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Family › Re: Please I Need Your Advice I Feel Like Killing My Husband by bellong: 11:43am On Feb 15, 2015
OP,

can I borrow you "Bajinatu"?

Tallesty1:
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Remember, marriage is always hard in the beginning.
what does this mean?
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by bellong: 11:26pm On Feb 14, 2015
veave:
Errm.

I do not like house work and do not volunteer by any chance to do it. lipsrsealed
How do you handle a spoilt child/mamas boy.
A loud and proud person
Always stresses on how you must maintain a particular shape in other to keep him interested.
Overweight but not bothered...
Has loud and proud relatives...
Doesn't regard any other persons opinion except that of his family members.
A gossip and has bad hygiene...
Deliberately stingy even when you teach him by giving first...


I do not have a date yet. But if a man has the features above, i cant deal. I run fast...
Please help me on how to go about these. Thanks...
Why bother learning how to deal with this kind of trouble when you have no business joining yourself with such low life described above?
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by bellong: 10:46am On Feb 13, 2015
Ewuro4:
Happy New year Bellong, how is family doing?.. Best regards.
Happy New (old) Year to you too.

Family is doing great. We are grateful to Almighty.
Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bellong: 10:28pm On Feb 12, 2015
TV01:
Honest talk.

To me, having all boys would have obviated a lot of problems - not least best use of all the stuff my son has that wasn;t used very much or at all grin! I often said whether the second one was a boy or girl, it would be wearing boys clothes till the age of 4 cheesy!


TV
grin grin grin grin grin grin
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by bellong: 8:31pm On Feb 12, 2015
damiso:
You know them huh huh huh huh No thank you. I don't want their business card pls just tell me what areas they are In so I can SECRETLY PATRONIZE them like the Pharisee that contacted Jesus codedly
Corrected....... cheesy grin grin cool
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by bellong: 7:17pm On Feb 12, 2015
damiso:
Yes naa..Someone told me there are babalawos shocked shocked in London so why can't there be point and kill grin
YES.... They all report to the Chief Priest..

Do you need business card of any of them? huh wink

Ewuro4:
Lol.
Welcome back Ma'am
Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 7:12pm On Feb 12, 2015
cherries1:
u mean at Kualar Lumpur? No I had no stress at all. u know women are given more preference especially if the lady is pweety tongue
I wasn't even searched at Kingsford Smith airport, Sydney.
You know the drill.... Pictures or............
Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bellong: 6:44pm On Feb 12, 2015
Having a female child is one of my greatest fears. I do believe she might become too spoilt as I may become overcareful/caring, sparing the rod when not necessary.......

However, if i have a girl, she sure would understand basic things about life and necessity of purpose.....
Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 6:39am On Feb 12, 2015
BossladyMO,

Expecting your reply.

Thanks
Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bellong: 6:37am On Feb 12, 2015
TV01:
TV

**not sure I'll be getting it regularly for some time. I had a baby daughter earlier today. Will I have to become pro-feminsit too grin?**
Congrats bro.... May she grow in grace, wisdom, knowledge and the fear of God.
Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 7:54pm On Feb 11, 2015
Kentrasso:
Hi guys. I studied civil engineering in Nigeria and going for masters in cape Town university. I want to know if I can apply for temporary visa as a civil engineering draftsperson through VETASSESS after I complete my studies or is it only graduates of Australian university that should apply?
A temporary visa is like a transit or visitor's visa. To answer your question, you can only apply for a temporary visa if you are on transit via Australia or visiting someone or attending a conference etc... So, no you can't apply for a temporary visa in this situation
Family › Re: Why Are We Making Marriage Difficult by bellong: 4:39pm On Feb 11, 2015
Flytefalls:
Thank you!! kiss Excuse me, I am still learning embarassed
You are welcome...

What else you wanna know....?
Family › Re: Why Do Men Find It Difficult To Apologise? by bellong: 4:35pm On Feb 11, 2015
soulglo:
LOL. That's obvious but I will not carry on a conversation I don't want to have so I will not be nodding my head or pretend to be interested. As far as long arguments goes are you trying to say women are trouble makers tongue
This is your word not MINE... cheesy grin
Family › Re: Why Are We Making Marriage Difficult by bellong: 3:00pm On Feb 11, 2015
Flytefalls:
I'm not Nigerian so excuse these honest questions. Does the traditional wedding ceremony involve God? Does 'tradition' strictly dictate virginity before marriage?
As the resident Chief Priest, I will answer you according to the traditions of our land that "westernisation" has spoilt. grin

1. YES, traditional wedding ceremony involve God as represented by the gods (according to the belief of our fore fathers). In Yoruba setting, before a guy marries a girl, the family of the guy will seek divination from Ifa to ascertain compatibility and also investigate if the girl's family is credible, doesn't have family medical history like "warapa" (epilepsy) etc....
I will say Marriage of the old wasn't done haphazardly and focused more on substance than frivolities.

2. YES.. Traditional wedding in the days of our fore fathers, the gods and great grand fathers strictly dictate "VIRGINITY". You must be a virgin to be married. Many people have written account of it. The "Virgin" girl was usually celebrated while the "Disvirgined" girl was usually booed and ridiculed and sometimes in extreme cases banished to evil forest.
Family › Re: I Need Your Advice On This Pls by bellong: 2:49pm On Feb 11, 2015
Stillfire:
You too see him as a brother. grin
shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

grin grin grin cheesy
Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 11:11am On Feb 11, 2015
superbme:
. Yeah I guess so. Postgraduate diploma will be ok too. All I just want is a continual program don't want a set back. So what school offers pgd Thanks bellong
Welcome...

www.google.com (input "universities in Australia" or Universities that offer graduate diploma in Australia" in the search bar).

Goodluck in your search.
Family › Re: Why Do Men Find It Difficult To Apologise? by bellong: 11:09am On Feb 11, 2015
Family › Re: Why Do Men Find It Difficult To Apologise? by bellong: 10:23am On Feb 11, 2015
soulglo:
I know women who find it hard to apologize. I haven't dealt with this issue personally but I'd like to know how men are so skilled at following a conversation and insert "yes" and "absolutely" when necessary and when you ask them about it a week later they look at you like you just grew an extra eye. Seriouslyhuhhuh You responded and yet you were not listening?
grin grin grin cheesy

It happens especially when you are not interested in the convo and you wanted it to end ASAP...... or When you think objecting will create a long argument, you just play along and deny the discussion later.... Many reasons sister soulglo cheesy cheesy

chival:
And that my brother, makes you a man indeed. Very few men can. May God continue to bless your home.
Amen.... grin grin cheesy
Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bellong: 10:15am On Feb 11, 2015
On a lighter note, my exercise regimen is making sure I trek at least 2 km/day..

I am as fit as I can be... cheesy
Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 10:12am On Feb 11, 2015
@Superbme,

I guess nobody is answering your question because nobody knows.

It is only people working for and with any of the universities can answer.

Why not take a Postgraduate Diploma degree instead because you can't even get to do Masters in Nigeria with the HND degree.
Family › Re: Mothers , How Long Did You Breastfeed Your Babies? by bellong: 5:23pm On Feb 10, 2015
No maximum until there is no milk flowing.
Car Talk › Re: Which Car Has The Coolest Air Conditioning System? by bellong: 2:52pm On Feb 09, 2015
Ikenna351:
Probably because you guys mentioned Peugeot as having one of the best A/C systems in their cars. Also, Peugeot since the '80s have climate control systems. Even my [b]1986 Peugeot 505 V6 [/b]has the climate control. The chilling is Olalah! I love that Lion! In fact, I will be driving him to Church this morning.

I love you guys. Keep the good work going. Thank you.

Ikenna
Can I still get this car to buy? Do you have an idea of its cost?

Thanks
Family › Re: Why Do Men Find It Difficult To Apologise? by bellong: 12:28pm On Feb 09, 2015
alutacontinua:
They say it's ego!
But I find the attitude really disturbing too angry
I say sorry to my wife when I have to wink kiss
This husband is one of the very few good husbands we have left...

Op, tell your guy to take "emotional" lectures from this "man"... cheesy
Family › Re: Can You Work For Your Mother In Law? by bellong: 8:31pm On Feb 06, 2015
What stops someone from working for a mother-in-law?
Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 7:40pm On Feb 06, 2015
bjayzeez:
Bellong do you know how to go about getting this 3 month course sorted? Any lawyer in the house ?
The course will only be done after the Lawyers admission body in his/her preferred state assess qualifications. Let the person contact the lawyers' association in his preferred state. He will send his university transcript, law school transcript along with call to bar certificate, must get 7point in all band in IELTS, get letters of recommendation from his NBA chapter, and from two other senior legal professionals.

Let the guy get the info himself and he will understand better.
Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 1:44pm On Feb 06, 2015
cheedyH:
. You d minimum point one can get to apply for visa is 60. So state nomination gave me 10points,then age and IELTS,degree,+ve assessment gave me 50. Because I don't have upto 3years experience,i couldn't claim point for it. I think for your friend he/she has to be assessed first under the appropriate body.
Are you applying for a 489 Visa?


Bjazeez,

The law graduate must first be admitted to practise by any of the States as a Lawyer. The process is a little bit long because it includes minimum of three months course before being admitted.

S/he can apply for the Canada Express entry Visa as a paralegal person. It is cheaper and faster.
Career › Re: Career Advice For Women by bellong: 8:19pm On Feb 05, 2015
@Stillfire,

Thanks for the link.
Family › Re: ////////////////////////////////// by bellong: 2:24pm On Feb 05, 2015
FOR1234:
OGA, OGA OOOOO.....HE NEVER REACH TO THROW UP NOW......SEEMS U RE A BETTER PICS OF WAT IS PORTRAYED
I usually don't dignify unintelligent people with a response but I have to put you in your place.

You started out as a female and now a male. I think you need to get a life since your intention was to start a gender war.

Does what you wrote up there make any sense? If you couldn't comprehend what I wrote, you should have asked question than engaging your hands before the brain.

Between, it is unethical to type in capslock. Nobody is fighting with you
Family › Re: ////////////////////////////////// by bellong: 1:37pm On Feb 05, 2015
What is this rant about?

Why marry someone you think doesn't deserve to go extra mile for?

Why the paranoia about the unknown?

With this mindset and thinking, you are setting up your marriage for failure and doom. You need to change and purge your mind of negative thoughts.

I also ask you same question "Do women deserve or worth it?"
Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 1:34pm On Feb 05, 2015
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Career › Re: Career Advice For Women by bellong: 1:00pm On Feb 05, 2015
aisha2:
Also bringing feminists into the mix was uncalled for, I know you mean no harm but as usual [b]the dogs will jump in [/b]capitalise on the feminist statement and spoil this post. They will off course refer to me as that feminist who doesn't want women to marry which is not what this post is about.

Thanks
Where are they? I need a Labrador and an Alsatian to guard the girl I am marrying for my son cheesy grin

alutacontinua:
I'm still 'm' angry
But I'm tired of being one cheesy
To drill an hole for you will be very expensive because it requires cutting of pole before drilling the hole.

If you are financially capable, then put yourself out of the misery of being an 'm' and get the surgery done. I can recommend a very sound professional to treat you in private tongue
Family › Re: Is It Bad For A Lady Wishing To Have A Man She Can Sometimes Have Her way With. by bellong: 12:37pm On Feb 05, 2015
prissyluv:
Thanks dear.[b] I am acting fine now. [/b]It wasn't easy with me at the beginning.
Good, keep acting fine. It is good that the guy is open and firm with you. I wish you the best in the relationship.

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