₦airaland Forum

popez:
Even Southwesterners know that Tinubu can't win. But they won't openly tell him, so his fragile ego doesn't get bruised. Peter Obi will win SW, NC,SS, SE by a wide margin. It's not even up for debate. Everyone knows this, and it's part of the reason for the constant media attack on Peter Obi, Unfortunately for them, the man is very clean and upright.

We must not stop there we must make friends in northern Nigeria learn hausa and Mobilize for Peter obi in Northern Nigeria

Penguin2:
And how many of those millions are for Tinubu?

Kano and Northwest gone with Kwankwaso.

Northeast gone with Atiku.

Southeast, Southsouth and Christians in Southwest and North Central gone with Obi.

Where will Tinubu get the votes?

Even to buy votes sef Tinubu no go see votes buy.

Realdon1:
It will soon take mumu structure people unaware.
A wildfire starts from little point and spread all over.
Obi is a movement.
Obi is not just a mere name.
I'm OBIdient inshallah

I am from the North and I am OBIdient.

engrchykae:
whose interests is gej protecting?
The interest of Mali or the interest of France?

You know what's happening!

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ACRI:
Anambra has been lucky with WHO and EU programs in the past. The state is heavily funded in their health sector by these partners

EU is not a partner. EU are evil colonists.... they never change....if only you knew who those people really are....

Think about it, do you think those that invaded Nigeria in 1856 and Lybia in 2011 really care?? They only care for what they can get out of Nigeria.

Jman06:
Guy you're wrong! Y'all should stop with your generalisation. Many ladies even in their 18-20yo are ready for marriage! While many in their 30s ain't even ready. My elder brother's wife was 20 when they got married and they are still together and enjoying their marriage. I know many other examples. It's about individual differences dictated by factors like culture, religion, exposure and family background!

I agree with you in that a 20yo could be ready for marriage but then her parents won't let her saying: "she needs to finish school and nysc" by then she's 24....

BRATISLAVA:
And you aren't manipulative yourself? Has anyone made a gospel about that?

Red pill boys want to enter marriage looking for benefits and constantly scheming against women so that they can stay on top. Real life doesn't work like that. After a while, she will raise she's with a weak narcissist. And then you will know what favors men really receive.

You are talking nonsense.... for centuries and up to today, men have been exploited in the name of marriage; women enter marriage looking for benefits - so men should also do and scheme for what is beneficial for them....

Collinsaik:
in asmuch as going redpilled has its own advantages, it also has it downsides. redpil is nOt meant for everybody . if u find a woman that is good enough for you, That gives u happines, just jejely settle down with her like your mates are doing. it doesnt matter if she is desperate for marriage or not,

So you should settle down with who you are not sure if you are attracted to just because your mates are settling down?

blinking001:
Trust? You trust women? You trust a being whose emotions dictate their every actions?

Lol ur red pill dey on a different level ohhh u dey vex!

Yea I trust babes but not completely....

blinking001:
I can't marry a woman that lied to me about her age becuase who knows what other secrets she's hiding behind closed doors? It's highly disrespectful for a woman to lie to her man. It's an unforgivable sin.

Not only that but it also breaches trust....

blinking001:
What type of women do you guys meet for crying out loud? Stop dating or considering street/poor girls as prospective wifey materials because they aren't. Like i earlier stated 'sensible' women between the ages of 21 to 25 not just anyhow street biitch whose families are probably still struggling.
Nowadays, they are more women graduating from the universities at 19.
Most sensible girls from rich/ middle class homes are graduates already before they turn 21 years of age. You should work your ass out to be that high value man she would want to settle down with at 21.

Marrying a 30 year old woman is like settling for a naija use car when you can afford a better tear rubber car. It's a major disservice to ones soul.

You disrespect your physical and spiritual self the moment you decide to settle down with a 30 year old woman because she has nothing to offer you.

A womans worth is in her youthfulness, her body, her ability to be feminine, her ability to be easily agreeable, submissiveness and loyal. not in her career, Phds and societal placement. Know the difference.

A 30 year old woman in the sexual market place is worthless.

Me I dey tell u the era of marriage to 19 yos is long gone. Even their parents sef no go gree.

blinking001:
My brother no mind dem. I don tire with all this their analogies. When it boils down to women, age matters alot. That is how some of them will foolishly get married to a 35 old woman and be praying for fruit of the womb. Lol

You have a good point here oh.... very good point. I also think it speaks to the woman's real character for her to want me to work to her timeline.... as opposed to letting things flow naturally....I.e. for her to have asked me after just 6 months of telephone long distance talking what plans I hv....

blinking001:
What type of women do you guys meet for crying out loud? Stop dating or considering street/poor girls as prospective wifey materials because they aren't. Like i earlier stated 'sensible' women between the ages of 21 to 25 not just anyhow street biitch whose families are probably still struggling.
Nowadays, they are more women graduating from the universities at 19.
Most sensible girls from rich/ middle class homes are graduates already before they turn 21 years of age. You should work your ass out to be that high value man she would want to settle down with at 21.

Marrying a 30 year old woman is like settling for a naija use car when you can afford a better tear rubber car. It's a major disservice to ones soul.

You disrespect your physical and spiritual self the moment you decide to settle down with a 30 year old woman because she has nothing to offer you.

A womans worth is in her youthfulness, her body, her ability to be feminine, her ability to be easily agreeable, submissiveness and loyal. not in her career, Phds and societal placement. Know the difference.

A 30 year old woman in the sexual market place is worthless.

Let me ask you a question. Pls respond honestly... Would you marry a woman that lied about her age?? And why??

Ardar:
Tell me you know nothing about the redpill without telling me you know nothing about the redpill.

DEFINITION OF REDPILL AND BLUE PILL (SOURCE: WIKIPEDIA)
The terms "red pill" and "blue pill" refer to a choice between the willingness to learn a potentially unsettling or life-changing truth by taking the red pill or remaining in contented ignorance with the blue pill. The terms refer to a scene in the 1999 film The Matrix.

I don't remember keanu reeves choosing the redpill because of a woman in the movie. Lol

Nice one Ardar...for your mind! What are you now feeling like

Ardar:
Till today, am still trying understand how redpill only apply to women and not life in general.

Its like Nigerian males have colonized and turned it into a gender hating and bashing movement especially all these small small boys.

The redpill was never about life in general.... and it was not meant to be a woman hating movement....

The redpill keeps women accountable and makes men aware of their manipulations... other examples of female manipulation:

1. Using babies to trap men to be their providers.
2. Using beauty to manipulate 20 men into giving them money at the same time.

blinking001:
I quoted that 'F' moniker not you. For the records age isn't just a number, a womans past can impact your present and future both positively and negatively. You should have a problem marrying a 30 year old woman. What does a 30 year old woman has to offer you that a good/sensible 21-25 year old woman can't?

Females that are 21 - 25 years old are not ready to settle down.... this is the harsh truth. This is for a number of reasons:

1. Still a lot of options as guys flock and approach her everyday.
2. Still thinking she has a lot of time.
3. Her parents "wanting her to finish school"
4. Her parents thinking she is still too young etc.
5. Still thinking she can get a better man.

21-25 year olds are girlfriends not wives....

blinking001:
If she's half as decent as you portray her to be, how come she's almost 30 and unmarried?

Lol age is just a number... its not even about that.
The question is why should I align with her time frame?

I dont have a problem marrying a 30 year old woman.... but wanting me to align to her own timeframe is what I dont want which is more of a redflag.

I dont mock babes for age - its not cool - guys should stop doing that.

Some are 30 and unmarried due to life circumstances.

DBestDoc:
No sir
From your original post, you told her you’re not looking to having anything serious now and IF OTHER GUYS COME, SHE’S FREE TO GO.

A decent girl will have to close one chapter before opening another one to avoid a case of “ we were dating and I suddenly saw her wedding IV online”.

Some people are not wired to be deceitful.
So yeah, she did nothing and agreed it’s not your fault that she feels ready for marriage but don’t condemn her for doing the right thing.

From my original post I said I'm not looking to rush into anything meaning I don't want to rush it.(the courting process).... moreover I'm a plain and honest person and the girl is manipulative and calculated....

She's not a bad woman.

What will be will be.....

My point is just because a woman wants to get married within 6 months does not mean I hv to align with that. The babe should align to my own time frames.....that's why it's a market.... these days everyone is doing what's convenient for them. I'd never waste any girls time cos I believe in God nor will I ever lie to anybody Inc about my age or number of partners.....that's manipulation and it's not acceptable

DBestDoc:
Keep deceiving yourself while claiming redpill

You said she looks 30 already yeah?
So in your head, you expected a 30 yr old lady to keep wasting her time with you when you clearly told her you have no long term intentions for her? Did you really expect that she would keep communicating with you while entertaining new love interests? So that tomorrow, you’ll either call her a cheat or an evening news paper.

The girl is a sincere person and not ready to mess around. Reason she told you from beginning that she wants marriage and not the foolishness people do in the name of dating.

You better wake up and look for a younger girl that’s not ready for marriage yet since that’s where you’re at now. The said lady did nothing to you to deserve the venom you’re spewing. She needed clarity of purpose after 6 whole months of dating, you gave it and she made her choice.

Only if you boys know how you sound each time you mention Redpill ee, Clowns!

The mistake women make is they want to do things on their terms.... I did not say I'm not interested I just said I want to be careful what I'm getting into.... I want to take my time cos I can't afford a bad marriage. I don't want to rush in and rush out...

If the girl was smart what she should hv done is date a pool of 5-10 guys and the first to express interest in marriage wins...

It's not my fault time is not on her side.... if time is not her side that doesn't mean I shouldn't take my own time you get it

There's nothing I hate more like thinking only to suit one's self.... she wants to get married fine and she wants to dictate terms including when I make up my mind.... it doesn't work that way....

Delight2014:
Most girls these days are so desperate to the extent that they will do anything just to get married.
There are a lot to learn in marriage which most of them didn't know, all they want is to enter into a man's house

Person were no know them for talk say this is quite a "mature" woman for saying those three things.....but to the redpilled, we see the manipulation.....she's only saying those things to look like a good deal....it's all marketing

luminouz:
So you have no advice but this little BS?
So he should date or marry a very mature woman with messy baggages and not a young, nubile and very fertile woman who has been tested and tried?

Your advice is something an evening newspaper would say. Very very bad advice

The truth is with a few social changes in the world, most young girls no longer want to settle down. 19 yo girl today no longer get married. It's the right thing to do but it no longer happens

caesymore:


last last na h

What's "h".... hoe??

I am grateful for the redpill for opening my eyes about the female gender.... the greatest thing the red pill has taught me about the female gender is to be on guard against their manipulative nature....

Met a girl recently. First she lied about her age (she said shes 26 but she looks 28 - 30). Then she said she has only had one boyfriend. Then she is always posting pictures of babies to her social media...

When I met her she said: 1. A woman must be working to support her husband. 2. The man is free to have girlfriends even when married to her that its fine 3. Marriage is better than boyfriend and girlfriend....

A part of me tells me she is only saying these ideal things because she wants to get married asap. And that she will change/ renege on the money aspect once she locks down a guy....

Fast forward 6 months, one day she tells me that she has a question for me that I should answer honestly: "What plans do I have about her?". I then told her im not looking to rush into anything that if other guys are coming her that she should be free...she then stops sending me messages.

Lessons
1. This is a desparate and calculated woman who said the below three things just because she knows thats what a guy wants to hear...
*. A woman must be working to support her husband. *. The man is free to have girlfriends even when married to her that its fine *. Marriage is better than boyfriend and girlfriend....

2. All she cares about is that she wants to get married; she does not care about the decision of the husband.... you do not want to allow the to-be husband to make up his mind Her approach is "are you interested or are you not interested"

3. Why lie - a 26 year old cannot hv had only one boyfriend in todays world - she lied about age and number of partners - should I really go into marriage with a liar who lies to suit herself??

4. She wants to get married because of what the marriage can do for her not because of what she can offer me....

Comments welcome please.... No insults or time wasting comments please.

asiga:
One thing is sure here;

Your brain must have been removed supporting APC and so you are walking about with an empty skull. So I understand.

It's not about any party it's about facts and common sense.... Britain bombed lybia.... west African countries hate France and Britain....

Has nothing to do with any political party....

funshint:
I think Boris Johnson is the dumb one here. How can he ask Buhari If he's still going for another term? These people are part of our problem. They profit more from seeing our country in disarray.

Boris Johnson is a stupid British Island savages like the rest of the other British Island savages!

asiga:
Boris Johnson offering to help Nigeria solve her insecurity and the old man is referring him to Libya

What a useless President..

You are the useless person. Britain bombed lybia. They are not a friend of Nigeria or even Africa. It was their bombing of lybia that destabilised west africa and caused the break out of armed groups. Buharis response was great ... Buhari knows wat he knows....

I love the response of Buhari when Boris Johnson said he wanted to help Nigeria fight insecurity.... Buhari told him to go and help lybia first. United Kingdom and Britain bombed lybia and now the British Island savages want to help Nigeria? White monkeys!

LordIsaac:
Never. Boko Haram, Nigerian politicians et al., are examples of World Most Wicked savages!

Nope.....British colonial troops are the best example of crude british Island savages.....British colonial troops and the French colonial troops currently in Niger are good examples of European equivalents of boko haram..
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Finally I leave you with this quote:

"The western European is a savage in need of native American and African civilization"

Trust mee bro....

Also Google Timbuktu manuscripts. ....

LordIsaac:
Africa!

Pls stop this its not funny.

Africans are superior to British island savages.

advanceDNA:
How does this statement of yours answer my question...i never said all women are lazy...

You made leaving their fathers house or rented house look like a hard and great sacrifice....i was just wondering how..

U even made it look like it's only them that leaves their fathers house to marry men who many times relieves their burden...im just wondering.. mayb I don't see it from your angle..

The men are relieving their burden at an age that they lost their looks and probably have health complications from involvements with previous men.....

BRATISLAVA:
You're trying to explain something to single boys from scattered homes, poisoned by the red pill. Beyond their indoctrination they have no idea about life. They have been told they have nothing to benefit from marriage, and they have swallowed it hook line and sinker.

Can't you see they've already determined to fail at relationships and marriage with their selfish reasoning? How can they enter marriage looking for exclusive benefits, why not marry themselves then? How can people be so myopic? Who on Earth that wants to be married goes into marriage with such a mindset? No wonder marriages are crashing. These boys crash them, then say they are crashing without dealing with their attitudes in marriage.

It's not about entering marriage looking for exclusive benefits.... asking to be shown exclusive benefits is to demonstrate that it favors women more..... the redpill is good because it makes u aware of women's manipulations