final year project in Yabatech about 4 years ago. We were cool together and the distance between us didn't mean that much to me even though she stays in ikorodu and I stay in surulere. The problem started when I gained admission to Unilag due to my decision for self development. I'm 31 years old and she is 25.
During the last 2 years I noticed she has changed drastically I notice that she now has stuffs like new shoes and new bags. Which of course ordinarily she wouldn't have been able to afford. The only time we see is on weekends and that's because she is still in Yabatech schooling and sometime when she comes like that she acts funny with phone calls. The way she talks to some certain people so suspicious. But none the less she always feels cool with me and always wants to be around me. Could it be because of sex?

I noticed that she behaves single at school and even on social media. We do not chat or use social media, we added each other but at a point I had to take her off because she doesn't portray any thing that shows we are actually dating...i took her off all platform of social media and she wasn't perturbed about it. I don't actually know what's going on in school or her place of residence but I have a very strong feeling that she has been cheating on me and some other guy have been buying her things I can't get for her. But on top of this she was actually looking for school fees and I was deploying all methods to make sure she pays this on time and that alone made me confused!. We had a heated argument on Sunday and she was yelling and talking back at me... I left the house for her in annoyance only for me to come back and she is gone. She left a note that says that she is no longer interested. Guys please what should I do. I love this girl so frigging much. I can't sleep or think straight right now. It's almost impossible for me to start all over again. I feel hopeless. Please guys your advice!

Guy, chuck it up to life experiences. We all get hurt sometime. I remember when my first love dumped me. I thought i was going to kill someone or worse, myself. Looking back now, i just smile. If she hadn't dumped me i wouldn't be with the goddess i'm with now. The best thing you can do right now is to take the pain and bury yourself in things you are interested in. Time heals all wounds. No one stays hurt forever. The worst thing you can do is go chasing after her because the more she rejects you, the more it will hurt. Learn from my experience.

Lajet:
Good Its time to divide Nigeria in a peaceful way

Lol. That's never going to happen. With normal right thinking people maybe but Nigerians are just to bloodthirsty for comfort.

NairalandCS:
No denying ottermode is the ideal body type.

Says who? Builtfat is it. You are one step away from athletic because athletic is the ideal body type.

Toks2008:
Do you know that in the romance dictionary of women,a man's love expression is defined as "an act of care and sexual faithfulness towards his woman" and I guess I personally don't have issues with this but the question is "for how long shall we continue to lie to ourselves just to create an artificial happiness?

I watched a video file where a lady was trying to outsmart her co-debaters and she reiterated what i have always maintained that men are natural polygamist.

According to her and also n my candid opinion,monogamy and fidelity for men are unnatural situations forced down our throats by religious beliefs and societal pressures and once you take out these two factors,all men will cheat because by nature,men are polygamous and that definition of love expression above is for the women expecially that part of sexual faithfulness.

Before the ladies ask for my head,I want to point out that this write up has nothing to do with sexism,mysoginy or gender superiority but it is a fact every reasonable lady must calmly accept or be forced to accept and I will explain...

By God's grand design,sex is mainly for procreation and every other reason is Jara. Now a man can produce over 300million sperm cells in one healthy drop each time he makes love and each of these sperm cells could ferterlize 300 million female eggs but here is the catch....in most cases,a woman can only produce ONE EGG in one whole month during her ovulation period.

Frankly put,Men ovulate everyday and can conviniently ferterlize over 90 random ladies in one month if he makes love to 3 different healthy ovulating ladies each day of the month and in most cases,a lady can only get pregnant during her ovulation period and by just that one man whose sperm fertilizes that one egg or even eggs as the case may be...This means just about 40men can impregnate all the women in the world if each of the over 300million sperm cells per drop of semen is innoculated each day into different ovulating ladies.

This simple natural biological grand design of GOD is a strong pointer to the fact that men are indeed polygamous by nature and any lady who frowns at this fact is either naive,immature or simply looking for ways to remain unhappy.

So this brings me to the subject matter..."how does a man truly express his love for his woman"?

The answer is very simple...BY CARING AND PROVIDING FOR HER WITHIN HIS AFFORDABLE RESOURCES...anything else is an aberation. ..little wonder why most mature ladies of marriageable age naturally prefer men who can conviniently provide their needs regardless of their marital status over poor dudes who are sexually faithful to them

The act of sexual faithfulness from a man to a woman is a choice and yes many men including myself may choose to be but it must never be expected as a status quo or norm for everyman in love meaning if a man decides to be polygamous,the woman in his life should take fate or leave to remain unmarried and not foolishly seek for a faithful man cos by nature....there is hardly one sexually faithful man out there.

So as a lady,when next you are asked if you man loves you,don't ever judge his love by his sexual faithfulness to you but by how deep he cares for you within his affordable resources cos a man can deeply love you and still marry another lady let alone cheat on you..

This write up is not in support of sexual recklessness. A real man and a responsible one should have sexual discipline but this is one fact our ladies need to know and must be prepared for.

I definitely know this makes sense.

In Nigeria? Basically just treat her like a partner and not property.

solasoulmusic:
As long as we are not as cynical as you our future is bright

How do you hope without faith it will happen

I didn't lie in the embassy I know what I went there for - Education and once I was done I was out not everyone prefers to live there and my family is here check out Lakeland.edu then come back

No student loans no loans just straight up cash money


goodnight

And how is that by choice. You said it like you had permanent legal residence here and you decided to pack up everything to go back to Nigeria. Smh. Coming here to study doesn't count. You are supposed to go back to that rubbish country. And i'm not cynical. I'm a realist. I call it as it is. How does a people corrupt to the bone, dirty as phuck and borderline bloodthirsty psychopaths have a bright future? When a child gets straight A's every time you say the child has a bright future not when they are constantly getting D's.

solasoulmusic:
You see assumptions I have lived in the US for over 5 years and came back by choice. He bought the milk that's all I read and that showed his level of humility now to your comments about the nation until we stop handing the powers of the country to friends and too old leaders we will continue to go back in circles. Faith doesn't mean that we don't progress it's the reason we progress without faith we for become slaves no be missionary save you from killings yourselves

Lol. The way you think. He bought milk so he's humble. The thought process. And why do you hand over power to friends and old leaders time and time again? I'll tell you why? Because you all don't think like normal people. You keep thinking the same way and expect different results. Based on this topic alone and the reactions from people like you sums up why Nigeria is the way it is. Also, i don't need faith. What i need is hope. I hope that my plans and efforts put in place come to fruit because chance and life may have other plans. Plus, every nation from time immemorial has been set free from whatever bondage they've been in. What they did with it is what matters. Believe it or not, when the first settlers in America found the new country, they almost died from hunger. The indians showed them where and how to grow corn. Missionaries saved you from killing yourselves right, how have you used that grace? You are no better now than you were then. And you came to Nigeria by choice? Ok. Sell that shiit to someone who is willing to buy it? Explain to me how one leaves a well functioning society to come live in a dysfunctional and chaotic one. Smh.

solasoulmusic:
You can see how I made my point without insulting anyone I expect the same from you but like you said this is Nigeria

Just because you don't believe doesn't mean others with faith don't triumph over difficulties es.

What kind of compassion only lasts a while or even if it's hard his gesture should be enough to say he is grateful and making a contribution

I don't have to know you don't believe in God I can tell from your attitude all non believers have this penchant to shoot down the claims of Christian's we are not your enemy your ignorance is

Back to the topic shebi he will leave and they will soon find another common enemy in the house hope it won't be the child who eats rice crisps

And they wonder why their country is messed up. Guy, it is one thing to be compassionate and another to be taken advantage off. You guys can never survive outside Nigeria with this kind of mentality. Funny people. These are the same people who happily burn another human being in the streets. These are the same people who's daily existence is to shaft "the other guy". I know what you will say. You are going to say "i don't do that". I know. But your society overwhelmingly does which is why Nigeria is the way it is. They scream compassion behind a computer but are something else outside it. And you are right; i don't believe in a make believe God. I take responsibility for my thoughts and actions which is why i try to plan ahead for eventualities. And when my plans don't pan out, i chuck it to life lessons and learn from it. Bad things don't happen because of the devil. It's just life. Learn to live it. Christians fall on their knees praying to some imaginary God to accomplish tasks they can easily do for and by themselves. Meanwhile in normal right thinking countries, they have their sleeves rolled up and accomplishing the impossible. I hope for your sakes you wake up from this nightmare you all seem to be in.

kowema:
How pls?, kindly illuminate me.

Do urself a favour, go scoop the sand wia she stood , mix in olive oil n drink daily, after dat, ur incense of celeb worship would be accepted.

Lol. I'm going on vacation soon. Will bring some sand for you. I would also advice you to go back to school. Your English needs fine tuning Lol. Instead of you to focus on that you are busy salivating over the doings of someone who is enjoying her life and does not even know you exist.