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PoliticsRe: Remi Tinubu Distributes Free Decoders To Lagosians In Her Constituency (photos) by BigBen10: 7:39pm On Jul 14, 2015
aresa:
https://www.newerafoundation.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Council-of-One-Day-Governors-CODG-in-a-goup-photograph-with-the-President-New-Era-Foundation-Senator-Oluremi-Tinubu-OON1.jpg




The guy in blue shirt (Chukwuebuka Anisiobi) next to Mrs Tinubu was the first winner of the competition. He later graduated from OAU and Mrs Tinubu sponsored him all the way.
that name rings a bell. Is he not the present channelstv asovilla correspondent?

what a world ..." Chukwuebuka Anisiobi reporting for channels television news"..... that's how he ends his report.
PoliticsRe: UPDATE: Guard Averts Mass Casualty From Jos Church Explosion by BigBen10: 1:45pm On Jul 12, 2015
security agency should study whatever that church and its guard did right and pass it on to all churches & mosques in the region.
FamilyRe: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by BigBen10: 5:10am On Jul 12, 2015
freelance777:
Dear Nairalander's

How are you all doing? I hope you guys are doing well? I am writing this post to express my fears of the unknown, because I have been a very trusting and reliable husband to my wife.

Before marriage, my wife have once told me about his ex who is supposedly his best date ever in her life before she met me, that apart 2 years into our marriage, we had an arguement in which she confronted me about a number saved with a lady's name on my dialled list. I openly and honestly told her it was my old school mate whom I missed her call and had called back. But she wanted to know more like I was doing something shady, that got me all roused up and I just told her to leave me be.

A week later, I received a call from her straight from work that my daughter had a serious cut on her lips due to an
accident, I quickly rushed down to the school, but met them at the nearest clinic where my daughter's lip was being stitched, few mins later I walked down to her school where she works nearby to pick up her car key then bring her car nearby so we could all go home, surprisingly, I found her wedding ring inside the glove compartment. A ring she wore out to work that very morning.

I didnt question her immmediately until the night of that day, I asked her why she had removed her ring and kept it in the glove compartment knowing fully well that the wore it out that very morning, she said it was because I have had mine removed since the past 1 month, so she also had the same reason to remove her's.

A week later, she opened up to me that she has been talking to her ex whom I described above, I asked her about what? She said she has been taking advise from him whenever we have issues. I kept shut and moved on.

2 more years into this marriage, I recently found out that her ex had sent her a whatsapp message, but she didnt respond, so I opened up a discussion with her based on ex's. I asked her if keeping contact of ex's or communicating with ex's is good for married people be it the man or woman, she said its a no no, that infact she will never accomodate such and that its wrong for anybody to do that. I immediately told her to open up her whats app, she did and I showed her her ex's whats app message, she at first was scared, wanted to cover up the phone somehow, but due to fear, she slowly relaxed herself and she said well that I can see that he is just talking and she has not been responding, and that its possible for someone you do not have on your contact list to send you a whatsapp message, I agreed, but countered her saying you also have saved his number with Abbreviation, if you never intend having future communication with him, why then did you save his number thereafter? I didnt get an answer, until later after two weeks when she told me she was in communication with him in order to secure a job for his younger brother. ( Very hard to believe) I moved on.


A few days later again, I was on my way to help her fix her iphone which she has abandoned like a year and the half, something just prompted me to dial his ex's number on that phone, behold she had saved the number as 'rsif' someone who bears Williams. Anyway I kept quiet still. The the final incident that gave me a final warning that this my wife might be cheating on me unknowingly was just a month ago when she told me she had met this dude on the same estate we reside, that he was into business and had also gave her his complementary card, I asked what he does, said he is an estate agent, I responded saying estate agency does not correlate with what you do, she said at least he can provide us good offer for housing by the time we are ready to move. When all of a sudden, she said that same guy had asked her to help cook since his own wife had travelled to the USA to give birth. She asked if it was right for her to go ahead and do the cooking, I immediately denounce that move that it is wrong, and that the guy has another motive entirely. I told her to tell him that he should ask his own family member to cook for him, and that she should immediately cut communication with him if she wants to last long in the marriage.

My wife responded by saying, she does not think the guy has bad intentions and that he is a cool and nice person with a very mild personality,that if the dude has such intentions, that it would be the most surprising occurence to her. I said well just do as I have said. Lo and behold, I investigated her phone and I found out that she had already cooked for this dude even before she asked me the question. I confronted her, and she said it was because I might not find it funny and thats the reason why she kept it a secret at first. I then promise to show her that the dude was infact a cheater whom is planning to cheat on his wife with my own wife. One day, I impersonated my wife, and started sending text as such as that am ready to give him what he wants, lo and behold, this dude was responding and was even asking where I was at, that he is ready to heal my wounds, a hug and everything that I needed. I showed my wife the text message, and she acted all surprised, but I was not, because based on the conversations that I have seen, it seems to me that whenever I have issued, he rushes to call the guy and tell him everything, which was a good avenue for the guy to provide emotional consolation in order to get what he wants.

I apologize for this long story, but I just needed to detail this story well, so that I can get insight of what I need to be thinking, what I need to do, and the right steps to take.

Thanks all.
scold the living day lights out of her. Make her know you won't tolerate such nonesense. show hee your anger. Tell her if she needs to someone to talk to she can talk with a female friend or her brother.

you Bleep up up oh. from yhe moment she said she was taking advice from her ex.you wouldbhv brought down the house that day. sit her down and delete the ex number together tear the business card. feign anger till she come and apologise. accept then now explain to her how her actions are affecting you emotionally. talk
sense into her then tell her you love her and can't bear to see another man take the emotional space in her heart then make love to her passionately not gra gra oh.
PoliticsRe: Murtala Nyako And Son, Granted N350million Bail by BigBen10: 6:30pm On Jul 10, 2015
Gboliwe:
Jail Sule Lamido and sons, bail Nyako and sons
issokay I understand you now.
PoliticsRe: Murtala Nyako And Son, Granted N350million Bail by BigBen10: 6:23pm On Jul 10, 2015
Gboliwe:
Yea! That's how we roll. Up APC
I hope you are not being sarcastic ?
CelebritiesRe: Yemi Alade Rocks Alex Ekubo: Photos by BigBen10: 6:19pm On Jul 10, 2015
too much sexual ideas are sold through music these days.
PoliticsRe: Sule Lamido Being Harassed By EFCC While Amaechi Walks Free! by BigBen10: 5:15pm On Jul 10, 2015
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Obiagelli:
Tomorrow if the efcc picks up someone from your region you will make excuses for them too
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Have you expelled yourself from the SE?
PoliticsRe: I’ve No Northern Agenda – Buhari by BigBen10: 7:39am On Jul 06, 2015
God why are Nigerians so gullible and so want to
believe in conspiracy theories? Lord save your
people and free their minds.

How has appointments helped any region to grow? the East got alot of appointments during GEJ era how did it add to that region? the North being the larger part of Nigeria and higher population have been getting more appointments since I can remember how has it helped their region to grow?

what is this useless fight for? I honestly don't think buhari will just appoint only northerns for all positions in his govt. Lets wait and see then judge.

Its even more saddening that some supporters of baba have been swayed with this nonsensical sentiment.
PoliticsRe: No Plan To Arrest Ekweremadu – Police by BigBen10: 7:33am On Jul 06, 2015
God why are Nigerians so gullible and so what to believe in conspiracy theories? Lord save your people and free their minds.
Christianity EtcRe: How Jesus Reacted To The Worship Of Mary by BigBen10: 1:35pm On Jul 05, 2015
johnw74:
The rcc rosary is saying the hail mary 10 times followed by the our Father
then another 10 hail marys followed by .... and so on.

Mat 6:6 But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly.
Mat 6:7 But when ye pray, use not vain repetitions, as the heathen do: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking.
Mat 6:8 Be not ye therefore like unto them: for your Father knoweth what things ye have need of, before ye ask him.

Christians pray directly to Father God.
No one is more guilty of vain repetitions like our protestant brothers with all the so called skabash(reference to the word VAIN) and hanging on to one prayer point for minutes.
PoliticsRe: APC Holds NEC Meeting by BigBen10: 2:53pm On Jul 03, 2015
kennygee:
They should not kill themselves sha.
This one that Baba Bubu is appointing his brothers everywhere.
come on. Don't tell me you tow this sentimental line also. am disappointed.
PoliticsRe: Buhari's Appointments So Far by BigBen10: 8:02am On Jul 02, 2015
chuna1985:
u spoke like a child.
You could have just accepted I spoke beyond your intellectual level reasoning instead of making insulting remarks.
PoliticsRe: Buhari's Appointments So Far by BigBen10: 12:40am On Jul 02, 2015
chuna1985:
Let us tell ourselves the truth, there is no peace n unity in Nigeria, no need to paint things.
hmmmm. and so let's keep influencing young minds to become bigoted as our parents with the hopes that one day we will finally tear ourselves apart through a bloody war because that's where it will end if we continue like this.

If you don't believe, I believe we can leave together in unity like most of us are already doing not weeping up sentiments deviating us from our real problems(bad leadership).

How does identifying the region of government appointees come from help us in anyway?
PoliticsRe: Buhari's Appointments So Far by BigBen10: 10:11pm On Jul 01, 2015
the idiot of a mod that brought this to front page was not thinking about peace and unity of Nigeria but trying to satisfy his own bigoted urges.
PoliticsRe: Buhari’s Address At Inauguration Of National Economic Council by BigBen10: 6:16pm On Jun 29, 2015
Flets:
I dont really get this. ..... 36 corrupt governors and CBN president make up the economic council?

What are they supposed to advise on? ..... that the NLNG funds, ECA and SWF be shared?

What economic advise could come from lazy allocation seeking governors who cannot generate simple IGR for their states?, State governors that cannot pay salaries? Aregbesola, borno state governor etc are all economic advisers to the country now kwo?

What happened to technocrats who have been successful in their individual endeavours?

Are we headed forward or backward with this govt?... What is really Buhari's plan?

Like that is not enough, G7 will help us rebuild the LGs affected by Bokoharam insurgency and the service chiefs have prepared the military needs for handover and verification by G7 ........

Come on, is this man ok? All our internal problems are now hinging on G7 intervention.... Why then do we need a president?
You try small

but what the president is doing is the LAW. do you want him to break the law? even if its not the "best" law in the world.
PoliticsRe: Sahara Reporters Lied, Buhari Didn't Order Arrest Of Wife's Brother - Spokesman by BigBen10: 6:06pm On Jun 29, 2015
why are you people calling PDP and APC into the matter.

For me it is simply irresponsible journalism on the part of the media. This has been going on since after inauguration and has become worse.

Check all the initial sources of news you will see this quote "a source said" or "sources told....". Means there is little credibility to the story but of course our people do read and when then do they make the most outrageous insinuation out it.

Once I see those words " a source" I don't bother reading and take everything with a pinch of salt.

in a country with proper investigative journalism "source" stories will not be bad especially when confirmed later bit here in Nigeria iys mostly to create tension and generate traffic and readership.

smh vigorously.
RomanceRe: 5 Genuine Ways To Know You Are Not Her Main Boyfriend by BigBen10: 12:44am On Jun 28, 2015
nobosaba:
Dude, am 10years on Nairaland so please look before you post
lol. issokay. carrry go. I was saying that on lighter note
RomanceRe: 5 Genuine Ways To Know You Are Not Her Main Boyfriend by BigBen10: 7:53pm On Jun 27, 2015
nobosaba:
I hope you find this article helpful?

Thanks for reading.

Source: http://gist.mp3bullet.com/2015/06/20/5-genuine-ways-to-know-you-are-not-her-main-boyfriend/4/
I think op is new to nairaland. YOU WANT TO REKINDLE THE FRIENDZONE WAR WITH THE MEN AND WOMEN OF NAIRALAND.

This war has the potential to engulf both romancelanders and core political nairaland.

Op yaf been warned.
PoliticsRe: Members Of The Dissolved NNPC Board Of Directors (Pictures) by BigBen10: 6:42pm On Jun 26, 2015
fretnot:
Danladi Kifasi...Head of Service Danladi Kifasi...Member of NNPC Board
Do you see what I am seeing?
actually Danladi Wadzani and Danladi Kifasi
PoliticsRe: President Buhari Dissolves NNPC Board Of Directors - NTA by BigBen10: 4:05pm On Jun 26, 2015
ChaleeBendel:
He will replace them with the right northerners, don't worry.
stop being ridiculous
HealthRe: Is it Possible for a AA genotype to give birth to SC.. Are They My Parents? by BigBen10: 3:46pm On Jun 26, 2015
lemme call in the experts. bushdoc9919
Science/TechnologyRe: The Sciences Discussion Thread. by BigBen10: 8:50pm On Jun 21, 2015
celestinho:
this is where your dictionary comes in
don't be too wise. you can learn from people too. and from his explanation i guess it's a relatively new word.
Science/TechnologyRe: The Sciences Discussion Thread. by BigBen10: 2:16pm On Jun 21, 2015
Teempakguy:
I am an autodidact. I have a very great interest for all things science. And it is actually a dream of mine to become a lecturer. smiley
I am not a scientist but I appreciate people like you who have passion for their field of interest. People who can't be easily bored with discussing their interest.

I wish to see more Nigerians like you dont just follow the crowd but follow their passion.

Keep it up bro.
Science/TechnologyRe: The Sciences Discussion Thread. by BigBen10: 1:51pm On Jun 21, 2015
Teempakguy:
Ah, yes. We don't know. But, Stephen hawking thinks it is multiple versions of ourselves. sad
okay final question. what is your area of expertise? are you a lecturer? or how are you connected to science?
Science/TechnologyRe: The Sciences Discussion Thread. by BigBen10: 1:41pm On Jun 21, 2015
Teempakguy:
hahaha, well, its not like that . . .
Imagine you wanted to prove that all that go up must come down, you must acknowledge a force that makes this happen. However, we know that from Descartes first mechanical principle, nid action at a distance! So, a particle must exist for this force. They have no choice. Which is why highs boson was used in physics calculations before it was even discovered.

In science, we mus assume some things, or our models won't make sense.

You should know that they haven't discovered gravitons yet. But they know it exists. Why? So that the law of gravity will work- wink
ok I agree with making assumptionsbut you didn't reply the first part of my previous post.
Science/TechnologyRe: The Sciences Discussion Thread. by BigBen10: 1:28pm On Jun 21, 2015
Teempakguy:
a brane. It is a formulation of string theory. It has to exist for string theory to work. And if it does, it will be the biggest thing. It is basically a three dimensional surface on which our universe is. It is proposed that gravitons can escape from brane to brane. Hence the reason why gravity is the weakest force.

If branes exist, it means there are other universes out there! Multiple worlds.

Unfortunately, it also proofs that heaven and hell may exist. . . . if you are agnostic, that is.
does it also mean multiple versions of ourselves or multiple earths in different universe?

well for me. I don't like the logic of the theory. the proposer of theory is creating his own world in orser for his theory to stand.
Science/TechnologyRe: The Sciences Discussion Thread. by BigBen10: 1:13pm On Jun 21, 2015
Teempakguy:

Hi there!
Teempakguy here. smiley

So, I have been observing the science/technology section a lot recently . . . and I have to say, it focuses more on technology than science. I have also noticed that threads opened waste away, with about an average of two posts per thread. I think the problem here is a real life application the chicken egg problem. So, to solve it, the obvious solution, is to form a congregation of people interested in science in one place. Hence the creation of this thread.

So, here is how things go, we are going to be talking on topics based on the natural sciences. Physics, chemistry, mathematics, biology, and of course, their basic applications. So, if you have a problem on any of those, try and post it here. In the mean time, if you stumble upon this thread and you don't have anything to add or subtract, please make sure you book space. cheesy
I'm serious. Book space and tell us your area of specialization so that other people can mention you in their posts. Because, honestly, in this section, nobody knows anybody else.

Meanwhile, I have some suggestions. If you want to give a complex mathematical expression, do not type it. Instead, write it on a paper or board and upload a photo of it. Same goes if you want to solve it. Or you could use mathlab android app. smiley this is to make the whole process more interesting and easy to follow.

Any level is allowed. Whether it be primary school arithmetic cheesy or PhD string theory . . . you will eventually find someone to express interest in it. smiley

You can just come by and drop interesting or random facts . . . like for instance, The Pythagoras' theorem is older than Pythagoras cheesy

Or you can just tell us something yoiu observed in your daily life . . . for instance, why does a bar of soap form an hourglass figure after regular usage?

You can also challenge popular views. For instance, since toilet floors are the most frequently cleaned in most houses, isn't it safer to eat food from a toilet floor than a dining room floor. Which gathers more bacteria than that of the toilet?

There. I am finished. Oyah, come and occupy, the floor. Remember, small minds discuss people, average minds discuss events. And great minds discuss ideas. Which one are you? smiley wink

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what is a brand or brane? Never heard of that before. I thought we just have one universe.
PoliticsRe: All Four Refineries Will Produce Only 19 Million Litres by BigBen10: 10:38am On Jun 20, 2015
my problem with this refinery news is that no major trust worthy news media is carrying it whether print,online or television.

so I remain skeptical and adopt the siddon they look mode.
HealthRe: 19th June - World Sickle Cell Anaemia Day. My Story As A Warrior by BigBen10: 1:11am On Jun 20, 2015
bodashee:
Today I take a stand of solidarity with all our brothers and sisters living with Sickle Cell across the world. The world must understand that these in these beautiful souls lie the greatest measure of strength known to man. They are not Sicklers. They are Warriors.
errmmm sister. you are pretty.
PoliticsRe: NNPC Doesn’t Know All Its Bank Accounts, Says Buhari by BigBen10: 8:25am On Jun 16, 2015
very true I remember during the $20b probe, madam NOI didn't know that NNPC had a JP Morgan account. It's a very sad situation that's why many of us say aunty ngozi has failed as a minister of finance.
CareerRe: Why Are Some Female Customer Care Assistant Bankers Hyper-reactive? by BigBen10: 4:14pm On Jun 12, 2015
OP reminds me of my departmental secretary and many other Secretaries I came across in government office.
PoliticsRe: Buhari Absent At APC Lawmakers’ Peace Meeting - CHANNELS TV by BigBen10: 2:48pm On Jun 09, 2015
Obiagelli:
Today na real drama Tuesday, i see Fashola and Fayemi's handwritings on this one, don't ask me why
why? how?

People are just banding about theories of buhari not allowing tinubu or saraki outsmarting tinubi.

For me what happened is a simple matter of gross I discipline Nigerians have with time. We are always late. Always believe things won't begin on time. come late to every event even religious events.

The senators where LATE simple.

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