₦airaland Forum

StarUp:
Am still waiting for the day Chinwetalu Agu will be made SA or PA to one political office holder...

imolile:
And these old scum wants to Rule at 73, The best Brains in Leadership begins from 30 and ends at 60. after 60 You are just a burden like Buhari
The country spend more to keep them alive than develop the country for upcoming generation

Say no to old men in Nigerian Politics

Ithream:
Take Dinstinction or first-class away from it. I can't even smell it, not with this CGPA with a penultimate semester left.

cortix:
Just stumbled on this...when am making plans to resign from my job by month end. The pay is actually very attractive almost 400k. But the work environment became very toxic after the employment of a new HR.
I pray God will provide another Job worth more than my previous work.

kareemkamil:
Oga author, you are No. 1 dullard in Nigeria, se u can't use ur head, let's Oledepo continue using it 4 u. (FOOLS).

qualityovenbake:
Reminds me of that India movie late 80s "Snake Girl".

quickly:
He also needs to get good international attorneys but as u know dem go open close to million of dollars case on his head.


Don’t be surprised if this is the doing of a rival airline- this is oyinbo style blackmail and economic sabotage strategy

TheGiftedOne:
...only block and you're complaining? Me I wish I could unknow the two of you.

My 2019 list of Nigeria's most stu.pid people:

10. Mopper

9. Hotdog puppy

8. Kemi De kolo

7. Zlatan beans

6. Jarum Her

5. PH First Dullard

4. Turn to Dike

3. Odikwa Risky

1. Ara. Marley

Useless peeps.

NwaAmaikpe:




I know that old Afashio woman.
So she still hasn't stopped changing to reptiles?

The last time she was almost killed at Ikabigbo if not for late Mallam Mamudu that asked it be spared.
When there was calm, she turned back to a human being and trekked back to her house.

That was some 21 years ago.

Islie:
https://punchng.com/breaking-construction-works-on-2nd-niger-bridge-28-complete-julius-berger/

JubrinElSudan:
Hope he comes out of this innocent. Many persons(in the airline industry and some ordinary Nigerians) are already waiting to laugh at him

Meanwhile, EFCC is patiently waiting for the indictment to be real so they can head to a court to get asset forfeiture order

DonBenny77:
Anywhere una travel go na to spread leg

OladimejiRufai:
Well, I have an advice for you my boy @OP

From this moment, stop looking for true love

I'm not implying that you cannot find it but stop looking for it.

Rather start looking for a lady who is psychologically wired to always do the right thing and has a very advanced understanding of life.

See, in most cases, love is transient.

Sometimes, people fall in love because they fell into a moment where they perceived something that touched their heart from the other person. And then moments later, they find out that the feelings are lost.

sometimes, people fall in love because there's constant communication or commitment between both persons and they are just lost in the fun of it and think they are in love. If something happens that distracts one of them from achieving the constant communication or commitment to the other person, they find that they lose the love gradually.

sometimes, people's love for another person is usually connected to some features of that person that fascinates them or blows them away.

"oh, the guy is funny." "the girl is intelligent" "the guy is charming" "the girl is georgous" e.t.c and they continue to fall in love so far these qualities are present. But what happens when they lose those qualities or those qualities gradually fade away? that's how the love will also be lost or will gradually fade away.

So in most cases, love is transient. This is proven by the many broken relationships where you hear from both sides that they have fallen out of love.

So if a person were to enter a marriage because of love, he or she is likely to be no more interested in the marriage eventually and may crave attention or love elsewhere and may want to break up the marriage.

That's the reason why I said you should look for someone with a larger and better understanding of life and who is psychologically wired to do the right thing.

this is because when it gets to the stage in a marriage where both spouses have fallen out of love, for people who do not fulfil the said criteria (no understanding of life or being wired to do the right thing), they would want to break up or would start seeking love elsewhere and they many end up cheating etc.

But for someone who fulfils that criteria;

- someone who understands that this life is not a bed of roses and it is not everything you want that you get;

- someone who understands that the purpose of marriage is not necessarily to love rather it is to show care, support each other, become responsible, help each other achieve desired goals and for mankind to multiply (procreation);

- someone who understands that there is time for everything and there are some certain pleasures that should not be sought at all stages of life or the pleasures should be limited at some point in time (imagine a 45 year old woman complaining that her husband doesn't take her out for shopping or so like he used to when she was still 25 when she should be more concerned about caring for the kids that she didn't have then but have now and focus on making them successful in life)

- someone who understands that this life itself is a place of trials and there'll always be sour times or times when you would have to forgo your heart desires for the right thing to be done;

- someone who understands that the pleasures of the hereafter are far greater than those of this life and is more concerned about that and because of that, he or she gives up some pleasures in this world just for the right thing to be done.

- someone who has values, who understands cheating is bad, who understands that it is an evil thing to extort or deceive a partner for personal gains, who knows how to control anger and doesn't expect perfection from the other partner, who understands that for a marriage to work, both sides must be committed to it, who understands that deceiving a partner and extorting him should not be the measure by which you "make it in life", and who is psychologically wired to follow all those values;

So for someone who has a better understanding of life and is wired to do the right thing, such are the people who stay in a marriage when there's no more "love" or when they have fallen out of love and continue to try everything to make it work till the end.

So this is what you should be looking for, for "true love" Is scarce.

If eventually you are able to find true love in a partner that fulfils the above criteria, then consider it a plus, consider it a blessing and thank God for it.

My piece!

crackhouse:
Pls what will it cost me to get a visa to US or Germany with my family of 4? Any idea? Naija don tire me.
Somebody should let me know Pls. Approximate amount pls

Contumely:
These old dregs are busy marrying wives everywhere, taking them to expensive trips with common wealth.

Why should we have so many of such rubbish here?
This one inherited Obaship.

Why should someone be able to control so much power and wealth by virtue of mere inheritance and archaic tradition?

What did Alafin of Oyo for example do to merit such opulence, power and influence? Dude has four wives with youngest less than 27. They go for vacations steady at our expense.
They give birth abroad. Get health care there.

No special skill, talent or invention. He has not distinguished himself in any area of human endeavour.

People like Larry page, Mark Zuckerberg, Dorsey, Messi , Woods etc have distinguished themselves.

This promotes excellence.

But what do we have here and in Africa?

Old armpits that know how to fuucck young girls maintained from common wealth.

Such offices should be by election or merit of some sort.


African men only think about saex.

Imagine if Bill gates or bezos were africans.


spits...

victorava:
Hello Nairalanders

Two weeks back, my friend was apprehended by DSS officers from his residence in Lagos state and we have not heard from him.

I was driving out with him, immediately they saw us, they surrounded us and started asking questions. We now discovered that it was my friend that they were looking for. They collected his phones and followed him to his room to change his clothes. When I asked them what his offense was, they told me that they would like to ask him one or two questions.

They told me to meet them at their office and when I got there, I was not allowed access to their office. The officer at the gate told me that there was no such arrest. It was on Friday. I went there on Monday together with his wife and brother which was the following week, we were still denied access. They officer at the gate told us that if he's truly here that nothing will happen to him. He told us that anyone who is apprehended is not allowed to see anybody until after investigation.

We paid a Lawyer to go there the following day and the Lawyer eventually gained access, he was told that my friend was taken to Abuja the following day they arrested him.

We contacted a Lawyer in Abuja to go there and he was not allowed to see my friend. They told him to submit an application that they would get back to him. After few days, they did not contact him. He decided to go there this week and was denied access.

My friend has a wife and two kids, the wife has not been herself since this incident happened. She's been traumatized. She just wants to be sure if her husband is truly there.

Please Nairalander, I need your advice on the necessary steps I should take to be able to see my friend. Sorry for the long write up.

Admin please help me move this to front page, it is very urgent.