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NEIGHBOUR:
Igini has become a politician. Deep one for that matter.

The guy supposed dey unbiased but no, he jump into the field and is vindictively biased

Gff

Guy for jus calm down make the wave wash out firs.
The firm in their letter did notvputvout his name or particulars, they kind of protected him, he could have stayed that way, or stay known to jus a few in the inner circle, now we all know about him, and his story now brings up other damning facts.
Like his telling everyone that he is inexperience
And also stating that the letter too was somdwhat incriminating on his person.

In times like this, a litle. I know i fuqed up,
I am sorry, i did that out of ignorance and youthfull exubrance... Who never fuq up hands in thr air.
Case closed

Political points worth noting.
Fought Goodluck Jonathan can out unscratched.
Sacked pdp governor Emeka Ihedioha of imo
Sackef Apc governor Lyon of Bayelsa

1-1

Wike na oga pata pata of vawulence hq

Be like say cashout go dey for lawyers before and after 2023

Omohhh

Hjj

The world no d end again?
I think say everythin d spoil, according to our resident pastor.

Butvyesterday, court say no to homosexuality, n today court say no to wearing Bikini, weytin d sup, why world no wan end again

Obaa
Taking the drugs to the drunglords area, makes sense..


Lols. I no talk anything o, before i hear say dem shoot bird, mama fly

Starboytwo:
I’m still out here looking for “Phenom”

That guy was a very dope arz rapper, just disappeared. I remember he was them mochedda label mate in knighhouse back then(maybe wrong)

I still remember one of his track “murder dem”

You've not heard TKG fam, Phenom is my all time favorite Nigerian rapper

Funny thing is.
Buhari is 80years Old.
Atiku is 76 years Old.
Tinubu is 70years old
Osibanjo is 65years old.
Peter Obi is 61years old..


Can we do away with all these old men.
The bible sets 60years for people to die and 70 for those who are strong... Lets have 40-50 year olds, not someone campaigning for an old man attacking another person campaignibg for another old man.

koning:
If Tinubu emerges as the APC candidate, APC can forget about getting even 2%of votes from NE, SS and SE. Not with Atiku as the PDP candidate and the feeling of injustice felt in the SE.

Even APC stalwarts will pump in enough money to make sure Tinubu does not become president. OUK and Rochas in my mind.

For where.
Those in the South East have lost flair, That guy in finland will say no eelection.
South South will vote Peter Obi, Atiku and Tinubu.
North will vote Kwankwaso, Tinubu and Atiku.
South West will vote Tinubu.

Who wins, do the maths

Mazing:
Alright guys keep the predictions coming. Instead of 10k each for just two persons, I will make it 5k each for the first four correct predictions. I think that's better.

Osibanjo 2062539676 uba

JmyNigaa:
What other books should a young Nigerian chasing knowledge read??

Art of war by Tsun Tsu
Law of human nature
48 laws of power
Art of seduction..
How to make friends and influence people.

This guy is politically dumb..
Tinubu was the guy that kicked Ambode out but he didnt come out to put in everybodies face..
He said n made it seem that it ws the Lagos peoples choice.
No mattee how it is, in politics always wear gloves, dont leave strong fingerprint.. Let people think its you

These guys need to read "The Prince" by Machiavelli

Las las dat guy na monkey, the guy did not have to show his hands, now everyone knows tge game he is playing and now he cant stand and fight the NWC the Northern Caucus, and the south...

The guy has turned himself a liability.
But should Lawan win, APC will crash, tomorow tomorrow, even before next year

Dikaveli2:
And udoka is efik your brothers

The father is Akwa ibom sir, Akwa ibom people do answer udoka

gideononyegbule:
Everything you said was correct, until you said you barely share cultures and traditions with Igbos.

I said *"barely"*..
But will love to learn from you

All these people, Ime is Ibibio and Ibibio is not igbo.

Ime means Patience,

We are Ibibio, we share culture and language with just the calabar people of cross rive of the efik extraction.. We barely share culture or traditions wit igbo.
We are neighbors with igbo, but brothers with the Efik.

Lets not always subsume ibibio, efik, oron, annang under igbo, its an insult to us..

Akwa ibom to d world

6pack:
I never contacted her, I seriously made up my mind to leave her too. I bleeped 5x hotter girls them her, did every shit to keep her off but non actually worked.

Find a book, write down the reaaons u always hv urself thinking about her.

There are trigers in your environment that always drag u to think of her, rid urself of those trigers or attach them to someone else.. And you will know that you were obsessing over an irresponsible girl, that would had left you the moment you did a simple mistake, look at the reason she gave you for not giving you guys another chance.. If the 5years together is not worth anything to her, then you killing yourself wont be worth anything either

Wike na mannn abeg,

There is no politician, in the state that enjoys the level of love and support, as Akpabio does in Akwa Ibom state.
People will have squabbles with him, but one thing even the naysayers will tell yoi is that, he is not the best we could get,but he is way better than every politician we know in our clime.
Today as he declarez, Akwa ibom people, joined by the likes of Davido and Mercy Eke, will be there, to promise him our full and undivided loyalty, should he clinch the party's ticket

Na sooi, busines man.
For now we will say "we are not government people e no concern us"

We are not commercial people, e no concern us.

Untill one day, musk wake up say, the you too you gats dey pay small gas fee lioe for crypto...

Lets enjoy it while it lasts,because sooner or later, the commercia busineses will be doin their "follow us and like us to vote for so and so" on another platform, and little by litle, people go start dey move

Still our collective wealth dem go use

Wahala

Nigerians dont like to hear "pay"

Loyalty to country and loyalty to a leader.
We need to know where to draw the line.

If Ukrainians were loyal to their country, they would have given Zalensky's head to the Russians before the war broke out, while ensuring the war didnt break out, and their infrastructures destroyed.

Bur no, they watch too much western propaganda and movie, and now their country a developed economy is about being leveled... All for what reason? The USA wont have accepted Russia having silos in Cuba, so why were the Ukrainians not smart enough to know that the west wont risk a nuclear war with the countrt with the largest stockpile of nukes..
The west threw Ukrainians and Zalensky under the bus, and moved.
Tomoro other countries will follow india and buy oil from Russia and the world wont end...

Choosing your battles well, is key, no matter your ego trip there are wars you should never ever go into, its like Osibanjo fighting Tinubu, we know Osibanjo is better positiond to lead, but Tinuba has nukes even heavyweight politicians wont dare confront him.

Its not right, its not just... But it is what it is.

bewov:
Please guys, I have something bothering me so much, I will really appreciate it if I can get a matured response.

These might be long, but please bare with me

There is this girl have been dating since March 2021. Although, we met in University days and we have been dating since 2017, but because I was graduating and she has 1 more year to spend in the school, I left her and travelled to Lagos to work, because I got a job in a company in Lagos, immediately I graduated. I needed to concentrate on my future so I told her I want to pause the relationship to focus, but I will definitely be back for her, I promised her this. She was a virgin then!

After working in the company for 2years, I also learnt some IT skills online while I was working in the company, and I was earning cool money from it, so I decided to quit the job and focus more on the online business.

My business have been doing well and I have about 2 other virtual assistant helping me out, anyway I was kind of comfortable, so I thought of fulfilling my promise to my girlfriend. I called her one morning, and she was shocked! We chatted a bit and I told her I want us to see urgently, we schedule a date for her to meet me in the hotel, because I was staying in Lekki and he stays around Surulere, I wanted an hotel close to her house, so she can return early.

We met at the hotel and I can see she missed me so much, around 3pm I told her I'm back and I want us to continue dating and I'm ready to settle down, she agreed and we have been dating, all this happened around March 2021. Around April, I travelled out for about 2months, but I was very communicating with her, and when I got back around June, I discovered she had sex with another guy in May. Now, I wouldn't say she did it because of money, because I pay her 20k every month for upkeep, sometimes I just pay her 30k! She is not a wayward girl though, and she is not a type that sleeps around with guys back then in school, but once i came back into her life, I see a different girl entirely, when I came back she wasn't a virgin anymore, it's not my problem anyway, because the truth is I never forgot her during all those years I left her behind.

I didn't tell her I knew she cheated on me, but all I do tell her was that she did something bad to me and I want her to open up to me about it, but my girl kept on denying it, she sworn with her life, that she didn't cheat on me, that night I was shocked. Then, I didn't talk about it again till September, I gave her those months to regret her actions and confess to me, but she never did, also I didn't stop helping her financially, I still pay her monthly for upkeep. I know you will be wondering why I give her money, right? This girl was with me and loyal to me when I had nothing, like nothing at all! She was raised by a single mother and she is struggling a lot, after graduating she decided to go for Hair Stylist training, that is where she is currently. So I just give her money monthly just to stay strong.

So around September I decided to tell her she cheated on me, although it was that once, she begged, cried and told me she was drunk and regretted it, she told me she doesn't want to tell me because she knows I will end the relationship, well to be candid I love her so much, so I decided to forgive her, but since that day, trusting her was very very difficult for me. Although, I do watch her and since then I have never seen anything of such from her.

January 2022, her mother stopped her from coming to my place, she wants me to come see her first before she can allow her daughter to come visit me again. So, I went to see her mom last month and I made my intentions known to her, I told her I will want to marry her daughter and she said she is okay with it, if her daughter is okay with me.

This girl is my type of girl but, she has some behaviours that sincerely I don't think I can deal with.

She has this mindset of "A woman should be equal to a man".

She doesn't respect me, she chats with random guys and if they invite her for outing, she goes with them, even if I tell her not to go! When she visits me, she says I must join her in doing the house chores, she will say "It's either you clean the house and I will wash the plates and cook, or she wash the plates and cook, while I clean the house". And sometimes if she wants to cook for me, she will want me to come to the kitchen with her and do some works, maybe Grind pepper with blender or slice onion, if I dont, she gets annoyed, saying will she be the one to be doing all?

She did something that annoyed me this morning, around 6am today I went to the filling station to get petrol, well she knows I eat early always, maybe 6am or 7am, I would have taken breakfast, but she has never dished me food at that time, I always do it myself whenever she is around. When I got back from the filling station, I still met my girlfriend on the bed pressing her phone, I told her I'm hungry and I will want to eat Spaghetti with tomato sauce, and she replied "Baby, please cook it yourself, you said I'm your queen, pamper me na" Really? What does that have to do with you cooking for your fiance?

Well, I was annoyed, I went to the kitchen and prepared the food myself, the truth is when the food was ready, I only dished my own and ate, she said "What about her? Won't she eat?" I didn't answer her!

Aside from this, sincerely sometimes she talks to me rudely, and one thing she and I knows is that she is very very stubborn and not ready to submit to any man. Sincerely, this attitude is making me scared of settling down with her, I want to propose her this year and do the marriage rights but with all this behaviours I'm thinking the marriage will be hell for me.

When she came over yesterday, I prepared food for her before her arrival, and I served her, all she could say was "What is this? The food taste bad! Is this food or poison?" She never gave a good compliments about the meal, yet she finished the food and went for second round.

Last night before we went to bed, I told her to warm the rice and the stew, she said it won't get spoilt that she will do it in the morning, I asked her if she is sure, she said Yes. And I went to the kitchen before preparing my Spaghetti, I saw the rice is already bad and can't be eaten, I showed it to her and she was like "haaa she doesn't know it will spoil"

Also, the chicken I bought yesterday to cook her the meal, I couldn't use all, I left some in the pot, and I forgot to warm it last night, my girl saw it while washing the plates this morning, and she was like "What is this?" I told her chicken and she said "And you didn't warm it" she left it there in the pot like that without doing anything to revive it. Before I went to the kitchen to do it myself!

She only washed the plates, bath and went to church this morning, she didn't arrange the bed, nor sweep the room littered with all we ate last night. I'm sure of the message she is passing to me... "Have washed the plates, you clean the house".

Please guys, I want to propose her around August and settle down with her in November, but this behaviours are the things turning me off.

Will she changed and act normal when we get married, or this will continue? The guys she chat with, which I told her I don't like it, she replied that "She will never and ever leave them". All these types of attitudes and not showing me respect, do you think she will change after we get married or she will continue?

Please guys, I'm very confused here

Its not about equality, her love language is act of service.
Do it for her and see how much her love will grow, n she will find you inseperable

Its only dumb people that believe that war is viable option, when any other option is on the table.
Its because of the Hollywood trash, where the Avengers show up and the war is over.

Ukraine is not at war when compared to the Tigray in Ethiopia of the Houthies in Yemen, thats the area you see the tolls of war.
Not Ukraine where Russian soldiers prefer to be stoned that shoot civilians.

Go to Ethiopia n learn firat hand the toils of war, andyou will see that in most instances, durin war, only the big brass win

Calm down, dem no go gree, but why Isreal been go strike Iran na? Now Iran dong retaliate and Isreal go wan retaliate again, and naso e gp continue till person fire nuclear bomb, and everybody go calm down