jobportng: Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.
I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.
Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.
When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.
Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.
Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.
We are in the animal kingdom there's really nothing like one person to one partner unless it's to meet judeo Christian requirements.
rottennaija: To put the west, especially the US in their place. When the west knows that other countries have serious capability, they will not be bullying them.
very well said. the West has been bullying Africa for 100s of years. With the new Afro-Russian alliance, Western bullying of Africa will now stop.
May Jehovah bless the Russian federation - Africa's closest ally. May Jehovah use Russia to deliver Africa from the hand of Western bullies in Jesus name. Amen.
Do not do business with French businesses. France does not mean well for Africa and is responsible for impoverishing and ongoing colonization of African States....
CampussNews: A 22-Year Old Indigene of Akwa Ibom state named Moses Ubi who dresses in corporate wears to sell 'agidi' has gone viral on the internet after an interview with BBC News Pidgin.
Moses Ubi is a hawker who plies his trade with a ‘corporate’ style and his strategy has earned him some worthy spotlight. His story went viral weeks ago for dressing like a bank official while hawking food on the streets.
The native of Akwa Ibom state said that he is the only qualified, recognised, and educated person selling educated agidi.
According to Moses, he offers a balanced diet with his food, as it has numerous nutrients in it.
The 22-year-old explained that he dresses well as a part of a grand strategy to attract customers. He added that once you like his dressing, you would want to taste what he is hawking.
Interestingly, he revealed that when he started speaking English as a strategy, his use of the spoken language was not good until he perfected it.
The young man said that the first time he started dressing corporately, he was laughed out by his neighbour but he kept at it because he thought to himself; why should he shy away from something that gives him money.
BBC Pidgeon = British neo-colonial media. We dont need Nigerian events covered by British State media in pidgeon English. Evil colonists, leave us alone!
Angelfrost: So, what exactly is your point in all these??! We should all hands up and give up all hope of progress, of freedom, of economic liberation??!...
That's too defeatist... There is a way out! It is called progressive and determined leadership! A leadership that is people-oriented! One that will unite the people and inspire them to economically revolt!
I have seen it happen... It is not a pipe dream!
I agree with you. In addition to what you have said we must let Europe know that their time in Africa is up!
Angelfrost: You are too negative and limited in your thinking... You need to change this mentality. I mean this with all due respect.
Leadership can never be denied! Leadership, true leadership births a nation that can never bow to external forces! Do some research please.
Quit making excuses for the lack of leadership quality of your failed elders! They failed not because their hands were tied, but because their consciences were corrupted by greed and lack of patriotism!!! SIMPLE!!!
Note: I don't deny the presence of external influences all round, but when you see leaders with vision, nothing will hold them back!!!
Let's use Mali as an example. France still thinks it owns Mali that's why they have 5000 soldiers there as we speak. They are about to lose MALI though and they have tried all sorts to hold on. Fighting colonization is not easy. Follow african news and you will start to understand what's going on.
This year alone there have been at least 5 attempts to murder African heads of state for failing to do the will of European states. It's all in the news. Read the news and follow african politics.
duro4chang: You forgot to tell us these people have stolen and still stealing. America and canada were also colonised like your country. These people have no idea but to steal and begin to blame others.
the Canadian natives (metis, inuit, aborigines, cree, Mohawks, etc are still suffering till this day as their land was taken from them by the British.
Angelfrost: You are lying and living in self deceit...
Indeed, colonization is a huge evil... But, what can be more evil than Africans stealing and plundering their own resources at the very detriment of generations unborn??!
Learn to take responsibility for your life.... This blame game will take you no where fast!
has it ever occurred to you that those African leaders plundering Africans resources might be doing so under western duress? this is what is happening in francophone Africa today. any leader that doesn't agree to steal resources and send to France is either removed or harmed.
Linusjnr: That's how me too I'll tell my children "I grew up in a generation you and your evil colleagues siphoned our oil money for yourself and your unborn generation"... Always shifting blames.... Spits
A lot of African States were colonized and are still either being colonized or seriously interfered with up until this day such as Mali.
duro4chang: Always blaming others. You are all failure.
1 year ago, I would have said what you said but today I don't agree. Colonization is evil. And we are still recovering. The colonized Canadian natives are still suffering till this day.
benuejosh: And yet again, the people will shamelessly want Buhari their perceived enemy to come to their rescue. Buhari is a good Man after all. Some of the Pro-IPOB Terrorists supporters here on NAIRALAND will soon say it is DSS. And nobody should say they are settling political scores. IPOB are the people doing this.
They were encouraging them when they first started, and if it is investigated properly we may discover most Igbos bought guns or contributed to arm the criminals and terrorists called IPOB who are now giving them unrest.
In as much as I condemn the evil act because we are ONE NIGERIA, I feel no pity for anyone of them who supported the terrorist group.
Buhari is just a good man who will definitely come to their aid yet again. The police they hate to see will be their last resort. However, till then, I think State of Emergency is loading for Anambra State.
at last someone speaking the truth. Buhari is a good man!
Explorers: This is the chilling moment Sarah Everard was pictured handcuffed in the back of killer cop Wayne Couzens' hire car before he drove her 80 miles to her death.
Timoleon: That’s a real nigga there. At his age, his esteem is still high. No settling for evening news papers. This is a lesson for you young guys out there. You are in your prime, you have the leverage to cherry pick.
#SayNoToEveningNewsPapers
I reject evening news papers for myself in Jesus name
samsard: Who says men don't help men? Abi because of the men who do something for the women in their lives you just made that assumption? Men have been helping men and some have been grateful and others ungrateful.
BMathew: Men Helping Men to become a Better Men. Please, People with deeper understanding should kindly review this with me. A lot have been going through my mind as touching the way men lives their life; (I just said their lives, meaning left with Individual's decision). I'm laying my emphasis on "Why men are not helping men to become a better men"? Listening to what alot of men out there had done for our other gender compare to their reactions towards thier fellow men then we can bold say the hardship we have now is caused by men(cus focus is wrongly placed).
I am not saying you shouldn't help other gender but let's see this together; If the assistance you've ever render to a lady is being compared to what you've ever done to your male friend (positively), can we rate it?
Note, I'm not trying to belittle any gender nor gender biased.
I'm just thinking out loud, if we can help our fellow brother the way we "mumu" over these ladies trust me by now most of our men would have been a better person achieving purpose.
My female friend posted something on her WhatsApp status yesterday stating that, You see Abuja ladies with iPhone12, designer shoes and bag with the salary of 35,000naira per month, is with the same salary? "what about that"?
"Another guy told me how his boss built a house for a lady he slept with once"
A man can swear Heaven on Earth that he had no dime on him if his fellow brother seek for assistance but they tend to show off, spend without even expecting anything in return for ladies.
Without vain repetition, When will men start Helping Men to become a better men?
men are mumu nau dat think with their deeks - are you just finding out?
Kenn55: You are partly right but I won't blame them. It is the same brain God gave everyone. They used their brain to steal from other countries to develop themselves even till today.
But other countries like Nigeria who were also given the same brain can't even steal from other countries to develop themselves instead they steal from within themselves to remain underdeveloped and also help countries like the UK to steal from them and develop themselves while they remain a shithole
If we have to be critical about the situation, Who is worse?
no nau it wasn't brains they used it was ethnic cleansing, genocides, mass murder etc.
European states also ganged up against African States during colonial era - esp Britain France and Germany...that was why they are so successful
Psoul: Not so easy for you to get most of those jobs especially as an African. Their Truckers is not like what we have here. Where truck drivers are mainly left for illiterates and those that take it as a last resort wen difficult to secure decent job. Another thing is, how long will it take you to get your driving permit or license. You even need to understand the terrain and have a very good grasp of the traffic laws. Getting drivers license is not as easy as what we have in Africa. Many of the companies may not even want to give u the opportunity to driver trucks as an African. They may prefer white employee.
Please speak for the nigeria that you know and not the entire africa. getting drivers license in egypt, botswana, tunisia and rwanda is even tougher than the uk. spirit of inferiority complex, leave this person now!
Kenn55: Guy, don't give yourself hope, UK and Nigeria are not mates. One thing is sure, they will find a way to solve their problem. They are about to start importing truck drivers from other countries . Guess where they are coming to? Third world countries like Nigeria. They are about to pack Nigeria truck drivers like they and Saudi are packing Nigerian doctors. That should be your concern
Nigeria is way better than the uk... uk only became "developed" by stealing from other countries for 200 years.....and today they are still actively stealing because if they stop, it will become obvious that they are poor...
barnawilla: Can Nigeria use this opportunity to boast our Naira, when men say there is a casting down this is our time to be lifted up. Nigeria seem to depend on this notion that dollar must be ahead of naira. Lets wake up.
Well said....its inferiority complex and colonial brainwashing. naira can in fact have more value than the us dollar!
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