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TravelRe: Beware Of Phone Browsing History When Traveling by Benrosaria(m): 4:44pm On Dec 29, 2023
but it would have been indicated on his profile that he is an artist. all those homeland securities are psychologists. they are not dumb to question you and let you in. they are only reading your person and how to deal with such person
SportsRe: AFCON 2023: Nike Unveils Super Eagles Eagles Jersey by Benrosaria(m): 4:20pm On Dec 29, 2023
so much spent on jersey and yet we dont win trophies home. please why would an international company make our own dress. we are too lost in this country
CrimeRe: 24-Year-Old Housewife Stabs Man To Death In Kano by Benrosaria(m): 4:19pm On Dec 23, 2023
There is more to it. No be poor man story
Music/RadioRe: Rema - DND (Official Music Video) by Benrosaria(m): 4:11pm On Dec 23, 2023
That's why our videos don't get better. If you making us hear the actions in the video why not make us completely hear the actions. The door opening was heard but why didn't I hear his thudding ??
HealthRe: Penile Erection Beyond 30 Minutes Is Harmful To Men - Expert by Benrosaria(m): 3:51pm On Dec 23, 2023
Olodo professor but getting hard in 30 minutes 95 times a day is fine ba ??
RomanceRe: What Does It Mean When Lady Shares Intimate Secrets With You? by Benrosaria(m): 4:39pm On Dec 22, 2023
These are not intimate secrets of a woman. For the genzzzzzzzzizz


How about their sexuality, abortions, rape and assault. These might just be their intimate secrets. For any guy who gets a girl to this point, then you should know she loves to see that you became great through her.
PoliticsRe: Policemen, Immigration Officers Exchange Fire Over Ownership Of Outpost In Borno by Benrosaria(m): 12:40am On Nov 18, 2023
Islie:
[b]Policemen, Immigration Officers Clash, Exchange Fire In Borno Over Ownership Of Outpost[/

After the directive, the Bulunkutu Division police officers intended to “reclaim” the outpost from the immigration officials.


https://saharareporters.com/2023/11/17/nigerian-policemen-immigration-officers-clash-exchange-fire-borno-over-ownership-outpost
So reclaim means shoot at sight
CelebritiesRe: Micheal Ighodaro Weds His Jirair Ratevosian by Benrosaria(m): 4:59am On Oct 12, 2023
Blacks will forever be slaves if they don't quit the matrix
CrimeRe: Lagos Assembly Revisits Bamise Ayanwole's Murder Case by Benrosaria(m): 4:52am On Oct 12, 2023
Nothing still won't change.

We don't have a system

Let her rest in piece for the sins she has committed
Car TalkRe: What I Saw Written On A Tricycle! by Benrosaria(m): 12:57am On Oct 09, 2023
You still want to suffer?

Call 081499... Lol
Music/RadioRe: Asake - Remember (Official Video) by Benrosaria(m): 7:02pm On Oct 07, 2023
The sound production was better on the videos
PoliticsRe: FG Suspends N-Power Program Indefinitely, Begins Investigation by Benrosaria(m): 6:54pm On Oct 07, 2023
The one our rccg VP was paying salary for ??


Why this country no like finish wetin dem start. It's better you don't start
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: Photos Of Studio Where 'Island Fakers' Go To Pose Like They Are In A Private Jet by Benrosaria(m): 6:58pm On Oct 04, 2023
Treadway:
God is my witness, I had this exact idea in 2016. But I didn't work on it cos after discussing with wifey at the time, we decided it won't likely hit in Ibadan the way I envisioned. As soon as I saw this post I showed it to my wife. So surreal. I knew people are vain and would pay good money to fake it. As at then I figured people will be more likely to pay say 50-100k for a photoshoot session there than actually rent a jet. Of course it would hit on Lagos Island where fakers plenty wella.

Eyaa what would have been my pioneer concept💥..Oh well!😁
You only delayed your smartness. Na marriage cause am ??
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: Photos Of Studio Where 'Island Fakers' Go To Pose Like They Are In A Private Jet by Benrosaria(m): 6:57pm On Oct 04, 2023
Na now the Studio go sell. Thank you mumu Joe igbokwe. For advertising
FamilyRe: Man Who Constantly Beats Wife Says Cash & Good Sex Is the Reason She Can't Leave by Benrosaria(m): 9:06pm On Oct 03, 2023
But my endurance will take her
PoliticsRe: Preg Woman, Son Of Owner, About-to-wed Lady Died In Rivers Illegal Refinery Fire by Benrosaria(m): 9:56am On Oct 03, 2023
Please how were they able to recognise burnt-beyond-recognition
PoliticsRe: Full Transcript Of President Bola Ahmed Tinubu On 63rd Independence Celebration by Benrosaria(m): 5:51pm On Oct 01, 2023
3. "No one is greater or lesser than the other."

13. So why do you want to give hands to the poor and vulnerable?
PoliticsRe: Full Transcript Of President Bola Ahmed Tinubu On 63rd Independence Celebration by Benrosaria(m): 5:47pm On Oct 01, 2023
Reform isn't painful, it only needs patience.

Why is your speech depressing. Mr president
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FoodRe: Erisco Foods Arrests Chioma Egodi For Saying There Is Too Much Sugar In Tomato by Benrosaria(m): 7:15pm On Sep 25, 2023
Erisco wan use this story sell their product and officially grant her a job in their company, that's if she isn't an employee
PoliticsRe: We Can Power 774 LGAs In Nigeria Within 24 Months – Prof. Emenike Ejiogu by Benrosaria(m): 4:39pm On Sep 23, 2023
Adopting energy mix is the scam behind this fallacy. If you can power. Power your house and neighbours and we won't be needing testimonials
PoliticsRe: Bello Matawalle: FG Has Enrolled 110,000 Military Veterans Into NHIS by Benrosaria(m): 7:59am On Sep 22, 2023
110,000 x by allocation per head (insurance scheme for one month)
110,000 x 100000 based on they are retired military personel = 1. 1e10

See let them all die by the guns and evil they used in their youthful age.
PoliticsRe: Schools, Banks, Hotels Will Be Required To Have Fire Safety Officers – FG by Benrosaria(m): 7:54am On Sep 22, 2023
Instead of FG to work on stoping fire outbreak. Them dey look for office wey dem go dey collect returns.

Heartless black
PoliticsRe: Schools, Banks, Hotels Will Be Required To Have Fire Safety Officers – FG by Benrosaria(m): 7:53am On Sep 22, 2023
You better don't start what you can't finish FG
HealthRe: Dr. Umoh Michael Dies After Allegedly Working 72 Hours In LUTH by Benrosaria(m): 5:25pm On Sep 20, 2023
They are stupid. Their mates dey do straight one week surgery with no food. Passion is life
Christianity EtcRe: Can I Still Go To Church After Having Sex On A Sunday Morning? by Benrosaria(m): 10:27am On Sep 17, 2023
You can even mount the pulpit and preach the gospel, after leaving Mosco on Sunday morning
CrimeRe: Video Of The Notorious Cultists That Beheaded DPO Bako by Benrosaria(m): 8:35pm On Sep 16, 2023
Them dey put 100m bounty on them. but who dey sell alcohol give them
CelebritiesRe: "Shame On You Rema, I'm Deleting All Your Songs" - Gifty Powers Drags Artist by Benrosaria(m): 2:18pm On Sep 12, 2023
TravelRe: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by Benrosaria(m): 1:41pm On Sep 12, 2023
MimiSheWrote:
Hello Everyone, first of all I apologize in advance for the long note and also about my English, not actually my first language. cry

My name is Mimi, I was born in Nigeria... But cos of the nature of my dad's profession i have spent around 75% of my life in different countries outside Nigeria... Mostly in EU.

Well enough said about myself, cos this topic is not about me but about Nigerians... Our general mentality and perception of abroad.

Guys listen up... All that glitters is not really gold. Out there is not entirely what people think it is. And you might think just because I have spent so much time outside Nigeria i do not understand the struggle in Nigeria and therefore not qualified to tell you all this "nonsense"..... I completely get it.. trust me.

But even a random 3 years old kid knows that the country is messed up and nothing to write home about, we all know about the Suffering, depression and "starvation level of poverty" in Nigeria yeah.... That's why everyone is desperatly looking for a way out, no doubt... but trust me, JAPA is not 'always' your ticket out of poverty... Well 'sometimes' it is... but most times it's just your direct ticket to being subjected to racism,more depression,more struggles,several mental disorder,homelessness, modern day slavery and the list goes on and on.

Trust me... when it comes to hustling field, success is much more louder than failure. cos our mind was designed to constantly search for hope. which means you would quickly hear about the lucky 3% that made it big through JAPA, but hardly hear about the remaining unlucky 97% that found themselves in worse possible condition after the same JAPA. There's no money tree out here... there's no diamond river out here...
Is there more opportunities? Well yes, But there are millions of people that already done and still doing whatever you intend to come do over here and yet they are still in the worse condition than you are in right now.

You would literally cry when you see what most of our African brothers and sisters go through around the world in the name of Japa. And as a Nigerian?? Trust me it gets worse.. and your chances gets even much smaller. Cos no one trust Nigerians anymore any where around the world and I believe we all know why.

Sorry but I'm not trying to burst anyone's bubble, kill anyone's vibe or being a negative biitch! Naaaah I'm only trying to be realistic! I'm only trying to tell you something no travel agent would ever tell you and something people abroad hardly tell you, and even when they eventually do tell you...? You don't believe them.. instead you result to asking them questions like "why are they still there if it's that bad"? .....

Well.... You wanna know why most of them are still there? Let me tell you why... there is a psychological reason for that... First They are still in DENIAL. Imagine dreaming your entire life to travel abroad and finally have a good life, you probably invested almost everything or everything you have got to make it happen (your money, your time, your last hope)
But then you finally got there and then meet a reality that is entirely different from your life long dreams and perception of these faraway green lands?
I don't know if you know... but our brain is defensive in nature, it will automatically switch straight to denial mode... Leaving you with atleast enough 'hope and wait for a magic or should i say a miracle' (afterall this is abroad where magic happens?)
This is just one of the reasons why most of these people continue sticking around instead of returning home.

Another reason is that they are worried about what people back home would say or think... Because the people back home also got this general fvcked up mentality and very high expectation of people coming back from Japa (y'all need to stop it! Y'all need to get rid of that mentality, seriously embarassed) cos like I said earlier... there is no bleeping money tree over there! I don't know where Nigerians got that idea from in the first place...
It needs to stop, yall driving the youth nuts with such mentality, it's doing more harm than good. That high expectation/ pressure back home is mostly the reason our people are more likely to result to crime out here (so just stop it! cry )

I have met alot of other African nationalities abroad... and amazingly they don't share the same mentality we have about Abroad. They treat abroad as just another hustling ground and not a direct ticket to success... Therefore they are more relaxed and less pressured than Nigerians out here.

Moving Abroad is not such a bad idea though, it worked and still works for few lucky ones (including my Family) it would be wrong and biased of me if I fail to mention that..
There are plenty of and more opportunities over out here not doubt...
But what I'm just saying is that... it's not always that easily reached.. as most people automatically believe.
Look... Somehow all these countries are intelligently designed In such a way that it take back almost entirely everything you make out here from you one way or the other... Through tax, through mind blowing bills or random expenses around every corner.

And at the end of the day you realize you are nothing but a modern day slave building someone's country for free... And without freedom.

Most people screaming Japa in Nigeria are far in better living condition and more stable mentally ,more happy than majority of people in the so called abroad without even knowing it. Sometimes Instead of gambling and betting your hard earned million of naira on Japa, it's more advisable to chill out... relax and invest that Millions in Nigeria. I'm just saying... You would probably end up living a life most people over there can only envy and dream of.

Thanks for reading my long note... I hope this helps someone in making a life decision out there. #ItsYourGurlMimi kiss
Mimi what you said was basically the truth but I would.love t change a perception in you too. The reason why most of us leave Nigeria is cause no one wants to get there hands stained anymore. So therefore we are just here suffering from the sins of our fathers, which is the sin of living on another man's sadness. This isn't what happens in the abroad. The abroad gives you a life of getting paid by the energy you put into making life beautiful for each and everyone living abroad.

But over here you make money off someones ignorance. That's how the government survives too, so why do you think anything good will happen.


So please if you like share tracts about how life seems to be the same or a little worse over there than here, it won't stop the average travel agency from making money from the ignorant nigerians.

Moreso there shouldn't Be a travel agency in the first place. When there is internet.


Nigeria is a damn heartless place caused by the knowledge of god
CrimeRe: Gombe University Student Throws Baby To Death From Her Hostel, Arrested (Video) by Benrosaria(m): 3:04pm On Sep 11, 2023
Na the man cause am
CrimeRe: Nigerians Dares Armed Pakistani Police To Shoot Them, As Fights Breaks Out by Benrosaria(m): 6:14pm On Sep 10, 2023
Nigerians become bold and confident when they leave their birth place😢 🥺 😩 😭 💔
CrimeRe: Missing FUOYE Student, Atanda Deborah Found Dead In Shallow Grave (Graphic) by Benrosaria(m): 7:10am On Sep 07, 2023
Aonkuuse:
Source: https://trendygists.com/2023/09/06/missing-fuoye-student-atanda-modupe-deborah-found-dead-in-shallow-grave-photos/
But truthfully is this how we would be living in Nigeria.

Never knowing the cause of anyones death.

Intentions lead to death and death is a mistake

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