₦airaland Forum

Islandlady:
When did Marriage become an important achievement that is making this Mumu man to mock the lady

I bet he is not really happy in that marriage sef...A child in adult skin

Arkhanmu:
I married my wife in Kaduna two years ago. During those period we were dating, we were very much apart due to distance. She stayed in Kaduna while I worked in Lagos.

During few times of my personal meeting before our wedding, I noticed huge communication between her and this man. I called her attention to it but she just waived it aside saying they are just friends as Ex (stuff). She joined me up in Lagos after the marriage but the communication between them still continued.

This is a woman I have sacrificed so much for in my life by providing her basics need with the children even though not huge like that. She told me the Ex is a Doctor and they have nice experience together while dating back then. I have adviced even begged her to stop this communication as it it very hurtful and insulting to my personality but she won't stop. Instead she secretly calls and requests money from this guy in almost different occasions.

At a point in time in the past when she went to Kaduna to get her transfer from work place to Lagos, she still visit the guy even as she is heavily pregnant that time. I was able to get the idea through her bank account statement when the same guy send her money for what business I don't understand. It is almost 2 years of our marriage now, I am starting to regret why I marry her initially even as I noticed much difference between us; she is from Southern Kaduna while am from Ibadan.

I wish I have married my tribe whom I can easily understand. Just yesterday night I see another 4k alert from the same guy to my wife. I am really pained though I have not confront her. See guys, I have 2 boys, twin, I take care of them, buy food and all.

Though my work is not going fine but I try my best to make her happy but it seems she is not built for me. I don't really know what is going on again in my life as I am heartbroken.

Maybe the man is even in Lagos most times self. Many things are just running through my mind.

SHINJA:
Busy body

God bless southsouth and southwest

One brothers

Cubalabloo:
Sorry Mr. Reno, your opinion is shit.....

Lewisjohnson:
APC Presidential primaries:
Journalists are seen taking rest as voting continues at Eagle Square.
Photos:

dre11:
The road to the special convention of the All Progressives Congress (APC) to elect its presidential candidate was tinged with hazy permutations, melodrama and...





https://dailytrust.com/how-buharis-indecision-caused-confusion-in-apc

etokhana:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/just-in-apc-consensus-meeting-ends-in-stalemate-national-chairman-absent/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter

Nemere2020:
What should Abdullahi Adamu do?
By Raymond Mordi, Deputy Political Editor At the Nation Newspaper


https://thenationonlineng.net/what-should-abdullahi-adamu-do/?utm_term=Autofeed&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Twitter#Echobox=1654561612
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Mynd44
Lalasticlala

Plewin:
And someone was saying that Osinbajo will win Adamawa

JEWELofHELL666:
http://saharareporters.com/2022/06/05/how-hoodlums-attacked-hausa-community-ondo-after-terrorists-struck-church-killed

tollyboy5:
i stand with buharialso

Parachoko:
He forgot to tell us about how Atiku became a billionaire

bicoloratrite9:
Asiwaju oko Remi , God bless you. No matter how bitter the enemies are, you will eventually triumph over theme even if they reach a million soul. You got our support come rain come sunshine

Adeoludt:
While #Atiku is sharing thousands of dollars to win election...and nothing has been done .

A ti Ku oooo

Playloaded:
A Nigerian lady has cried out on social media after her husband called his sidechick to cook for him in her presence.

According to the lady, her husband demanded for pepper soup at an odd hour and she felt so tired to prepare it at the time because she just got back from work.

Her husband then called his sidechick in her presence who agreed to do the cooking.

In her words:


Read full tweet below:

https://playloaded.com.ng/wp-content/uploads/2022/05/IMG-20220530-WA0008_PLAYLOADED.COM.jpg

https://twitter.com/mipor007/status/1530297035433332740?t=YErS1WOkYO1bOaeK_GtWPA&s=19[/quote]Sorry sister, you strength just failed you during your moment trial, you were not sensitive in the spirit to cross over the hurdle..

Maxymilliano:
https://leadership.ng/despite-presidencys-denial-jonathan-may-be-screened-today/

WATCHOVER:
Who told you Atiku won because of Dollars? Atiku won because of Tribalism played by Tambuwa

BeeBeeOoh:
https://dailypost.ng/2022/05/30/i-cant-be-second-class-citizen-in-my-country-wike-blows-hot/

Esseite:
https://www.reubenabati.com.ng/index.php/component/k2/opinion-pdp-s-great-betrayal-and-the-choice-before-the-apc-femi-fani-kayode

Olonitola:
Dear Nairalanders, what do you think of this?
I got a new job 7th of February and the pay although not a normalised pay is very okay. The least I have received every month since I joined has been #126,000. There were months I was paid #170K ( happened twice) because it's commission based.

So far, I have been able to save #315,000 but I have a little problem.

I am a 29-year old guy who presently stays with my elder sister who also works in this company. She's a single mother of two. The apartment is a one bedroom-parlor apartment. She stays in the room while I occupy the parlor with my few properties (Mattress, Wardrobe, Plasma TV and home theatre) none of which she has because she had to abandon her husband late last year as she was being frustrated by him. She didn't pick anything while leaving, so she literally has just started buying a few things in the house. Apart from the parlor, 70% of the things in the kitchen and bathroom belong to me.

What actually happened about this was that; when she newly got this job (August, last year), she desperately needed a space as her ex husband was seriously frustrating her. She just left the husband's house with absolutely nothing like I already stated. Then as an unemployed graduate, I couldn't renew my rent which expired (November, last year). Because of this I decided to move them to her place and also shelter with her. Now my question is that, I am 29 years old, should I get a personal space with my current savings as my monthly pay seems enough or should I keep staying with her while I keep saving?
Mind you, I contribute to everything in this house, from food to water to NEPA bills and everything. Times we share the bills, other times I pay alone or she pays alone but it's all seem balanced in a way. No complaints so far.

Mind you I do not care what neighbors think as well even as they seem utterly unpleased with a man this grown staying with his sister. I do not care and also, I do not have a girlfriend so it's not about privacy or whatever.
But you know as a grown man with a lot yet to be achieved, I just seem confused.

What would you advise a brother?

SledgeHammerer:
This is the absolute truth. Only Tinubu can defeat Atiku.

powerfulguy:
https://twitter.com/PereEgbi/status/1531159575382179841?t=UoKeh3f7HK-x2_hiK3YB3Q&s=19[/quote]So the presidency should be giving to arrogant General pere ko?

udele1:
If you can get to the airport few minutes before plane takes off, get a ticket and still join the flight, its possible.

Will the people in the plane say they booked ticket long ago, but you just came now and got ticket and joined the plane?

The destination should be the focus.