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Sweetlemon:
And do you know a working class lady can be a financial liablility if she cannot spend her income wisely and save money?
That's why I said that a woman's xter should come before her income

This is a very strong point... some ladies work but still refuse to bring moni.....

Sweetlemon:
From your tone, I can see you just like arguing and winning arguments.
Just like Alutacontinua did, look at the bottom line of my message and stop talking as if I said women should not work.
[b]By the way, a woman's traditional and foremost duty is to nuture while that of a man is to provide. [/b]So a woman can afford not to work but a man does not have such luxury. Same way a woman cannot say she does not want to give birth or expect her husband to be the one bearing children. That's why women generally nuture kids better than men. It's a fact that science can never change
Having said that, I have always adviced ladies to have some sort of paid employment for their own good and security. It's also nice to give financial support to our husbands every now and then to make the family even more financially comfortable than it is.
However, men should be more concerned about making more money than in looking foward to their wives pay check.

These are lies used to turn men into financial slaves for women...a man isnt saying u should give him ur money.... he is simply saying u should make ur own moni and use ur own moni to support urself

Grace045:
Mr man Peter obi seriously dodge a bullet by not having you as his vice President

Serious high velocity bullet oh

Martinez39s:
Ubunja really tried a lot and he earned all the respect he has. At a time, and for a long while, Ubunja was the face of the red pill on nairaland. Even the creator of this thread, GLYCOLYSISS, was once somewhat of a blue pill fellow on nairaland some years back; he slowly became redpilled around the time of Ubunja's miseducations and the time of others, myself included.

The time I really gained hoped that anyone can be saved was when a certain nwaezeemannuel (the former Ozo of nairaland) became a redpiller and started sympathising with us. Good old days for those that can remember.

Why doesn't ubuja post again

HonNL:
@President Yoweri Museveni



SOURCE

Jonathan seems like a western agent....is he trying to sway uganda away from Russia??

jeffmyson:
most of those farms are located in TIV Dominated areas. Please be careful if going with cash. I have had nasty experience dealing with tiv people in business, they are very primitive, narrow minded and self centered.

They are not "primitive"....its their culture and they should be proud of it... Western Europeans (italians, spaniards, British, germans etc) are the primitive people....

baretalk:
The Commonwealth itself is neo colonialism, do you know what it means to be a nation's 'commonwealth'

It's funny how we celebrate these games and not see the hidden agendas.

Means they are our overlords.

Well said....it means the wealth of Nigeria and Africa also belongs to britain

ikorodureporta:
Watch:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pSSWWjlmfas

Commonwealth Games Bull Baal Worship

At the opening ceremony of the Commonwealth Games 2022, a large mechanical bull was worshipped as part of the "entertainment."

While not everyone will agree about the many veiled Biblical symbolisms used during the program, you cannot help but see the comparison of the bull to modern day Baal worship.

No be una were dey worship western europe....anything western European is good to colonially brainwashed africans....

Reminderz:
this is what we keep clamouring...

all it takes is one wrong statement and you face social ostracisation” — IM

'No one is hated more than he who speaks the truth' — Plato
as you have said, play the anonymity card until you get to a point where you're untouchable... the odds are greatly stacked against you... don't be a martyr... think all you like but behave like others... freedom of speech is a myth... there's no freedom of speech...

speaking the truth will get you hated at least, fought or killed at most... you're putting yourself at risk.... your life, your reputation, even your family... Shola don't know what he has gotten himself into yet... those who are wise are now spreading the message anonymously...

just search for Andrew Tate and see the kind of comments and hate messages he's getting...

but anyway, they can only stop the messenger not the message... the 'message' will keep spreading whether they like it or not..

Why not quote African philosophers for a change....there are many African philosophers that hv better thoughts than plato....

Omooba77:
Arsenal started this session league with two straight wins against Crystal Palace and Leicester City.
The next call for Arteta's men is Bournemouth, a win will make it nine points......
Arsenal can make it to UCL.....

Why are u people so crazy about European football?

They dont love you....

Develop African football....

Pepperunfwago:
This is simply dumb comparing Nigerias justice system with America's because of your bigoted values

What bigoted values?? In america murderers are put in nice hostels for 15yrs annd released on parole; in Nigeria the same fate they meted ttoo their victiim is metted to them which provides justice to all....

The problem is Africans hv been brainwashed thru carefullly crafted colonial strategies

abbey621:
Oh I think highly of myself, my wealth portfolio speaks highly of me as well. If your IQ states that Nigeria is a more peaceful country than most European countries and USA then who am I to argue with you? Ire o

"The western European is a savage in need of native american and African civilization" - unknown author....

BloomingDale:
Tell that to the children you fools mostly rape.

Some females hv rape fantasies & deliberately put themselves in such situation; i hope you know that YOU FOOL.

So tell that to your children....

abbey621:
Sarcasm at its finest

What do you mean sacarsm?? Im telling you d truth..... problem is the colonial powers hv brainwashed u to think less of urself & your continnent/country....

abbey621:
Africa as backward as ever, 2 year jail sentence for public indecency? I wondered what she would have gotten if she was caught f*cking on a public bus or street corner......DEM GO CUT OFF HER LEFT BREAST BE THAT O

Africa is not backward, its Europe and usa where murderers go unpinished thats backward. In Nigeria murderers are sentenced to death. Usa and Europe are savages compared to us that are the most civilized.

BloomingDale:
Nigerian men and rape like bread and butter. Jail his dead ass. Nigeria men always out to kill, rape and destroy. Make una let us enjoy this life without always looking right, back, left and center for safety. The emotional torture is too much.

I hv a friend that wears hijab and another wears oversized sweaters for safety...not all men are normal.... so instead of arguing for ur rights (not that you do not have them), just focus on what keeps you safe....

TIP: Rape starts from sight- perpetrator first needs to first see what he likes, next step is to find a way to Lure and isolate the victim....

With this said its still men that protect females from rape....

Holiness2100:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=alQXHTAGfek


https://www.wionews.com/videos/storms-batter-south-and-central-europe-kills-at-least-12-508350/amp

Good for the savages who think they are God on earth filled with pride. May the almighty God visit more upon them.

Romanoff:
Sadly, we are still under this patriarchy.

Even the west where feminism came from self, a wife is entitled to her husband's money.

Under patriarchy a woman will be BETHROTED and careers were reserved for men.... the death of both ended patriarchy....u would hv been BETHROTED to a man after waec....

Romanoff:
I'll be honest with you, no woman wants a stingy man but still, the only woman entitled to a man's money is his wife.

I've dated a man who lied to me that he wasn't receiving salary from his government job and for three months, na me dey send am money till I found out it was a big fat lie, it was his dad who exposed him to me and told me to run and not marry him.

I never spent up to 1k of that guy's money. Imagine if I had married a guy like that. I was working and never needed to ask him for a dime, we would go on dates and I'd foot the bill and even choose places that he can afford.

Just cause a woman is employed doesn't mean once a while, you won't give gifts or send money to her once a while.

It goes both ways but the guy should do more. An elderly man counselled me during the time I was dating that lying stingy guy. He said "if he can't spend on you when you are dating, buy you stuff, take you out, make you feel like the only girl on the world while you're dating, he won't do it in marriage. My wife still reminds me of the things I bought for her when we were dating and the places I use to take her to, the reason she has those old gists is cause it happened and still happens. If a man loves a woman, he wants to take her out, buy her the stuff she likes, even when she doesn't expect it". I took that advice to heart and it helped me in my next relationship.

A working woman shouldn't be entitled bit grateful when you give her money or buy her stuff.

Once she starts sounding entitled, she done dey use you be that.

A wife is only entitled to a mans moni if she was married under patriarchy (which is now extinct) and not under western equality values...

shaybebaby:
And the article says that is beginning to change. Money may be part of the initial attraction, but they are realising that no amount of money can compensate for a lifetime of toxicity and abuse. So with time, they tap out!

U don start !! Babes are notorious for being into guys that beat them up/abuse them!!

And since the vast majority of babes "dont like stress" and want "comfort", its likely they will latch unto the moni despite the toxicity and "abuse"(which many cant help but be attracted to)

shaybebaby:
And THAT is precisely what the article is all about. Women are beginning to realise that material things do not compensate for emotional intelligence in relationships.

However, men, as you can see even on this thread, have spent all their time developing the latter and are sorely lacking in the former.

As a consequence, even if wealth tempts women to give such men a go in the first instance, it's only a matter of time before they jump ship with the realisation that their mental health is worth more than pennies men throw their way.

You are actually incorrect sorry..women are subconsciously attracted to men with resources (money) even if there are some character flaws....

1234IKECHhukwu:
Exactly what I was discussing with my sister this morning, about a lady that started giving attention (calling) to one of our cousin's who just relocated to UK this year this was someone that didn't give a fvck about him when he was in Nigeria,I told her is that not gold digging, but las las na them go here m' las las,b/cos age 'll no longer be on there side.

I dont think its gold digging....i think its biological for babes to be attracted to guys with money....

Im fine with it so long as they making a contribution....

IdiaofBenin:
Keep lying to yourself. Women are no longer scared of being alone. Peace of mind, no Mental health issues from the lies and deception and most importantly no STDs.

Good luck renting women. Many lonely men in nursing homes with no family wishing they didnt destroy their relationships.

Women are scared of being alone....several hv complained to me that they are lonely.....

Jennyclay:
Just imagine an emotional immature man without a job, house, car, business and money is professing love to me. Nawa oo!! Who wants to settle for less with Mr Nobody? Am i going to eat Love? Sir put your love inside your pocket. Biko.

Personally, I'm allergic to broke and poor men. Their wahala is just too much!!

Im a rich man but i demand that in the relationship/marriage, that you still make yoir own moni and spend it on urself....i didnt ask u to give me ur moni....i just said make urs and spend urs on urself....

wallarwallar:
Rubbish the only thing that make me feel lonely is lack of money. If u have money u will understand how useless women are cos they will do anything for money infact money dictate thier action thou we hv very few who do not really care abt money may be 3% so it is good and correct to say women are money slave so wen u hv it they automatically be a slave to you. Only a fool will disagree thou I understand if some ladies don't like my comment bt deep down they know it is the bitter truth

My brother na deep wisdom u drop so oh.... & ur narration matches with my experience...

In fact id go as far as saying women are subconsciously and biologically attracted to money.... its not a bad thing tho.... its only bad if:

1. They deny it.
2. They dump everything financial on the guy....

siofra:
A redpiller who's miserable and lonely will come here and try to threaten nairaland women with spinsterhood and Shiloh. Wonders shall never end

The article you quoted applies to the West and not to Nigeria....

plaindealer:
So, they've been peddling this rubbish all over the place even with the help of ignorant, unintelligent and unpatriotic Nigerians.

There's never been any war, conflict or acts of terrorism in Lagos state, in fact, it's the safest state in Nigeria.

Are they talking about the Lagos in Nigeria, their own made up story, Imaginary Lagos or just rubbish put together to sell internet clicks?

These reports promote Canada and its cities e.g. Vancouver as the most livable cities in the world....but i can tell you for free that Vancouver etc is like 171 on the list while Nigeria, Kenya etc should be on top of the list ahead of US, UK etc.

Pimine:
Same here. Be like say na only you dey think for this forum. Who are they reporting to? How do they ascertain that the report they're getting is not mischievous? Where do they get the money to offer as rewards? The person wey dey report while driving - isn't he commiting a traffic offence?

This is only great on paper and that's where it ends.

Pessimism....it will work....

emmaodet:
Oppress indeed and that is coming from a country that has finished oppressing the countries around itself.
Do you know how many head of states US has overthrown? And replaced with their own puppet? Carribean, South America, Africa, Ukraine in 2014. And the list keeps going on and on.
Don’t let us distract this thread.
Probably we can discuss this better on politics theead

Pls lets discuss on politics thread... whhat you need to know is that the people we call "Americans" today are descendants of western European colonisers..... no they are British French german italian and more recently hispanic....

America is an extension of Britain and Britain controols America!

harmargedon:
That was the same reason y'all took ships and sailed to Africa for greener pastures, but I don't see that happening again.

It will happen again because they are poor without Africa....that's the truth but Africans have been brainwashed by their media....

okeysoninv:
very soon many Europeans will relocate to Africa, especially southern Africa. This is what God said. bookmark it.

The dutch sailed to south africa around 4th April 1662 and tried to take it over by force....British and french savages tried to take over many African countries.

After calling us monkeys and 3rd world whereas they are the actual monkeys and 3rd worlders especially British Island savages.... they should stay in their land pls.

Binancian:
Ehem na
How much does the average person earn that they will spend 200k on return tickets

The airline operators are living in fantasy land....