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Kayberg:
1. Thou shalt be decent and thine wife, if ye shall truly follow that which was written in the Holy Bible.
2. Thou shalt not condemn the sayings of the LORD thy GOD because thou wast consumed by the desires of thine heart.
3. Thou hast taken wrath in thine heart out of the abundance of covetousness and lusts in thine heart, because thou wouldst not that thou shouldst keep the commandment of the LORD thy GOD.
4. Cast not thine errors on what thou has conceived in thine heart and accuse the word of the LORD thy GOD for being unjust.
5. Thou didst mention king David and his error when he didst take to himself the wife of his soldier Uriah as a cause that the king couldst not take to himself many wives, but thou didst err for thou canst even remember that the LORD his GOD spoke thus unto him after that he had done the evil in the sight of the LORD:


2 Samuel 12 (KJV)
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¹ And the LORD sent Nathan unto David. And he came unto him, and said unto him, There were two men in one city; the one rich, and the other poor.
² The rich man had exceeding many flocks and herds:
³ But the poor man had nothing, save one little ewe lamb, which he had bought and nourished up: and it grew up together with him, and with his children; it did eat of his own meat, and drank of his own cup, and lay in his bosom, and was unto him as a daughter.
⁴ And there came a traveller unto the rich man, and he spared to take of his own flock and of his own herd, to dress for the wayfaring man that was come unto him; but took the poor man's lamb, and dressed it for the man that was come to him.
⁵ And David's anger was greatly kindled against the man; and he said to Nathan, As the LORD liveth, the man that hath done this thing shall surely die:
⁶ And he shall restore the lamb fourfold, because he did this thing, and because he had no pity.
⁷ And Nathan said to David, Thou art the man. Thus saith the LORD God of Israel, I anointed thee king over Israel, and I delivered thee out of the hand of Saul;
⁸ And I gave thee thy master's house, and thy master's wives into thy bosom, and gave thee the house of Israel and of Judah; and if that had been too little, I would moreover have given unto thee such and such things.
⁹ Wherefore hast thou despised the commandment of the LORD, to do evil in his sight? thou hast killed Uriah the Hittite with the sword, and hast taken his wife to be thy wife, and hast slain him with the sword of the children of Ammon.
¹⁰ Now therefore the sword shall never depart from thine house; because thou hast despised me, and hast taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be thy wife.
¹¹ Thus saith the LORD, Behold, I will raise up evil against thee out of thine own house, and I will take thy wives before thine eyes, and give them unto thy neighbour, and he shall lie with thy wives in the sight of this sun.
¹² For thou didst it secretly: but I will do this thing before all Israel, and before the sun.
¹³ And David said unto Nathan, I have sinned against the LORD. And Nathan said unto David, The LORD also hath put away thy sin; thou shalt not die.
¹⁴ Howbeit, because by this deed thou hast given great occasion to the enemies of the LORD to blaspheme, the child also that is born unto thee shall surely die.
¹⁵ And Nathan departed unto his house. And the LORD struck the child that Uriah's wife bare unto David, and it was very sick.
¹⁶ David therefore besought God for the child; and David fasted, and went in, and lay all night upon the earth.
¹⁷ And the elders of his house arose, and went to him, to raise him up from the earth: but he would not, neither did he eat bread with them.
¹⁸ And it came to pass on the seventh day, that the child died. And the servants of David feared to tell him that the child was dead: for they said, Behold, while the child was yet alive, we spake unto him, and he would not hearken unto our voice: how will he then vex himself, if we tell him that the child is dead?

King David hast access unto women. He had unto himself concubines and wives. Woman wast not the problem of king David.
Therefore, I'll advise thee that thou tender an apology to the LORD thy GOD for thou hast spoken these things against the heavens and not in favour of thine own religion.

You are fear mongering. The Bible records that David killed another man to take over his wife - this is scarcity mentality.

You can quote Bible verses or try to use God to stir fear but that tactic is old and no longer works. We must stick to the facts.

Guyman02:
Western media with Russia and Putin obsession. America spent 4 years of Trump discussing Putin and Russian meddling in their elections while China was expanding its reach and Taliban were encircling Afghanistan which America's version of Buhari called Joe Biden left in disgrace with people falling from US military aircrafts.

France, Germany and EU are in panic mode in Mali because their Govt wants to invite Russia to help them deal with 'Islamic' extremists which France has been 'helping' Mali to fight in 20 years while stealing so much mineral resources.

France knows that Putin shows no mercy to western funded 'Islamic' terrorists as we see in Syria, that's why we are getting all these smear campaigns, Putin said it's the work of God to forgive terrorists while his own job is to send them to meet God.

General Ihejirika went to Russia to acquire weapons when Obama refused selling weapons to fight Boko Haram and brought mercenaries from South Africa called Dogs of War (this is why an Igbo man can't smell the position of Chief of Army Staff under Buhari because they will destroy the bandits ,) northern elders panicked and begged Obama to sabotage the effort which he did.

Every terrorist dreads Russia because they will chook bayonet into your nyash, CNN and BBC watchers will never understand what I am saying here
Meanwhile America even does worse in Guantanamo bay but their media won't talk much about it

I dont understand the bolded part can you shed more light?

Also based your understanding, please what needs to be done for Boko Haram to end?

Kobojunkie:
Your reasoning is disconnected... are you drunk?

How old are you?

a large number of people that walk down the isle today include retired male oloshos, retired female oloshos, baby mamas, etc. And why are you asking me personal questions and otherwise getting personal - please if you must comment, stick with the facts.

Decryptor:
100000% apt and correct!

Putin is a nightmare to Islamic terrorists and their grand sponsors which includes France, Britain and the "Democratic America"

im glad the truth is becoming common knowledge!

proeast:
Horrible!!
Little wonder why Russia is still regarded as a third world country. Having nukes doesn't make a nation developed.

Tufiakwa!!!

"third world country" is a colonial and imperialist term aimed at making you think less of yourself. these terms were invented by the white man. US, UK, EU all have military bases in Africa - why? I thought africa was third world so what are their military bases doing in the "third world"? london is a shit hole in case you have never been. and why is there no "second world". only first and third worlds - its a colonial term bro/sis.

ntyce:
And to some Russia is the best thing to happen in the world...

you are already falling victim to western media propaganda.

Guyman02:
Western media with Russia and Putin obsession. America spent 4 years of Trump discussing Putin and Russian meddling in their elections while China was expanding its reach and Taliban were encircling Afghanistan which America's version of Buhari called Joe Biden left in disgrace with people falling from US military aircrafts.

France, Germany and EU are in panic mode in Mali because their Govt wants to invite Russia to help them deal with 'Islamic' extremists which France has been 'helping' Mali to fight in 20 years while stealing so much mineral resources.

France knows that Putin shows no mercy to western funded 'Islamic' terrorists as we see in Syria, that's why we are getting all these smear campaigns, Putin said it's the work of God to forgive terrorists while his own job is to send them to meet God.

General Ihejirika went to Russia to acquire weapons when Obama refused selling weapons to fight Boko Haram, northern elders panicked and begged Obama to sabotage the effort which he did.

Every terrorist dreads Russia because they will chook bayonet into your nyash, CNN and BBC watchers will never understand what I am saying here

Are you even sure the story in this thread is not fake? The West likes to allege "human rights abuses" - to achieve their evil political goals. Maybe the West created the fake story - they can do anything to hold on to global power.

6. The truth is that empirical research shows that women do not love men unconditionally.... women are incredibly selfish creatures who are obsessed with whats in it for them and hardly make sacrifices; they only do what is convenient for them.

Techguy96:
In all the bible is thrash that no sane human should even follow.

Ha no oh I wont go as far as calling the bible thrash - its the Word of the Living God. Though I have made mistakes following it, they are mistakes I can recover from.... and the mistakes are from our interpretation of it (often wrong messages by overzealous pastors) and not from the Bible itself.

The Bible is great and God is great! Jesus is amazing!

But there are faults in the belief system stemming from human error in interpreting the bible that needs to be addressed.

5. Marriage is a joke because the guys getting married have bleeped around and the girls too have fukked around before going down the isle pretending to be saints lol.

4. The Bible calls sexual attraction lust and there is no clear line... the implication is that most christian guys are afraid of having feelings for a woman lest they commit "lust".

First of all God is God, good, sovereign and Almighty. This write up is not about God but rather is about ways human beings have twisted the Word of God to cause fear and suppression of human sexuality.

1. If King David in the Bible had many female friends (easy as king), he would not have gotten desperate to kill another man to take over the wife... He would have simply picked a new wife from his numerous female friends...this shows David was over doing christianity, if he had actually relaxed and had not been obsessed with monogamy, he would not have been cursed by God.

2. My opinion - The bible paints a deceitful picture of women as far as relationships are concerned - for example Proverbs says "rejoice in the wife of your youth"...this paints a picture of young women wanting to settle down... but the truth is that the vast majority of women only wanna settle down in their mid to late 20s after they have had their fun.

3. The bible also says if any man cant contain let him go and marry lest he burn with passion. again this is deceitful, truth is guys are attracted to hot young thangz, at the age most women wanna marry they have lost quite a bit of their attractiveness - so a woman marrying at 29 wont help me contain anything. I would still be lusting after university students (cant help it - its biology) after Ive married her unless she is among those that really took care of her body well.

JustNumb:
Hey guys I'll just be brief.

Straight to the point.

My wife is having an emotional affair.

Whats making it worse?

It's with a pastor with wife and children. Her pastor when she was in another state.

Now they're both in different states.

How did I know?

I saw her chat with him about 2+ years ago, and saw all the sweet name calling, the pet names and how they tell each other their activities of the day and even marital problems.

All the red flags and checklist of an emotional affair have been ticked by them.

The only thing remaining is the sexual part.

We've been married for some years now, she was a virgin when I married her though I'm 100% sure they have not met since we got married.

But the issue here is that this is causing serious friction in our marriage.

When I first saw it, I gave some time to be sure and I confronted her and she denied and said he's just her pastor (denial is one of the checklist).

Some months later they didn't stop the communication, I was about to tell her mum cos she visited. She pleaded and I let it slide.

Fast forward to 2021 they are still in communication. This time around the so called pastor is even always reminding her to clear chats so I won't see it.

Now emotional affair is actually worse than sexual affair
This pastor has a wife. I just pity the wife cos I can imagine how she would also be feeling.

I provide for the home, I also had to change from biz to the one that makes me travel to something that makes me work from home so she won't say it's cos I'm not always around.

We struggle with our sex life. What do I mean? She doesn't like sex. She doesn't mind if we stay 1 year without sex.

But me I'm a man with sexual needs.

Now when I see the way she doesn't like sex and I remember this emotional affair, it drives me crazy.


Those who have passed thru this, how did you overcome this challenge?
I don't want a broken home for my children cos sometimes I feel like calling her people and telling them to take their daughter back. Infact I'll dash them the bride price.

Do I go and get a side chick? But that won't solve my problem.

Guys come to my aid.

Cos if we discuss this again, this will be the 3rd time we're talking about same issue and same guy.

Sorry wasn't brief

human beings are polygamous in nature....know this and know peace.

1. We are in the animal kingdom; it's all about natural selection and survival of the fittest.

2. Men gravitate towards the youngest girl they can get.

3. Most women cheat themselves by being in unserious relationships in their prime and giving their husband evening newspaper; since men gravitate towards hot young things it's only natural the husband will have a side chick! in this instance the woman cheated on herself by dating boyfriends instead of the husband from the get go.

4. Monogamy is unnatural to men but sleeping around isn't good either.

frozen70:
The women I know are not accessories, unless your mother who is a woman is an accessories

All women are accessories (not a derogatory term). Women only do what's best for them are quite selfish and do not love men unconditionally.

frozen70:
The women I know are not accessories, unless your mother who is a woman is an accessories

I knew the "your mother" crew would soon arrive.

frozen70:
If some one you have been good to neglects you when you are down
Then be rest assured that your happiness has no business with the person

yes na don't you know women are accessories?

i would rather be made complete by Belzeebub than be made complete by a woman!

Acidosis:
Go and make all the money in the world and let your 10 year old son and your 15 year old daughter catch you cheating on their mother then come back for this discussion.

there's nothing like "cheating". most girls cheat themselves by marrying late. guys go for hot young things that's just the way it is.

Islie:
http://saharareporters.com/2021/10/05/buhari-approves-n75000-stipend-semester-students-studying-education

Buhari is the best thing that ever happened to Nigeria. if you have a state specific problem blame the state governor and leave Buhari alone.

God bless Pmb

MyOleSolksjaer:
Dear All,

I need your candid advise on these matters that touch the heart. I got married last year to the mother of my beautiful daughter sometime in August last year during the COVID lock down. The marriage was against my wishes and due to parental pressure. Prior to marrying my wife, I was doing a good job by making sure I take good care of my daughter and the mom. My daughter just turned 2 in July and has already started going to school. My wife and I met online and started dating immediately after our first sexual encounter. Along the line she got pregnant and we started having misunderstandings. We both decided we will keep the baby because I made a vow with God not to abort any child with any woman I impregnate.

However, to cut the story short we both agreed we won't get married and her parents were cool with it as long as I take care of their daughter and my child. Then came COVID and during the events of the lockdown, I entered into a relationship with a Chemical Engineer that earns a 7 figure monthly salary. The relationship lasted for months but my mom never supported the relationship and did everything to make sure I break up with this lovely lady in a bid to marry my baby mama. I was against it knowing fully well that she is very quarrelsome and dramatic. I had inner peace with my lockdown girlfriend. Till now I still miss her and want to be with her despite being married to my wife who is always looking for ways to suspect me for one thing or the other. She has even threatened that if she catch me cheating, she will cheat back.

My marriage for the past 1 year has been full of problems, drama, and even attempted violence. My wife just graduated from Uni and is about to go in for her NYSC. I am even praying she gets posted out of Lagos preferably the North. This marriage has drained me of all my resources and has taken away a lot from me. My wife doesn't appreciate the good I do for her and my daughter. She is always quick to judge me and criticize for every small mistake I make. She nags all the time and always want to pick a fight for bullshit reasons. I don't find my wife attractive anymore and I have lost every desire to have sex with her from the first day we married in August last year.

She gets upset when female colleagues at work call me. I had considered resigning because we had an issue over my boss at work who always calls me for work related stuff. I am not on good terms with my mom because she engineered this marriage against my own wishes. My wife and I don't have a good relationship. It has gotten so bad that we don't sleep in the same room anymore. I had to leave the house for some time to stay in an accommodation provided by my work place so I can have inner peace and regain my sanity.

I am so pained because of my relationship that ended abruptly. I tried getting back with my Ex whom I still love but now she doesn't want to have anything to do with me despite how much I still love her. My question is, should I still try to win my ex over or find another woman? As for my marriage, I consider it dead and over. I don't care what my parents particularly my mom will do. I don't bleeping care anymore. All I want is my love to come back to my life and end this toxic marriage.

You just found a younger more attractive girl and are looking for "advice" to ditch the older girl you no longer find attractive. you have already made up your mind na.

Fame99game:
https://www.facebook.com/286467448164424/posts/2453674634777017/

Amnesty is a tool of the British imperialists. amnesty should leave Nigeria.

JaskanFactor:
Young people who have not yet had thier lives destroyed by racists oyinbo, tend to think there is hope for change.

They do not know that the racism has a goal, and its to wipe black people off the face of the earth.

99% of Africa, and Nigeria's problems are from the fact that Africa is still under colonial rule from Europe and all our politicians , public figures, and even top entrepreneurs are working as servants of colonial masters.

The same racism you experience on individual level in Europe, is being dished out to black Africa at continental level, All the economic problems, Security issues, deadly public infrastructure, lack of power, currency that even the politicians dont use, hospitals that even the politicians dont use etc. This is all happening cause Nigeria and Africa is still being run by Oyinbo.

But make sure you undertand this bit, africa is not being run by just any Oyinbo, but by a particularly viciously racist sect of Oyinbo, linked to the Nazis. I got to know this listening on youtube to the likes of Bobby Hermit, and Mae Brussell.

The only thing i can advice those of you that are still young and have your life ahead of you is that, avoid as much as possible anything important in your life that will have to involve Oyinbo especially in areas such as, marriage, work, education, accommodation etc.

Whilst you are complaining about racism, they, the racist are taking victims, they are compiling causalities, they are not waiting for you to get a reply on why they hate you so much.

As Bobby Hermit said, black people dont understand the concept of having an enemy, and what that means in your daily life.
The only reason they gave Africans independence was so that they will not be blamed for the destruction that followed, in Nigerians case no sooner independent did they issue an order for Nigerians to kill each other in civil war, and it was an order, cause they controlled all sides in that war as they still do today.

In ancient times, Oyinbo were not from Europe, they were from North Africa, and thier name then was barbarian, the names of their tribes were Goth, Visigoth, Vandal. Yes the very word Vandalism is derived from ancient Oyinbo tribe.

Europe, Europa is the name of ancient black queen, just like places like Scotland, Switzerland, Paris are named after black people, cause Europe and the whole world was black.

They relocated all the Europeans to Africa, Americas, and West Indies, Example the Irish are now called Jamaican. The scots are now in the ghettos of USA, the original French are now in Francophone africa, Haiti, and Southern USA, so that the real French language spoken by French people is now called Creole, the new French is of those who stole their land and identity.

And much of them taking black people land etc, happened as result of black people using them as soldiers in wars to fight each other, example when black Germany and black Britain were at war. Eventually they started giving them land instead of money and eventually they took over.
Cause black people were using thier enemy to fight against each other.

So that you must know that thier is some wickedness in our black people that is so stupid, you will destroy your race in order to fight against each other, and thats how we got from being called Human being meaning person with dark skin, to being called black people, cause in English mentality black means bad, its a derogatory term. Blackmale is blackmail. From human being to being called bad people.

So that when you look at the crimes of the racist, dont forget that your fellow black mans hatred is how you got to be a victim of racists.
Cause black people ruled the whole world, and used Oyinbo then called barbarian races as slaves, and soldiers for war.
The Oyinbo slaves were settled in European slavic countries, like Czechoslovakia, Yugoslavia, Slovenia , slave countries.

So that if you know the history, you wount waste your time sending out tweet to stop racism, for its a biblical matter now in progress.

Dont go to thier nightclub unless you go in large groups, its bad enough being around them when they are sober, being around them drunk, you asking for trouble, i have had medical operation on my knee to recover from their attack in night club.

They have the nose like dog, cause they are derived from the ancient dog headed people, just like we are derived from the ancient serpent people. But they are really from Wolf, and the diffrence between wolf and dog is that dog will eat bloody meat jsut like wolf, but only wolf will drink blood on its own without any meat, that is why in europe today they bake blood and eat, its called black pudding.

That is why they travel half way across the world to kill animals so that they can put the head on wall as trophy, i say that to let you know they have a blood lust, that is in part where your racism is coming from, they are used to playing with the blood of black people, and a 500 year habbit is hard to break.

Do you know anybody else on earth who gets on plane to travel 3000 miles to shoot animal in forest for fun and pleasure.
They worship the spilling of blood, its a wolf thing, its not racism. You can see it in thier movies as the pay detailed attention to blood.
Thats why British army used to wear red, they were called Red Coat, and why London bus is red.

You cant stop blood lust with a tweet to stop racism. Now you know whats going on in Nigeria and black Africa, and black communities all over the world.

Very well said @ the imperialists and colonists have never really left Africa alone.

sulaak:
It will only change when Africans wake up and build their own country to the point that Africa youth will not be interested in travelling to Europe.

It's inferiority complex that makes them go to Europe. Abuja is better than London. Rwanda Botswana etc are all great countries. Libyan dinnar has more value than usd

Creditalerts:
ask your great grand father how he take do slave trade born your monkey popsy

U are a victim of white supremacy programming. There are colored lizards than there are white lizards(geckos). In the same way they are white monkeys....we are better!

FalseProphet1:
Africa are more racial than whites, Africans kill each other, at least whites don't kill blacks living in their countries, they only taunt them.

This I have seen.

That's only because they are on cctv. We are better than the white monkeys trust me.

SpecialAdviser:
Access bank is a useless Bank. Better go create account elsewhere

All they know is to be merging and acquiring other banks.

Ekejoestar:
Na mumu dey love, make redpillers no catch you @op

Truly truly na only mumu dey love oh!

We take care of a woman but don't "love" unto mumuness

Decryptor:
Oga, stop justifying infidelity!

What happened to telling the 50 guys..."Sorry...I am in a serious relationship."

she could just be catching cruise with the guys just same way guys do the same. sometimes guys even bet on if/ who can get a particular girl.

RapistOnBail:
Lets catch a night bus there.

Lol not me and you oh. I only do 16+ where it's allowed.

RapistOnBail:

Very good. Not a bad idea.

I need to relocate over there.

I need the babies young, fresh and ripe.

Same here oh I need to relocate there and not marry evening newspaper down south. But 12 is kinda early though that's pedophilia- 16 is better.

Linx1234:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/romanian-billionaire-wife-son-five-others-die-in-plane-crash-near-milan/%3famp

RIP

Decryptor:
Oga, this is nothing new!

Did you really in your heart of hearts think that she was dating only you?

It seems you are a learner.

Nigerian ladies make the loudest noise about men cheating but yet they are the biggest cheats ever! If you want to know the volume of infidelity in a Nigerian lady, have access to her phone and read her text messages and go through her social media accounts like WhatsApp, Facebook etc.

You will see her professing "love" to 15 different guys including you.

See every girl gets at least 50 messages from different guys on social media on a daily basis. It's not their fault. Its guys that are thirsty.

If you had 50 different girls messaging you every day won't you do the same?