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What a thread.....

Goodluck in your quest

LadyX:

Why do I find it hard to believebelieve you?

It is your choice not to believe me and you are entitled to it.....

LadyX:
Would you be OK with your future father in law seeing you naked?

Why not.... HE is a man and I have nothing to hide....

Your MIL is a woman now, she can see whatever you want to hide.....

Let him become your enemy for doing the right thing. Not in this environment should anybody including parents be sending their children to cross the road considering too many careless drivers on the street.

You have done the right thing and you do not owe your neighbour any explanation or apology.

These are stories that not only touch the hearts but paralyses the system....


What a world..

doyen06:
Can you refer me to the agent please?

WHy do you need an agent. It is something you can do yourself.

You have everything you need but you refused to explore. Even with the agent, you will still do everything yourself and pay someone for doing nothing.

Everything you need is on www.skillselect.gov.au

The steps, process, assessment etc. If you painstakingly go through the site, I bet you don't need any spoon-feeding.

Get on to the site and get to work. Most of us did it ourselves by reading the site and checking other related site, thanks to the internet.

Bulkfella:
.......I'm just so confused, the worst aspect is that I love her so so much I havnt been myself lately always sad just cause of her, whenever I want to call her I would be scared of what she would say......I took time to give background details so that you guys would know where we are coming from I just need advice on the way forward with her..................
Thanks.

When a relationship gets to the point in bold, it is time to say goodbye to it. It is no longer a relationship but bondage, master-slave relationship.


Move on with your life. Her parents are against your proposed union and she is only using you to mark time till she gets her preferred replacement.

The earlier you forget her, the better for you.

MizMyColi:
Which most of us.......aren't free of either.
No one is free, including those of us who are naturals at packaging ourselves such that the world sees us as Holy Saint Nwejehs
We all have secrets, stuff we'd do anything to protect....so it doesn't fall within the eye and ear shot of "The Wrong" People.

This is fallacy of generalization. Not everybody is into fornication, no matter how bad the society is, there will always be some remnants who fear God wholly from childhood.

And not everybody has a secret or stuff they will do anything to protect. Always speak for yourself. Even if it is 98% of the population protecting one secret or the other, the remaining 2% disqualifies it from being "WE ALL HAVE SECRETS......"

I am not interested as such in my past.....

You should be interested in your past. You need to look at the past, consider where you made mistakes, what led to it and why yopu made so as to proffer a lasting solution or prevent re-occurrence. Forgeting the past completely is a recipe of repeating the mistakes of the past.

Except for reference and healing purposes, I am neither interested in hers nor any other person's for that matter.

Not just reference or healing alone, for correctional purpose as detailed earlier. So, we are interested in her past, she could still be engaged in what led her becoming a single mum.

My major concern remains; What Is The Way Forward?

Yes, you have a valid point here... What is the way forward. However, knowledge about the past will help a concrete way forward prescription.

Ultimately.....what defines a person as good or bad......in my worldview isn't their action(s).....It's their soul.

Whatever lies in the soul will be exhibited in the actions. The abundance of the soul drives a person to act. In essence, this your theory is contradictory.... You should be interested in the actions of everybody. Your actions tell us who you are and what you hold sacred. Knowing the soul is getting metaphysical. At least, English says "actions speak louder than words...."

@Op,

You should learn to live without validation from the society. You alone would be accountable for your choices and decisions.

veave:
Now you will know your true friends.. Good luck!

This is where your heart would be broken......... Your eyes will be opened to dynamics of human relationship.

OP, take to the advice written above ^^^.


I am talking as a person who walked in that shoe before.

bisdansun:
Yes oooo
She helped me in posting this.

Ok.. then.


Wishing you both infinite blissful marital years and the foetus greatness in life....

Meanwhile, picture contest is not advisable on some occasions...

Oga, do you have a permission to share her picture?


She is fine though..

Ab025:
if i had 5.5m, i will set up a good business and become my own BOSS.

And what is that business you would set up?

The Op needs your advice on it....

advice247:
D change we need is actually in us, if a man sees nothing in calling his wife odeh in the presence of ppl because d man feels a woman should communicate or say something in a particular way, he feels he shldnt be corrected or talked to, it has to be in a particular way and he couldn't even respond back angrily without d use of abusive language, den he needs to appraise him self too....mind u this man has a history of abuse.Same thing a previous woman he was invovled in complained about to his pastor, same thing his friend warned me about him, and am experiencing and someone say it's me.

I've read too much on emotional Abuse that I know one when I c it.....and so I've decided to be the change I desire.

So his friends actually warned you but you went ahead to marry him?....

BossladyMo,

Please check your inbox... Thanks

babyosisi:
In all my years living and working in the USA I have never heard of a single woman I know or a woman known by anyone I know die while having a baby.

Madam, fear God ooooo. Diaris God oooo..... Some people living in the same USA have a different opinion to yours.

We will surely contact with the police. Must you make money doing illegal stuff?

izykvision0:
Its just like the Nigerian national id card; that is what Uk issues. So u present that at airports, for employment etc.

Oh..Ok... You don't need it and nothing like it will be sent. Everything you need is in the letter attached to the email. It is why VEVO was created to confirm the grant online by any authority in need of it.

izykvision0:
Hello,

For peops that have gained PR, apart from the grant email, does DIBP send photo cards to home addresses here in naija like canada or its gotten in Aussy or not at all?

What is the function of a photo card?

izykvision0:
It was 958k thereabout.

ok.. event has overtaken any possible advice

jimbass:
Ok, wld like to know if someone with 573 visa, can switch to 190 visa within 3 months of arrival. I noticed that I actually qualified for 190visa, but I found out just last week. Also any idea how long it might take?

You can apply for subclass 190 if you meet the requirements. If granted, the 573 would be cancelled and you will be on 190. How long is dependent on many factors. You should read all the steps involved.

Goodluck