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Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 10:30pm On Apr 06, 2015

prost80:
helllo bellong, I need it for 190 PR.

You will have to rewrite. You can't claim point for Language because of the 6.5 band.

Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 12:50pm On Apr 04, 2015

prost80:
Hello All,

Long time. I received my IELTS results but i think i need to redo it because my results went thus:

Listening: 8.5
Reading: 6.5
Writing: 7.0
Speaking: 7.0
Overall: 7.5

Can anyone advice me?

What do you need it for?

Family › Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by bellong: 12:38pm On Apr 04, 2015

Lynette2cute:
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HIV is the least thing that should make you commit suicide.

Medical breakthrough in this field is enough for you to know that you can live healthy and can procreate.

You have to make up your mind to live on drugs.

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Family › Re: her decision is Hindering Her Own Wedding From Taking Place: Advise Her by bellong: 5:00pm On Apr 03, 2015

The guy should let her go. She is materialistic and conscious of society's applause. This will spell doom for the union in the future.

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Family › Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by bellong: 4:53pm On Apr 03, 2015

suggyspic:
Her conscience has been eating her up for sleeping with another man. She willing confessed to her husband and asked for his forgiveness, now he wants to end the marriage. Is the husband right in the decision he is about to take. Were is the place for forgiveness in a marriage. is it not for better or worst.

MY opinion, she deserves a second chance. please your advise would be of help.

It is good that you put it as your opinion. Your opinion does not bind on the man, he is at liberty to decide the outcome and the lady should also have been prepared for the consequences of her action.

I am not saying he should divorce her but it is his decision to make.

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Family › Re: What Am I ?? In A Dilemma! by bellong: 4:47pm On Apr 03, 2015

crackhaus:
Are you having that same fearful feeling regarding your upcoming wedding/marriage?

Sorry, I had to ask because you still haven't stated your problem exactly.

Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 11:35am On Apr 03, 2015

JJC2OZ:
Please how can one do a trial point run test online to know possible points accords to HND holders..

Your HND may likely be assessed to be equivalent to an Australian Associate Degree/Diploma.

You can calculate the point test with an Associate Degree.

www.skillselect.gov.au

Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 10:14pm On Apr 02, 2015

Jetspeed:
Is PR only granted to people that has the bolded?

No but it gives you an advantage of point.

Family › Re: Is It Ok For Ex To Be Wife Makeup Artist For Wedding by bellong: 9:14pm On Apr 01, 2015

taryour:
Lol. Oga bellong goodevening oo. Got me cracking up with the emphasis on CHANGE. Nice one.

Good evening madam. Quite an age, I guess the boys and small chops with oga at the top have taken full control of you.

They should at least change for you small.... grin

Family › Re: She Slapped His Dad. What Should He Do? by bellong: 7:22pm On Apr 01, 2015

Ewuro4:
Well said Bellong.

Thank you

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Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 2:40pm On Apr 01, 2015

JJC2OZ:
If i get married to a PR/Citizen for PR, I intend to live wit that person oo.......
I can only come for her if I'm able to get PR via 180, .... Or other point test... But how easy will this be? thats my fair...

I dont think it will go down well if I marry her and afterword we ar not able to get PR...that means we ar coming back to Naija.

Suppose we ar already married before now, it would be a different thingy

Do you have a BSc?

Do you have work experience in your course?

What did you score in IELTS?

The truth is you can start the PR process if you positive answer to the questions I asked. You need not wait till after studies before applying for the PR you seek. The Spouse visa is a very long route that is tiring and too stressful according to what I have read.

For now, get enough evidences that can proof the relationship between the two of you. You will need them in your application. If you have the resources, let her get her own student visa to join you.

Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 10:57am On Apr 01, 2015

[quote author=JJC2OZ post=32234017][/quote]Whatever you decide to do, never marry a citizen with the sole aim of getting "Papers".

These people are not robots or machines, they are humans with emotions. Don't give false hope of marrying anyone for a selfish end. Don't turn anybody to a tool of achieving your personal ambition and later abandon them.

Except you want to marry the citizen because you want to live with her all your days, Do not follow that selfish and ungodly route.

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Family › Re: She Slapped His Dad. What Should He Do? by bellong: 9:55am On Apr 01, 2015

OP,

Your friend should do a serious background check of his sister. I want to believe it isn't Kegite that she joined because violence is not a message preached by the said group.

It is either she has been initiated into a secret cult or she is a girlfriend of a Capone.

Meanwhile, the father was wrong to slap an adult but by tradition and morals, the girl committed a grave offense.

Since this is the period of CHANGE, she needs to CHANGE her ways, seek forgiveness from her father and ask him to pray/bless her.

Whoso curseth his father or his mother, his lamp shall be put out in obscure darkness. Proverbs 20:20

The father too should apologise to his daughter for the slap. It was a wrong approach to resolving the issue. He should find another effective way of correcting her erring daughter. Violence will only strengthen her already hardened heart....

Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged. Colossians 3:21

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Family › Re: Is It Ok For Ex To Be Wife Makeup Artist For Wedding by bellong: 9:35am On Apr 01, 2015

This is the period of CHANGE.....

Since you have changed girlfriend.... Let her remain CHANGED..

CHANGE your make up artist..... Wisdom is profitable to direct.

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Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 9:33am On Apr 01, 2015

[quote author=chidaroy post=32231094][/quote]Jenny? huh

Family › Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by bellong: 10:09am On Mar 30, 2015

TV01:
Happy Sunday Bellong, hope all's well.

Actually I mostly disagree with your position - even if the wife if somewhat uncouth.

When a man marries a woman he is meant to cover and protect her. The first person he has to protect her from is herself, the second is himself and the third is everyone else. Her supposed uncouthness is his to deal with as part of his service to her.

I am doing great and fine.... Thanks for giving a detailed advice to the OP.

I actually didn't give any advice to the guy but to point out the error of his wife. No matter whether she is the first in the man's life or not, engaging an elder in a physical combat is an act of irresponsibility. I stand by this word.

The guy since being married to his wife has not really shown the leadership needed in his home, reason why what is happening is happening.

As you rightly said, he should protect his wife but the wife too should know the boundary not to cross.

Thanks for the piece of advice to him.

Have a great day.

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Politics › Re: Dino Melaye Beats Smart Adeyemi To Kogi West Senatorial Seat - Daily Post by bellong: 10:02am On Mar 30, 2015

temi4fash:
No mind the guy joor... Na one londoner get princess. .. smart ko dull ni

The guy nearly shocked me because I know it doesn't belong to Smart.

Thanks

Family › Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by bellong: 9:39am On Mar 30, 2015

Is this what you are thinking? huh

When well meaning Nigerians are awaiting the Presidential result, you are busy thinking about woman matter....

Family › Re: Serious Opinions Needed,coz U Cud Be Helpin Some Women's Mentality by bellong: 11:17pm On Mar 29, 2015

Is this what you are thinking? huh

When well meaning Nigerians are awaiting the Presidential result, you are busy thinking about woman matter....

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Politics › Re: Dino Melaye Beats Smart Adeyemi To Kogi West Senatorial Seat - Daily Post by bellong: 9:59pm On Mar 29, 2015

mechbeejay:
hmmm Sen Smart adeyemi, d man is really smart he is helping my state (kwara) to build our hotel and tourism sector, he has about 3 hotels (kingstone, royal shekinah, princess) n a big event centre, on behalf of kwarans i say thank u sir for investing so much in another man's state hope u do littl for ur okun ppl ooooo , i think d man need to b CHANGED TRUE TRUE

Is Smart the owner of Princess ~~brothel~~Hotel?

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Family › Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by bellong: 1:02pm On Mar 29, 2015

perfectionist:
Thanks, Cococandy. Your advice is always appreciated on this forum.
As to the reasons behind their animosity I cannot say but I do suspect my wife believes my mother is against her and may want to harm her.
The other women present tried to separate the fight to no avail. Even neighbours assisted but they just won't let go until I came.
I've always advised my wife to avoid any situation that would lead to a quarrel or fight with my mother. I guess she chose not to listen.

Your wife does not respect you. She knows your affection for her will always affect your sense of good judgement in being firm with decision.

If your MIL has not been abusive to her in the past, I see no reason why this simple issue should cause a world war. It only means your wife lacks respect for an elder. Even if your mum slap her without offending her, it is left for your wife to wait for you and not engage in physical combat with an old woman. What if something bad happened to any of them in the process?

You need to get to the root of the animosity between your mum and wife.

Above all, your wife acted like an untrained woman. Apologies to use the word.

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Family › Re: I Should Have Trusted My Husband...... by bellong: 1:11pm On Mar 27, 2015

I have read this work of fiction somewhere but can't remember the title.

Meanwhile, if a woman or man cannot trust a spouse of many years, I wonder the kind of union it is.

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Family › Re: Photos: Husband Strips Wife Unclad , Beats Her Almost To Death For Cheating by bellong: 1:46pm On Mar 26, 2015

The people watching and taking pictures are actually crazier and mentally unstable than the abuser himself...

bunch of idiotic fellow...

I guess this is a movie set? huh

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Travel › Re: Giving Birth In Canada by bellong: 5:56pm On Mar 25, 2015

Phema:
Fear not bellong. Your sister is bullet proof protected. Oga shoots in vain

Good... Now I can sleep with two eyes closed. Fear don run comot cheesy

Nothing wrong in having two babies in a year. However, you are giving the tailor an opportunity to be sewing one size fits all for your children...... grin

Travel › Re: Switzerland Thread by bellong: 4:25pm On Mar 25, 2015

Yes, they will give you guidelines on how to secure the visa because they wouldn't ordinarily employ you without approval from government.

Travel › Re: Giving Birth In Canada by bellong: 4:19pm On Mar 25, 2015

Phema:
7000 Canadian Dollars? Not bad at all. Thanks alot for helping out.
Got any contacts? Hospitals? Dr's? Willing to take on non-resident patients?

You want to pop another General huh

?

The down below don heal?? cheesy

Phema, I dey fear you ooo... Too much baby for body... lol

Travel › Re: Switzerland Thread by bellong: 3:13pm On Mar 25, 2015

If your employment process is underway, your employer is in the best position to give you all the information you need.

The embassy's website is still functional.

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Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bellong: 10:01pm On Mar 24, 2015

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Well Said

Family › Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by bellong: 9:00pm On Mar 24, 2015

MoonCares:
Lols!!! Didn't write biology, not a science student. So lecture me a bit, that's why am here

You didn't write biology? shocked

You should get a refund from your secondary school... cheesy

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Family › Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by bellong: 8:37pm On Mar 24, 2015

MoonCares:
I never said I won't marry him if he's my righful husband, just that my fears is about our future kids and nothing more.

What did you score in O'Level Biology?

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