₦airaland Forum

WoundedLamb:
It's actually funny the OP thinks we're in still in the era when superior empires invade and dominate others. Did your military earn you independence in the first place? If not, why do you think they're the ones stopping any super power from invading your country now? What even makes you think a country can just invade another just cause they've a stronger military? How many sovereign nations do you think we'd have today if that was the case?

it was a combination of military uprisings in colonies, colonies ganging up against britain and political pressure from other countries that FORCED Britain to grant independence to former colonies.

Dmerix:
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I am giving you the facts that UK military is still significantly stronger than I believe ecowas military combined. Why isnt there any African country that manufactures weapons?

See how Russia takes its territorial integrity very seriously - just because UK ship crossed into their waters, they have already given the UK a very serious warning.

Does Nigeria even have coast guards? If they do I am sure they are sleeping half the time. African culture is unserious.

The same laxity of 1700 is the same laxity of today.

Since Britain invaded Nigeria in the 1700s/1800s, till today Nigeria still has a poor military. Same as most african countries - they still have poor militaries. This means that Britain, France and Germany can very easily invade africa again. Namibia that was invaded by the Germans still has a poor military. Africa why? When will you do away with your lax/ laid back culture.

No West African State has deemed it necessary to manufacture its own weapons which could be cheaper than buying from abroad; this is an area Innoson Motors can be contracted to work on.

Between 1700 and now, no change - what a shame.

blekko101:
Every time I keep wondering if the society is ready for what is coming in a short while. People keep pushing that a man must not hit a woman, no matter what, which is a good thing by the way.

They come all out for you when you do, but smile and make jest when a woman hits or abuse a man in public.

Some will call the man a weakling for not fighting back. The best he will get from some folks is being called a 'real man'.

Real men don't hit women, which isn't a bad phrase. How about 'real women' ever thought of that? He dare not retaliate.

You hear the regular cliché "oga leave am na woman" and women already know this and they are taking full advantage of it.

Women often rain abuses on men in public at the slightest misunderstanding and often take up a notch by charging towards men with the intention of physically abusing them.

They cry fowl and play the victim when the man resist or fight back knowing they will get sympathizers. He will go home traumatized even for days to come.

Even in the so called developed countries for example, a woman's statement is admitted as true until you have a hard evidence to counter it.

Over there lots of men are already scared of getting married because they can lose all they worked for all their life in one twist of event with their wife.

Guess that's what gave rise to the growing trend of baby mama/daddy. Instead of pushing a biased ideology that obviously favours one gender, isn't it better to push a holistic ideology that says no body should hit another cos we are all humans.

We feel hurt the same way irrespective of gender. After all what's good for the goose is good for the gander.

Share your experience of abuse and how you handled it

A man commits a crime, police brutalize his face put him in handcuffs etc. Chidinma Ojukwu commit the same crime, she sits comfortably in police station why didnt police brutalize her too? Because na "fine woman". men are the problem of men.

But also men dont respect themselves and contribute to the problem.

this also explain why women very easily move on to the next guy that's convenient for her while the old guy is still "in love". women do what's convenient for them 100% of the time.

tnerro1:
That’s why some marry 4 , cause one of them will surely love him

before that woman "loved" him she saw things that will benefit her b4 she gree.

Lessonteacher:
How did you arrive at the conclusion?

Tell us if you find a woman that "loves" you. report back here.

Women only love men that meet their needs or the woman is religious and feels divinely obligated.

Love doesn't exist in a woman's dictionary. only pretences and calculations.

ictjobber:
things are still as they were 12 years ago. No change whatsoever... Hmmm. I wonder who deceived the black man that he can run his own country by himself

instead of progress the country has regressed in those 12 years and for those 12 years, solely presidents have been blamed...

but it's not about "black man" it's about the prevailing culture that Nigerians have created.

BarrSly:
Noooo geeee she’s trying to get you emotional. As a man, you should show no emotion, stay cold. When you meet a woman all you should be about is digging her sweet watery guts. I know you are pained but if you confront her she’s going to know she’s got you where she wants you to be so the next time she asks you for something and you say no or you mess up contrary to her likes and wants, she’s just going to get you worked up and emotional like she is currently doing.


My advice: ignore her and keep digging her sweet watery guts till she mother f@cking buhhhh when you are tired then you move.

stop encouraging toxic masculinity. it's okay for men to show emotions.....

GeneralPula:
Society is so unkind to men..

A man got murdered but because the killer is a female, somehow, some unfortunate beings been judging the case with sympathy..

It was a total opposite when Baba Ijesha issue broke over the internet..

Even a unilag lecturer was saying the girl is beautiful & gentle...Dem talk say you student assassinate person, you dey talk say she beautiful...I’ll sack the lecturer if I’m the president..

I wonder if the lecturer will say the same if the killer was a guy..

but it's men that are being lenient - lenient male police officers, lenient police office officers and lenient university. men sha.

Hassanmaye:
Give me name of one let me read abeg

1. The Rational Male
2. Sexual Market Value by Chris capetown

both available on Amazon as kindle books.

both books were real eye openers. wish I read them earlier

SegFault:
Smoking hardly does shit friend. See as you dey talk am like say na cocaine or heroin.

they all do.

SegFault:
you sure say you dey alright.

smoking alters the state of mind which can lead to impaired driving, an elevated state and an altered mind is more prone to crime.

VULCAN:
And would you have said that if the murdered man was your brother or close friend?

That's the typical selfish nature of the Black Man.

The primary reason why Africa can't get it together.

I agree with you. the culture in Nigeria is "as long as I get what I want, I don't care what happens to the other person"

Realtalk20:
Let's try and be sensible on this forum

Who cares if she smokes ?

smoking goes with crime.

If you take a close look, you will the Ataga man met his wife when she was 35 and he was forming matured christian going for matured singles.

soon the irresistible allure of youth overwhelmed him.

lesson learned: men if you like youth, don't form holy Christian - go for what you want. fathers encourage your children to marry at 18-22 while going to university. it's a much better arrangement than sleeping around during university.

SmellySperm:
That guy is knacking her already bro. But why should you even expect true love from these females?
Don't you care about your mental health sanity?

I've recently read from like 2 books now that females are incapable of true love.

Fedelma:
The man was biting to death by the same dog he trained.

the woman looks like a dog sha....

Saao:
voice of female or because I listened to her with neutral mind.

i mean you were persuaded by the soprano pitch of their voice not the bass pitch of male voices; its subconscious.

Chris525:
Self defense but after the murder she did not raise alarm. Self defense she took his phone after. Self defense she went on to withdraw 5 million from the man’s account until GTB had to block it. Self defense she went home living her life like nothing happened even after he was declared missing & found dead.

Self defense, a man who gives you access to his ATM card & pin is not a man who would want to kill you or has such in mind unless provoked. Self defense but you think in a fair fight, she would really stab a trained boxer 3 times and leave him for dead?

Its a good thing you’re not a lawyer. This straight road to death sentence my brother.

As someone with a decent background in security, let me tell you what happened. This girl usually a no nonsense Olosho. She may look innocent but she’s had the most ruthless orientation when she was getting in. The type that you take home & begin to size you up. Looking for pecks & clues. If you got stuff on you, they drug you & lift it. If you are a big fish & no chance to lift on the first night, she ensures there’s a repeat until she wins.

The guy gave her his card to get money; she saw the balance & went greedy crazy. Drugged him & killed him.

I agree with your assessment - quite accurate....
do oloshos get initiated? What kind of initiation?

Fragility6:
The two of una no go die well. U call stabbing at the neck self defense. She defend herself 3times to stab the man 3times abi. Make una continue. See human beings i dey share country with.God!

dont mind them; many of them are sick....

Saao:
my thought after listening to the girl, it looks like self defence.

thats because you are deceived by the voice of females....

Theoarhics:
You no see Buhari stab make the whole nation fir dey grateful to you instead you go kill person papa wey girls dey manage.

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hate speech against the Presidency.

mrsage:
From the little information available. She has a good case of self defense.

So far it's difficult to establish a motive for murder

it's easy to establish a motive for murder. she was given atm and pin by a foolish man.

the motive is kill and then have access to the money.

Christistruth00:
Stay faithful to your marriage

What is a 50 year old man doing with a 21 year old girl

Except he wants to advise her as his own daughter

it could have been anything. the wife may have been quarrelsome; it might have been an unhappy marriage; wife denying him sex etc

PrinceMajestic:
What is annoying me is that if this killer was male, they would ve damaged his face, make him sit on the floor with handcuffs, but here the evil bitch is not even handcuffed, her face still fresh and she is well sitted in a nice bench. Injustice against men, may agony never depart from her already miserable life including her fellow evil witches here on nairaland, sapphire, igbowoman etc, u will reap evil upon evil in ur miserable olosho lives for celebrating michael's death. Poverty stricken bitches

PrinceMajestic but it's men within the police who refuse to brutalized her face and handcuff her so it's men performing the injustice against men because men are pussified!!

ThinkSmarter:
With advanced biometretic technology based database systems, we can vote real time from the comfort of our homes.

and there is already bvn so this is quite easy to do.

loswhite:
Is there any law that states that a 49 year old cannot be with a 21 year old lady? What is wrong with you ppl?

And doesnt the man have a right to seek satisfaction outside marriage if he is not satisfied? It could be that the wife is quarrelsome and never let him rest, it could be the wife was not giving him sex, etc. and as you rightly pointed out, there is no law that says a 49 year old cannot be with a 21 year old. In fact its a good match as the guy has money. But im against the man for cheating and not letting the wife know - or maybe he did and the wife still did not resolve the reasons. or maybe the man was just greedy.

GeneralPula:
One of the things that makes a man way more a better being than a woman..

A man will surely listen and care about what the doctor says about the wife..

A woman will start nagging immediately..

90% of married men are benefiting nothing in marriage, not even companionship..

what most men value most is youth (though the men themselves will deny it). wives marrying at 29 or 33 after is not hot after sleeping with all her prior boyfriends in her prime.....

all the husband has is left overs. any wonder why men go for what they really want outside marriage??