₦airaland Forum

KingDash:
in all honesty the entire lagos is shit, very dangerous and useless state.. I can't stay in lag even if person go dash me 1m daily.

Owners of Lagos will soon come for your head, Run ooo

Firemanromance:
I don't chase them, that's why am afraid.
Mostly I happen to meet alot during business, and some when I take the children out.

Before I know, it starts with calls, trying to ask me to find solutions for some marital issue, to either buying things for me or my children.
The next thing is visiting the house.

You want to give them marital solutions when you never solve your own, no be juju be that? Keep on deceiving yourself

Firemanromance:
I know it is those in beer palour that will answer first,

Apart from #1, I would like intelligent answers no matter how bad.

I don't want to find myself in such position again.
How many people I go dey avoid because dem marry?

No wonder your first wife leave you, it's obvious you think that you are smart but you don't know you are dummy and stupid at the same time

Mrnakeina:
Hediot!

He is a big fool

TarOrfeeek:
Men, do not embark on self improvement to "get girls"


That's a wasteful, empty and self deprecating life to live.

Exercise because you want to be fit.
Grow wealth because you want to be rich.
Spend on yourself because you deserve self love.


DO NOT DO ANYTHING FOR A WOMAN'S AFFECTION!

OP, your own folly was declaring the landed property, higher income and adding marriage as an achievement. (BP WK Mangina Simp)

Body go soon tell you.

You said it all. THREAD CLOSED

Tingotoe:
It's wrong to kill a drug addict instead you should try and help him. It's the dealer I've got no concern for

Read again bro before you comments, he is tge dealer

gshsj:
Na thesame spirit dey control illamina and Mamagee3

This illamina is very mad

dudesexy111:
will go there today marrying the girl is not an issue as long as she is loyal and committed to me I will marry her cause I am very committed when it comes to relationship….

You're not prepare for this my brother don't be blinded by stupid love . Give this some months/days my brother

dudesexy111:
then if she is going to pressure me that I would not take more over what if she is the one that Bleep up along the line..anyway o know what to do

Don't be a fool my brother if she Bleep up along the line you move on

dudesexy111:
am still a hustling guy but I will start preparing towards it

You won't be the first person to took a gurl virginity so don't let anyone preasured you into marrying when you're not ready. Don't listen to this foolish girls on this thread

Iyaebe:
Please just go and marry her to avoid stories that touch.

Don't listen to this trash, go and see her mum , they just want to pressure you into marrying her

Mercychen:
No problems about that. I'll keep them.

It's well but i think you should be the one to do that family planning or anyother thing

Onyiiobi7735:
Exactly, while their counterparts in China,Europe, and even SA are taking innovative steps to upgrade their countries.

And our youths is here talking about sex all the time

Kobojunkie:
Why do you assume she shot herself in the foot though. I mean if I am in a relationship and I want one and only one kid, what is selfish about making that known to my partner?

From what she relayed, things were already flowing between them - he even called her "darling" - before she made her intentions known. Was she supposed to maybe wait till the night before their wedding to get it out or something? I mean when exactly will be more appropriate to let you partner know of a thing like this?

Well, they were having the conversation so he revealed what he wanted and she said what she preferred and argued for it. Isn't that how you reach agreements in any relationship?

What is wrong with a vasectomy? I read somewhere that the cost is around N 100,000 and it is reversible with less side-effects. What other family planning method comes close for couples who are serious and in it for the long haul?

Selfish thing there is what he tell the guy to do not her wanting only one kid

Mercychen:
A slight twist you call it but I've heard of so many women who later had issues with family planning they did.

It's easier for the men because their system is not so complex like that of women.



We already discussed about all the other methods especially condom and he said, for how long is he going to be using condom on his life time wife. He already kicked against the idea.

Woh, I'm tired.

Madam what if you're pregnant and it's twins?

Prettiepearlz:
In my opinion, this is how marital problems start oooo. That man did not agree wholeheartedly with your one child policy, he reluctantly agreed after much conviction from you and no one knows how much energy you put into convincing him to agree to your one child rule. Personally, I am not a fan of plenty kids in this our not so friendly economy however it has to be an agreement that from both parties willingly and not reluctantly. That being said, the NO clearly means NO and it is an indication that they guy is not on board with your plans and probably plans to sort himself out in the future perhaps it could ego or ignorance about the vasectomy procedure. Besides you are the one who wants one child, the responsibility is on you to prevent yourself from having another. He clearly doesn't agree with your suggestions and you know it. Let him go and you can find someone who agrees with what you want. If you eventually coerce him into doing your bidding, he will resent you later on in your marriage and trust me you don't want to live with that. Find someone else who agrees with you and your wants and please let him also get someone else to give him the number of kids he wants. You two are clearly not on the same page. Finally your reasons for not wanting to be the one to do the child control is very selfish. You come off selfish with your assertions. I wish you both the best in your endeavours.

GOD bless you for your sincere advice

Dreadshy:
What is sauce for the goose is also good for the gander... tie up your tubes if you dont want more kids, simple. Trouble will end, relationship restored

I wonder the kind witch she is, tie you womb and let that man be

MufasaLion:
Vasectomy needs more awareness. Most men don't understand how it is and most people don't even know it exist. You just gotta talk to him and explain things to him. Most people believes family planning is only done to the females.

Moreover, ego is among the reasons he kicks against vasectomy. An average African man wouldn't want to live his life knowing his semen is useless.

Trying to convinced a Nigeria man to have one child is wickedness

ShobayoEmma:
When we split, we can then face the consequences of splitting.

Nigeria as a single entity is not working and it's not even showing any symptoms of working in any distance future. So where is the sense of continue living in the fear of splitting?


Lord have mercy.

Let's split first before complaining and besides there's no consequence that will come after split. You are just afraid of suffering you and your tribe will suffer

liya11:
Hope you stayed away from your mother and sisters too or you have none?

Foolish you asking stupid questions

temmypotter:
What the hell?

So releasing the major suspect is more important than finding out what happened to the one year old boy?

Where did you read that they're releasing him ? Or set aside mean release?

Dollywood:
Don't make a mistake of quitting your teaching job, because you still get free accommodation from them. If you quit you can't afford to find a new apartment and hope to reply on bike riding, do you even consider the stress? Find someone to jack you bike and give you returns even if it is 2k daily. And hope they don't mismanage your bike, that's where you gats need to strict on anyone riding your bike. if you notice any small crack on it, give am stern warning that's going to send shivers to his spine.

Sure they will spoil that bike , Nigerians are wicked

dominique:
Look for someone else to give the bike to and the person must remit no less than 3k daily.
If you can be making more than 3k for a few hours work, one crook now wants to be remitting only 1k after a full day's work. He must be ment. Before releasing the bike, make sure an undertaken at the police station with a guarantor you can easily trace. Too many criminals out there and they're the ones quick to shout no jobs.

After you've comfortably saved enough money, you can now decide if you want to quit or continue running both. I would personally advise you remain on the job. Economy is not smiling right now, it's very risky to rely on one means of income.

Given another person that bike is a risk my friend, he will agree on any amount you tell him daily but he won't give the owner any money and that bike he may lose it. Let him ride it himself

MrBrownJay1:
teacher got a taste of his own medicine.... "you live by the gun, you die by the gun"

Are you okay? What did you smoke?

MrBrownJay1:
teacher got a taste of his own medicine.... "you live by the gun, you die by the gun"

Are you oksy?

Amiralord:
Fine,she possess this innocent and gentle look,very sincere when she talks and unsuspecting.Anytime I raise this issue of knowing her family(she told me her both parents are late from onset)so she's leaving with her elder brother,According to her,that her brother is into mast construction,so he can be away for like 6months.
Her been an orphan endeared her to me very much,I believe supporting her is like helping an orphan base on my Islamic teachings.

Stop defending a liar my friend, i don't want to lose you is a format from Nigeria girl when they're lying. You will share that girl with her ex anytime he cones back bear it in mind

Stay strong brother and let another man's word wear down because he's not your maker

Datboredberry:
Most women don't want to date a man with a potbelly, it's normal... And perfectly ok...

Same way most men would prefer fairer girls... Or those with bigger boobs and asses...

Rejecting the advances of someone you're not attracted to is one thing... Openly condemning them is another...

Women say, "I won't date a man who's short".. they rarely single out a man to criticize... Unlike men who would download an image of a woman just to highlight her flaws...

I've met guys who are into plus size women... I never complain... But if one decides to deliberately hurt me for the sake that I'm not his 'type' then I would call him out...

A woman with strechmarks turns you off... It's alright... But don't say to her that she's ugly...

It's of no benefit to you... Which just makes your actions unnecessarily cruel.

Most woman don't want to date a man because of potbelly but when a man do the same thing you be complaining .you people are confused