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jawalis:
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Forget all those guys making mouth how long they stay there it only end after 10 to 15 minutes

BaddieFreak:
Women wants mature men not cry babies who is always looking for validation from friends and family.

Women wants a secure man not a mummy's boy. We don't want to date a man who makes us feel unsafe.

Women wants to be listened to, we want to be heard.

Women wants a man who is honest and trustworthy and has a huge respect for us.

Women wants a man who will be quick to apologise if he does something wrong not a man who is always defensive when he is wrong.

Women want confident and not an overbearing man.

Last but not the least, women wants a generous man who will be able to take care of us, take us shopping, buy us gifts and surprise us with credit alerts.

Do all these and watch how your woman will reciprocate the love.

I don’t know who brought you into this world but you need mental evaluation

That’s how stupid Yoruba youth are, they don’t think of any other thing in their useless brain

Cumminsdiesel:
I am heartbroken and I just cannot type but I am trying to . I met my wife 4 years ago and we dated for two years before getting married . I never saw the signs of lesbianism in her . She was loving , caring and full of life and fun to be with . I immediately proceeded with marriage thinking I have found the right one . Got married and she refused me torching her on the night of the marriage . I thought she was tired . I have never touched my wife since two years of marriage . I have never seen her underwear . She complains of having pains all over but I reminded her that the last time I touched her was a month to our wedding . She complains she doesn’t like having sex because of pains . I told her we should go see the doctor but she keeps turning me down.

I later found out she has been registered secretly on lesbian dating sites . Browser history with about 120 web pages are all about lesbian porn . She is also follows a particular black lesbian page on twitter where she watches lesbian porn videos of black women . She has been having sex with two ladies in party and she even had sex two days ago. I spent 3 million Naira in having a wedding . I spent millions in setting her up. Is this what marriage is all about ? I am heart broken ....

Oga i don’t have any pity for you, you’re very stupid

Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]

You people will be claiming redpill but small you come here and complain about the same girls you guy insults

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

I will advise you marry first. Make sure you trust her and make sure you both would be sincere to each other before traveling, after sometimes you can proceed her visa.

If am were you!!

Don’t listen to this man , there is nothing like trust in the life of Nigeria woman

IamD18:
Travel out and marry, else you'll end up sending your hard earned money from abroad to Nigeria for a supposed wife who'll be cheating around.




Travel out first bruv.

You'll see classy women that you'll marry there.

Take this advice, I have been there

IamD18:
Likes attract likes

Wait are you serious?

Who’s surprised? Me I’m not surprise oo

That’s normal to Yoruba animals , they have harvest her

anslem04:
Most of you chanting the hubby will find out ...will he just wake up n go do dna 4 the child no one is forcing on him, what the wife did was wrong, if the sistas can zip her mouth ... there are secret one must just take to the grave. telling her husband will surely reck there marriage, so much to lose

Oga he will found out unless he is a dummy like you

That’s what zzor and fatt002 will do later

Oga your ugliness no be from this world oo

Uyi168:
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Ok.
So why are u telling us

He’s telling you to wise up Oga because Na them they rush you

Zzor:
I don't visit guys

And also Bleep yourself

VTJN:
Nawa 4 this ur conclusion o, na ur type dey listen 2 hear say. once dey tell u say dey see ur wife 4 road with another man zoom it automatically mean say she done dey sleep with the man. may God have mercy on women!!!

Did you actually read what he said before you wrote this trash

Simplyleo:
I disagree with Umahi on this.

The best thing to do is for the leaders to drink beer and ukwobi with states' resources, then send their lapdogs to focus on what Tinubu is doing in Lagos.

That is the philosophy of ohamadick lamidi cownu.

When will Yoruba youth get sense

Really most of young boys of this generation is very stupid

Uzomacharles:
Should a guy be forced to marry a girl he mistakenly impregnate??

Crazy , which one is mistakenly young man? Did you dick mistakenly enter her pussy?

youngchopper:
pride price is paid as a damage to the family and not what African's has made it to be
what ever the parents of the bride tells you to do do it to please their heart in other for them to bless you. paying for bride price is like accepting that you raped the bride

What does Africa turn it to be? Always want to copy the white that keep us backwards

youngchopper:
Bride price is a scam and wickedness of man to his fellow man and it's a way of selling your daughters to the highest bidder
the first union on planent Earth was btw Adam and Eve Gen 2:22-25 and she was giving to Adam free of charge without paying a dime.
I believe that was the origin of marriage.
when man fell for the tricks of the enemy (devil ) man was kicked out of the garden and that was when man started practising tradition.
a very confused religion that doesn't please God Goodwill for mankind.
today Africa tradition demand that b4 a man get married to his missing rib he has to pay bride price( hidden list).
God made marriage to be free I mean free of charge but the devil made man to pay for it with tradition.
God's intention was and his for man to keep enjoying every of it's works free of charge.
Bride price is not a condition for marriage but only as a penalty for rape.
Exodus 22:16-17: "If a man seduces a virgin who is not pledged to be married and sleeps with her, he must pay the bride-price, and she shall be his wife. If her father absolutely refuses to give her to him, he must still pay the bride-price for virgins."
Jesus came to rescue mankind from bondage Colossians 1:13-14
if you pay for the bride price of any woman you are doing such out if ignorance Hosea 4:6
let's learn to start a new life in Christ and avoid this bondage of bride price and it's traditional abrakatabia.
the only biblican way of getting married to your choice of woman is to meet and honor her parents Exodus 20:12
when they give you their concert that's the real marriage .
parents remember your daughter is not a commodity to be sold to the highest bidder
be wise for a word is enough for the wise
say no to bride price it's satanic idealogy of frustrating man( tradition )
written by Attamah Chijioke David

Read this nonsense you wrote here again, did you really suck breast at all?

adeolaSexy:
I've been a guest on this platform for a very long time and today, I decided to register. But, one thing I've noticed on the romance section of this forum is they way men bash ladies about not having any inherent value other than their body.

I don't know the kind of girls this men have been frolicking around with, but all I have to say is that you're all wrong on that one.

Do you have any other thing to offer?

MeeztaFabulouz:
You can call me a fool, its fine. But I don't wish you my situation and pray you never meet depression.

My friend stop talking nonsense, not every marriage is meant to last forever, the worst thing you will do to those kids is to kill yourself , if you call your parents and her parents and have a meeting and it didn’t work out my friend find away out

MeeztaFabulouz:
It is really terrible to feel suicidal all because of marriage. I use use to see different news of how people commit suicide because of relationships and I always felt it was so stupid to think of suicide just because of a fail relationship.

Now I have seen it all clear that depression is really very bad especially when you feel so depressed in a marriage you work so hard and do everything to protect and make your family happy. Its very painful when you know honestly inside your heart that you don't cheat on your wife, provide everything she wants for herself and the kids even when business is quite rough.

She has no conscience and no regard for our union and our home. I am a guy that don't think about looking at wife's phone or suspecting her for anything but then after our first child she changed completely and as of today I don't know were I stand anymore because of my kids. I opened a business for her just so that she won't be like a house wife but she has completely taken the business more important than the family and wake up 4am to start cooking and close 8pm at night. Stressing herself so much but always complaining business is not moving and she is not making any money.

I sponsor everything in the home though am not complaining because that's what a man should do, but she does not have regard for anything or appreciate anything I do. Can you imagine I give her money for feeding weekly even though she is running a food business, she buys few food stuffs in the house which can stay almost two weeks without us eating them because we basically feed from food she cooks in her restaurant. I decided not to bother myself and just give her money to always ensure her business is moving and at least food will not be a problem for us.

One faithful day, I decided to check her phone because I observed a certain strange behavior about her and how she likes to off her phone at night or sometimes when I am around. I saw different chats with some two guys she claimed one was her ex boyfriend that just likes to check on her once in a while, and the other guy was someone I remember like coming to eat in her restaurant but she said they went to school together and he is working with a construction company doing a building project close to her restaurant. She also claimed that when they were in school he was asking her out even till they fished school but she preferred her ex boyfriend to him and when she had issues with her ex that was when I came into her life.

If the story she told me is true or not, I wasn't really bothered anymore because I know its normal for a woman you met at 26 years to have met other guys before you and obviously still has guys that don't respect people's marriage and still do anything to sleep with a married woman. But my paid now is because I feel so respected by many of the things she does and when I think of divorce, I only feel for my kids who will now have to grow up with another man or having to visit their mum and see her with another man.

Recently I have become so depressed that I have been thinking of suicide so that my kids will know their dad is no more rather than knowing that their dad is still alive but can only be with either daddy or mummy and not as a complete family. My depression is getting worse especially when I think about all I have done for her and the kids just to always make them happy but in return, she doest appreciate or even have any regard anymore for what is called "FAMILY"

Over 7 years now and at this point I really feel suicidal. Please I really need help because I make this big mistake.

Stupid black man mentality, if die now the kids will still live , think about yourself and how to live a healthy life , you can take care of your kids by sending monthly allowance to them, don’t die for nothing, she’s fucking many guys on your head make a move shake the table

Op

virginprincess:
Exactly, a broke man shouldn't be thinking of marriage, his thought should be how to make money, when he has made money then he can think of marriage.

What should a broke girl be thinking?

adeolaSexy:
When you are too poor to provide for the poor girl, why won't she take to runs to make ends meet?

Is this thing that come out of your stupid brain, you’re a disgrace to your family, you’re one of them

virginprincess:
You are not a real man .

I’m not and I will never be a real man for Nigeria girl like you

Misslilbootay:
Double standard lots. You all want to make your girlfriend a sinner but want your wife as a saint.

You all claim marriage is only beneficial to women and disastrous to men but the first thing you do when you see a lady in her 30's and above is to marriage shame her if there is a word like that.

You don't want a girlfriend that asks for money but are ready to castigate the ones who are so independent.

The average Nigerian man is stupid and that is why they don't measure up to the average Nigerian woman.

E pain you, who did this to you? Take heart