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You met one Russian,just one and then boom....Russians are this Russians are that forget media propaganda yenyenyen.
This is silly

Sorry dear. The wasted time,money,emotions,effort etc. I am sorry about everything.
Can you spare the time to have a sit down with him and thoroughly talk things over.
Dont act like you are forcing yourself on him. Its just a sit down to talk before throwing out the bathwather with the baby.
Dont take everything you read here to heart, you are the one wearing the shoes and know where it pains.
If he insists on not going on with the marriage,then just understand it wasnt meant to be. Focus on building youself and preparing yourself for the next man.
All the best for the future

Make sure the person you marry has someone he/she listens to. Don`t marry a loose canon

There's nothing wrong in what you've been doing. Some men like to prey on single mother's desperation hence the lies and pretence. Don't lower your standard for anyone.

DemonInvoker:
Guy,Good Nite...End of Story,Oya Keee Yourself.

Continue pls. I'm enjoying it

I'm happy it's just 4k. I can imagine how your mum and fiancee would have felt if she had absconded with the sewing machine.
It's ok. You are a good person. God will reward your good actions

I'm following. Continue

100trillion:
I work in a state govt agency, the pay is good but the work can drive one insane. No time for yourself or your love ones, 80 percent of female in my agency are single due to the work.

Let no one deceive you, 80% of female civil servant are single, the married ones ain't faithful.....I pity those men that married those female in my dept
I do make money in a day (normal civil servants level ), but the pain is when they pay imagine gettting paid the 2nd-3rd week of the next month instead of d prev month end.....right now I've not been paid, although I do make "small money" at work but I want my fvcking pay.

So, if I retire na like this I go dey fight for my money .....olorun maje, tufiakwa.

My plan is to finish my uni and focus on building my biz, bcus govt wrk ain't it.....you'll just spend waste 35yrs of your life doing shit for the govt.

I pray God grants my heart desires and guide me through the right path of life.

"I do make money in a day normal civil servants level "
"I do make small money at work"

What does these terms mean?

It's 5years of marriage. Well it's not been completely blissful but it's but the good has been more than the worse. I am always ready to çompromise on knotty issues while she's always ready to let go of unnecessary fights.
I think the major ingredients needed in marriage is Maturity, Love and Money. Those 3 have managed to sustain us so far and they are still doing so

Sorry about your experience. This is quite sad. You might need to get some military personnel to slap the Mr Salami around a bit. Might look like hard work going to Lagos but if you are really keen on getting justice that's the quickest way to go.

Funny how this happened to my colleague (a doctor) at work. She was like 7months pregnant then. A man brought his relative for treatment, called her aside and begged for her phone number saying he would love to marry her that its always been his dream to marry a doctor.
She was speechless. When she pointed at her protruding tummy,he briskly replied,'enh but you will deliver someday now '
Not like the man looked like a mad man or something. He was well dressed and well spoken.
Amazing

Babagumboro:
90k ministry because it's as good as doing nothing

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I know it’s a fake story and I’m angry I’m commenting sef but anyway.............so you expect a woman to go out all day looking for the daily bread and then come home and still be doing all the house chores? So what exactly will be the man’s function in that house o?
The man better tighten his belt and embrace his tasks with his chest. Other option is to go out there and get a job.

You are smart though. I especially like your excuse about already paying for another job. Family issues are tricky to negotiate, it’s only someone who isn’t married that will blame you about how you handled it. You did well

He should sleep in the army’s guardroom for a few days before handing him to the police for proper legal punishment.
See that the poor girl gets proper medical attention.
Don’t forget to inform your husband as well.

You should do something about your self-esteem. Seems you are lacking in that area.
I will advise you to look good,dress well and smell good if getting babes is your priory right now. It’s not that hard to connect with babes, you just need to finesse yourself

Don't sweat it. He will need your help again and come running back,that's when you will know he is just a user.

Meanwhile you too should work on your self esteem. You are better than someone taking ypu for a ride

How much is it pls

What's muegbesuegbe?

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Please does anyone know the best mosquito killing lamp out there that’s been proved to actually work? And how someone can get it?

Will be looking forward to helpful answers. Thanks a lot

Cattle or not , I'm happy the immigration responded on time. If more govt agencies respond to citizens like this there will be more transparency in govt

I won't say you should leave her. Just calm down and don't take the relationship too much to heart. And prepare yourself for any eventual outcome.

Why are you people incredibly stupid like this. As she has narrated her experience now, wont it be helpful for other persons to learn from and taking precautions accordingly

Sirbruno3000:
Who ask u?
"Many will still hv to suffer, many will still hv to die. Don't ask me why.."

Nice one. Totally enjoyable

Good job OP. I'm really enjoying this