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jimbass:
@bossladyMo, please how do I contact you regarding some questions about visa subclass190,

Ask the question, you may get more than enough info than the private message.

nwahmummy:
Thank you for all the good comments. For those who judge me. You don't know the full story. How would you feel if a man approached you and he works with you in the same company. You are a quiet born again type you became friends, he encouraged you in serving God, even follows you to church claims he loves the way you sing.

It is not because you are born again that makes you quiet, it is your nature prior to being born again. And being born again doesn't equate to stupidity or foolishness, if for anything, it imparts in you the Wisdom of God.

Encouraging you in serving God was the tool he used to break your wall of defense, knowing fully well that you are the spiritual insensitive religious type (No pun intended). And him following you to church does not also mean he is godly, even the devil does attend church (have you read the book of Job?). He had to tell you he loves the way you sing because he needed to spark an unconscious thoughts in your heart, something to take home and ruminate over every night. It is called flattery Nwababy

Then one day he said he wants to date you and you said no yet he never gave up he kept persisting

He is a man who is not in control of his own desires, asking you out is no sin for him and you can't stop him from doing so. Him asking you to date you is not your own fault.

you pray but didn't get any answer

Have you read the book of James that says you pray but didn't receive because you are praying to consume it on your lust. When God is silent, it means out of many things, that you should be PATIENT and DO NOTHING. But you were in a hurry to give bro an answer without divine instructions.

then one day you had a dream he came to you and said he is in love with you. You knew it even before he said it. You then started dating him

This dream came because you have been consumed of the thoughts of the bro... Have you read Ecclesiastes that says "A dream comes when there are many cares....." You started dating him not because you believed the dream was from God but you were actually waiting for something to validate your interest.

some months into the relationship you were just in your room all alone when you heard a voice said "he is married" you look around you didn't see anybodY. He had travelled to his home state when he came back you asked him he told yes that he was married but he has been separated with his wife and working on divorce, you asked him how many children he has he said one. You asked if he was separated why didn't he work on the divorce since why is he doing it now he answer that if you had a cloth that you are no longer wearing you just keep it there until you get new one then you give it out.

See, God was gracious enough to warn you to desist and turn away from this ungodly relationship with the word "HE IS MARRIED". Rather than end it, you were busy negotiating and hoping it wasn't true. A man who was not sincere enough that he was married and had three children, and you could still hope against hope in the hopeless man. Sister, you are miracle worker. What else do you need when you heard divine instructions yourself? How else do you want God to warn you? You claimed to have been born again for nine years but doesn't understand the effects of disobedience. The man will tell you anything you want to hear to get to eat what is in between your legs (if he is not already eating) or to sustain eating it. YOU NEED TO WISE UP.

Then you started to pray that the relationship should end but the guy never gave up still keep Pushing you.

I am sorry to sound harsh here, but this is a very stupid prayer. You have been warned already. God will not do for you what you need to do for yourself. How do you expect God to end something you were not tied or in bondage to?

Then people start coming to meet you that this guy is married and is still married. You asked him he said they are lying that they don't know anything about his life.

This was your answered prayer but you turned deaf ears to it. God loves you sis but you keep disappointing.

You don't know any of his brotherS or sisters you don't know anything about his life outside the state where you both work. He likes travelling home on one family issue or the other.

If I were your parents, at this junction, I will beat sense into you. This alone is enough to end the relationship. Please permit me to ask, How old are you?

Then you met another person who just want to be your friend he knows about your current relationship but still says he can be your friend. You then try to Pull out of the former relationship he comes up with the idea of you meeting his people. I can't even say all the things that actually happen sometimes I just felt I was being used.

What stopped you from becoming a friend with the single guy? How can you TRY to pull out when you SHOULD pull out? The guy knows you too well to play the mind games with you. You were not being used, You are using yourself. You saw too many handwritings on the wall but chose to turn the blind eye when you are not Daley Blind

Now I want to break off and move on he is coming up with something else.

What is the something else he is coming up with? Whatever happens to you if you refused to live, know you are the architect of your own misfortune.

They say never judge a person until you lived in his shoes.

What you have written on this thread deserves a more cruel judgement than you've got because nothing suggests that you are tied or bound to the man. You put the yoke on yourself.

There is so many other things I haven't said because I am tired of typing. If you were me what will you do if you are the type that doesn't keep male close friends and this is your first relationship in nine years after you got born again

There are so many things I should have said to you too but I am also tired of typing and filled of anger reading what you have written. If I were you, the relationship would have ended the day I heard the voice "HE IS MARRIED" and he confirmed it himself. You have had relationship before you got born again, the principles of relationship is the same whether as a born again or a born against. The difference is application of godly principles which you have willingly left out despite warnings.


To set the record straight, there is difference between being judged and being scolded/corrected. I have observed that when people are corrected/scolded, they are quick to raise the judgement card. Sis, I have not judged you but pointed out your self-confessed errors.

Don't have a low esteem of yourself, cut off with the married man and start a clean relationship with a willing single guy. There is no need to discuss anything with the man before he comes up with something else. Cut off straight and immediately from him. Tell him it is over and do not look back. If you have been sleeping with him, ask God for mercy and forgiveness and move on with your life. The guy will only dump you after using yourselves.

I wish you the best life can afford you. God bless you.

izykvision0:
Mehn its been a roller coaster of a day today.

Firstbank said i should contact DIBP that it aint their problem since its giving a straight decline. So i moved the money to GTB. It also declined. Moved to my wife's GTB, also declined.

Next stop which i hope works, is to fund my wife's GTB dollar acct and request for a GTB dollar mastercard. Pls guys is this option a certainty? And how long does GTB take to deliver a dollar mastercard?

The whole thingy is so annoying and tiring.

How much are you paying when converted to Naira? If it is more than 1M, it will decline since you have a 1M limit for online transaction.

It takes about two weeks for the dollar card to be ready.

Happy Birthday Roy and the twin brother.....

May your days be daily renewed like that of an Eagle..... You are blessed.

esosa4real:
Hello yall I heard the visa on arrival thingy for Uk/US n co visa holders, has since be stoped? Is this true??
How about the evisa? Is it a diff form of visa for transit?

Where did you hear? It is not true. The evisa is same as visa issued for tourism/visiting purpose.

keni:
Is the Turkish visa issued in this case a shengen Visa or applicable to turkey alone?

Turkey is yet to be granted full Schegen membership. Therefore, the visa is restricted to Turkey only.

nwahmummy:
I need help, i dated this guy for a year now, i found out he was married [/b]though he told me [b]he has been working on his divorce for the past four years, practically he is still married, i really loved him. but he is some one that does talk about himself or his family, he told me he has a son but i saw three children in his CV. i dont know anything about his family and i have never met them. people are telling that he is still married which he claim they are lying. now i have met another guy who is serious about me though we are not planning marriage this new guy has never been married before, suddenly the old guy comes up that i should marry him even if his first wife who is outside the country doesnot divorce him he will make me his wife. and this is the same man who has been stalling since. he is not aware that i have met some one else. i really want to give this new guy a chance, i really dont want to be a second wife no matter if i love the person. it doesnt sit well with me having step child/ren. what should i do. the more i try to pull away from him the closer he wants to be. pls help.

With all the bolded, you are still confused?

[quote author=ewagbamio post=31448063][/quote]Even if there was no mistake on the certificate, the certificate issued by the church is not tenable for any official purpose. You can only use a government issued marriage certificate.

Take the church issued certificate to any registry around you and get a government issued-certificate. No need for any ceremony, you will only be required to pay some amount of money depending on your negotiating skill.

terryoil:
please i need your help,i was given a paper at the turkey embassy on the 27th of February that says:Your visa application is Not Refused but it has been forwarded to Turkish local authorities for further examination. This process is totally beyond the control of the embassy. please advice me on what to do.

There is nothing to do but to wait. As part of your application, you probably submitted some documents from Turkey that need verification. You will be contacted when this verification is completed. You may be granted or denied afterwards. All you have to do is wait.

izykvision0:
I left it empty, but the page refused to go.

Also have issues in sending job duties. It keeps saying some rubbish like English, punctuation etc done everything possible, still not going.

In that case, put the date you are filling the form, they understand it is current job.


Don't use special characters in filling the form. Use short sentence to describe your job functions.

izykvision0:
Ok thanks.
Under work experience, should i put end date of current employment as Feb 27 or d date on d updated reference letter which is Feb.2nd?

Put the day you are filling form or leave it empty to show it is current employment.

izykvision0:
Hello All,

Pls i'm confused om a part of this dibp form. I am not claiming points for partner skills, but yet there are questions asking for my spouse's educational history and work history in the past 10 yrs. Shld i ignore this, or click no? Or am i to fill all?

thanks

Since you are adding her to the application, you must fill it. It is needed in case external security check would be conducted and since she would also be granted the PR, her history is important.

The information you fill is not restricted to claiming points only.

ferdimako:
oabikoye@IOM.int

Thanks

bossladyMo:
And they also get additional baggage allowance.

What is the email again (for IOM)?

Thanks

BKings:
Thank you. What date, 7th?

Different dates... But the one I know is 8th

BKings:
Nobody taking the exam by March 14?

Sorry I meant british council not embassy

People I know taking the exam in Ibadan have received email for the speaking test.

chaircover:
I didnt see any wishes o!
Did you mean witches
. . .and I definitly dont want to see those ones

You didn't see it because the offer already lasted. However, the gods are merciful, expect a Rolls Royce Ghost Series II in your compound this weekend....

Ewuro4:
Lol this Bellong man eh 3hrs kwa ?

Only delivered what was sent... Not my fault

izykvision0:
Thanks Bellong. If i pay now, aw long do i have to upload all docs?

Will d lodged date be payment date or when all docs av been uploaded?

The payment date is taken as the lodged date. You can upload all documents anytime after making payment.

izykvision0:
Hello guys,

Just concluded my medicals as i want to frontload. But i was given a slip that had a pretoria email or case officer to forward my polio cert to. As i dont have a case officer yet, is d pretoria email the right one for skilled 190. Thinking its more of a student stuff.

Pls guys dat av concluded dier polio vac. kinndly respond.

thanks

Upload it on your page under medicals and add Polio Vaccination in the other empty space.

Uncle Charles was indeed a great man and a great father. For being a great mentor to you and his children, it is a testimony to the fact that there are many wonderful fathers out there.

Op, please accept this heartfelt condolence and May his soul rest in peace....


He touched a life in you and I believe he touched many others...

When will some ladies learn?

You claim to be attending church but none of what you wrote here shows that you inculcated all what you are taught in church.


Since you are not yet married to him, under the Nigerian law, you are not his wife and he can't say he is your husband. You both are still in boyfriend-girlfriend relationship with a baby as an advantage.

This is one of the things you get when you don't insist on doing what is right especially in relationship. You have given him everything about you on a platter of gold and I see no reason why he should value what he got for free and can keep getting for free without hinderance.


Is he under spiritual influence? I think not, he knows too well what he is doing. It is left for you to get your acts right, move on with your life or stay with him with the hope of him changing. It is your choice to make.

And if you think he is under spiritual manipulation, I guess you can pray your way to free him. However, you need to repent and turn to God wholeheartedly in spirit and in truth. "If I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear me..."

salsera:
I hear the dress is selling like hot cakes now
Efe,Bellong,CC,Damiso,Edwife,Coco n all

I guess you have been given good suggestions from people living in the UK. I don't know what a DV case is except it is DV lottery...

But what is stopping her from taking the job?


@Chaircover,

Happy belated birthday... Sorry, the gods were on expedition and couldn't make it to your birthday party.

To compensate for the absence, the gods will want you to make "THREE" wishes.... Close your eyes and make them... Before you open it, the wishes would be granted.

This offer lasts for only "THREE" hours.... Your time starts now...

Congratulations Ayaboyo and Wahabcoal,

May the new path bring you the desires of your hearts...


Ayaboyo, why did you guys resolved to use an agent when you could have done it yourself?

chaircover:
This is very interesting
This explains one of the reasons why there are so many stories that touch there days
The office is one of the most dangerous places to be when it comes to tempattion
Offices and partys are the 2 places that people are most dressed up and of best behaviour
Ladies dont wear hair nets in the office and men dont wear white brown singlet with holes and boxers at the office
iyawos dont spray perfume when they are cooking in the kitchen but smell nice at work

On top of that one never knows what is in the mind of the person you are calling baby/calling you baby
maybe she/he wants to be your baby for real
then trouble and chasing starts

If anyone calls me baby at work, HR ma da si o!. How unprofessional.

I know it is very unprofessional and never the right thing to do. However, my main message to the OP is not to always subject her decision on hearsay and third-party intrusion.. It will only cause her more damage than good.

damiso:
K
On a lighter note(sorry for my spirikoko everyone) high priest bellong how come your own gods like swag gifts like iPads,MLk's etc. When did they upgrade from kola nut Palm oil and the likes?

In the spirit of the 21st century, the gods had to upgrade their taste. At least, you wouldn't want palm oil to stain your cloth when an iPad can easily be sacrificed...

Why should she be scared of darkness?

It is not peculiar to her, there are other children in her age group who are not scared of darkness...

She may not like cartoon now because she is yet to see one that fancies her interest. again she is not alone on that....


You and her parents shouldn't be worried...

Op,

Someone on ebay put the 1992 edition up for sale. The offer price is $18k with this title "92 MERCEDES 500E 5.0 AMG OZ 3 piece RIMS RICARO SEATS SPRUCE GREEN- EXCELENT". Though there are two other at $26k and $33k respectively (both 1992).

If the price is not too crazy for you, I can get it for you. The overage importation is not an issue.

Because of hear-say you are emotionally down? You need to upgrade your heart to resist minor breakdown.

The word baby is no special word nowadays to most ladies. Just like "dear" they use it loosely for anyone and everyone and doesn't mean something is going on between them. And it also doesn't mean that something is not going on.....

Your judgement shouldn't be result of a third party gossip irrespective of the source.

talk about it

Preciousstones:
Did you read past post before coming with water?sometimes read before you post it will do you a lot.so people don't judge your level of thinking.

You didn't get his joke.....

How does "swag" gets a Pastor to heaven or fulfill his ministry?

Paul said... "And my speech and my preaching was not with enticing words of man's wisdom, but in demonstration of the Spirit and of power: That your faith should not stand in the wisdom of men, but in the power of God. Howbeit we speak wisdom among them that are perfect: yet not the wisdom of this world, nor of the princes of this world, that come to nought..."

Paul the Apostle himself wasn't blessed with eloquence compared to Apostle Apollo which caused division among the "milk Christians" in Corinthians that necessitated, "some are for Paul while some for Apollo"

Peter, John and James were fishermen, unlearned and book ignorant men. People of their age had this to say... "Now when they saw the boldness of Peter and John, and perceived that they were unlearned and ignorant men, they marvelled; and they took knowledge of them, that they had been with Jesus..."

Do you see Jesus in your pastor or eloquence of speech with no life transforming messages other than motivational talk/speech. This age of Christians is filled with people who pay attention to what doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things.

The Principal thing every believer should check out for in the life of his/her Pastor is if his life reflects/exhibit character of Christ, any other thing is vanity....... Does he follow Christ, is he influenced by worldly ambitions and insatiable appetite for acquisition of material things etc...


If he is living a life of opulence at the detriment of the flock, when he should live in sobriety feeding the sheep, he is only a motivational speaker.


Meanwhile, I understand your aim was for joke's sake. It is necessary to put the record straight for the simple at heart.

Thank you.

Stillfire:
You've said everything I wanted to say.



Anyway, for academics, avoid cramming. A child making good grades might not necessarily mean she understands the principles behind the subject, she might just be cramming. At that age she would be relying on how good her memory is, but as she grows older memory reduces, so it's best to develop her brain at that age so that she can be able to apply the principles she has learned.

One of the best ways to teach a child to understand concept than cramming is telling the child to explain in his/her own words content of whatever read while preserving the main message.

If she grows up understanding concept, she wouldn't have to deal with "la cram, la pour"...


which of the two ladies is Stillfire?

ileobatojo:


I have to observe all protocol o. Lol!

Thank you!

Thanks.......