Alexgman1:
But why? I do love her.

Forget love think about your life , did you know if she carry any STD?

Alexgman1:
I and my colleague at work recently got romantic. Shes a single mum but she said it was a mistake. Four years ago her so called ex got her pregnant & told her to keep the baby but after a while he travelled and till date he hasn't return neither is his line going through. She later delivered the baby and with the help of her parent shes taking care of the child and hes going to school.

Now back to us. We got into a romantic relationship & she started disturbing me to sex her because its been years she did it. She came to sleep over one night & after so much romancing she pleaded that i should flex her that she cant endure any longer. I stood up & went to my jacket to get a packet of condom. When she saw it she was displeased & asked me not to use condom on her that she doesn't like it at all. I told her i have to use it because i am not ready to be a father yet. I told her i dont know how to withdraw. We both sat on the bed pleading to each other until she got fed up & slept off. She said i dont love her.

She want to give you HIV or she want to trap you with pregnancy

It's a normal thing for them down there

jetwonder:
prostitute is not a bad choice, but masturbate and rape are nothing but crime against humanity

going to meet prostitutes is good idea?
None of them is good for health

jetwonder:
prostitute is not a bad choice, but masturbate and rape are nothing but crime against humanity

going to meet prostitutes is good idea?
None of them is good for healthy

EzegeNdiigbo:
I call it 3in1

Yansh na

Tonero5200:
no replies.

that night she told me she will give me reply the following day...till now nothing.
I asked her on Sunday, she ignored my chat and replied in the evening after hours.

I asked again, she ignored and responded the next day with just hello, good evening, or anything that doesn't relate to the proposal.

the thing is I'm angry, this lady looking me like a kid for not giving me a sensible reply Instead of snubbing me.
even though you not interested, tell me to my face so that I comoth my mind.
why snub me? she texted me yesterday and I deleted the chat immediately.

I want to move on
but I noi go like do am like quarrel?
make it noi be say I dey vex because she nor gree
how do I go about it?

You shouldn't have ask her, you spouse play along

Ifailed22:

I'm not sure that my wife has it. she did not complain of anything and look normal. but like everyone is saying, i will have to carry her along in everything i'm doing. thanks

Std stay a bit longer in a woman body before it begins to show, if you don't treat her also you will still contract it again

Ifailed22:

I would not have been here begging if i have little funds to see a doc and do some tests. worst now is how everyone is saying that my wife must do the test with me. i really need help

You treat it before and contract it again from your wife, your wife has it already so both of you should treat it

Don't use your hand to eat what will kill you

SteadyGrinding:
I'm in the most confused state of my life.

Please I need advice from mature fellows.

I've been in a relationship with this girl for 6month now.
We planned things together. And I swear to God. She's very supportive. When every family ran away from me. She stood by me.

Even supported me when I had some spiritual issues.

We've got plans together. We plan everything together. Life and all.

I will not lie. She is very supportive. She's just my kind. This girl have to break her savings to make sure I achieve some plans. Go broke to see me smile in my difficult times.

I've moved to a new apartment when my landlady was bewitching me. All my business dried up. She stood by me. Supported me in looking for another apartment. Financially she was there. Now I'm just one week in the new apartment. We had our first sex and I contacted gonorrhoea from her.

Now I'm not a simp I know this infection is a sexually transmitted one. She has been swearing with her life that she didn't cheat. Swearing with this. Swearing with that. I know it's all lies. Abi have anyone experience this. Because she was saying maybe it hid in her body system that she didn't sleep with another man.

Now this is the case. I don't want to dump this girl like that. I feel guilt in my mind. After all she has done for me. Please someone talk to me I'm going crazy. This is a girl that has fought spiritual battles for me. I know what I'm talking about.

She may have contract it a long time before she meet you , if you love her treat her and marry her

incandescentena:
Try to Always understand her feelings

Must be kill himself trying to understand a woman that can't control herself when she's angry?

Yoruba people can sleep with anything

E sweet pass

auntyTania:
Sometime ago, I said a story about how this girl I was dating caused a lot of stress in my life and all. That was when I started learning about gaslighting, narcs, stonewalling and all. I remember everyone saying not to take her back then and I thought I wasn't going to but I did.
My mind was not settled so I decided to just truly open my eyes over the years. Well, turns out she was cheating and all. I confronted her and she said everything I was saying was a lie, the discussion we've had together before was a lie, the things I she did in the past was a lie, well basically everything I said, I was lying on her. Heck, she even said I forced her back into the relationship.
This time around I would not doubt my head again because even if you know the truth, these total denial from her will make you wonder if you're delusional.
Point now is her mum birthday is in a few days and her mum already called me to tell me her birthday was coming up.
I was wondering what the appropriate thing to do is, wether I should text her bcus she didn't offend me or just leave her alone.

Would love to here general opinion

You're going to her mum's birthday as what? Oga pack well, reject devil and all his hand work

ozile1234:


ok bro thanks, but what about the population i mean there are so many people into it here.

Fine a better location for your business and besides anytime you want to start a new business don't bother about other bother about your own, how it will survive

OyeofIkoTuN:


Stop this thing na

My friend this is a place i know from 2005 and i attend his church

ozile1234:
i am a web designer, a graphic artist and a UI/UX designer but since i came to ph i haven't been able to secure any job, i mean not employment job because am a corper here and still serving, most startups company i went to for branding never called back, don't know if my price is too high.
but the way it is now i want to start something different, any business i can do on my own do you guys have any idea.

Oga go for pos business, nothing will happen to your money

OyeofIkoTuN:
whether he tried to stop the exercise or not,I believed he bought the land and paid his taxes..

He has every right to be bitter and pained but you beat him up and still demolish his sweat is trash and unacceptable

My friend he did not buy anything, he use his influence to build some structure on that gutter

Rhozabeth:
This sounds very much like a nollywood story!

Whatever you see in Nollywood happened in real life

Datboredberri:
You got her arrested for what? Having an abortion? It's her body... If you want the child, carry it yourself!

This is sheer stupidity... What right do you have to arrest her? None! The police are criminally minded and you took advantage of that...

You wouldn't even raise that child alone... Still expect her to breatfeed and raise your brat...

Do you know what it means to carry a child to full term? You insensitive twàt...

Go get a uterus if you desire children...

Abortion is against the law in Nigeria

It's obvious you are still a kid, who still care about Facebook like, leave woman and face your life

That's the only thing they know how to do

Yoruba urchins have mine his head

Yoruba land is on fire , president should declare all Yoruba land state of emergency

SultanOfPuna:

Continue decieving yourself
Oldies fear God pass Americans wey no send God.
But the same oldies live in horrible conditions while Americans have decent welfare, electricity, and more.
If it is by fearing God, the oldies would have been more developed and advanced than Americans that dont fear God.

American no send GOD but all their currencies says in GOD we trust, my brother talk for yourself

Go and kill yourself with Nigerian girls filled with STD

They're mostly here

Some girls is open minded while some are not, she maybe inviting you into her life or maybe not, just calm down and watch how things unfold

FERNANDEZISBACK:
What an intelligent guy you are..

The only people praise here is idiots like op