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 Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by bellong: 9:24pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
tunapa2009: Loooool.. No.. I attend redeemed christian church of God.. Why did u ask Sir"....Remember me for good oh Lord..." is their motto for this year. |
| Family › Re: Is It Ok To Give Him My Password? by bellong: 9:05pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
Your partner = Your husband I wonder why it has to become something to be posted to the social media before giving him. You guys are supposed to be one if the meaning of marriage is the same to you. It shouldn't even get to the level where he is the one asking you for your password. Same for him as well. If husband and wife can't have access to each other's social media account, I wonder the type of relationship that is. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Which Is Better: Boy Or Girl As First-born? by bellong: 8:55pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
You should have told your mother-in-law to tell her son her wish because he is the one responsible for donating the Y-chromosome. You have no say in the gender of a child but your husband. Whatever comes from him is what you will have. 80 Likes |
| Food › Re: Recipe For Losing Weight..... Lose 12kg In Two Weeks by bellong(op): 5:09pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
regbaby: Me likey likey. E no easy oh. Make we start shaYes, nothing good comes easy.... Please give situation report when you start. Thanks 1 Like |
| Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by bellong: 4:54pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
tunapa2009: Oooh God, remember me for Good this year.. I need restoration(becos I really lost some many things last year but in all things, I still have reasons to thank God)... I am still alive, there is hope..The gods are yet to get over the new year hang over. So, the gods are dumb presently, they will soon wake to life..   Do you attend The Apostolic Church? 1 Like |
| Family › Re: My Roommate Snores So Loud What Do I Do? by bellong: 2:31pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
slimyem: how many times will he wake him?Not really, some after adjusting sleeping position do not snore again. His room mate could be in that category. |
| Family › Re: Living With Parents After Wedding by bellong: 2:29pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
jaybeyblu: Ok thank you guys please how do I call it off (the wedding is supposed to be next month) how do I tell my parents, they are really excited about the wedding and all that. We have almost concluded all preparationsTell your parents exactly what you typed here. 4 Likes |
| Family › Re: Living With Parents After Wedding by bellong: 12:46pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
jaybeyblu: Please should I call of the wedding? Because I am exhausted and depressed :'(Do you need a seer to tell you the answer to your question? I wonder why you are still having a second thought about this issue. I wouldn't know how a boy can manage a full grown woman successfully without letting hell loose.... I hope you make the right decision for yourself. 8 Likes |
| Family › Re: Places Where You Can Find A Serious Relationship by bellong: 12:26pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
mrsincredible: All my frnds are getting married and the pressure is too much cause I am 27years old. And I am not getting good admirersOne of the rules to stay happy in life is not to compare your life with others. Comparing themselves by themselves, they are not wise. There is what is called individual uniqueness. We are all different from another and can never be the same. You have a unique and defined path in destiny which comparison can jettison it. Live your life being happy and not looking at how others run their race. Do not put yourself nor allow anyone to put you under pressure for marriage. Marriage is a beautiful thing when joined with the right person but it is hell when otherwise. Be patient, prayerful and active with life, the right guy will come at the right time. |
| Family › Re: Places Where You Can Find A Serious Relationship by bellong: 12:16pm On Jan 05, 2014 |
mrsincredible: thanks. What about social networks?The people on social networks are those offline. However, the issue there is, are you sharp enough to know genuine intention of people you meet on social media? There are lot of people who met their spouses on social media and are happily married today. In like manner, there are so many stories that touch. If you understand the rules of engagement in relationship and social media hook up, I guess you will sail the ship. In all you do, never ever let down on your own instinct and artificial intelligence. You will surely need them. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: My Roommate Snores So Loud What Do I Do? by bellong: 11:39am On Jan 05, 2014 |
Put a cork stopper in his mouth to block the noise.... #just joking, don't try it ooo... Wake him to adjust his sleeping position, it affects the flow of air |
| Family › Re: Places Where You Can Find A Serious Relationship by bellong: 11:29am On Jan 05, 2014 |
You can always meet people in your day to day activities. There is no restricted place to meet a potential spouse. All what you need is to keep developing and adding values to yourself while waiting. Most of the beautiful things that happened to us came when we least expected them. Do not put yourself under any pressure for a relationship, when you meet the right guy, you will find peace with him and God. Meanwhile, you can do well to be active in your church, official get together, connections and links from friends, wedding parties etc.... It is well 5 Likes |
| Family › Re: Does Phophecy Actually Works In Terms Of Life Partner? by bellong: 11:09am On Jan 05, 2014 |
Not until you decide to walk with God yourself, you will keep getting confused about a lot of issues. Choosing a life partner is only one of many events that will confuse you. What exactly do you understand by prophecy and vision? How do you think God operates in the lives of people? What are the things you think you should watch out for in a potential spouse? If you can't answer any of these from God's word, then I can assure you, confusion is an understatement about your present situation. NB: Be sure that if you had slept with the lady in question, it will surely affect the spiritual perception of your prophet except he is meticulous enough to probe further. The issue of marriage is your cross to bear and not for any pastor or seer.... 1 Like |
| Family › Re: This is how most Nigerian parents treat their kids.. Its a lil unfair.. by bellong: 11:00am On Jan 05, 2014 |
[quote author=lovette_frank]This isn't in the past yet. They still do it. Anytime I'm in the same place as them, I'll get beaten for my so-called "offense" all in the name of discipline. And I dare not talk back.[/quote]Miss, they still beat you at your age because you have not found courage to stand up to them. When next they raise their hand to beat you, stand up to them. It will take them by surprise. You will be threatened with discontinuity of your school fees, do not bother, only statement born out of shock. You are at a stage where you have to confront your demon. Overcome your fear, stand up to their aggression and torture. I wish you could be as stubborn as I was in your age to deliver myself from parental ignorance of suppression. It should get to a point where you need to ask if they are truly your parents. Sis, this battle can be won before leaving their house finally. No parents have the right to become a dictator over their children. Their duty is to lead their children in the right path to follow while children chart their own course. If they quote you bible to honour your parents, show them the part that instructed parents not to provoke their children to anger. The right time to confront your demon is now. |
| Food › Re: Recipe For Losing Weight..... Lose 12kg In Two Weeks by bellong(op): 8:06pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
carammel: I have modified that,i meant 12kg like you writeWell, its for people with excess fat. |
| Food › Re: Recipe For Losing Weight..... Lose 12kg In Two Weeks by bellong(op): 7:23pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
carammel: If i lose 12 grams what will be left of my weightIf you lose 12grams, you have not lost anything |
| Family › Re: Pray For Mysticgals Mother by bellong: 12:04pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
You will not lose her... The balm of Gilead will heal her. It is well 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Does Phophecy Actually Works In Terms Of Life Partner? by bellong: 12:00pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
Have you been to "Jerusalem" with this "uncultured" future wife? |
| Family › Re: "To Him Only" A New Year Letter To My Father by bellong: 7:59am On Jan 01, 2014 |
What a sweet compose!!! May God grant him many more years in prosperity, peace and fulfillment. I hope the men bashers will know that there are still so many great fathers and husbands out there contrary to their claim on this forum. Op, your dad must be proud of you too. It is well with you |
| Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by bellong: 6:05pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
coogar: you didn't rip it to the core link, there you go....Thanks.. |
| Family › Re: Advice Needed! by bellong: 4:03pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
ellamines: Bellong, you are not helping either. Of course a woman must support her husband in every way that she can but is d man ready to support d woman in this case? Or will his ego get in the way and suddenly remind him that he's d man of the house? For instance, when a woman brings in more money, it's not an issue but when the man has to help out with some other stuff like say house chores when the woman is not available, it appears on the headlines (big issue). So what would u advise? This person needs help, so if you have any, offer it. Don't be harsh.There is no way I can advise someone without any information about the character of the man involved. That was why Efemena said you didn't give enough information. I do not know the man nor your friend/you to know whether the man will see it as a big deal. My sister, you are the one not helping matter here. Can you talk about the person of the man? |
| Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by bellong: 3:14pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
coogar: seems your image link is corrupt!I have tried different links but remains same.... Maybe its because I didn't go to Harvard...  |
| Family › Re: Advice Needed! by bellong: 3:02pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
ellamines: Bellong, speaking from a woman's view, I think it may be too much for her to handle. If a woman is going to be the bread winner of a home, carry pregnancies and bring forth children, wouldn't it be too much a load for her? Would it b just as easy to submit to your husband under these conditions?Though you have not answered my questions, I will respond to what you raised. Is a woman not supposed to be an help meet to her husband? How then will the person you mentioned become the breadwinner when the husband is not jobless? The fact that she earns more money in salary does not make her the breadwinner. How sure are you the man doesn't have other means of income to supplement what he has? If you/your friend cannot look at the bigger picture in a man's life other than money in marriage, I am afraid you may miss the best thing union can afford. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by bellong: 2:54pm On Dec 31, 2013*. Modified: 6:03pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
coogar: put [img] and [/img] at both ends of the URL link of the gif and you are good to go. of course, i know jf odunjo.https://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_maqpyinUWg1rr3l61o1_500.gif |
| Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by bellong: 1:59pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
coogar: see ajepakx everywhere, where are my eton college alumni at? who is jf odunjo? is she a stripper?If you are from the South west, he authored the famous Alawiye Yoruba texts.... You need to teach me how you do attach those gif, would have give you one here.... |
| Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by bellong: 1:53pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
Nashville: I'm in the wrong place. Obviously no Harvard alums here...See oppression How we go do when Harvard needs a |
| Romance › Re: She's Driving Me Crazy....please Help by bellong: 1:50pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
Caracta: Some of you hate to listen to the truth. That's the problem with BOYS.Fixed |
| Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by bellong: 1:45pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
[quote author=Efemena_xy]Sugar Girl, The Drummer Boy, The Passport of Mallam Ilia, The Trials of Brother Jero, The Lion and the Jewel, Unknown Soldier, Arrow of God, The Concubine... [/quote]It's no longer ajepako things when you start to add The trials of Brother Jero and Arrow of God. Our level of Engrish no fit comprehend those books at the time.... We sabi our levels, we are good with Eze goes to school, Kole the etcetera |
| Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by bellong: 1:43pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
wonlasewonimi: and Orun mooru, Idamu paadi mikailu, efusetan aniwura, ogbori elemoshoAlawiye (JF Odunjo), especially Aworawo aponmita, Ireke onibudo, Ha o pari |
| Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by bellong: 1:35pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
^^^ Enid blyton is about the only book I recognise in your list. I got to see the witch and the wardrobe in a film last year... As correct ajepako pikin (kid is for ajebo while pikin is for ajepako ), I grew up reading Ikebe-super, super story, rich girl and poor boy, things fall apart, eze goes to school, ogboju ode ninu igbo irumole, Abe abo... etc..Now I have stepped my game, I now read geosciences..... |
| Family › Re: Advice Needed! by bellong: 1:30pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
Op, What do you understand about marriage? What are the real things to consider in marriage? I am not talking about ephemeral things you listed here. If you can answer these two questions, I will take it from there. |
| Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by bellong: 1:24pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
[quote author=Efemena_xy]Now you're getting me confused. So those two old men, the friends...what were their names and which magazine?[/quote]Pa Ajasco was the fat rich guy in Ikebe super while Pa J is friend was the thing hilarious poor man.... Dauda was one crazy randy man exclusively from the writer's imagination.... |
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