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tensazangetsu20:
That figure is over exxagerated. I feel the pain is equivalent to passing out an oversized poo from your rectum.

LOL, it's easier to say that as a man because you don't have the experience.Menstrual cramps alone is nothing to compare with a bowel movement, not to mention giving birth.Look at the size of a baby's head & look at the size of the birth canal.The place must expand to accommodate the passage of a baby's head & in most occasions, women end up getting an episiotomy,a cut to allow the passage of the baby.We could argue over & over but truth is, you seem to undermine the process of bringing a baby into the world.

tensazangetsu20:
Those simulations are not real. Men withstand far more pain on a daily basis. What's in giving birth sef

Really, you ask what's giving birth? Science says giving birth is equivalent to 20 bones being broken at the same time.If you have a woman & she goes to the delivery room, try accompany her & you just might see what giving birth is all about.

tensazangetsu20:
Actually men can and can also do much more.

I beg to differ, they can't.On YouTube, there's men who have been put on simulated labor.Women first confirmed that contractions felt like actual labor pains.These men couldn't wait to get to the point where women dilate to 5cm.Different clips on YouTube & am yet to see a man who got to 5cm in the simulated labor.

safarigirl:
She's sick.

Which money does she want people to send her to bury a stillbirth?

She does not need any money, she should go to any provision shop, get a carton, put the baby inside and bury him in the ground.

Na God know why he no give her pikin, even in his death, they want to turn it to money-making venture. Let me just say she's going through Post-partum stress disorder, that is why her mental faculties are unsound.

She'll be fine

You can't say that it's just mean.If she's from the US, you have to bury your own baby because not everyone likes to cremate.Many people prefer a graveside where they can visit & put flowers.Someone i worked with lost a baby & the cost of a grave here is about $10000.She could use all the help right now because even by US standards, $10,000 is a lot of money.That's if she's from the US.

prechbills1:
oya come and pamper me

LOL Peace ✌️!

prechbills1:
I'm a nice guy.

there's a saying that" certain things can corrupt light "

I was very gentle and reserved until Victoria and beey started insulting me unwarrantedly.

i asked a question & instead of answering, you started being rude.We are human beings with feelings you know.

prechbills1:
you're the childish one here for insulting me and even calling me a gold digger because I don't agree with your opinions.

well, anything that rocks your boat.

If you don't agree with my opinion, you should have disagreed respectfully.But you resulted to insults for me & others on the forum.That's not how you engage with people.

fpeter:
WELL DONE!!!!

This kid is driving me nuts.If he can't stand to take advise, why did he show up on this Nairaland? He should have gone elsewhere.Very childish if you ask me.

prechbills1:
how am I even sure you're living in USA?

can you kindly screenshot this thread?

I also have zero respect for women who take money from men while they're not disabled. idiot

Fvck you.I don't need to prove anything to you.You talk like a child.You are not ready to hang among adults & you should be silent when men are talking because you are obviously still a baby boy who has a lot of growing up to do.I don't remember telling you that I was asking for money from any man.Am an independent woman, I make my own dollars.For crying out loud, if you can't take the heat, stay out of the kitchen.You came here asking for advise & all you've been doing is insulting different people.We are not you're girlfriend young boy.If she takes crap from you, we here are not cut from the same fabric.You lack in manners.Go get your manners where you left it first then maybe you can engage people.Fool!

prechbills1:
lady, there's nothing wrong with a woman taking care of her man!

stop advising me!

i also spend on my fiance too!

I've seen that irrespective of the climate black women live in, they still have the same mentality of the ones here in Africa. Fvck off!

Shut the fvck up.You lazy asss.Get off your couch & go hustle like a man.You are still a baby & your vision is still clouded.Go ahead & get married, marriage will open your eyes.I have zero respect for men who take money from women while they are not disabled.Another couch warming leech who's quick to claim other people's wealth as his.Get off my scope by the way!

prechbills1:
getout, go and look for your own rich husband and stop wailing on my thread.

jealous clown.

There's nothing to be jealous about.I live in the US , work & take care of my bills & gave a nice car.I am not a leech who sucks other people's hard earned money.Even with a rich man, it don't mean you automatically turn to a parasite.You need to get a life & stop sucking your woman dry in the name of love.So many people have advised you here but instead of pausing to reason, your itchy fingers are quick to type insults..Obviously still a child.

victorian:
Lol, I have a 2012 Range Rover mint black as a second car given to me by husband.

Before I got married, I was driving a Sienna Suv 2007 pure white.

So I change cars at will.

Am not like you.

I bought my Sienna at the age of 28.

I bet your cars u claim to have is daddy's car or imaginary ones.

And why will I sponsor my marriage?
Am not unfortunate like your fiancee who is paying her own bride price, instead of a real man paying her bride price and sponsoring the marriage. She chose to marry you with her hard earned money, that's her problem not mine.
My husband married me and paid my dowry with his own money.. I didn't marry myself.

So go and seat down, kid

Gbam this guy is obviously a gold digger.Am sure the car was also given by his fiancée.While I asked what he'll be taking care of because it's also his wedding, he was quick to dismiss.

prechbills1:
when men foot their marriages, what are the women doing?

please leave me alone
my life, my choice.

LOL, arrogance.Obviously a gold digger.

prechbills1:
I saw this mention because I'm not yet asleep, I'm still watching tv.

you read my post carefully, did I say I'm poor or jobless

I wonder who pushed my post to front page because instead of advice, I'm now getting another thing.

if you read that post, there were question marks used for a reason, it was meant to be questions because I don't know you.What caught my attention was you saying your fiancée is rich & she'll be footing 80% of the wedding bills.So I wondered, what will you be taking care of.Now that you clarified you are financially stable, it's your wedding too.What will you be doing while she pays 80%.But you obviously didn't like this.Paul okoye & Lola have a 6 year age difference.She's older.At the end of the day it's between the 2 of you.Sounds like you've been living together already so you know each other to a good extent.

prechbills1:
My fiance and I have been dating for the past 3years. I attained 24 last week, I wanted to get married to her last year but I just wanted to wait till I attain 24.

The problem I have now is my mom. She is opposing our marriage because my fiancee is 5 years older than me, I'm 24 while she's 29. My dad has already endorsed the marriage, I'd have liked to go on with the marriage but I don't think going into marriage without both parents blessing is sensible that's why I need my mom's blessing and endorsement.

My fiance has good character, she's very kind and intelligent, I can't afford to lose her because of pressures from my mom at least I'm an adult.

I don't know what's happening, my mom endorsed our relationship but she doesn't endorse our marriage just because she's 5years older than me. The thing is, I can't leave this lady ,not now not ever, she have done so many things for me.

in fact she even promised to provide 80% of the things needed for the marriage!. She is rich, yes she is, the house I'm in living in now belongs to her, I moved in with her in 2016.

The truth is I love her and I can't afford to lose her because of my mom's wish. Both her parents and my dad have given us go ahead for marriage but my mom still doesn't want me to marry because of age and my fiance is beautiful.

I don't know what do now ,that's why I think I need advice from you guys,.I don't know if I should go ahead with the marriage without my mom's endorsement/blessings.

please advice

You sound like you are deeply in love which is a good thing.You also said that your fiancée is rich & beautiful which is another good thing.There's nothing wrong with marriage but you need to think.fter marriage, the goodsebumps you are feeling now, you won't be feeling that way everyday.Children come into the picture, there are bills to be paid.Question is, do you have a job? She's paying 80% of the wedding bills & you as the man, what will you bring to the table?Try to reduce the financial gap.I am not saying your girl is this kind but often times, people will help you & then keep reminding you about it.It becomes a reference point always.Put aside the excitement of the wedding & have an open talk of how you as the man are going to provide & take care of bills or how long she'd be willing to support you till you become stable if you aren't .But, at the end of the day it's not your mom who'll be getting married, it's you.Also a marriage therapist may give you better advise especially about the age factor, so seeing a therapist wouldn't be a bad idea.

grafixdon:
You want to beat your father up? Go ahead, one day you'll marry hence you'll understand better.

Tell your mum to stop running her mouth and keep quite when necessary. Your dad isn't a mad man, he can't be beating your mum without reason. Two wrong doesn't make a right. One need to be submissive to another.

Some comments make me mad.Like this one.Is there a reason good enough to beat a grown woman? Is she his wife or daughter? Were you there when his mom was running her mouth like you said? Gosh, these kind of comments just piss me off.It's like you are saying for his dad to get respect he must beat his mom up.Respect is earned & can't be obtained through force.Either you protect your mom because leaving her to be beaten up is betrayal in itself, or have her consider separation from your dad until a solution is found.

Tazopoop:
Kenyans and their crazzzie attitude

What crazy attitude are you talking about? How many Kenyans do you know in person.Or maybe they learned from the Nigerians with their crazy attitude.Mtcheeew.

They are no longer called midgets please, they are called the little people.Midget is considered a word so offensive, Just like calling a black person a N***a.

Jamariwolf4:
This is so wrong!

This old woman is doing this to draw all attention to herself.

Those students will stare at her or try to help her more often, and in turn, they'll lose focus in class.



Leave that school old bitch so that the little students can focus on themselves and not on you.

But where did you forget your manners though? Calling an old woman a bitch?What if someone called your mother that same word? Have manners please.This generation has no respect.

Here comes another Bald Kenyan bride.

mavinjay1:
U sound like a Makeup artist!!
U sound like a Makeup artist!!

Not really but I have an interest in the makeup industry & some knowledge.

Some of the best brands out there include Bobbi brown, Sephora & MAC.It's tough to buy Someone makeup when you don't know their skin tone.It may look like a match when in a container but after trying to realize that it's either too light or too dark.Best option would be to take her to the store so that the makeup artist there can try matching the makeup with her skin tone & that way, she'll have the best.But this happens mostly in high end stores, so hope you get her some nice one.

frosbel2:
Don't mind the whitewashed hypocrites !!

They didn't respond after the picture evidence.

GoodMuyis:
The one you talked to are they married? Or being to marriage committee before. People make a lot of speculation that are not true.

The standard is *not exposing the body* especially the burst, Don't overspend if you can't afford.

Didn't you see Biafrabushman recently posted pictures of his sister's deeper life wedding.They took pictures outside because apparently she violated the church rules by changing into a modern wedding dress.She obviously couldn't wear they dress to the church, decent as it was.Don't you remember that Kumuyi's son had been excommunicated from the church by his fathrr because of how his wife dressed on their wedding day? She had a beautiful modest wedding dress which wasn't exposing anything but it was obviously unholy for that church.He later had to write an apology letter to the church & was accepted back.But I remember his wife wore Makeup even at their traditional wedding.

Makuos:
So if Jesus was in your shoe He will spend so much on something that He will not even wear again after one day Are you really sure you are a Christian(Christ like) I pray you will not realize too late!!!

As I said, you are not God.So leave my Chrisnity out of the equation.Stop being judgmental & as I told you earlier, Heaven will be full of surprises to see the ones considered unqualified, welcomed in the kingdom.The thief on the cross next to Jesus didn't seem like he was a likely candidate but there on the cross, He obtained mercy!

Makuos:
Is it all modern wedding dresses that are decent Something that looks decent to you might not look decent to God!!! Your comments already tells me the kind of person u are!

Besides, the groom wears a suit and continues to wear it after the wedding. However, the bride spends a lot of money on the gown and cannot wear it again....What is the moral or economic justification for that? Is it not to satisfy the iniquitous desire to be like the world? Can she not wear a gown she can wear publicly after the wedding? Did God not warn His Children not to follow the world in its madness and folly(John 2:15-17)?

Nawa ohh, so even if you have the money you shouldn't spend it in order not to seem worldly? And you already know the kind of person I am? Na wa ohh.They've succeeded in brainwashing you.But let me tell you something.Judgement day will be full of surprises.Those who thought they'd be 1st, will be surprised to see they didn't make into heaven.Those who were condemned by men, they might be the 1st on the list of heaven.Stop trying to wear God's shoes trying to play judge over people.His shoes are too big for you!

GoodMuyis:
Sometime for economic reasons, just buy and sew it
Sometimes bad or inexperienced tailor. Some members feel like giving the job to ordinary tailor.

I have seen many none DLBC members who wore poorly designed wedding gown.

Buying is not a good idea since most of then have too much opened neck

There are decent beautiful wedding dresses out there.I've heard from a deeper life attendee that modern wedding dresses are not allowed which to me sounds like bull crap.Until when will people continue to be held down by some man-made rules?

Makuos:
That passage is talking about other maidens that came to meet the king. Now see the turn of Esther in Esther 2:15.

Besides, why are u using Esther, is Esther your example or Jesus is suppose to be your example If you follow Esther you can miss heaven, but if you follow Christ u can never miss heaven!!!

We are commanded to follow after the footstep of Jesus....Jesus had "no beauty" that people in the world would desire Him when He walked upon this earth(Isaiah 53:2)....that is the example we should follow! I pray you realize this now before it will too late for you!!!

LOL, where did Christ tell people not to use jewelry?Is Esther also not in the Bible?

Makuos:
You are beating about the bush! Show me the different bible versions that says Esther adorned herself with makeup or jewelry before seeing the King Besides, God made gold for practical uses and not for adornment. When the Israelite left Egypt, the gold/silver they collected serve as a money for their long time slavery to the Egyptians, they didn't collect it for fashion/adornment. That's why when it was required later time in the wilderness for the construction of the terbanacle and for other needs, they all gave willingly. Read your bible with an open mind!!!

So part one uses the word adorn & part 2 , jewelry is mentioned.

asuustrike2009:
But it's the truth.

Whet is the truth?

Makuos:
Where did God tell the Israelite women to wear jewelry and where are they going to wear the jewelry In that Esther 2:12 am yet to see where Esther adorned herself with makeup or jewelry before seeing the King

Besides, I don't care if u came from the moon. The word of God is applicable anywhere!

Some Bible version says in Esther 2:13 that she adorned herself with jewelry.Go compare the different versions.I did not say that God told the Israelites to adorn themselves, but if He had a problem with the women's jewelry, don't you think He'd have addressed the issue?Even when they left Egypt, the gold of their enemies & jewelry were some things they took from the Egyptians as payback for their years in slavery.Why didn't God tell them not to?

Makuos:
When you wear makeup, are you different from those in the Club house, Nollywood and Brothel And did God opened your ears to wear jewelry/earring or what's the purpose of wearing jewelry?

Besides, where did Esther adorned and bathed with perfume before going to see the king

What's wrong with those in Nollywood?See am not from Nigeria so please tell me more.If God found a problem with jewelry, he'd have told the Israelite women not to wear it. As for Esther, Esther 2:12.