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@abekeade08

This is no joking matter o, I'm really bothered and sad at the moment. At least I went to my doctor yesterday for check-up. Just a small Trichomoniasis that I had and It has since been treated.

Just contemplating leaving this girl,

She just left my house few minutes ago. She's 22, from Sierra Leone and very pretty. She does look innocent though, but boy oh' boy, she's a fantastic and energetic climber. I thought it was just going be a jolly-ride and a bit of a rollercoster for me, then things started happening.

Met her few months ago (4 months to be precise), made love to her on her second visit, then her third, fourth, fifth and sixth. Then it dawn on me that apparently she wants it everyday! Tried very hard convincing her about the danger of doing it everyday and without condom.

She gave me a 4 days break and started demanding for 'IT' again. I told her I was sick and tired and don't have the energy. She insisted I have to else she would tell my friends I was depriving her of her right.

She wouldn't use condom because she is not use to it. She's on contraceptives and always confident of not getting pregnant.

I can't continue like this though I still love her.

She angrily left my house this morning at about 1:30am 'cause I wouldn't do it.

HELP!!!

Just quickly want to make this clear regarding JT's saga. No doubt Terry is an Important figure in the England team. If Rio or Ashley Cole were to be in the same situation as his, no English person would have loved them to remain as captain!

The hypocrisy of the whole situation is unreservedly appalling. Even the PUNDITS are a bit hesitant and sceptical of the situation whenever they were asked to say something. No one wants to openly criticize JT , but they did criticized Tiger Wood (he wasn't one of them). Ashley Cole misbehaved once,­ everyone was asking for his head, his wife was also poisoned to leave him. JT did the same, different story.

I'm actually glad he got the boot. What's good for the goose is also good for the gander.

Most ladies do spend the night with their girl friends; your girl's behaviour is totally unacceptable and a bit bizarre!

Maybe she comes from a background that hasn't witnessed power shortage at night before (don't mind the sarcasm).

I believe every Nigerian woman should at least by now be use to sleeping at night without NEPA unless ofcourse your father is the richest man in the world that would afford fuelling his generator 24/7 for a month!

My advise would not be useful to you, follow your instinct.

Just concluded a research based on 'pretence in the field of 'Behavioural  Analysis in Forensics.
Data were collected from 60 subjects; 20 Arabs, 20 Hausa's and 20 Yoruba Muslims.

Evidence was that the Yoruba Muslims tend to be Liberal in virtually every topic, which in turn opposed the Islamic faith!

* They believe in white weddings, which is of course synonymous to the Christian faith.
* They see nothing wrong in following a friend to a church once in a while
* They see nothing wrong in using the Christian-like coffins which the 'real' Muslims opposes
* They drink heavily
* They believe the 'four wives thing' is obsolete
* They don't believe the Quran actually says they should kill anything who's not of the same faith as theirs.
* The covering of hair is optional for them
* They Believed in the Kingship and Son-ship of Jesus
* They are not fanatical and doesn't understand the extremism that comes with Islam

And a lot more which I shall be revealing later,

What do you think people? Are the Yoruba Muslims the real Muslims or just a bunch of hypocrites and copy-cats?

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These are actually guys from the EFCC State side prison.
They were forced to take this picture from the laptops each one them were caught with.

Notice the colour (same) of the mattresses, and how dirty they're looking,

@COUNTAWO

I believed by now you must have seen my recent post on the topic "Love Dating 3 Or More girls at the same time"

Well, lets just say I'm the champ! Don't hate the player, hate the game!

My advice;

walk up to this girla,
Call her by her name (very important) and say,
Mulikat (whatever her name is), Your behaviour of recent is totally unacceptable,
I will not stand here today and see you deny me of my earned pride and dignity,
I believe I deserve it, and I believe its high time you started listening to what I have to say,

Bilikisu, You're the most beautiful girl I've ever come across,
I love the way your hair blows in the wind, the sparkling blue cornea of your eyes,
the perfume of your sweet smelling body.

I would like to take you on a date,

THE IMPORTANT PART
Before she could say anything, quickly choose the date and time for your meeting with her,
She'd then respond by telling you when she'd be available,

And finally

Talk like a grown up man, avoid hesitations and don't look nervous,
Throughout the conversation, maintain eye contact, very important (level of maturity)

Off you go man!

Gud luck

@Roforofo

Good talk. I thank God for what He has done in your life, and may He continue to bless you abundantly.

However,  I would like you to extend your gift of ministering or rather charity to your brothers over here as well.

Pls visit Immigration detention centres and see how hungry our pepole are and how badly brutalize they are being dealt with.

God bless

That's just the story of my life!

I love dating atleast 3 or more women at a time. I've tried very hard to be faithful, but still find myself cheating!

Don't actually think I'm a player, just think these girls find me too beautiful to resist. I'm just like a temptation to them!

I need your help badly,

Thanks

@9jaganja

I believe you don't understand what @patbrooks was saying, He said he went to Nigeria and often buy N5000 worth of credit everyday.

[Tithes and firstfruits were not laws . they were spiritual principles by men of faith . We are seed of Abraham. We give tithes ,not because of the law but honor to Our God.
][quote][/quote]I think you're a bit confused about the issue of tithe! If tithe is ACTUALLY a spiritual principle, then all the principles in the bible(OT) used by all men of God should still stand.

Ps, I have not labelled any pastor as thief, but does that means if you don't give your tithe you don't get blessed?

I have seen so many rich Christians even wealthy ones that gives offering but don't pay tithes! Are you now saying they are cursed according to Malachi 3:10 for not paying tithes? I don't think so.

@fant

I'd rather you check your post and correct some of your mistakes. Who are God's agent you mentioned? Pls for God sake don't ever use psalm 105:15 to support your argument again! We're all God's anointed, just 4 the record, ok!

Malachi, malachi, malachi!!! If you're so much incest with it,then you should obey all what the OT says e.g 'eye for an eye' etc

Hi all!

Just to spice up this thread a lil bit, I used to have this pastor that really tried harder to convince or rather 'brainwash' his congregation on the issue of tithe.

Could you believe he actually preached the 'Tithe' topic for four consecutive weeks!

If you pay tithe and its working for you, then good for you. If you don't, there is no where in the bible where Jesus said you should,  Pls lets cut the scrap alright, don't go on quoting Matt 23:23 to justify yourself, ok! Jesus was in no way admonishing the guys in question to continuing paying their tithes, but rather calling them hypocrites for not following the Law to the fullest.

If you are a new generation christian that does not believe in some of the OT law, then why allowing your pastor(s) to use their ideologies on you?

Ps, I have in no way said tithe is not good, but rather admonish us to do some research ourselves. Just ponder the question, why wasn't Jesus so keen on tithe?

God bless

Hi @ Poster

Pls scroll down the Romance home page, @DonRaLPH is got the same topic as you. I advise you change the topic.

Take care

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@debosky

I sure do love your sincere responses.

Pls tell them more!

Thanks

Hi all,

Pls remember, this thread is just to showcase what our Nigerian people are going through in the UK just for the sake of seeking a greener pasture!
It does not however encourage anyone to indulge in fraudulent dealings, but rather stress the facts and disappointments they are facing.

The question is, should they come back home or encourage them to cut corners?

, Just for clarification!

Enjoy!

@sun of god

This thread is not a personal thing nor does it encourage illegality. It is an open debate put together to hear views and opinions of patriotic Nigerians like you!

Pls read the message again!

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Just recently, A father was exposed to the UK Border Agency for marrying his own daughter in order to get her a settled status!

Lets get the record straight here!

There is no homeless Asian or Indian, why, because they are marrying one another to get settled status!
The percentage of illegal marriages amongst the African community is very very low compare to that of the Asian/indian and European Community.

Are we then saying Illegal marriages is good? No, but in many ways justified! Because these guys are Nigerians, a lot of emphasis is been laid here, we are the shadow of ourselves!

A guy resides in a Country for 30 hard years, working his socks off, paying his tax and thereby helping building the nation, shouldn't he be given an automatic entitlement to bring his family here? It should not have resulted to this demeaned, disgraceful, shameful and open rebuke from the public had the govt. done her own part.

I believe slavery was over decades ago, why should we still be living like a slave? You come to this country with a student visa, you have to live here legally for ten years b4 you're entitle to settlement status except perhaps you get married to a British citizen, or get a job that makes you qualify than your British counterpart.

If you here illegally(your visa expires, tourist visa), you have to wait 14 years b4 you're entitle for settlement. Now tell me, do those that fall in  these categories  have to wait for that long before seeing their families back home?

In this country, your status matters a lot! if you have a solid foundation the sky is the limit for you. And if you don't, and still don't want to find a solution to it, then I guess the[/b] 'early morning' job hasn't taught you a lesson.

Thousands of our beautiful ladies ends up in the 'care home' job, even some of our guys are also joining for lack of working papers! The 'Security' (Ode, gateman) job is shaking up quickly. A lot of our brothers  have been deported in this sector for working with fake documents.

Pls tell  me, what should we do to find a lasting solution to this problem?

God bless you all, God bless the  Federal Republic of Nigeria

Lets get the record straight here!

There is no homeless Asian or Indian, why, because they are f***ing marrying one another to get settled status!
The percentage of illegal marriages amongst the African community is very very low compare to that of the Asian/indian and European Community.

Are we then saying Illegal marriages is good? No, but in many ways justified! Because these guys are Nigerians, a lot of emphasis is been laid here, we are the shadow of ourselves!

A guy resides in a Country for 30 hard years, working his socks off, paying his tax and thereby helping building the nation, shouldn't he be given an automatic entitlement to bring his family here? It should not have resulted to this demeaned, disgraceful, shameful and open rebuke from the public had the govt. done her own part.

I believe slavery was over decades ago, why should we still be living like a slave? You come to this country with a student visa, you have to live here legally for ten years b4 you're entitle to settlement status except perhaps you get married to a British citizen, or get a job that makes you qualify than your British counterpart.

If you here illegally(your visa expires, tourist visa), you have to wait 14 years b4 you're entitle for settlement. Now tell me, do those that fall in these categories have to wait for that long before seeing their families back home?

In this country, your status matters a lot! if you have a solid foundation the sky is the limit for you. And if you don't, and still don't want to find a solution to it, then I guess the 'early morning' job hasn't taught you a lesson.

Thousands of our beautiful ladies ends up in the 'care home' job, even some of our guys are also joining for lack of working papers! The 'Security' (Ode, gateman) job is shaking up quickly. A lot of our brothers have been deported in this sector for working with fake documents.

Pls tell, what should be the solution to this?

God bless you all, God bless the Federal Republic of Nigeria

@nuclearboy

Sorry for not clarifying that area the way I should have done!

No, I'm not saying Jesus is God, and i'm also not denying him as the begotten son of God.

Note that a son is different from a father in every aspect. Now lets look at the highlighted word 'begotten'. To beget means to father, create, to cause to exist, to produce, to bring forth, to generate, procreate etc. Now,we all call God our Creator, and if we truly sincere with ourselves, we can boldly say God has begotten us all, 1 John 3:1, Romans 8:14. Jesus while on earth was always led by the Spirit of God. God was so impressed with him that HE begat him instantly.

Anyone that does the will of God reproduces the mind of God. And as believers, we are now sons and daughters of God and join heir with Jesus,
Hallelujah!!!

God bless

See, i think i don dey get tired of this long story wey we just dey tell ourselves about Jesus o.

Just need some bold person to hit the nail on the head! Aba kai, wetin, mene ne, osi gini, kilo de, yaya dai?

I think I have a simple illustration here!

Imagine God as a MOBILE PHONE, Holy Spirit the SIM CARD and  Jesus the AIR TIME.
Now, without a PHONE, the SIM CARD is useless and without AIR TIME you cannot dial out,
Likewise without the Spirit of God(Simcard), God(phone) is limited and without Jesus(airtime) we cannot gain access to God!

But does that mean we cannot use our phone+simcard without the airtime? Although airtime is synonymous to phone+simcard, they can function independently or rather without each other. They are separate entities but somewhat inseparable.

In a nutshell, I believe there is Jesus, the Holy Spirit and GOD, butttttttttttt, the Holy Spirit is GOD and GOD is GOD. The Holy Spirit is that part of God that execute HIS purpose (Creation) Gen 1:2. We call HIM God because HE is a Spirit and the Spirit(Executor) in HIM is HOLY!  

Now concerning Jesus, Although he talked a lot about himself, who he was and who sent him, he was very careful to say he was GOD(Creator). He couldn't be in 2 places at a time while on earth, hence, the OMNIPRESENCE of GOD remains. He died,  GOD never sleeps nor slumber.

This is why i'm not a big fan of the sect called 'Christ Embassy', You mention Oyakhi, let alone 'lome' scatter scatter go bust, now we're talking about J.E.S.U.S, none of them seem to have any contribution to make!

God go judge sha!

I have a lot to say but I reserve my comments for now

God bless